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OKAY. NOW KJW IS MY OPPA.

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Damn, he is sooo handsome! - watching his old drama now.  

hahahahaha, 
 

thank you for sharing @bliss1004!

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16 hours ago, tinymel said:

I actually think that this is something he should get more credit for. Eun-gi does not respect the fangirl side of her. Yes he accepts it but he doesn't appreciate it. While Ryan, the Lion, actually really enjoys and supports her fangirling... I mean he told her to look pretty because he was surprising her with a meeting with Si-an!!! 

 

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I don’t believe Eun Gi accepts her secret life , For me I find he just possessive toward her secret life , He don’t know or understands what he want from future girlfriend , he come cross like 15 years old , that bragging he knows his friend more than anybody else & love  the idea he so close that he scared anyone can push him aside , rather than try to take time to join her do what she like most , because deep down he didn’t accept it , I feel like he think she would grown out of it , when he become her boyfriend. He think he is the magic man that would change her  from fangirl to normal woman he want . 

 

I don't like-the way he was harsh with his words with her , he supposed to be the friend that love her , whatever she was good or bad , silly or not ,  when he said that words I feel he said because he mean it , he didn’t say it to wake her up . We all knows the way he sit on corner grumbling when  she talking about Shi AN or  start to threatening to reveal her secret identity  to her boss or parent .He is loser she need to cut ties with . 

 

Hearing his idea of himself ,  make me want to kill him more  :joy:

 

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* just annoyed with him 

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36 minutes ago, Ameera Ali said:

I don’t believe Eun Gi accepts her secret life , 

 

Ooo... I think you've convinced me of this! 

 

I think I have pushed away memories of him threatening to reveal her fangirling--probably because it made me soooooo mad. You don't do that to a friend regardless if you love them or not--I actually don't think he loves her. Rather Eun-gi is going through that 15 year (you are so right!) just kind of realising that your female friend is a woman/girl. It results in possessive and petty behaviour... which considering the fact he is meant to be her 'oppa' is even more aggravating. 

 

Also, yeah 'there is nothing I don't know about her'... really? Dude. I doubt you know that she sits in front of paintings when she gets down or that she painted left handed because of the break and that she started having fun again because of that. DM and RG are a pair because they have been revealing themselves to each other because they have so much in common. Could go on...

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLustKf4E-w

another version of ep 8 kiss scene, yeah, I admit have looked at that scene many times, but this is not the complete version. However, I like the interpretation of DM's thoughts  in this version, just before she kissed Ryan. 

 

"I feel totally fine, I must stay true to my feelings, I shall choose you, I will give you the honor to kiss me"

 

This interpretation shows Deok MI as very proactive and even though it was an imaginary kiss, her thoughts were real. Here she is taking responsibility for her feelings. "I am totally fine", she is s reassuring Ryan in her imagination that she is ok with who she is now. Even if the kiss did not happen the DM shows here that she made her choice. So, in the next episodes, I hope DM remembers what she had said, 

1. to honor and be true to her feelings.

2. she has chosen Ryan

3. given Ryan the honor to kiss her

 

And that she will firmly uphold and assert her choice and not let anyone get in the way of affirming it. I also, wish for her to be the one to delicately initiate the real kiss when it happens like she did in her imagination 

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The 'break up'.

At first i was angry at why RG didn't go after DM, that must be the WIMPIEST wrist grab in the history of Kdrama land.  But if i put myself in his shoes, DM just declared to end the FAKE relationship and walked away. He went after her because it's supposed to be his turn to talk. But she refused to let him.  The precious RG i love would not impose himself on her, thus let her go.  NO way he will confess anyways.  His own feelings are secondary.  


Based on the ep 9/10 preview,  it seems DM will act childish, hence the bickering in the workplace.  Why do we accept this behavior from her?  Why is it not cute when EG does so?   Because we like DM and we root for her.   I can imagine how confusing and frustrating it is for RG to see this angry and petty DM.    

 

DM's feeling for RG. 

Sorry, unpopular opinion - at the moment i don''t quite see the difference  between her love to SA compared to her supposed love RG.  As @inna75 mentioned in her post (page 67), DM doesn't know much of RG.  If DM editing photo is an act of love,  then @Ameera Ali creating gifs would be what?   I hope, in the next few episodes, it's DM turn to learn more of RG and love him as a person, not just fan girling. 

 

@zenya22, my take on DM's thoughts. "I feel totally fine (letting go of SA), I must stay true to my feelings (of liking you more than SA), I shall choose you (over SA), I will give you the honor to kiss me."  

At the author's house, when RG asked DM whether she likes to take photo, he was referring to her taking photos of SA.  (He just figured out DM and SA is life are the same person.)But DM misunderstood him, thinking he was asking about the artist's photo.  

 

In the meantime, i will focus on finding out whose notti tongue it is. 

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21 hours ago, screwdila said:

Loving this drama,made a MV on this drama.
Hope you guys like it =)

https://youtu.be/VLMtyIq4K2A

 

Thankyou for the likes :) means aloot!

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Please do not quote videos! Thanks! :)
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1 hour ago, zenya22 said:

So, in the next episodes, I hope DM remembers what she had said, 

1. to honor and be true to her feelings.

2. she has chosen Ryan

3. given Ryan the honor to kiss her

 

And that she will firmly uphold and assert her choice and not let anyone get in the way of affirming it. I also, wish for her to be the one to delicately initiate the real kiss when it happens like she did in her imagination

@zenya22....reading your  comment made what DM said in her imagination sound like a wedding vow to me.....forgive me ,I want them to get married and have cute babies (a cross between lion and rabbit )already:wub:

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DM's feeling for RG. 

Sorry, unpopular opinion - at the moment i don''t quite see the difference  between her love to SA compared to her supposed love RG. 

 

 

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Personally  I see different in her  , even Eun Gi sees different in her shifted interest to our Lion , for him to ask to not confuse her with fake relationships & to stop wavering her heart , it shows there’s clearly a change in his friend . He is a lot of things but clearly he is not that dumb .  :joy:  

Maybe we not see a lot of different between her love to SA & Lion because she innocent, she didn't have real experience - the girl need to start somewhere, Lions her best choice :mrgreen:

that was my taking when her friend was mocking her about her silly comment about coffee & couple :joy: that she never dated before :phew: 

 

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* About she didn’t know a lot about him , I love how the writer highlights that she notices little things about him , like him struggling to paint , make her share about her past story with him to comfort him without coming out like a nosy person . 

 

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in the next episodes, I hope DM remembers what she had said, 

1. to honor and be true to her feelings.

2. she has chosen Ryan

3. given Ryan the honor to kiss her

 

And that she will firmly uphold and assert her choice and not let anyone get in the way of affirming it. I also, wish for her to be the one to delicately initiate the real kiss when it happens like she did in her imagination 

 

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@zenya22 for me my faith is on lion , just because what he said to annoying Eun Gi  :mrgreen: Love that he think it’s their business alone to work out their differences & true feeling , also clearly  that DM wouldn’t have the confident now that  her little bird friend sing on ear that he may not like her  

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& horrible girl planted fake seed about his feeling toward their fake relationship in her head will do magic  :tounge_xd: 

 

 

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53 minutes ago, s00ki said:

The 'break up'.

At first i was angry at why RG didn't go after DM, that must be the WIMPIEST wrist grab in the history of Kdrama land.  But if i put myself in his shoes, DM just declared to end the FAKE relationship and walked away. He went after her because it's supposed to be his turn to talk. But she refused to let him.  The precious RG i love would not impose himself on her, thus let her go.  NO way he will confess anyways.  His own feelings are secondary.  


Based on the ep 9/10 preview,  it seems DM will act childish, hence the bickering in the workplace.  Why do we accept this behavior from her?  Why is it not cute when EG does so?   Because we like DM and we root for her.   I can imagine how confusing and frustrating it is for RG to see this angry and petty DM.    

 

What I like most about reading everyone's different perspectives is that it forces us to question our own biases and assumptions about a character's behaviour. I thought again about whether I would be guilty of tolerating DM's behaviour if she behaved in a childishly petty and unprofessional manner in the office because she is reeling from the "break-up". I'll reserve my comments until after Episode 9 when we get to see the full context of her interactions with RG.


That said, I feel like I can totally understand why she's upset with RG even though theirs was a fake relationship. If you think about it, RG did go out of the way to help and protect her (even if we disregard all the instances in which he secretly protected her e.g. running after Cindy to prevent Cindy from exposing DM's identity as Sinigil fanclub's administrator, self-learning crash course to become a VIP member of Sinigil fanclub etc).  What DM witnessed and experienced: he offered to act as her boyfriend; he acceded to the demanding request to stage those intimate moment photos to create "evidence"; they genuinely enjoyed their "fake date" at the amusement park even after her friend stopped taking photos; he did the "thumb kiss" on the pretext of fooling Cindy (wouldn't hugging her achieve the same effect; RG did go for the extreme, though I'm not complaining LOL); he was friendly and respectful towards her parents, enough to win them over completely at the first meeting; he invaded her personal space when he was drunk; he ended up moving over to sleep right next to her at the artist's house. All these memorable and sometimes heart-fluttering moments added together made her think that he must harbour (some) feelings for her.

 

And she wasn't being delusional about it because the signs were there while not conclusive, though she did get carried away imagining that he was going to confess to her and ended up hurt when he didn't (yet). My take is that because of her own insecurities and uncertainties about whether he reciprocates her feelings (and this vulnerable state makes her believe too easily in Choi Da In's lies about Ryan's intentions), she chose to make a bad judgement call to pre-emptively end their fake relationship before RG could say anything further. I hope DM and RG resolve their misunderstanding by the end of Episode 9 and work on mending their relationship so that they can truly become a real couple.

 

The drama also needs time to resolve the other plot lines in the final 8 episodes: Lee Sol's paintings and the possible sibling relationship between Cha Si An and RG; who is RG's mother and what happened during his childhood; Seon Joo's husband and what he's planning to do with the stolen documents from Seon Joo's laptop; whether and how DM will deal with the fallout if her identity as Sinigil is exposed to the public.

 

1 hour ago, zenya22 said:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLustKf4E-w

another version of ep 8 kiss scene, yeah, I admit have looked at that scene many times, but this is not the complete version. However, I like the interpretation of DM's thoughts  in this version, just before she kissed Ryan. 

 

"I feel totally fine, I must stay true to my feelings, I shall choose you, I will give you the honor to kiss me"

 

This interpretation shows Deok MI as very proactive and even though it was an imaginary kiss, her thoughts were real. Here she is taking responsibility for her feelings. "I am totally fine", she is s reassuring Ryan in her imagination that she is ok with who she is now. Even if the kiss did not happen the DM shows here that she made her choice. So, in the next episodes, I hope DM remembers what she had said, 

1. to honor and be true to her feelings.

2. she has chosen Ryan

3. given Ryan the honor to kiss her

 

And that she will firmly uphold and assert her choice and not let anyone get in the way of affirming it. I also, wish for her to be the one to delicately initiate the real kiss when it happens like she did in her imagination 

 

I wish that it will be a mutual kiss when it finally really happens after they mutually affirm their feelings for each other. I wonder if the scriptwriter will make RG ask for consent in reality (would that be too unreal?).

 

 

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So I'm predicting in a couple of episodes or so Ryan and Deokmi will get their acts together temporarily and become a couple (before they break up for some lame reason so that they can reconcile just in time before the show ends amirite). I'm so looking forward to their (official) couple moments. I'm expecting Pretty Noona levels of lovey-dovey relationship chemistry here (and I mean Pretty Noona's first four episodes, before it turned into an angsty snoozefest). Don't let me down, Jae Wook and Min Young! :D

 

In the meantime, how lovely does Ryan look here with that lock of hair falling over his forehead? *swoon* :wub:

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10 hours ago, Peppyz said:

Apologies on behalf of my perverted self ...YES ,there was a tongue in there and I think it is DM/minyoung tongue....its suddenly hot in here....

Will leave it to those with microscopic eyes to decipher it clearly:lol:

 

 

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I need to check behind scene to make sure :mrgreen::joy: but for me it’s seem lion tongue to me :mrgreen:

 

calling my my partner in crime , @cenching @Lawyerh & @Sejabin & @Sarang21 for more set of eyes :joy:

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@Ameera Ali from what I see it is her teeth :kiss_wink: let us analyzed their real kiss later wkwwkwkwk :joy:

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@Ameera Ali Darling, it's 2 AM in my part of the world and I am about to sleep....I think you need to pause the GIF at the right moment to make sure if it is really a tongue or a tongue, OK??? At my first scrutiny it wasn't a tongue though...I will check it out again tomorrow...Good night!! :sleeping:

 

 

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19 hours ago, Sky8lue said:

@fangirldeokjil94  Wish I could join you on your fangirl pilgrimage! Hope you are enjoying your visits to the filming locations (and I'm sure everyone will welcome more photos :)).

 

For those who are interested to visit Cheum Museum of Art, this a a useful resource: https://koreandramaland.com/listings/soma-museum-of-art/

Photo credits all go to the above website. In reality, it is the Seoul Olympic Museum of Art (SOMA)

 

 

 

 

 

:mrgreen: #confession. @Sky8lue I actually went last week.....:vicx:. following Duk Mi's steps to the next level just so I can feel the vibe (like how they went to Shi An's suite at the hotel *shy*). I justified it as me wanting to see some Korean Contemporary Art.....(as if lol) Pics below, including that famed "tunnel" (?) area where they had their tension filled first embrace lololol. I was standing where SJ stood. Whole thing felt surreal, and slightly silly as the area is not really an area where other people would go :lol:

 

Icing on the cake was that I stumbled across one of the Cheum Art Gallery signs (PD team must have forgotten to remove it from the actual SOMA signs - they just stick hard boards onto pre-existing signs LOL #productiontip101). Got very stupidly excited and squee-ed... people around me were kinda looking at me weirdly so I had to CONTROL MY SELF.... anyway, since y'all asked, so it shall be given LOL.

 

Am I #ShiAnIsMyLife level yet...??:tounge_wink:

 

PS @Ondine it is an actual cafe, but somehow their servings are pretty basic limited to coffee and some "ades" (e.g. grapefruit etc)...and for some reason.. pizza? LOL... the menu is a fake menu with macarons and stuff... I asked for a macaron and the lady was like.. nope that's just up there for the drama :lol:

 

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43 minutes ago, Ameera Ali said:

Maybe we not see a lot of different between her love to SA & Lion because she innocent, she didn't have real experience - the girl need to start somewhere, Lions her best choice :mrgreen:

that was my taking when her friend was mocking her about her silly comment about coffee & couple :joy: that she never dating before 

@Ameera Ali ahmmmmm, there is a big difference between fantasizing about someone we are fangirling on. It is not real. There is no relationship. It is fantasy. I guess I don't understand the level of fangirling where one fantasizes that they have a relationship with the someone they are fangirling on. But even if that were the case, it is not real, it is just fantasy. She does not even know SA other than he is this performer that she admires. She went with Ryan once to SA's apt because of the painting and met him at the elevator once where she was so upset because Ryan yelled at her and did not even notice the man infront of her is the person she is fangirling on.

 

On the other hand, she has a relationship with Ryan first it was a boss-underling relationship which slowly turned into a friendship because of fake dating and they are getting to know each other. They talk. No one can blame her for falling for this real man and forgetting about the cardboard fantasy with a taped up neck. There is a difference. Even if she had never dated before she should know the difference between fantasizing about someone she does not even know and falling in love with a real person she has been interacting with in person. 

46 minutes ago, Ameera Ali said:

for me my faith is on lion , just because what he said to annoying Eun Gi  :mrgreen: Love that he think it’s their business alone to work out their differences & true feeling , also clearly  that DM wouldn’t have the confident now that  her little bird friend sing on ear & horrible girl planted fake news about his feeling toward their fake relationship  

Which ever of them makes the first move does not matter as long as they resolve it quickly. If this is prolonged, I will just wait to watch the ending where I am sure they will end up together.

 

2 hours ago, Peppyz said:

@zenya22....reading your  comment made what DM said in her imagination sound like a wedding vow to me.....forgive me ,I want them to get married and have cute babies (a cross between lion and rabbit )already:wub:

@PeppyzThen let us join the parents chanting "son in law, uli adeul" .... maybe that will work... :open_mouth:


 
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@Ameera Ali Because of you I spent an unhealthy amount of time looking at that GIF. I even used a magnifying glass (I´m being serious).... and my verdict is:

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There was no tongue involved (unfortuantely) :tongue:. It was Lion´s  thick lips that looked like a tongue :lol:

 

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Calling all Sherlocks and detectives of the Kdrama......

 

During the press conference, one of the question to PMY was How was KJW in dorky romcom and what does she think of those scenes? She answered beautifully but there is a part I need all the experts here to investigate.  She said that it's been a long time since I've seen him? When? where?  Modeling era or drama?

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14 minutes ago, tan10can said:

Calling all Sherlocks and detectives of the Kdrama......

 

During the press conference, one of the question to PMY was How was KJW in dorky romcom and what does she think of those scenes? She answered beautifully but there is a part I need all the experts here to investigate.  She said that it's been a long time since I've seen him? When? where?  Modeling era or drama?

 

Hello, someone on IG actually mentioned that the part was incorrectly translated. PMY actually said that it's been awhile since she filmed a drama with an actor older than her and because of that, she is more willing and more comfortable with him (KJW). :)

 

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@Sky8lue  Oh I totally forgot to swipe to the next pic -- didn't realise it's part of the filming :sweatingbullets:  But hey, we can analyse all we want, right ? That's part of the fun - to see if our theory is correct! :D

Btw, this thread is moving fast but I'm enjoying myself reading all those insightful comments and views! 

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