wyen6 Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 Has anyone here noticed during the wrap up party watching the finale episode HB went to hug YJ and pat on her back? Actually another guy sitting opposite them was about to clink the glass of beer with them but HB ignored him and went ahead to hug YJ (watch it in slow mo). I thought that's really funny lol 1 17 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
strongtower Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 23 minutes ago, avocado yum said: Thank you for all of you, your thoughts been open my mind greatly, eventho there's discouragement post about the way me and some people posting about how we felt. First of all, I'm a first time shipper, never in my 10 years in the kdrama world put a ship on actor. It's because i've been watching SYJ movies (but not digging her personal life just movie) and like almost all of you, start shipping them since the negotiation press conference era (the More Than Friends vid - I see the owner of the vid here a couple threads ago, bring me to believing they're a thing). But since the denial, put my mind up and down in this journey, one time believing they're a thing and another time not. But after couple of article news that have been shared, and a couple of thoughts that's been through my mind, I feel like, Whatever I'll ship them but put on my mind that they're a very close friend indeed and to ship without much overthinking Yes, I'm too emotionally invested. Never I thought that I will get down from the ship except they're confirm to be with someone else. Because I do enjoy the moment of them that being shared (either on and off scene). Never in anyway that I put what I thought to bickering with you and bring everyone down, it's purely because the feeling of up and down in this ship and I want to share what I felt. I've put my thought in a calm manner and to be a discussion without any meaning to lead this thread in a negative way. Couple of people thought the same and put their thought too that it's seems a couple threads ago feel like a negative one and some people thought that because we're anti(?). Once again, if what I've said apparently not allowed, I'm sorry Thank you once again to people who courage me and others more why to be in this ship. I'm sorry if I put the mood down. I've choose to be a silent lurker and liking your content to put this thread in a better condition if that's necessary random question: are you "the avocado" from a popular kdramas watching site? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swclw Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 6 hours ago, Magritte said: I echo @bpwinces! sentiments. These cannot be denied: 1.) The pictures taken in LA. This alone is big red flag. No matter how one wants to spin it, one cannot deny the truth behind it. You have already exhausted this in your discussions. How about the other sightings that unfortunately have not produced any pictures? It doesn’t mean it did not happen. 2.) Rubbing of other people’s hands, fingers, arms or any part of the body. This is a very intimate act only a couple should do. Imagine your friend or let alone a co-worker do this to you. You would probably slap that person. It’s an invasion of one’s personal space if not permitted. It goes beyond touching. It’s a very sensual act. Hyun Bin has done it to Ye Jin numerous times in and out of the scenes. 3.) Hyun Bin’s intense stares or longing eyes directed at Ye Jin at numerous occasions. There were too many to count. Does this seem normal to you? Is it an act of someone uninterested or just being friendly? I’m sure your gut instinct says otherwise. 4.) Uncharacteristic gestures of both. Hyun Bin all of a sudden being playful and having guts to act silly and Ye Jin being shy and girly, when did these all began? Does it happen when they are with other people? Again, you have all discussed these. 5.) Unnecessary skinship. One tends to gravitate to someone you are attracted to or have feelings for. It’s natural to want to get close to that person. Your body looks for it. It has been shown in this forum comparison in their interactions with other co-star. It’s more apparent with Hyun Bin but nevertheless not unnoticed with subtle act of Ye Jin. Who would grab the head of a co-worker just to sniff it? Don’t tell me she didn’t smell his hair? To grab his hair and put it close to her nose is not looking for a scar...it will not be visible to the eyes. You have to part the hair to see it. So what’s the purpose of that act? And in Hyun Bin’s case, I feel bad for the Ji Hye who wanted to shake his hand and only got a high five and a look away after. How about all the BTS skinships coming from both? I don’t need to name them for all of you again have exhausted them in your discussions, videos, gif, etc. Also, the wrap-up party hug, which by the way initiated by someone who is supposedly shy and introverted, whether awkward or not, how many actors have done that? The above are just to name a few. I don’t have to list all of them because I’m sure deep down this list is already embedded in your minds and hearts. So again please don’t get discouraged. Trust your eyes and your guts! It gets clouded by so many different opinions, news articles, negativity, assumptions, judgement, biases, etc. Put all these aside and look at it as a grain of salt. Base your judgments on what you yourself have seen and observed not with what other people say or have said or written. Actions are better than words. People lie all the time. Ye Jin and Hyun Bin have gifted all of you with many sweet and heart fluttering gestures and acts. So, why doubt? Just my two cents. Peace and be happy. Enjoy your delulu and continue the fun. I’ll go back to lurking and enjoy reading your posts. Please don’t let this forum die down. It gives happiness to those who read. OH MY GOD FINALLY SOMEONE MENTION THIS! THANKS TO YOU. All the point above is why I tell you: BinJin shippers, you have all the evidence every shippers wish to have. Other shippers out there still holding on to their ship even with less evidence, but you BinJin shippers, you have it. You have sumthing to hold on, to be sure that this ship might be sail. Like someone mention it earlier: Is it really BinJin Shipper thread? I'm sorry to say this , but this is the first time I visit a shipper thread but feels like antis thread. You have to visit other shipper thread here. Many shippers out there find a home for them to ship their OTP in their shippers thread. You know, that's the hard part of being a shipper. Because you'll never know. They will deny many times they want. You have to wait with no certainty they will confirm it later. But, you have something that has a proof. It's hard? YES, OF COURSE! I saw a comment here mentioned that when they denied that groceries rumor, they can deny everything. I agree. Even that holding hands under the table, you can see it clearly that the color of the sleeve was dark blue, while YJ sleeve was brown. 2 rumor that has a CLEAR evidence, but they still deny it. Well, thats the perks of being shippers. It's that hard. But, this I want say it to you, my fellow and real BinJin shippers, Action speaks louder than words. It's really your call to continue this ship or not. But please don't pour this thread with your doubt. It's SHIPPERS PARADISE anyway. Dispatch, it's your time! 15 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avocado yum Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 8 minutes ago, strongtower said: random question: are you "the avocado" from a popular kdramas watching site? No idea what the populat kdramas watching site, but no, i'm not "the avocado" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edelweiss88 Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 33 minutes ago, YANI-PIE ^^v said: im not yet done shoppers... hahaha continuation i cut it coz it feels really long okay now that OUR FAVORITE DRAMA IS OVER (im assuming this since we are all here arent we). i know most of us if not all are in a denial stage or having bit of a cloy hangover... anyway stuff that should have happened did not happen especially in the story ... the twins... the wedding and such...okay i get it it is a very sensitive topic to talk about especially with the conservatives in SK so writernim decided to just make it realistic ad safe... BUT what i am really disheartened about is the after party. Everyone has have selfies of everybody excep;t our BINJIN ... yes i know they did not have any coz of rumors and all... but still. (DONT GET ME WRONG I AM HERE TO PROTECT THEM.) ANd yesterday V4st issued a statement about this and that... yadayadayad... (i dont buy it) i still want a spark of hope for us grocery shoppers... for me... this is one of the strongest point that we have besides the LA grocery photos. i have been introduced with the Korean culture for a long time, and have many Korean friends... and Christmas is a different time for them. I was actually shocked to find out that they dont sp;end it w fam... Since majority of Korea does not follow a certain Christian belief... Christmas for them is allotted to spend time with their special someone. For years Yejin has posted a simple photo of no one and her self video in 2018. But this 2019 Xmas time she posted a foto of her and HB. That was the very first time she posted something with someone and then it is HYUNBIn... She could have posted a selfie as well... or a scenery... or the crew or some of the cast like the comrades or whatever. RIGHT? but she chose to post a pic with him... just HIM. for me this was a big deal... THE REAL DEAL... i dont know about others of if others have emp;hasized about this... but for me this was a big thing. And how about the book? the "NAMJACHINGGU" one? what do you think about it? is it just coincidence or fate? lol i know i am overthinking this and reading between the lines... but really nothing? ( im just excited... so dont misunderstand me as being admant) And now that cloy has finished we barely heard from her? not even a personal thank you note for the staff, cast, and crew or a groufie... (i am not forcing her.... nor i am not demanding her to... but this is unlikely of her why????? WE ALL KNOW THE REASONS. LET HER BE... she deserves rest from social media.... she has been under the sp;otlight since the grocery incident ... how much more now. i hated the fact that the under the table handholding incident was dug up... i know the fan/s who ignited the issue just wanted to point out something obvious despite it being unclear... and it added damage to the injury as well... because of it they will be more cautious... HYUNBIN would not even do post interview... it feels as if they just want to get this drama over and done... LIKE GOOD RIDDANCE... which is a bit sad knowing they worked their buttoms out for this... UNFAIR. Anyway till now there are still alot of stuff i wanted to pour out but ill just rest it for now? Do you like what i have written shoppers? i hop;e u did and in a way i added some lil inkling insights... Ill leave my favorite quote from Alexander Dumas... which is just SO FOR US = groceryshoppers “There is neither happiness nor unhappiness in this world; there is only the comparison of one state with another. Only a man who has felt ultimate despair is capable of feeling ultimate bliss. It is necessary to have wished for death in order to know how good it is to live.....the sum of all human wisdom will be contained in these two words: Wait and Hope.” xoxo- yanipie Thank you so much for your insight! I’m a new SYJ fan. She’s just so adorable & genuine. That Christmas post is giving us more reason to believe that they’re for realz. Can anyone please tell me why they are called Dooli couple? 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GlowWithTheFlow Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 @YANI-PIE ^^v love love your analysis! With all the sweet pictures TVN spoiled us with and all the BTS, we forgot the MVP picture of them all! Christmas is typically a holiday reserved for friends and lovers in S Korea. For SYJ to post that picture is a very loud statement! Grocery shoppers, sit tight. What about NamJaChingu? That is the Encounter drama? Or is she sending a message to her namjachingu? 9 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GlowWithTheFlow Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 11 minutes ago, Edelweiss88 said: Can anyone please tell me why they are called Dooli couple? “Dul” means 2 in Korean and Ri is for Ri jeong hyuk and Yoon seo ri. 2 Ri’s = Dulri 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carly08 Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 What’s the golfing incident? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YANI-PIE ^^v Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 11 minutes ago, GlowWithTheFlow said: @YANI-PIE ^^v love love your analysis! With all the sweet pictures TVN spoiled us with and all the BTS, we forgot the MVP picture of them all! Christmas is typically a holiday reserved for friends and lovers in S Korea. For SYJ to post that picture is a very loud statement! Grocery shoppers, sit tight. What about NamJaChingu? That is the Encounter drama? Or is she sending a message to her namjachingu? I KNOW RIGHT... @GlowWithTheFlow this has been forgotten i mean the Xmas post... if our gal wanted to really promote the drama she can do with many ways... ^^ She posted a book in her IG the title is Namjjachinggu/ boyfriend... well like said i am an overthinker (which is bad or good dep;ends on the situation kkk) im trying to read between the lines 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YANI-PIE ^^v Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 7 minutes ago, carly08 said: What’s the golfing incident? there was a rumor that they were p;laying golf in LA way way way before cloy started 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meily Jima Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 1 hour ago, YANI-PIE ^^v said: And how about the book? the "NAMJACHINGGU" one? what do you think about it? is it just coincidence or fate? lol i know i am overthinking this and reading between the lines... but really nothing? ( im just excited... so dont misunderstand me as being admant) What about this book? I know nothing 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YANI-PIE ^^v Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 3 minutes ago, Meily Jima said: What about this book? I know nothing it is in her IG... the book's tile is in korea if you translate it to english is Boyfriend... there can be no meaning to it to be honest... but we are SHIPPERS here... POSITIVE SHIPPERS... we r just thinkin of it as a HINT. 6 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edelweiss88 Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 20 minutes ago, GlowWithTheFlow said: “Dul” means 2 in Korean and Ri is for Ri jeong hyuk and Yoon seo ri. 2 Ri’s = Dulri Thanks for the reply! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BINGO_O Posted February 19, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted February 19, 2020 It’s not great way to start the day by reading that osen news LOL. However, I don’t really feel bothered cuz it’s not different from what hb’s agency had to say although harsher. Let’s say he’s close with hb then obviously he couldnt go out of his way and say something else. What he gives to the press has to reflect the stance of vast on the issue. I choose to go with my instincts and think they just wanna hide the fact they’re dating for now as many knetz do. Sure something may happen out of pure coincidence, but so many things like the grocery photo, the christmas photo, he director’s disclosure, sweet and flirtatious interaction in bts, growing closeness between the two happened in the last almost two years, everything lined up and pointed towards the possibility they’re more than friends. I’m not saying that with the uncertainty and confusion of a first time shipper. I’ve shipped many couples throughout the years and sometimes the hints were so ambiguous or at delulu level that I constantly doubted myself. It was not the case with binjin. Everything was just as clear as daylight, well except for their multiple tiresome denials lol. But if it was 5 years ago, most of the couples would confirm as soon as they were spotted or pictured together, but now they don’t confirm anything even if the photos exist. Who knows if binjin will set a precedent for a couple with the most firm and direct denial that later turn out to be real lol. Also I’ve noticed the number of people who show interest in them has increased tremendously in the last couple of weeks, not only here but in every flatform in many languages. I guess the situation is also similar in korea as the last bts vids were flooded with korean comments, it’s even hard to find a top comment in english. I guess the growing excitement towards their private lives can be a little overwhelming and hb will leave for filming abroad soon so maybe he doesnt want yj to be left to deal with the press and their constant curiosity regarding the relationship. idk if all the things we’ve written so far here will turn out to be nonsense or an attempt to console our own breaking hearts in the future but shipping is all about enjoying the process despite the possibility that it may sink later. Anyway I’ll go down with this ship, at least until one of them announce to be in a relationship with someone else. Well I cant wait 10 years like some shippers of hb’s other ship but I’m sure it would not be too long cuz they’re at the age where they need to think of a serious relationship that leads to marriage. Finally I hope you all don’t have to overstress yourselves. Life will still carry on no matter what destination this ship might bring us. At least we had a wonderful time here sharing all the cute tibits about binjin. I’m still friend with many shippers of my old ship which sailed 10 years ago (although the couple broke up after). That was one of the great achievements no matter the ship sailed or sunk. 16 10 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShinTitanium Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 whatever..I'm not bothered I'm just holding on in this BinJin ship. 9 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rookiehistorianAB Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 1 hour ago, ChunSungIm said: She is so small and pretty ,hyun bin what are you stare at ? One of my favorite things about them is their height difference. Do you gusy have any pics showing how big the gap is? 7 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheeeeee Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 Google Translation: The negative comments hurt my feeling Is that bad? Anyone know? 13 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Jemrie Posted February 19, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted February 19, 2020 just sit tight , and patiently wait until our ship will landed That sideway glance he gave her 17 7 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marshemell0ws Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 1 hour ago, carly08 said: What’s the golfing incident? They were spotted golfing at a place that is pretty exclusive so not anyone can just go in. Although the picture is so blurry and small you can't really tell who it is LOL. But rumors say it was SYJ and HB. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post B.MMM Posted February 19, 2020 Popular Post Share Posted February 19, 2020 Hi, i’m not a new fan (HB fan) but i’m new in soompi i read all pages but wanted to say that friend is not friend. I don’t read the english news cause i know korean and in the korean news that statement came from Binnie’s side not his friend. So don’t worry it’s his company’s representative who speaks from the start of this case not one of his friends. Please don’t trust everything that is on english news cause most of them is not correct in translation. The most reliable news came from naver. I just join soompi so that i can tell you this... #InGroceryWeTrust 6 2 9 4 5 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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