[Drama 2019] Her Private Life 그녀의 사생활

[tichamicha]

13 minutes ago, Lj said:

 

 

Imagine me, I was driving yesterday out from the mall, and I suddenly remembered their kiss, then my sister just asked me ‘what are you smiling about?’ If I’m alone for sure the police will stop me and ask ‘hey lady! You will cause an accident on the road if you don’t concentrate!’

 

Here here! STS can happen anytime, anywhere! Just reading your post and knowing exactly what you mean (by those kissu scenes) gave me STS! 

 

A particularly chronic trigger for me is remembering how the corner of Ryan's eyes crinkles when he smiles - - sublime STS. Lol.

[hallyus]

Thank you for @luvcrabbieshinhwa and @Sky8lue for translating the BTS scenes!

 

I am also in the STS mode when KJW was fixing his hair and PMY came to the rescue. That small gesture!  I also noticed that KJW took PMY's pictures leaning on the car (like A LOT) using his own phone (sponsored phone is Samsung and the one he used is iPhone) and wonder what he did with it. Their off-screen chemistry is blowing my mind .

[Brocolli]

Hello everyone,

 

Finally decided to de-lurking. All this while I just read Soompi without an account. But this show really makes my heart flutter and STS everytime I remember their scene.

 

Actually, I am not a rom-com fan. I am invested in more serious drama or crime action drama. The reason I started this drama is because of KJW. He was my crush during coffee prince and I've been following him since then (not really a die hard fan, but more to love him crafts). He is one of the rare artist if I could say - free spirited artist. He knows what he wants and would not go against his heart. As his follower, I believe he received many lead role offer before. But maybe this role really open his heart to try and BOOOMMM he becomes the epitome of k-drama hero. Ryan Gold represented K-drama male lead that I would always want - full of respect and with a superb EQ and KJW portrayed it very well till last 10th episode. While PMY compliment him well. I used to see her in Healer and yes, she is good. I don't really familiar with her, however, I'm so happy both work well and here we have splendid chemistry from both our lead. 

 

And for the longest kiss that they had.....................  Ahem, it's feeling real tho.

This is what two mature people in reality do. When I said mature, yes, it should be 30s

If you took it as a lust, well love & lust always come together dear. So thank you KJW & PMY for expressing it very REAL

[zenya22]

 

Ryan's hands in pockets interpretation:

 

Someone posted regarding Ryan Gold's hand in pockets and because this thread is moving so fast, I could not find the poster to give credit. Anyhow, I went to find out what hands in pocket body language indicate and there are many interpretations of hands in pocket but they need to be interpreted with the rest of the body language, expression in the face, body posture in relation to the person. In other words analyze the gesture in context with the situation. It can either be interpreted as weak, untrustworthy and unconfident or interpreted as sexy and cool, confident and authoritative or as simple as just wanting to place hands somewhere for comfort or because it is cold and putting hands in pocket is to warm the hands with body heat. So, I picked the ones that I think fits our sexy, self assured and sometimes cocksure (pun intended) .... Ryan Gold 

 

Confidence. Confident men often keep a hand in one pocket, leaned slightly forward with a strong level stance on braced legs. Tony Robbins for example takes this pose a lot. It is one that men who notice will mimic because the pose displays a confidence that people respect.

 

Comfort. It is entirely possible that a man just wants to be comfortable and pockets are a safe and comfortable place to put their hands. A comfortable stance with hands rested in the pockets of their pants can be more comfortable than trying to figure out where to put them. This is not meant to be a disconcerting action, just one of comfort that also indicate that whatever they are doing or whatever conversation they are having is worth their time.

 

Control. Do you ever feel an urge to reach out and touch someone? Do you ever feel like the anchor to reality is standing in front of you and to reach out is to hold on? Perhaps if the person is feeling overwhelmed, he may just want to put his hands in his pockets.

 

examples of Ryan Gold in hands in his pocket:

 

The kiss scene: the conversation before the kiss... he has his hands in both pockets, his stance relaxed but purposeful, his face intently listening and empathetic, he was where he wanted to be and doing whatever he was there for because it was worth his time, it was important for him to be where he was at that time. I also think at that moment he was exerting some control from just reaching out to hold Deokmi because he wanted to give her space and time to say what she needed to say and let her know that he was listening. The one hand in his pocket for first gentle kiss, was to me supremely sexy, confident and gentle (someone said, suave and cool...that too). It was a non agressive kiss, saying "may I"? Ahhhhhhhhh, what woman would not melt.... yes, yes, yes, you may, you may.... then after looking at DM face giving the okay, both hands out of the pocket and .... well..... I am going to watch it again...

 

Showing authority and confidence: Can't remember what episode it was, I think 3 or 4 where Ms Eom went to visit Ryan and demanded that he fire Deok Mi. He refused reminding Ms Eom that one of the conditions for his hiring as the Director is having the authority to manage and make decisions regarding the museum. Ms Eom stood up and said, "that means you don't want to fire her," then put her hands in her pockets and looking at Ryan still seated on his chair stated that she will fire DM herself. Ryan then stood up put his hands in his pocket with all his height looked down on MS Eom and told her he knew of the Ivanov painting that was illegally brought to the museum and that could make more trouble for her husband who is already in trouble with the law. DM was not fired but petty Eom who knew she lost the argument with Ryan took it out on DM and slapped her and Ryan apologized to DM for the slap.

 

The first sexy mouthwatering wall scene: SJ was taking the pictures and told them to make it real and DM to make it look like they were in a make out mood. DM was the only one whose hands were moving putting her hands on Ryan's chest and her head close to Ryan, who had his hands on his pockets. He was not comfortable doing anything else with his hands because at that time, he thought that SJ and DM were lovers until he got permission from SJ to act as if he was into DM, then his hands were out of his pockets and into action and to the wall they went. That scene too was spine tingling...but very funny from Ryan's wrong view that he was doing a fake makeout scene with a lesbian being photographed by the rich lover.... hahahaha

 

The other times he has his hands in his pockets are mostly in his personal office, his space and when he is thinking or having a conversation which to me indicates comfort and sometimes authority. Ryan also does not like holding hands because he does not like the feeling of his hands being let go as it reminds him of his mother letting go of his hands when she abandoned him. So, perhaps putting his hands in his pockets are a sign of comfort to him, it holds him up and warms him. 

 

Those are my interpretations of hands in pockets of the dearest man, Ryan Gold. 

 

 

[Friendly kitty]

3 hours ago, cenching said:

The last scene of episode 10 showed the extent of Ryan's maturity. Instead of pulling punches to the other man who slept over in his GF's house, he talked calmly repeating his points over and over again with a self control of a Saint. He even turned his body away and took a deep breath before declared that he knew....No cat fight or screaming match or hair pulling match...

Agree. I also liked this moment. The rival comes out of the apartment of his girlfriend, DM is behind the guy, Ryan is told to leave ... But Ryan is a real man. He just calmly said that he knew everything. Like a real lion! King of beasts! He simply does not have to arrange disputes and disassembly ...

1 hour ago, tichamicha said:

A particularly chronic trigger for me is remembering how the corner of Ryan's eyes crinkles when he smiles - - sublime STS. Lol.

Yes Yes Yes! And in general, the very smile of Ryan makes the heart tremble. Especially beautiful insidious smile Leo!

[mushforbrains]

Loving the drama so far...it’s bright breezy and fun...the second leads are slightly evil but show their vulnerable side as well...

showing that waiting til your crush realises you are there does not work....it’s desperation that’s pushing them to behave in this way....their one last stand against what is a lost battle.....so I’ll give them that space.....

i like it that they are playing their romance as a more adult/ mature one....both being in their 30s...naturally DM still needs some time to adjust to being in the light after hiding in her shinagil home equivalent of a bat cave....though the hiding bit seemed a little silly...

it was a good standoff scene between both boys since EG was always her big Brother protector....but of course now he’s facing the grown up BF...the ultra cool and urbane RG....it perfectly illustrates all their positions in dms life..

regards to lust and love....am sorry but one cannot face a Ryan lion and not drop straight into lust territory....lol...

plus she was already having mini fantasies......soooooooo.....

he is super sweet and hot all rolled into one...haven’t seen one of these specimens in k drama land in a while...

KNG was holding the bad boy spot til this one came along....didn’t realise they were both in a series called bad guy...lol....yes have dropped into fangirl mode and trawling through YouTube....strongly recommend antique bakery if you want a taste of his demonic charm ....lol

 

[MaybeLatte0402]

Where do i begin?.. just the thought of finally writing down my HPL thoughts takes my breath away  

 

I know... i know.. such a noob at this point ... #kimjaewookmademedoit  

 

Listing down my favorite scenes/moments from HPL:

 

1. The way Ryan was introduced while still in NY looking at paintings - KJW really looked like an artist

 

2. When Ryan realized how he was so inconsiderate not to give up his hotel room for SJ and DM - LOl 

 

3. Conversation between KJW and DM at the gallery when he caught her still at the office and staring at the artwork/s - heartfelt conversation

 

4. Fake dating photoshoot at the gallery alley - this gets me all the time. I believe this is where it truly started for DM and Ryan

 

5. Theme park date - bubble memory scene - KJW’s expression, DM offering her hand scene, cherry blossom walk beautiful scenes

 

6. Annyeong conversation at the Writer’s cabin - stares, heartbeats, feelings

 

7. Car ride after getting drunk with Co-workers - this scene was so cinematic! Music, shots all on point

 

8. Passcode scene - something so honest and vulnerable about this scene

 

9. When Ryan caught DM’s paintbrush scene - love Ryan’s expression here

 

10. Blindfold scene - when Ryan removed the blindfold and gazed at her after that kiss - all the feels - hearts all over the world, even though it was just in DM’s imagination, truly one of the best scenes in kdrama 

 

11. Lunch scene with co-workers - DM can’t help but find Ryan sooo cute when he blinked twice

 

12. Major Kiss scene at the wood shop - but specifically when Ryan let DM off the table and kissed her again while they walked off - looked so realistic - KJW was that you?

 

13. Necklace gift scene - specifically when he looked at her after putting it on - my heart!

 

14. Wrist kiss - looks like a KJW original

 

15. Last scene from Ep 10. - very cool and collected boyfriend, just wants to talk to his girlfriend and let her know, it’s okay for me too see you this way, i know... i know.. i know you’re private life and its okay

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Doramy]

Sorry, if I post wrong thread...

You know, this scense help me to remember BTS in Reply 1988, Hyeri also cared Ryu Jun Yeol's hair, and they were comfortable together while filming. And now, everybody know... 

 

 BTW, thank you for your post @fangirldeokjil94 

[SGahjumma]

The bubble paintings are so beautiful, any one knows who is the actual artist?

[luvcrabbieshinhwa]

It turns out that Deokmi's house is 10 minutes walking from my house 

https://imgur.com/a/19zki6U

 

[Lj]

24 minutes ago, luvcrabbieshinhwa said:

It turns out that Deokmi's house is 10 minutes walking from my house 

https://imgur.com/a/19zki6U

 

Cool!!! Just take a peek when there is filming! Lol!

[Ameera Ali]

 

 

@Sejabin now that you watch episode 10 , tell me what he mean about her ruined his clothes multiple times   only can remember twice  maybe he see future, she would rip his clothes in episode 11

 

Spoiler

 

 

 

 

@Lawyerh join this insightful discussion , how many she ruined his clothes   , isn't he adorable how he  change discussion  

 

 

[50okie]

I’ve been meaning to ask. Which 2 times that SDM knows of? 

[Pat_17]

Hi all. 

Does anyone watches it life?

Can anyone please help provide a link where I can watch HPL live when it airs in Korea?  Please please please help! 

Edited May 11, 2019 by Pat_17
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[Ameera Ali]

3 minutes ago, 50okie said:

I’ve been meaning to ask. Which 2 times that SDM knows of? 

 

Jacket incident in SA house that cause fake relationship & Raining day when he gives his jacket again to her   

 

that at my guess 

[Doramy]

11 minutes ago, Ameera Ali said:

 

Jacket incident in SA house that cause fake relationship & Raining day when he gives his jacket again to her   

 

that at my guess 

NO, at the ep 1, at airport, she met him as Sinagil, and that accident made his vest ruined, remember?

So he ignored to talk about that topic because she doesn't want to let him know about "Sinagil"

[blademan]

Okay the ONLY reason I can assume that they cut short the BTS for the kiss scene was that it was +18  

[realistic2280a]

Seeing all this, it shows how Ryan is  always careful and protects DM's feeling....... not wanting her to get hurt and at the same time proud of her, just basically happy to be in a relationship with her.... that's how i see Ryan being smiling all the time in the last two episodes.

 

Who was casted first in the drama?  PMY right...  I think, KJW agreed to the drama because PMY was going to be in it...

 

In the press conference, PMY mentioned that she hasnt met KJW for a while,  so they do know each other a while back?  I hope in the future interviews shed some light to that.

[Sky8lue]

1 hour ago, luvcrabbieshinhwa said:

It turns out that Deokmi's house is 10 minutes walking from my house 

https://imgur.com/a/19zki6U

 

Omo.... this is destiny!   Remember to take a detour while walking home every now and then!

 

6 minutes ago, realistic2280a said:

Seeing all this, it shows how Ryan is  always careful and protects DM's feeling....... not wanting her to get hurt and at the same time proud of her, just basically happy to be in a relationship with her.... that's how i see Ryan being smiling all the time in the last two episodes.

 

Who was casted first in the drama?  PMY right...  I think, KJW agreed to the drama because PMY was going to be in it...

 

In the press conference, PMY mentioned that she hasnt met KJW for a while,  so they do know each other a while back?  I hope in the future interviews shed some light to that.

I read somewhere that the translation for the press conference was corrected. What PMY apparently said was that she hasn't worked with older co-stars for a while (probably referring to her recent dramas where the male lead was younger than her).

 

29 minutes ago, Ameera Ali said:

 

Jacket incident in SA house that cause fake relationship & Raining day when he gives his jacket again to her   

 

that at my guess 

 

Incident 1: 

Sinigil rips Ryan's blazer sleeve off accidentally at the airport (this one is the one he cannot reveal yet as @Doramy already pointed out)

 

Incident 2:  

DM's foundation make-up got smeared on Ryan's clothes after she fell/crashed onto him when she did the "Jagi-yah" sprint-and-trip-while-running-in-heels sequence.

 

Incident 3:

Jacket that Ryan lent to DM after she got drenched in SA's toilet when she accidentally turned on the shower.

 

Incident 4 (don't know if this is counted, since it's the rain, not DM's fault):

Jacket that Ryan lent to DM after she got drenched in the pouring rain while trying to push the Ryan's car that got trapped in the mud.

 

Incident 5:

Gimbap that fell on Ryan's trousers because DM is lousy at using chopsticks LOL

 

Wait for the CSI crew to step in to find more instances (I'm sure I missed out something) 

[tinymel]

27 minutes ago, blademan said:

Okay the ONLY reason I can assume that they cut short the BTS for the kiss scene was that it was +18  

 

 

Came here to say this! I mean there must have been multiple takes but it was just too hot to handle...