Kim Yoo-Jung & Park Bo-Gum | Moonlight Couple|

[docgippeum22]

47 minutes ago, peachlover777 said:

Thanks for reminiscing the lovely photos of boyoo couple by shipper foxstar_jw

by the way, talking about the film that Park Ken introduced "Me before You", have anyone seen this compilation...

 

I see the parallelism.  Hmmmm... PBG truly is smitten.  KYJ, you're one lucky girl!!

 

[BoYooMom]

5 hours ago, jilyheidi said:

I hope aslo she can wear very pretty dress match to her pretty face like a doll also  I hope she escorted by one her male co star eitheir kdy or jy not necesary pbg im sure he is with her other friends like the song song couple. 

BoYoo both hope to win best couple award. they can walk seperate (because  PBG's crazy fans) but sit together.  The award day is only chance they date in public. My wish is their sweet moment during KBS award night. God will make a way.

[4nnlov3pink]

39 minutes ago, BoYooMom said:

BoYoo both hope to win best couple award. they can walk seperate (because  PBG's crazy fans) but sit together.  The award day is only chance they date in public. My wish is their sweet moment during KBS award night. God will make a way.

@BoYooMomI think it's not good 2 call them all CRAZY FANS, not all of them like that actually. There are also who loves Bogummy with all their heart and pray the best for him  

Yes I agree about the POSSESSIVENESS 2ward the actor/actress but 2 call them all crazy, I think it's 2 much with these so NEGATIVE atmosphere in the thread recently.

So from now on unless this will be A HUGE CASE 4 BOYOO (if one day they're official) I hope we won't post any offensive post 2ward any fandom here. PEACE EVERYONE 

So good MV about BoYoo Compilation Moment in AAA 

 

[urpretty88]

7 hours ago, Kissy13 said:

@louise31Your right chinguya..hehehe I think BoYoo shippers knew all the job..from becoming to analyst down to stylist..not surprise one day BoYoo shippers become a scientist..

Lol. we are all crazy shipper. lol. . it had been so humorousto to read most of your comments and analysis on Boyoo romance from 2D1N, AAA , online song lyrics and book/movie reference, fashion and other little cute stuff here and there. You guys are FBI agents, comedian, psychologist, delulu dreamers and fictional writer. Our puppies are as geniusly adorable as most of you shipmates. So much love and cuteness. I guess this is what makes this ship fun, interesting, excitin yet comfortable

[BoYooMom]

@4nnlov3pink  Yes, I think I use the wrong words to talk about fans. I just feel so sad to my poor BoYoo couplel. they are  both young , they have long way to go. We need ship more stronger for them.  I am a BoYoo crazy mom.

[superfangermany_stv]

After all the drama last night, I think some of us here might have been a bit shaken by the whole ordeal. With the KBS Awards coming in Dec, we should all be prepared that more and more people (out of curiosity, good or bad intentions) will be visiting our thread.

So guys, other than being more cautious with what we say here, BoYoo shippers can't ship with a Heart made of Glass. WE NEED TO SHIP WITH A HEART MADE OF STEEL EVERYONE!! HWAITING!!     

Those who do not want to read any rational comments, you might want to skip my post (hidden). But these are just my feelings deep down about our couple from a rational point of view as a mature adult.

DISCLAIMER: These views are mine and mine alone. It does not represent the views of everyone here in this thread

 

Someone had previously mentioned that each shipper might view every BoYoo moments/situation in a very different manner due to our different backgrounds, upbringing, culture etc. I agree 100%. I personally have never been a supporter of the whole propaganda that YJ is too young to date. I met my husband when I was 18, and we were married the very next year, and we've been happily married for the pass 17 yrs. Of course, I know I can't compare myself to YJ because she's a celebrity and is under the scrutiny of the SK public. But if she wasn't a celebrity, would everyone look at her with judgemental eyes if she was seen dating outside of school like some of her peers were doing now? I doubt so. So why is she different from any other 17+yr old in SK just because she's a celebrity? As a mother of 2 teenage sons, I emphathize her situation.

After watching 150 days MDBC BTS special edition, I was at awe that preparation of the drama started 3 years ago. In 2013, YJ was only 14yrs old? Although she has had many acting experience by then, I don't think she imagined herself being casted as a main lead in a romantic drama 3 years later. As for BG, not only was he struggling with family issues, not many knew who Park Bo Gum was then. He too I'm sure would not have dreamt that a major TV drama production like MDBC to offer him a leading role in 2016. But little did BG & YJ know in 2013 that a miraculous and invincible thread called FATE had already tied the both of them together.

Setting aside the talk about the immense chemistry in which we all agree between these two, we heard both BG & YJ mention in their interviews about how they felt connected and how they could understand each other just by looking into each others eyes. This connection & feeling that they've experienced can only be possible between soulmates. Soulmates does not necessarily be in a romantic context. Your soulmate could be your best friend, a co-worker, or even a relative (e.g. a cousin). But how many soulmates are we able to meet in one lifetime? If you're lucky, maybe one. If your SUPER lucky, maybe two? But many if not most would not even have the opportunity to meet a soulmate in their entire lifetime. I may not be very old, but I have definitely passed my youth. I am sure many matured adults here in our thread would agree with me that the most beautiful phase in ones life is your YOUTH. To have the opportunity to meet your soulmate in the most beautiful phase of your life is indeed a true blessing to begin with. Even if they do not end up together in a relationship. 

I profess that I have a soft spot for BG in comparison to YJ. Not because he's good looking and all, but because the first time I saw BG was in his interview in Youth Over Flowers Africa where he broke down talking about his mother's passing, I cried buckets. I cried buckets because I can relate to that. Having experienced loss of a parent at a very young age myself, I understood exactly how he felt. I understood how the pain and loss stays with us for the rest of our lives. That a slight thought of them would cause us to break down as if it just happened yesterday. I understood that in the years to come, for every new chapter in BG's life and for every triumph, he would be wishing that his Mum would be here to witness it all. Just like how I wished my Dad could have given me away on my wedding day and how i wish he could cuddle my 2 sons in his arms when they were babies. I understood how our strong faith in our religion is the only consolation and hope that we will be able to meet the parents whom we've lost once again in heaven.

There is certainly a gap in BG's heart, and it's a huge gap to fill. As much as I hope our beautiful, charming and matured YJ could fill this gap, I wholeheartedly pray that whoever eventually fills this gap, is one whom would be able to shower him with all the love that he lacked and deserves.

 

 

[Edith Fabian]

Just woke up and read this..I cried..I want to give our BG a very warm hug and tell him everything is going to be alright as long as he believes in himself.

Thanks very much @superfangermany_stv! Your posts are always a delight!

[moonlighter]

Even not knowing Bogums  family background - Bogum oozes kindness and sincerity and now I love him even more.

I hope our girl and her mom can fill the gap in his heart . I'm a mom of two boys and I wish I can give him a big hug too. 

May this two stay together even if not love cuz they compliment each other . I have read about couples in the entertainment world marrying after 10 years of dating but not known by the public . It's a long journey for this two kids so I am wishing them the very best as if they were my own kids . 

[Guest]

@superfangermany_stv chingu, you're making me teary eyed..was crying too while watching the video of Bogummy tearing up about having no childhood photo with his whole family together...he feels like a little dongsaeng that we want to protect and shower with love really hope and pray for him to meet good and loving people in his life, and to have a wonderful family of his own, so he can make lots of beautiful memories and photos

His mother would have been so proud of her Bogummy, he truly is an angel and a blessing to this world for sure

We have been blessed with two little angels dear chingus

cto

@superfangermany_stv sending you a warm hug chingu thank you for posts, I always appreciate them

[princesssarang21]

@superfangermany_stvim truly touched by your post ( thank you) I think so too that if YJ and BG weren't celebrities but normal people then people wouldn't really mind them if they chose to be in a relationship but i guess since they are celebrities they are supposed to be role models for the younger generations. I think the friendship they have right now is rare and beautiful and i do hope that it blooms into more. It will require a lot of strength and patience and maybe like the eternity bracelets in MDBC they' might go around and around but in the end they'll come back to one another (which i think is fine since they're young they still have of life to live)  YJ and BG are well grounded people and i hope they will be able to continue their path peacefully while staying their honest and humble. i also hope all this fan drama doesn't affect them at the kbs award, because it'd be quite sad for them if they have to act like strangers to avoid drama when we can all see that they are very fond and supportive of each other. 

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 isn't it kind of a flawed system? no one is perfect so why put celebrities on a pedestal and expect your children to be the same... isn't it better to promote individualism? instead of aspiring to be someone else? then they'll just grow up disappointed not being able to be like their idol ( which is perfectly fine) and then  blame the celebrity for not meeting your expectations because why?. Celebrities are humans too they have good days and bad days, but i guess it's not something that will be changed overnight, probably takes generations of teaching, if one chooses to be taught. To say that it's the price of being a celebrity or of being famous i don't think it's right. 

 

(About YJ's dress, im not sure if her coordi is doing experiments or sabotages lol but AAA and MMA proves YJ that  she can wear any dress with elegance and confidence which makes her even more beautiful so keep trying COORDI!(im hoping that maybe she's just building the amp and then when kbs award comes we'll get a BAM jaw dropping dress!) 

[be99lle]

This is just an opinion.......my half-cent in KYJ's dresses/outfits for the last award shows..... at first I was kinda like 'what in the world?!'- with question marks around me..lol..but then I figured-like everybody here- would agree with me that she looks beautiful no matter what she wears even a rice-sack of cloth and pretty sure there were other outfits that were more 'different' in the wardrobe than what she was wearing...lol...

Correct me if I'm wrong here, but isn't it also a choice of the wearer wether they want to wear the outfit that was chosen by their coordinator or stylist-or whatever they're called? I'm pretty sure YJ (and maybe even her parents and the people around her) was given a chance to voice out her concerns (likes/dislikes) wether to wear the 'unique' dresses that were picked for her or not. So if she's wearing it, doesn't it mean she agreed to it? If not I must be crazy writing this...lol...and her stylist has quiet an imagination for letting our baby-girl wear something very 'bright' (I ran out of words to say here....lol...).

Anyways, she's still beautiful and whatever she wears at the end of the year award, I will watch in awe of her (outfits) and beauty (like BG would probably do every time he sees her...and in my delulu mind, I'm thinking she took a pic of the dresses and sent it to BG and asked for his opinion as well and got a reply back, especially during the AAA award after all they had to match, right?! ). Anyways, peace y'all!!!!!!!!! 

Ps..just realized, I think this is the longest post I've had....lol....lol...

[mushforbrains]

I've seen her in a beautiful navy gown at a previous award show which looked so modest in the front and bam! There was a completely bare back...hopefully there'll be a little surprise like this at the next award show...:)

 

[happysloth]

2 hours ago, superfangermany_stv said:

After all the drama last night, I think some of us here might have been a bit shaken by the whole ordeal. With the KBS Awards coming in Dec, we should all be prepared that more and more people (out of curiosity, good or bad intentions) will be visiting our thread.

So guys, other than being more cautious with what we say here, BoYoo shippers can't ship with a Heart made of Glass. WE NEED TO SHIP WITH A HEART MADE OF STEEL EVERYONE!! HWAITING!!     

Those who do not want to read any rational comments, you might want to skip my post (hidden). But these are just my feelings deep down about our couple from a rational point of view as a mature adult.

DISCLAIMER: These views are mine and mine alone. It does not represent the views of everyone here in this thread

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Someone had previously mentioned that each shipper might view every BoYoo moments/situation in a very different manner due to our different backgrounds, upbringing, culture etc. I agree 100%. I personally have never been a supporter of the whole propaganda that YJ is too young to date. I met my husband when I was 18, and we were married the very next year, and we've been happily married for the pass 17 yrs. Of course, I know I can't compare myself to YJ because she's a celebrity and is under the scrutiny of the SK public. But if she wasn't a celebrity, would everyone look at her with judgemental eyes if she was seen dating outside of school like some of her peers were doing now? I doubt so. So why is she different from any other 17+yr old in SK just because she's a celebrity? As a mother of 2 teenage sons, I emphathize her situation.

After watching 150 days MDBC BTS special edition, I was at awe that preparation of the drama started 3 years ago. In 2013, YJ was only 14yrs old? Although she has had many acting experience by then, I don't think she imagined herself being casted as a main lead in a romantic drama 3 years later. As for BG, not only was he struggling with family issues, not many knew who Park Bo Gum was then. He too I'm sure would not have dreamt that a major TV drama production like MDBC to offer him a leading role in 2016. But little did BG & YJ know in 2013 that a miraculous and invincible thread called FATE had already tied the both of them together.

Setting aside the talk about the immense chemistry in which we all agree between these two, we heard both BG & YJ mention in their interviews about how they felt connected and how they could understand each other just by looking into each others eyes. This connection & feeling that they've experienced can only be possible between soulmates. Soulmates does not necessarily be in a romantic context. Your soulmate could be your best friend, a co-worker, or even a relative (e.g. a cousin). But how many soulmates are we able to meet in one lifetime? If you're lucky, maybe one. If your SUPER lucky, maybe two? But many if not most would not even have the opportunity to meet a soulmate in their entire lifetime. I may not be very old, but I have definitely passed my youth. I am sure many matured adults here in our thread would agree with me that the most beautiful phase in ones life is your YOUTH. To have the opportunity to meet your soulmate in the most beautiful phase of your life is indeed a true blessing to begin with. Even if they do not end up together in a relationship. 

I profess that I have a soft spot for BG in comparison to YJ. Not because he's good looking and all, but because the first time I saw BG was in his interview in Youth Over Flowers Africa where he broke down talking about his mother's passing, I cried buckets. I cried buckets because I can relate to that. Having experienced loss of a parent at a very young age myself, I understood exactly how he felt. I understood how the pain and loss stays with us for the rest of our lives. That a slight thought of them would cause us to break down as if it just happened yesterday. I understood that in the years to come, for every new chapter in BG's life and for every triumph, he would be wishing that his Mum would be here to witness it all. Just like how I wished my Dad could have given me away on my wedding day and how i wish he could cuddle my 2 sons in his arms when they were babies. I understood how our strong faith in our religion is the only consolation and hope that we will be able to meet the parents whom we've lost once again in heaven.

There is certainly a gap in BG's heart, and it's a huge gap to fill. As much as I hope our beautiful, charming and matured YJ could fill this gap, I wholeheartedly pray that whoever eventually fills this gap, is one whom would be able to shower him with all the love that he lacked and deserves.

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Beautiful! @superfangermany_stvthank you for sharing your personal experience and honest opinion of YJ and BG.

I suppose, them being celebrities, who together had just ended a very successful drama, inevitably put them under public scrutiny, especially with YooJung being underage. Like you, I'm so happy that BoGum and YooJung found a strong bond of companionship in each other. They had found strength in each other and become source of joy to each other. That, I believe, doesn't happen to all Kdrama main leads. 

I'm gonna maintain these old sayings: "Everything happens for a reason" and "People do not cross our paths by accident". 

 

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Lasty, I'm just gonna add that the later part in your post about parent-child relationship had me crying. I may not have exactly the same experience, but as a parent I totally share your feelings and views. Thanks for pointing that out, really. It is a gently reminder for me to be persistent and tireless in pursuing my personal parenting goal: making sure my only child would have lots of good and lovely memories of me. A very self-centric goal lol. But, yeah... Sorry for straying far off topic.

 

 

[jilyheidi]

1 hour ago, mushforbrains said:

I've seen her in a beautiful navy gown at a previous award show which looked so modest in the front and bam! There was a completely bare back...hopefully there'll be a little surprise like this at the next award show...:)

 

I agree this one of her best dress conservative in front and completly bared back then im excited to see what kind reaction if pbg see her baby doll wearing that kind of dress im sure we can see again the great wall of park bo gum.

[4nnlov3pink]

My roll call 2 all BoYoo Shippers/ Supporters  

@Phuong Dinh@ninamina@Tien Le@Li-Yi Chen@xoxogossipgirl@june_1@liemkopi@serhine@gissy@cici1@louise31@nadreams @happysloth @ssamm @superfangermany_stv @Mepuppy @bluewind @ggdczy17 @Jillia @princesssarang21 @faith101 @myicecreamcakexoxo @ayu_2905 @in00022 @Earth2KatyD @a3upadhy @gabaneme2006 @be99lle @budzy90 @hanalove9 @ricerascal67 @electricblue @martina123 @yaya_amin @anne1101 @Kissy13 @b4 @bellaangel012 @dee_230208 @lovelyp @bluegreen423 @WildDivine69 @Niki-Forever @joanndev077 @sc_4bfd6599c64db57788c51ac9bd9befd1 @saegukyoin @lusciousgy @1kdramacrazy @shisuisen @LynnNash @fboyoo212 @eblasala @kdfan2014 @rayyuu23 @greys8 @71mimilee @honeymiel @chiyie16  @airasara @ruka18 @happypuppy @Gummydeli @lizzy23 @charliew @akikisetsu @pupxprince @baloi @adisa1294 @dankin @luvinmoonlight16@whiteghost @chocolatepie @NRGchick @nalili @Fiona Ang @PororoQueen @canes @mushforbrains @4nnlov3pink @pammie1218 @ivandongkhai @panda08 @3z3zm3lp @genmaibutter @SihaeSL @cloud2 @PrincessMe2515 @joyoflife77 @pralee @tygrumpy14 @eyo2eyo @aidathecatowner @cloud92 @thephamle@Jazz4lyf @myvilvil @kdramaaddict31 @nadcomel @tikasari @bubblyflo @mamun @ayu_2905 @in00022 @Earth2KatyD @a3upadhy @gabaneme2006 @be99lle@ddukbokkie @byur @onetwou @whiteangel1978 @mintcandy @icerose@thearmyofskank@daphane @meilinnzzz@lightforyou22@8mel@urpretty88@Edith Fabian @roc8513@Cef Ilagan@imw4k@mujay@dramalovermsia@Yolu@kikyo4ever@jyjkyj3@ladyhyejoong88@coraLblue87@alinakhan@uwimissteapot@boyoo69@sasasawawawa@boyoo88@torquoiselily@lovelybluehoneyz..@phoenixember@jyjkyj3@ladybp080585_at_gmail.com_stv@princessflo@yoojunged@buttercup18@lovexoxo9@Sheila Marie Green@jilyheidi@Skully Kim@Lê Thúy@be99lle

O.K the answer for the Quiz no. 2 

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I'll give the answer later kkkk 

 

 

 

 

[bubblyflo]

@superfangermany_stv woah beautiful and thoughtful post!!! 

I also adore this two little puppies. and I don't know why I have gut feeling that they will be end up together.

I also can sense that they're a soulmate, made for each other.

And both of them really cherish and want to pursue their whatever relationship it is.

It's shown to us, to public.

CMIIW, FMHO, BG is consciously purposive show his fondness to KYJ in the public thus when they will be really an item, public is respectedly accept them.

[jilyheidi]

Please dont try to sabotage her outfit in kbs drama awards we want see her in her beautiful dress that match in her beautiful face.

[peachlover777]

9 hours ago, superfangermany_stv said:

After all the drama last night, I think some of us here might have been a bit shaken by the whole ordeal. With the KBS Awards coming in Dec, we should all be prepared that more and more people (out of curiosity, good or bad intentions) will be visiting our thread.

So guys, other than being more cautious with what we say here, BoYoo shippers can't ship with a Heart made of Glass. WE NEED TO SHIP WITH A HEART MADE OF STEEL EVERYONE!! HWAITING!!     

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Someone had previously mentioned that each shipper might view every BoYoo moments/situation in a very different manner due to our different backgrounds, upbringing, culture etc. I agree 100%. I personally have never been a supporter of the whole propaganda that YJ is too young to date. I met my husband when I was 18, and we were married the very next year, and we've been happily married for the pass 17 yrs. Of course, I know I can't compare myself to YJ because she's a celebrity and is under the scrutiny of the SK public. But if she wasn't a celebrity, would everyone look at her with judgemental eyes if she was seen dating outside of school like some of her peers were doing now? I doubt so. So why is she different from any other 17+yr old in SK just because she's a celebrity? As a mother of 2 teenage sons, I emphathize her situation.

After watching 150 days MDBC BTS special edition, I was at awe that preparation of the drama started 3 years ago. In 2013, YJ was only 14yrs old? Although she has had many acting experience by then, I don't think she imagined herself being casted as a main lead in a romantic drama 3 years later. As for BG, not only was he struggling with family issues, not many knew who Park Bo Gum was then. He too I'm sure would not have dreamt that a major TV drama production like MDBC to offer him a leading role in 2016. But little did BG & YJ know in 2013 that a miraculous and invincible thread called FATE had already tied the both of them together.

Setting aside the talk about the immense chemistry in which we all agree between these two, we heard both BG & YJ mention in their interviews about how they felt connected and how they could understand each other just by looking into each others eyes. This connection & feeling that they've experienced can only be possible between soulmates. Soulmates does not necessarily be in a romantic context. Your soulmate could be your best friend, a co-worker, or even a relative (e.g. a cousin). But how many soulmates are we able to meet in one lifetime? If you're lucky, maybe one. If your SUPER lucky, maybe two? But many if not most would not even have the opportunity to meet a soulmate in their entire lifetime. I may not be very old, but I have definitely passed my youth. I am sure many matured adults here in our thread would agree with me that the most beautiful phase in ones life is your YOUTH. To have the opportunity to meet your soulmate in the most beautiful phase of your life is indeed a true blessing to begin with. Even if they do not end up together in a relationship. 

I profess that I have a soft spot for BG in comparison to YJ. Not because he's good looking and all, but because the first time I saw BG was in his interview in Youth Over Flowers Africa where he broke down talking about his mother's passing, I cried buckets. I cried buckets because I can relate to that. Having experienced loss of a parent at a very young age myself, I understood exactly how he felt. I understood how the pain and loss stays with us for the rest of our lives. That a slight thought of them would cause us to break down as if it just happened yesterday. I understood that in the years to come, for every new chapter in BG's life and for every triumph, he would be wishing that his Mum would be here to witness it all. Just like how I wished my Dad could have given me away on my wedding day and how i wish he could cuddle my 2 sons in his arms when they were babies. I understood how our strong faith in our religion is the only consolation and hope that we will be able to meet the parents whom we've lost once again in heaven.

There is certainly a gap in BG's heart, and it's a huge gap to fill. As much as I hope our beautiful, charming and matured YJ could fill this gap, I wholeheartedly pray that whoever eventually fills this gap, is one whom would be able to shower him with all the love that he lacked and deserves.

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Thank you for the reminder to make this place a welcoming one and to be mindful with our words; let's make this place our boyoo's  "Jahyeondang"!

Thanks also for sharing the intimate story of BG, may YJ (as a friend, camaraderie)  fills his heart and soul with more raon ;p I was so full of raon seeing boyoo couple at AAA witnessing and acknowledging each other's success,  and enjoying the fruit of their labor of love for MDBC and fans worldwide.

 p.s. I was watching 150-days MDBC bts special and I really appreciate what the commentor said  when he mentioned about the filming location of Jahyeondang -- he said "This place in Lee Yeong's heart..." (as we all know the place is indeed special because it is the hideout, social and heart to heart place for the 3 bff); and then we hear Yoo Jung as an actor responded "It feels like Jahyeondang is my home", then she featured the building with her hand and commented with her sweet voice in English, "My house, Jah-yeon-dang!", and then she giggled, super cute!  

(cue to 44:08)

 

[happysloth]

1 hour ago, mushforbrains said:

I've seen her in a beautiful navy gown at a previous award show which looked so modest in the front and bam! There was a completely bare back...hopefully there'll be a little surprise like this at the next award show...:)

 

Ah that gorgeous dress she wore on the red carpet with her Circle of Atonement costars. I love that dress. 

http://www.imgrum.net/media/1086133681083511317_1730271147

[joyoflife77]

4 hours ago, superfangermany_stv said:

After all the drama last night, I think some of us here might have been a bit shaken by the whole ordeal. With the KBS Awards coming in Dec, we should all be prepared that more and more people (out of curiosity, good or bad intentions) will be visiting our thread.

So guys, other than being more cautious with what we say here, BoYoo shippers can't ship with a Heart made of Glass. WE NEED TO SHIP WITH A HEART MADE OF STEEL EVERYONE!! HWAITING!!     

Those who do not want to read any rational comments, you might want to skip my post (hidden). But these are just my feelings deep down about our couple from a rational point of view as a mature adult.

DISCLAIMER: These views are mine and mine alone. It does not represent the views of everyone here in this thread

  Reveal hidden contents

Someone had previously mentioned that each shipper might view every BoYoo moments/situation in a very different manner due to our different backgrounds, upbringing, culture etc. I agree 100%. I personally have never been a supporter of the whole propaganda that YJ is too young to date. I met my husband when I was 18, and we were married the very next year, and we've been happily married for the pass 17 yrs. Of course, I know I can't compare myself to YJ because she's a celebrity and is under the scrutiny of the SK public. But if she wasn't a celebrity, would everyone look at her with judgemental eyes if she was seen dating outside of school like some of her peers were doing now? I doubt so. So why is she different from any other 17+yr old in SK just because she's a celebrity? As a mother of 2 teenage sons, I emphathize her situation.

After watching 150 days MDBC BTS special edition, I was at awe that preparation of the drama started 3 years ago. In 2013, YJ was only 14yrs old? Although she has had many acting experience by then, I don't think she imagined herself being casted as a main lead in a romantic drama 3 years later. As for BG, not only was he struggling with family issues, not many knew who Park Bo Gum was then. He too I'm sure would not have dreamt that a major TV drama production like MDBC to offer him a leading role in 2016. But little did BG & YJ know in 2013 that a miraculous and invincible thread called FATE had already tied the both of them together.

Setting aside the talk about the immense chemistry in which we all agree between these two, we heard both BG & YJ mention in their interviews about how they felt connected and how they could understand each other just by looking into each others eyes. This connection & feeling that they've experienced can only be possible between soulmates. Soulmates does not necessarily be in a romantic context. Your soulmate could be your best friend, a co-worker, or even a relative (e.g. a cousin). But how many soulmates are we able to meet in one lifetime? If you're lucky, maybe one. If your SUPER lucky, maybe two? But many if not most would not even have the opportunity to meet a soulmate in their entire lifetime. I may not be very old, but I have definitely passed my youth. I am sure many matured adults here in our thread would agree with me that the most beautiful phase in ones life is your YOUTH. To have the opportunity to meet your soulmate in the most beautiful phase of your life is indeed a true blessing to begin with. Even if they do not end up together in a relationship. 

I profess that I have a soft spot for BG in comparison to YJ. Not because he's good looking and all, but because the first time I saw BG was in his interview in Youth Over Flowers Africa where he broke down talking about his mother's passing, I cried buckets. I cried buckets because I can relate to that. Having experienced loss of a parent at a very young age myself, I understood exactly how he felt. I understood how the pain and loss stays with us for the rest of our lives. That a slight thought of them would cause us to break down as if it just happened yesterday. I understood that in the years to come, for every new chapter in BG's life and for every triumph, he would be wishing that his Mum would be here to witness it all. Just like how I wished my Dad could have given me away on my wedding day and how i wish he could cuddle my 2 sons in his arms when they were babies. I understood how our strong faith in our religion is the only consolation and hope that we will be able to meet the parents whom we've lost once again in heaven.

There is certainly a gap in BG's heart, and it's a huge gap to fill. As much as I hope our beautiful, charming and matured YJ could fill this gap, I wholeheartedly pray that whoever eventually fills this gap, is one whom would be able to shower him with all the love that he lacked and deserves.

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3 hours ago, ricerascal67 said:

@superfangermany_stv chingu, you're making me teary eyed..was crying too while watching the video of Bogummy tearing up about having no childhood photo with his whole family together...he feels like a little dongsaeng that we want to protect and shower with love really hope and pray for him to meet good and loving people in his life, and to have a wonderful family of his own, so he can make lots of beautiful memories and photos

His mother would have been so proud of her Bogummy, he truly is an angel and a blessing to this world for sure

We have been blessed with two little angels dear chingus

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I am tearing up watching the video n listening to your sharings. It touches a note deep inside as I also lost my mum early and even now it is hard to speak about it. There are so many things you wish you could share ... simple things like eating nice food, doing things they like with them... and times you have to wander alone when you  face unknowns like the birth of my first child ; when you wish they could have been there.

Am glad you shared the video... have wanted to do so for a while but couldnt find a right context...will be great if veteren pbg n kyj fans can share more insights with us on this thread too , because some of us  are newbies , we can sense the something special in them that makes us cheer them .

Sharing aother version of the video  that had my tears streaming ... there is a part he is crying alone n one can almost feel the pain...let's always support n pray for this amazing person...

 

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