rimjayc Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 now that im rewatching the very first episode im so glad they tonned down the abuse ... bcuz holly richard simmons i would have hatted that rich kid too xD the more i watch hanayori dango the more i notice stuff i guess ...i understand that we need to see the very bad to enjoi the very best and i understand its a fiction that forced kiss scene is not even romantizised as everybody is saying ! THERE IS 0 ROMANCE in that scene sc cried and begged for mercy ! even daoming si fascial exepression show no enjoyment really just anger and sadness right after he sees her cry the "romance" IS BADLY HANDLED REALLY AFTER ! when sc seemes like she forgive him after 3h lol ..; and is like getting jealouse seeying him with other femals ect ! and he gets stubborn and claim " ugh its your fault anyways " ! like ????? xD the scene when he takes her back to his house for the make over is abusive too ! she must have been so scared and weirdedup going to a place shes never been befor they tried to make it look like daoming si almost:never uses his social/economic powers in this version ... but that first kidnapping and how he bought then slapped her with her parents shop food was just that really ..( very lowkey still compared to the classic work where domyoji dont even try to be humble about how rich and powerful he is ) another abusive side is " the stalkish" behaviours he can have tru the show ... or how little he trusted her ( even befor they even dated really) like that episode when she went to have fun with hr hightschool friends and he just showedup uninvited ! almost sent that dude to the hospital by hitting him ! and made sanshai like she did something something wrong while she only wanted to enjoi some time with her old friends dont get me wrong guys ! im the biggest daoming si/ domiyoji fan ... i love the complexity of the character so mush this post is purely focused on the abusive part of his personality ect ! god knows how mush i enjoy his developement and qualities Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bccem99 Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 Still on the forced kiss scene, but I agree it is not romantic at all and I don't think that is what they were going for. I actually thought the scene was executed well, but the follow-up was not. You feel his inability to control his temper and his regret. You also feel her terror. I did feel like them meeting on the bridge and her walking away showed an elapsed amount of time. I always really love the drunk SC scene at Jing's party. I don't know if the translation is perfect, but I love how she's like "you've brought me nothing but trouble and who would want to listen to your bs." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokodus Posted September 5, 2018 Author Share Posted September 5, 2018 @rimjayc I agree. We really need to see the worst to appreciate the best that comes after. It's like SC has seen him in his worst, hence nothing can make her flinch and she has accepted him as he is. He didn't try to be a good man in front of her, he really changed and developed into a mature gentleman because of her. There is a lot of difference and i'm always a sucker for such stories where a jerkass male lead turns into a sweet marshmallow because of a girl. It never gets old and gives us all kinds of feels. Honestly for SC, no matter how you see it, Lei should be the reasonable and natural choice. He will take care of her, will not make fun of her, is not short tempered and beats up people on a whim, is not a heir of Dao ming group and whose mom is not the evil Dao ming Feng. LOL. Seeing these initial eps I can't help but think how stupid and completely blind SC is to her own feelings for Si . Her infatuation with Lei is both funny and frustrating to watch. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 3 hours ago, kokodus said: Yes I know, right?? He still has the pineapple head, the theory that his pineapple head is the manifestation of his rebellious mood and how in the later half of the drama, when SC started opening up to him, he found the love he wanted and hence less of pineapple hair. Technically speaking, his hair should've been normal here, because they already started dating. Idk. Lol. @kokodus exactly. That’s why I mentioned it, because if we go by that theory, he shouldn’t have the pineapple head at this point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 5, 2018 Share Posted September 5, 2018 3 hours ago, kokodus said: @rimjayc I agree. We really need to see the worst to appreciate the best that comes after. It's like SC has seen him in his worst, hence nothing can make her flinch and she has accepted him as he is. He didn't try to be a good man in front of her, he really changed and developed into a mature gentleman because of her. There is a lot of difference and i'm always a sucker for such stories where a jerkass male lead turns into a sweet marshmallow because of a girl. It never gets old and gives us all kinds of feels. Honestly for SC, no matter how you see it, Lei should be the reasonable and natural choice. He will take care of her, will not make fun of her, is not short tempered and beats up people on a whim, is not a heir of Dao ming group and whose mom is not the evil Dao ming Feng. LOL. Seeing these initial eps I can't help but think how stupid and completely blind SC is to her own feelings for Si . Her infatuation with Lei is both funny and frustrating to watch. LOL. @kokodus 100% agree on what you said here. DS became a better person because of SC. She brought out the best in him and he loved her for her character. Yes, Lei would have been the logical choice, he would always be good to her and never hurt her. But it would have lacked passion. SC and DS work because they compliment each other and bring out the best in each other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roxnilla7 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 I thought I would get over this fairly quickly.. but then I keep going back to the ost and remembering the scene where Daoming si throws her neckalace. I also found out that, Dylan actually had the Meteor neckalace handcrafted for Shen Yue for her birthday, and they ended up using it in the drama... so sweet! Now, after this drama, I can't see Shen Yue in another drama with another guy lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokodus Posted September 6, 2018 Author Share Posted September 6, 2018 F3 at the Elle style night! His hair looks....hmm strange?? LOL. But boy looks good in everything. In Dao Ming Si's words "a feast to our eyes" LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 @kokodus lol I found his hair strange too but dang, he’s still so gorgeous! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starry58 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 ^^ Indeed, such a gorgeous lad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokodus Posted September 6, 2018 Author Share Posted September 6, 2018 Gorgeous is not even the word. He looks like he is dropped straight from the heaven. I don't know. Is he even real??? I'm in the ultimate fangirling mode today. Don't mind me. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 @kokodus I know! He’s so perfect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starry58 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 ^^ Thank the heavens he is real!!! LMAO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 Honestly though guys, isn’t it amazing how a person this good looking exists? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kokodus Posted September 6, 2018 Author Share Posted September 6, 2018 17 minutes ago, mouse007 said: Honestly though guys, isn’t it amazing how a person this good looking exists? No he doesn't exist. My theory is that he doesn't belong to this Earth, he is from a different planet and somehow accidentally landed up on this planet Earth. I think I have done something good in my previous life to have been fortunate enough to live in the same time period as him. LOL. Did I go overboard? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 2 hours ago, kokodus said: No he doesn't exist. My theory is that he doesn't belong to this Earth, he is from a different planet and somehow accidentally landed up on this planet Earth. I think I have done something good in my previous life to have been fortunate enough to live in the same time period as him. LOL. Did I go overboard? @kokodus hush! There’s no such thing as going overboard. I am 100% supportive of this fangirling Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixfan Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 I want to thank all users for the nice discussion here. It was a great pleasure to read it during watching, even if I was too busy to join. So let's hope the story between Dong Shancai and Daoming Si or even better Shen Yue / Dylan Wang will somehow continue in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parksooha Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 Keep coming here just to see Dylan fandom He looks so young with that hair style It's true that he is as DS looks mature Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolatetruffles08 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 I need help, ladies. I'm suffering from serious withdrawals and now looking at flights to and hotels in Shanghai I'm rewatching it again but it doesn't seem to help. I just miss them more and more! On that note, if you do have details on where they shot what scenes, please tag/PM me because we're definitely going to Shanghai! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roxnilla7 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 4 hours ago, chocolatetruffles08 said: I need help, ladies. I'm suffering from serious withdrawals and now looking at flights to and hotels in Shanghai I'm rewatching it again but it doesn't seem to help. I just miss them more and more! On that note, if you do have details on where they shot what scenes, please tag/PM me because we're definitely going to Shanghai! I am withdrawing pretty hard too. I've found that looking at their bts scenes help.. although they are just as cute off screen lol. I do know that the location they shot Mindge university from is an actual university. Here is the link. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xi'an_Jiaotong-Liverpool_University Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouse007 Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 9 hours ago, chocolatetruffles08 said: I need help, ladies. I'm suffering from serious withdrawals and now looking at flights to and hotels in Shanghai I'm rewatching it again but it doesn't seem to help. I just miss them more and more! On that note, if you do have details on where they shot what scenes, please tag/PM me because we're definitely going to Shanghai! oh man, wish I could go with you! Would love to visit and see all the places they filmed at Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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