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7 hours ago, estherlim said:

Super happy for KJW role here. I find it very tiring to watch him in his last work, The Priest... he hardly smile and always frowning...  

 

We have 8 eps left now, so you have to enjoy seeing KJW in this role while you can before he goes back to his dark role as a Priest :lol:.. OCN is currently in preparation for spin-off movie version of The Guest. None of the 3 leads have yet to confirm but I have a feeling they (including KJW) will join it later since movie version will be directed by the same drama director. I already expected that they will have another season or movie version when I saw the casts met up and gathered months after the drama ended.

 

9 hours ago, s00ki said:

Been curious as of why this gem KJW was not discovered till now, despite his good looks and talent.  Why the sudden turn of luck that he is cast as lead in HPL?  My guess is it's due his new agent - Management Soop. KJW made the best decision ever to change  in June 2017.  Earnestly hope he gets good scripts from now on and please be protected from any malicious gossips and scandals.  

 

If I'm not mistaken, I've read that he used to reject first lead offer in the past, only to accept another second lead offer because he was interested with its character. He mentioned that he kept receiving the same role, hence the lack of drama comeback. I'm glad he has been getting recognition for his breakout role in Voice. Plus his previous drama, The Guest is well-received. Both of him and KDW was cast as main lead in their respective drama. I believe the successful of The Guest helps them as well. Anyway, it's all thanks to his agency, Management Soop. They're managing him well. :wub:

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1 hour ago, inna75 said:

I have few wishes here that I hope will come true since my life now revolves around this drama

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My last and final wish...whatever kissing or make up scenes installed for the next 8 eps, please make it classy enough, as classy as the leaning to the wall almost kiss and the couch kiss or if possible, even better. 

 

@inna75 thank you for your long post, and I love long posts <3 

Totally agree with you about our lives now revolve around this drama. It has been so long since I don't even remember, that I am so crazy about an airing drama. I often avoid uncompleted dramas so I don't need to experience the anger of "waiting-one-whole-week" to know what happens next. 

 

But anyway, this drama caught me wholeheartedly. I have a few comments as well following what inna75 has said. They are also the reasons why I love this couple so much. 

1. We all want the real kiss now, after so many fake ones haha. What I really love about this couple is how much skinship they have with each other from ep 1 and how comfortable they are with each other even when they are faking a kiss, holding hands or touching hands while untangling the scarf. I have the same wish that the real kiss has to be so classy, so Ryan-esque and far better than DM's imagination. Bring on the sexual tension, show!

 

And I agree that even though what makes DM fall in love is a warm, caring and considerate Ryan, his past has been a closed book to her. I'm sure they will dig more into the past the 2nd half of the show with the hints that have surfaced. And the fact that Ryan brought up the topic of painting and how she had to quit while smelling oil paints in her house shows that he is willing to talk about it with her. 

 

But for me, helping each other to face a difficult past is something you can do and continue to do when already a couple. It's not necessarily a part of falling in love. For me, the reason he falls in love with her is already strong enough. When he said "there seem to have 2 suns in this world", I don't think he only meant her beauty, but her courage and optimistic vibe as well. 

 

On gosh, the more I talk about this, the more I was so in love with them. Now my biggest wish is Wednesday came right now!

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The ten types of fangirls featuring Sung Deok Mi:

1) Blogger

2) Stan

3) Collector

4) Fictional Girlfriend

5) Casual

6) Overprotective

7) Denier

8) Confessor

9) Crier

10) Banshee

 

 

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On 5/3/2019 at 12:19 PM, Artheusa said:

EG doesn't get the right to act like a jerk because he always comes in second, just strive to be better person, period. I wonder if we'll ever see why he turned out the way he is. There's definitely some family drama at the root of it.

@ArtheusaI agree there is some family drama there. Remember when DM called him Nam Eun GI and EG said, don't call me by my last name Nam, I hate that name. Nam is the family name from the paternal side. His mother is a single mother who raised him. So, there is definitely some drama there. 

 

It is funny though that he thinks he knows DM best because he grew up with her yet he knows nothing of her heart and Ryan whom EG says knows nothing about DM because he only knew her for a short while, is the one person that DM bares her heart to and the one person whose heart DM can see through and connect with and knows DM personally more than EG ever did. 

 

DM is a sensitive and kind person and EG's recollection are about these. She was the one who consoled him when he brought home the silver and not the gold, who accepted him for who he was. EG is grateful and loved her for these. But EG does not know her. He knows that she is an incognito fangirl and thinks he supports her fangirling yet he always threatens to tell all even if he does not mean it, and he only supports the "fangirling" for the sake of peacefully being close to DM not because he approves or understands her "fangirling". Nor does he understand or know the aches and bruises in her heart because of her failure to fulfill her passion, that she had drowned her sorrows with alcohol and cried but consoled herself with finding something to be happy about and moved on. He does not know how DM channeled her passion for painting into photography and these are issues close to her heart, and seemingly never revealed to EG. But the short time she had known Ryan, she had opened her heart about her goals, her sorrows and her artistic opinions as in critiquing the writer's friend's photograph and from that observation Ryan already percieved that DM loved taking pictures. EG does not know that Ryan already knows and supports DM's fangirling, that Ryan recognized her photographer's artistry. Even Si An had commented to Ryan that he likes the photos of him taken by Si Na Gil because they were carefully and keenly taken and shows the best of Si An. For all the time that they had grown up close to each other, EG is not able to discern deeper or more than what his eyes can see in DM. He has no interest in looking at the photos that DM took because if he did then maybe he could see what Ryan and Si An knew of DM, her photographer's artsy eye. 

 

On 5/3/2019 at 11:03 AM, Carmarie said:

As adults EG and DI should know by now, just because you come between two people does not guarantee that the person you like will suddenly fall for you.  I am also sick of the "oh I am so humble" attitude.  Just because some girl says, I like him, you are going to move aside and put away your feelings.  My response, as DM, would have been to say sweetly, "well I like him too."  Why should DM move aside because DI likes RG?  

@CarmarieI agree. DM had barked back at Ryan before, had heart to heart talks with him, they each visited each other's houses are becoming closer as they start to get to know each other and therefore she should not take at face value whatever DI said without giving Ryan a chance to finish what he wanted to tell her. The fact that the man who has an aversion to holding people's hands had taken to holding hers drunk or not and wanting to talk but DM suddenly judges Ryan according to what another woman told her, started feeling sorry for herself without letting Ryan finish what he had to say. If DI can tell Ryan about what she feels about him, why can't DM let Ryan know but in a classier and safer way by letting Ryan tell her how he feels then responds in kind or DM gets into a passionate argument with Ryan then leads him into a passionate "couch treaty" :kiss_wink:

 

 

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Hey Jerk , you wrong there is a guy out there who  ✔️all the boxes ,   he called L.I.O.N Gold

 

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.. @Lawyerh , @cenching & @Sejabin & @ktcjdrama isn’t he perfect :yum::joy:

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PMY's chemistry with her bestfriends is so awesome. 

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2 hours ago, Sky8lue said:

The ten types of fangirls featuring Sung Deok Mi:

1) Blogger

2) Stan

3) Collector

4) Fictional Girlfriend

5) Casual

6) Overprotective

7) Denier

8) Confessor

9) Crier

10) Banshee

 

 

 

We need to  add our lion discovery  :joy::tounge_xd:

* sinner - she wish to be the bottle 

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@Sejabin & @Sarang21 @Lawyerh she is joining pervy Ahjummas club :mrgreen:

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.. girls any wish u want to share  :joy:

 

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Hopefully she will use SA is My Life forum to trigger or give Lion a lead so maybe force him to do a bit of hunting  :tounge_wink:

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50 minutes ago, jadore1 said:

Hopefully she will use SA is My Life forum to trigger or give Lion a lead so maybe force his to do a bit of hunting  :tounge_wink:

 

I hope so , now she posted his picture on the forum  , revered him  a sun :star: 

 

Our bunny, favorite idol SA :mrgreen:

 

 

 

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2 hours ago, Ameera Ali said:

He happy to to watch her do what she like most 

 

 

I actually think that this is something he should get more credit for. Eun-gi does not respect the fangirl side of her. Yes he accepts it but he doesn't appreciate it. While Ryan, the Lion, actually really enjoys and supports her fangirling... I mean he told her to look pretty because he was surprising her with a meeting with Si-an!!! 

 

He actually protects her fangirling

 

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HE IS SO SWEET AND LOVELY AND YET A LION AND MANLY... LOTS OF CONFUSED EMOTIONS

 

(to be clear I just rewatch ep 7 & 8 and all the emotions came back)

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@Ameera Ali I think I´m a sinner disguised as a casual fangirl :lol:. You know that my wish has always been becoming a towel :w00t::lol:

 

 The beginning of ep 8 was one of my favorite scene. The way he asked her if she wanted him got me like: 

 

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36 minutes ago, Sarang21 said:

@Ameera Ali I think I´m a sinner disguised as a casual fangirl :lol:. You know that my wish has always been becoming a towel :w00t::lol:

 

 The beginning of ep 8 was one of my favorite scene. The way he asked her if she wanted him got me like: 

 

 

I see less & less towel so I ungraded my wish to a straw :tounge_xd::joy:  -  I am good friend I leave towel for you , give me top star doll back :mrgreen:

 

OMG When he look at her With these hot eyes 

 

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I literally milted 

 

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2 hours ago, jadore1 said:

Hopefully she will use SA is My Life forum to trigger or give Lion a lead so maybe force his to do a bit of hunting  :tounge_wink:

What if Deokmi deletes SA's picture with Ryan in it from her fansite and he goes crazy? lol

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1 hour ago, Ameera Ali said:

 

I see less & less towel so I ungraded my wish to a straw :tounge_xd::joy:  -  I am good friend I leave towel for you , give me top star doll back :mrgreen:

 

OMG When he look at her With these hot eyes 

 

 

 

I literally milted 

 

 

 

 

LOL I guess I need to upgrade too. Maybe a bathrobe then:lol:. You are never getting the doll back it´s now mine forever :tounge_xd:

His gaze can be really intense...therefore  sometimes I get shy and have to look away :joy:

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26 minutes ago, Sarang21 said:

LOL I guess I need to upgrade too. Maybe a bathrobe then:lol:. You are never getting the doll back it´s now mine forever :tounge_xd:

His gaze can be really intense...therefore  sometimes I get shy and have to look away :joy:

 

He was wearing silk black one :joy:  - it was divine on him :relieved: I can’t look away , my eyes always on him  , he has such a distinctive way of moving his body that makes him easy to-be spot by me  ,  :joy: or is it just my eyes are always drawn to him :mrgreen:

 

* I need to make why he is best boyfriend she gonna find :kiss_wink: 

 

 

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18 hours ago, inna75 said:

Because in the last episode, I was a bit bothered when DI asked DM whether she has seen RG work on any new art and then commented about him quitting and so forth. And DM could not answer nor comment about that. And then I realized all DM knows about him is he has some inferiority issue related to holding hands and he lied about Lee Sol's painting. Other than that,  RG was a rather closed book to her, which make her position with DI to be at par or probably below. 

@inna75 I soo.....disagree, it is only my opinion but from how I see it, Ryan and DM are kindred souls as if they had known each other from another/former life and are here because there is something for them to finish, I have not seen a couple in K Drama that are so connected more than these two (well until writer nim threw the old antagonistic 2nd lead trope). But back to DM and Ryan, they get each other, they really, really do. DI has nothing on DM when it comes to knowing Ryan. DM knows more about and of Ryan than DI will ever know. The only claim DI has that she is closer to Ryan, is she had known and been friends with Ryan longer but the fact that she asked DM if she knew the reason for Ryan quitting painting is because she, DI, does not know and knows nothing about the very personal Ryan because she is all about herself and her needs. "Ryan help me, console me, I am getting so much bad review about my work, Ryan I want you why can't you feel the same way about me, me, me, me". Yeah she knows jack about Ryan, nothing about the Lee Sol paintings that meant so much to Ryan nor does she realize the significance of Si An's friendship to Ryan or the passion by which Ryan is pursuing his project which is the exhibit . Ryan's answer "I am just going to be someone who can critique you and give you suggestions about your work and nothing else". 

 

My apologies if I am repeating myself here, but when on their first fake date at the park, he looks longingly at the children and made comments about them playing at the park, already DM picks up Ryan's mood and invites him to go for the rides and at first he looked like he was being forced but ended up having a good time, she is not afraid to tell him about herself, something that she has not said to anyone as far as the drama showed, and got him to confess about his aversion to holding hands because he does not like the letting go and when they went to see the writer without speaking so many words, they read each other's mind. She admired the photographer's portrait and Ryan thought and asked if she liked to take pictures. Ryan did not say anything about the photographer's portrait but somehow DM knew he asked the question because of it and thus followed the "anyeong" conversation. She offended Ryan when she went into his secret room and Ryan was incensed and said hurtful things in his anger but then realized he did not want to lose their closeness and went all over looking for her to apologize. He did not seem to mind that she saw what she saw in that room. In fact he started to ask about her feelings about not being able to paint. When he took her home, he apologized again for what happened that day while she apologized for her parent's behavior but he said he did not mind as he ate so much good food. The 2nd time he asked the same question if DM felt sad because of not being able to paint, was when he was at her house blindfolded which made DM think about what she saw in the secret room, the failed start of a painting and she knew he was talking about himself. The voice over of her thoughts, "I am really good, I like you, be confident, I will take care of you" shows how much she really knows Ryan and the pain in his heart. Ryan shows confidence and fearlessness to the world but only DM knows the pain he carries in his heart and Ryan had gone to her unafraid of showing his vulnerability.  That is why it is so unbelievable that DM will react the way she did knowing Ryan in her heart

 

There is knowing and there is knowing... in other words knowing about somebody is different from truly knowing somebody. EG knows a lot about DM because they grew up together and so does DI knowing about Ryan because of their long acquaintance. Those 2 know about DM and Ryan which is very different from Ryan and DM knowing and getting/understanding the other or each other.

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I think I saw someone say they did not know KJW v well on this thread.. Found this mix clip from a variety show he did with Jo Jeun Suk a year or two back? Jeun Suk says even though he looks very "artist" (probably negative connotation) but he was actually very easy going IRL.

 

He's also super dedicated to his roles, working unpaid at a transgender bar for his role as Hedwig.

 

But what interested me the most is that he used to be in track - running almost at national level. The most endearing part is that (like Ryan Gold) he isn't afraid to tell others of his failures... when he got to national level (representing his Gangnam district), he candidly shared that he was shocked that he came only third as he was used to not "see anyone in front of him", and that's when he thought maybe track isn't for him.

 

I think it takes a man with self-confidence, and not too much ego, to admit that he isn't as good as he thought he was...

 

SIGH the lines are being blurred now between Lion and KJW and again I am thinking if this should be in the shipper thread.

 

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Enjpy: 

 

 

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Am loving the interactions and opinions/insights being shared on this thread. :) 

 

I thought it a real shame as some of you did too that Ryan actually had a “date” in mind with her already, only to be so gentlemanly as to not tell her what it was about when she asked. I actually exclaimed “alamak!” when that happened. Hahaha... But you know, sometimes missed opportunities must happen for you to feel that loss. It then depends on what the response to that loss is. Because it’s essentially a drama about Ryan and Deokmi, we know they will come together in the end. It’s just a matter of how it happens. Ryan seems to be someone who respects personal space a lot because he too likes to keep that sort of social distance and keep “unnecessary” conversations to a minimum. A classic trait of introversion where too much conversation just means too much fussing, and fussing is tiresome (I’m the same). It’s not that you can’t deal with people or that you’re shy. Hardly. It’s just the tiresomeness of humans. :lol: So since Deokmi has essentially rejected him already, he’s unlikely to make a second move. Besides, he’s a foreigner and it matters none to him if he doesn’t really sink roots in Korea beyond this employment contract. However, he also can not tolerate what he deems to be injustice. And from the preview, he’s indignant that the word on the street is that he was dumped. What a blow to his ego. Hahahah... Now, he’s got to set that record straight, and I can’t wait to see how he’s gonna do that. 

 

A lot have been weighing in on the juvenility of Eungi. Poor chap. I feel sorry for him in that he’s just been living in the assumption and familiarity of being with Deokmi that it never occured to him that she would be desirable to someone else. He’s also lived in the delusion that her hobby is something no other man can ever accept and therefore she would eventually have to come to him, even if coming to him meant “status quo”. I mean, they are already in their 30s! How long has he been simply not acting on his feelings?! It’s like the lightbulb in his head never went off. What I dislike most about his approach (unlike Dain’s) is that he belittles her. He is in effect insecure and therefore asks, “will I always be second to your idol?” This is where Ryan and Seonjoo’s husband are different. They realise the nature of these older women’s fangirling is ultimately very banal and no more than a distraction from the strains and stresses of daily life. The affections aren’t “real” as such. And that is why Ryan finds amusement in watching Deokmi participate in it. (Although in Seonjoo’s case... I’m not so sure if her fangirling tendencies could become a problem since the latest “idol” is well within her reach and her husband isn’t being sufficiently attentive.) Wake up, Eungi. It won’t just be Deokmi that wouldn’t be able to take your belittling and insecure nature. 

 

Now, that BTS. Whoo! Did it get hot in that room or what?! Was that tongue he slipped in there? They looked like they were interrupted at a very intimate moment when the director said “cut”! But that aside, I found it interesting that in her imagination, he asked, “Do you want me?” How much of him did she want exactly? Ahem. ;) It does show what she thinks of him though. She expects a certain level of consideration from him, because he’s foreign? You don’t expect your Korean men to be as considerate? Well, judging from how Eungi is being portrayed, perhaps not. 

 

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