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1 hour ago, AidanEden said:

A scene of DM and EG bickered during family dinner and they challenged each other to have a partner of life just like them, i was thinking what if sindy meant for EG :lol: cuz i felt sindy is slowly turning into a good book plus sindy also a fangirl. LOL

 

Aside from the stalking, she is ok. But with all the stalking that she does following DM and RG, i hope she will roots for the couple later and help them be together. LOL :D

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Hi everyone :)

Im so fangirling with this kdrama that I actually want to discuss this with you all.

So I read some opinions regarding DM and RG relationship. Id like to just put a little opinion regarding their different feelings.

 

For me, although DM doesnt know that RG supports her 'fanatic' side, deep inside Im sure she knows he'll accept it. Shes just afraid to tell him due to their 'untasteful' first meeting.

And I dont really agree that her feelings for RG are low. I mean, she also have seen different sides of RG right and aporeciates it. Like the way he apologizes when he knows he's wrong, the way he protects her through their fake relationship, and plus points with the way he helped the child that was lost during their "date". Im sure that contributed to why she now finds herself editing his pictures. His characteristics plus good lucks did that.

 

And for RG,even though he started their fake relationship for the wrong reason, I love how he really was thorough with it. Everyone must have been shocked with their fake kiss :sweatingbullets:. (Hope their will be a true kiss on the next two episodes). And the way he supports her fangirling moments make me wanna squeal inside. Sorry EG, but DM already found someone who knows her other side and actually ACCEPTS AND SUPPORTS IT.

 

 

Cant wait for Ep 9 and 10. I think Ill be losing some sleep till the next one. Rewatching episode 8 until then :love:

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7 hours ago, turtlegirl said:

 So I'll just ask, anyone know what kind of flowers Ryan bought for the confession? They were pretty little puffy balls.. 

It's a kind of chrysanthemum... I think someone in this forum called it ball chrysanthemum 

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8 hours ago, s00ki said:

 

Just wished we can see DM falling in love with RG for the right reason. 

 

 

 

I know right. RG is gold to us but DM must have the firm reason to attached to him.

 

But EG. EG is the person I hate the most. If only DM doesn't bring up anything about her feeling and do what SJ told, just wait first. RG could have confessed already:bawling:

 

At first I was really mad at DM for not giving RG chance to talk before she left. But then I realized - that's how her character, to be naive - don't know how to love. And she probably can't hold her tears any longer that's why she pushed away RG's hand. Also because she buys everything DI told that RG wants to end the fake relationship so she surely believed no more talk needed.

 

So it's okay Sung curator, I shall give time for you. 

 

 

 

 

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6 hours ago, jaydendoji said:

KJW starred in 2011 Hedwig. JJS starred in both 2011 and 2016. 

Ah.. My bad, thank you for your correction :')

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53 minutes ago, Chiena Mae Flores said:

Hi everyone :)

Im so fangirling with this kdrama that I actually want to discuss this with you all.

So I read some opinions regarding DM and RG relationship. Id like to just put a little opinion regarding their different feelings.

 

For me, although DM doesnt know that RG supports her 'fanatic' side, deep inside Im sure she knows he'll accept it. Shes just afraid to tell him due to their 'untasteful' first meeting.

And I dont really agree that her feelings for RG are low. I m ean, she also have seen different sides of RG right and aporeciates it. Like the way he apologizes when he knows he's wrong, the way he protects her through their fake relationship, and plus points with the way he helped the child that was lost during their "date". Im sure that contributed to why she now finds herself editing his pictures. His characteristics plus good lucks did that.

This!

 

I agree with you. The reason DM is also reacting like this is because she has already confused "interest with sympathy" when he began fake dating her to protect her "sexual minority group" status.

So everything before has been null and void because of that.

 

Also - it is not like fangirls love for shallow reasons - my fangirling over my bias is because I love his personality, his jokes, his attitude, his hard work, his perseverance, his helpful nature and how sweet he is to people around him - while we all see it from the screens, and it might be made up to a large extent, these are still not shallow reasons to like someone. The only thing shallow can be that we don't see the bad sides of our bias really well, and it paints a rosy picture. That's literally it.

 

DM also saw RG in all context with his bad sides and good, and without the screen - she saw him protecting her sexuality, his ready apologies (like you also mentioned). Show me ONE MAN who does that!), and generally keeping others and their interests in front of his own comfort. So far, RG's all actions can be dismissed as being such a nice human being and a helpful man, and not interest per se - like SJ said, and especially by someone who has stanned a lot.

 

That said, it is my psychological need to see RG having a happy family as soon as possible. Please. Give. My. Man. Lots. Of. Love.

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Is it possible that Lee Sol is RG mom? 

The man who left him outside orphanage was his father?

 

There might be a possibility that Cha Si An might be his step brother. So Lee Sol might be their mother who is no longer around on earth.

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3 hours ago, s00ki said:

BUT, at the moment,  the reason DM 'fell ' in love with RG is not different from ours, quite superficial.  Do note, we know more about RG (and what he did to help her) than she does. 

You don’t always fall for someone for all the rightful reasons though. Many of the good Deok-mi witnessed in Ryan is enough for her to admire him deeply at this point. Trying to protect her supposed private relationship with SJ for instance, shows that he’s ready to go to big lengths for a person who he thinks is disadvantaged in society and being bullied for it. To me, being an ally is one of the sexiest and most honourable things a straight man can do.

 

Then Deokmi knows he’s a well known, talented artist much sought after, he’s meticulous in his work at the gallery, is aloof but shows a childlike vulnerability at times, he’s not egoistic. Add to all that being a gorgeous specimen of the male species lol Total panty dropper. Deok-mi at this point is wondering if such a great guy would even consider her. What she’s seen of him is enough I think. Supporting her fangirl side will be the cherry on top.

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4 hours ago, mmac80 said:

These two.... :joy:

 

:love:

Today just Monday :(

Does anyone else expect to Wed? B) I love this moment. Min - Young was very very comfortable. Sorry, PP shipper, I could'nt see how she's comfortable like this with Seo-Jun.

Jea Wook oppa should be go forward straight to real life :heart:

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19 hours ago, s00ki said:

(He just figured out DM and SA is life are the same person.)B

@s00ki yes he did suspect it during SA's surprise visit with the chicken because SA told him that Si Na Gil usually does not upload those kind of pictures, but it was the next episode that he confirmed it for himself  and here again whether DM was referring to liking Ryan over someone, she had admitted and is taking responsibility of her feelings. She has figured out the difference between falling in love with a real person and fangirling over an idol. 

 

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You don’t always fall for someone for all the rightful reasons though. Many of the good Deok-mi witnessed in Ryan is enough for her to admire him deeply at this point. Trying to protect her supposed private relationship with SJ for instance, shows that he’s ready to go to big lengths for a person who he thinks is disadvantaged in society and being bullied for it. To me, being an ally is one of the sexiest and most honourable things a straight man can do.

 

Then Deokmi knows he’s a well known, talented artist much sought after, he’s meticulous in his work at the gallery, is aloof but shows a childlike vulnerability at times, he’s not egoistic. Add to all that being a gorgeous specimen of the male species lol Total panty dropper. Deok-mi at this point is wondering if such a great guy would even consider her. What she’s seen of him is enough I think. Supporting her fangirl side will be the cherry on top.

 

Thank you for the above quote. I think that whether DM or any other woman whom Ryan had cared to protect and have deep conversations the way he did would fall in love and of course the advantage of "species panty dropper".... yes!!! There is a big difference between admiring all the qualities of someone one is fangirling on which is only superficial and falling in love with someone whom one interacted with on daily basis. Just like SJ said, "her fangirl subject is her "boyfriend-fantasy" and her husband a real person whom she married is someone she "fell in love with and is her idol" big, big difference and a healthy outlook. 

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1 hour ago, tensaitekikuroneko said:

 

 

Also - it is not like fangirls love for shallow reasons - my fangirling over my bias is because I love his personality, his jokes, his attitude, his hard work, his perseverance, his helpful nature and how sweet he is to people around him - while we all see it from the screens, and it might be made up to a large extent, these are still not shallow reasons to like someone. The only thing shallow can be that we don't see the bad sides of our bias really well, and it paints a rosy picture. That's literally it.

 

 

That said, it is my psychological need to see RG having a happy family as soon as possible. Please. Give. My. Man. Lots. Of. Love.

Exactly. Once you fangirl, you only see him through rose-colored glasses. (Which also happens for new couples) Its already a feat for DM who made SA her life, the center of her universe, to have someone to be able to gain her attention. And he hasnt even done it consciously.

 

 

Although episode 8 hurts, I think its absolutely needed so that we can proceed to their real relationship. Hope bad timing wont win on the next one.

 

 

And I hope to see more progress on the bromance of SA and RG. I think its one of those relationships in the drama I look forward too. And of course the character decelopment of Sindy. Ahh soooo many conflicts and mysteries still needed to be solved one episode at a time. 

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TvN said their first kiss occurred between Ryan's house until they were in the car. Hope this will be reconciliation kiss or i will curse TvN until next week :sweatingbullets:

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Hey everyone! I've been lurking around this forum for this past few days after the release of episode 8. I love reading all theories, point of views and fangirling moments of our Sung Deok & Saja. So I made decision to create an account! Lol. Can i say that all of us in this forum is currently the members of 'Road to RyMi' or whatever the ship name is lol. Gosh- we're deokjil over Ryan Gold x Sung Deokmi lol :wub:

 

By the way, I love how some of members stated about the colour coordination of our couple. Yea- definitely a subtle hint of our couple not in the 'same page' yet. I really love KJW & PMY's styling in this drama; so classy, so pretty; cool and dashing.

 

I really hope they resolve their misunderstanding as soon as possible in episode 9 & 10. I'm hurting on behalf those two. Seriously, i was so frustrated (& grateful at the same time bcs this woke Ryan and Deokmi abt their feeling for each other) when the 2nd leads successfully stirred our couple's peaceful relationship lol. Ppali get together Ryan, Deokmi!!!!!!

 

To be honest, I wish to see Deokmi in action as 시나길 more in upcoming episodes. She's rock the black hoodie, mask and the professional camera. I hope she can find solace by being Sinagil. Taking Sian's pictures in an event. I'm sure she can forget for awhile her broken heart. At the same time, I'm sure Ryan will be watching his Deokmi from afar since he's going to know what event Deokmi going to attend (he's VIP member after all lol). I can sense that Sian & Cindy gonna be the role that brings our Lion & his Rabbit together. Let's see.

 

P. S: can we have Geunwoo interaction with Deokmi & Ryan jn future episode? I'm sure they'll portrays a loving family. Just like how little lost Minho did to them in amusement park. ❤️

 

P. S. S: All Her Private Life OSTs are so relatable and definitely eargasm. I can't wait for Sungwoon's to be released! I've been repeating this drama OSTs for nth times lol.

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58 minutes ago, Doramy said:

Does anyone else expect to Wed? B) I love this moment. Min - Young was very very comfortable. Sorry, PP shipper, I could'nt see how she's comfortable like this with Seo-Jun.

 

You so right! I do not want talk about why she is so relaxing this time but I know one thing, last year was very difficult for Min Young and for her fan base, all this rumors made us so tired, but now she really can be herself again thanks to Jae Wook oppa,  she can works with joy, because he is so careful and kind. I'm so thankful to him:wub: he is the best!  

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46 minutes ago, JupiterSzn said:

TvN said their first kiss occurred between Ryan's house until they were in the car. Hope this will be reconciliation kiss or i will curse TvN until next week :sweatingbullets:

Wait what??

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@Artheusa yeah i think so, but TvN just post it today as a bts. What matter is why they have to make that kind of caption. And there's no kiss on ep 7 - 8 right, they have 2 kiss the first one is fake and the second one is doekmi imagination. Yeah they really like to troll us :huh:

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I was expecting TVN gonna be generous to release this photo this week (praying hard)...but i guess they might have forgotten about how beautiful this shot is :bawling:

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