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Kyo will not be obligated to part any of her assets to joongki, there is a rumor going around that he cheated with kim ok bin and been living together.  Feel bad for Kyo.

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“We have come to walk the same path that people worldwide have walked before us.

At times it’ll rain, winds will blow and we may trip over obstacles.

But over time, we will bravely get up again by holding each others’ hand.”

— Song Joong Ki

We’ll playfully smile at each other and say ‘It’s not a big deal.’”

— Song Joong Ki

 

We’ll learn to continue walking even more firmly and bravely.”

— Song Joong Ki

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16 hours ago, chilis said:

“We have come to walk the same path that people worldwide have walked before us.

At times it’ll rain, winds will blow and we may trip over obstacles.

But over time, we will bravely get up again by holding each others’ hand.”

— Song Joong Ki

We’ll playfully smile at each other and say ‘It’s not a big deal.’”

— Song Joong Ki

 

We’ll learn to continue walking even more firmly and bravely.”

— Song Joong Ki

My fellow shippers. I suggest not to keep remembering his words towards her.the more we remember it will make us sadder.we initially shipped them coz of their drama not coz they got married.lets just remember them as the best on-screen love team.forget that they married. We have to overcome this sadness.its not easy considering how heartily we admired them but we have to.

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Hi there,I have been a long time song hey kyo fan..and also jong ki..I am really shocked and sad about the news and even now I can't speculate what is the reason behind the divorce..for me I just hope through this ,things will work out between them..one thing for sure is that they should not listen to what others(their close friends or family) said but to listen to their hearts... through their divorce that had made headlines just hope that they can recall back those memories when they were in love,when they have each other's back..may be through those things will make them realise and believe they were fated with each other and fight for their marriage..to forget about what happened and forgive each others because we all know marriage  is not an easy task..one has to go through a lot of things..so to put those mistake aside and fight for you marriage..so that they will not regret later..I just hope for things to work out..

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And you based this on just rumors? Do you personally know what happened to them? I’m sorry but you, like the fans you dislike for hating on sjk, is also hating on shk and putting all the blame on her. I don’t like to blame any of them because I believe in every relationship, romantic or not, it takes two to tango. Actually, like in this situation, in all divorce or separation, I don’t get why the woman gets all the blame. It is just so unfair. If a relationship does not work out, does it have to be the fault of just one person? You’re insinuating shk did something terrible, are you privy to their relationship or you just based that on what her haters or netizens are spreading? You do not even know what shk supposedly did and you are hating on her based on your assumptions and the assumptions of persons who do not really know what happened to their relationship.

 

I believe both of them truly loved each other. It is wrong to presume sjk loved her more or that shk did not love sjk just as much. Remember that she was judged so much already for dating two co-stars, even if nothing is really wrong with that. She even avoided getting into a relationship with sjk but she put all her trust into him when she said yes to marrying him. She is hurting in this divorce too. And unless we know what really happened between them, let us not speculate on what transpired and make assumptions just to support the narrative we like or our bias. I admit that I am more of shk’s fan but I will never resort to blaming sjk when I clearly have no personal knowledge as to what happened between them.

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@sheng308 I agree with your words. 

It's looks like bias but I'm really a fan of shk and really wish her the best in life and happiness.

I also never blame sjk as we don't know the real truth. 

Whatever the outcome I will stand by Kyo no matter what as her job and work is amazing and she one of the actress that make me keep rewatching kdrama. 

As for ki he have many of his own supporter and fans of his own. And looks like korean loves him more.

I do slightly hope they can reconcile and be together again. But we never know either it is good or not for the future for both of them. 

 

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1 hour ago, 진짜 빛을찾고 싶다 said:

I'm korean. On youtube i saw many foreign fans blame song joong ki and  i can't keep silent. Song joong ki had been song hye gyo's fan for a long time and loved her truly. But when he found out she did terrible thing he was shocked and got out of his house to friend's house and cried much. Now most korean know that and blamed her. So many repoter know what happened. But that fact will not be reported unless song joong ki reveals it officially. One reporter said if he were song joong ki he would divorce, too on his youtube channel.  And  song joong ki  said he doesn't need alimony and just wants to divorce quickly and quietly. That was aired on tv news. Do you know his drama <innocent man>? People say he is like kang maru in that drama. He is innocent. If you can read korean you will find out the fact. I want him to reveal the truth so that you will understand him. Most korean feel sorry for him.

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wow you just created account to state this??? Im sure you know SHK did terrible thing! Reporters have youtube broadcasts???

 

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Why would a woman like Hye Kyo risk marrying someone, do something terrible, to lose half her fortune?

She took a chance to marry SJK , she wanted it to fail?

The problem is most likely having baby, trying to have baby, her working too much, or there was no love ever.

A marriage should involve only the 2 to communicate.

Too many friends or family is a big problem.

Running off instead of facing problems head on doesnt help.

In the past, was  there solid evidence she does terrible things to her partners?

Whats the big deal she dated 2 actors in past?

 

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Foreign fans and Korean fans almost always have disagreeable and opposite view points from each other.

 

I can relate to what's happening a lot because it's like reliving YoonA's and LSG's story and break up.

 

Things are often perceived differently inside and outside the country.

 

Regardless, it's obvious that Koreans would know more about certain situations and the real facts at hand that happen inside their own country rather than anonymous international fans posting on the internet, some blinded by the love, admiration, and distorted image they have of the person they idolize.

 

Some things which would shock foreign fans are public knowledge and taken for granted in Korea.

 

I'm not saying 진짜 빛을찾고 싶다   is 100% correct in his/her account of the story, only to listen carefully to what he/she says and that it's more believable and credible.

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28 minutes ago, incoty said:

Foreign fans and Korean fans almost always have disagreeable and opposite view points from each other.

 

I can relate to what's happening a lot because it's like reliving YoonA's and LSG's story and break up.

 

Things are often perceived differently inside and outside the country.

 

Regardless, it's obvious that Koreans would know more about certain situations and the real facts at hand that happen inside their own country rather than anonymous international fans posting on the internet, some blinded by the love, admiration, and distorted image they have of the person they idolize.

 

Some things which would shock foreign fans are public knowledge and taken for granted in Korea.

 

I'm not saying 진짜 빛을찾고 싶다   is 100% correct in his/her account of the story, only to listen carefully to what he/she says and that it's more believable and credible.

 

 

YES IM READING CAREFULLY ===REPORTERS HAVE YOUTUBE BROADCASTS?

 


it's obvious that Koreans would know more about certain situations and the real facts at hand that happen inside their own country rather than anonymous international fans posting on the internet

 

Seriously Koreans know more than anonymous international fans?

 

Im sure you both know what SHK  did?  Dispatch didnt expose???????????

 

Anonymous?? haha

 

My Chinese Coworker said a lot China fans didnt think marriage would last because SJK is younger man.

So much for his wedding vows????

Yes so if they separated a year ago why in Arthradal Chronicles pressson he stated that all those things about marriage and his wife to the media?

Yes Koreans know more?

I for sure hear words about marriage life from his mouth.

 

 

When asked at the press conference about what’s changed after they got married, Song Joong Ki replied, “There’s nothing big that’s changed.” However, he added, “I could possibly call it gaining tranquility of the mind. I think that’s something that’s changed. Other married people might feel the same way.”

Song Joong Ki also spoke about Song Hye Kyo’s reaction to his new drama. He said, “Song Hye Kyo is also a fan of the two writers and the director. This is my first drama in a long time, but she supported me by saying ‘Do well by focusing until the end’ and so it’s thanks to her that I was able to finish it well.”

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fans that claimed they are neutral about these situation but when they raised up the divorced are causes by the male or female are bias themselves. 

 

NO marriage works one sided. 

 

As fans! we should respect their decision. Creating assumption comments doesn't help one bit.   

 

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28 minutes ago, incoty said:

Foreign fans and Korean fans almost always have disagreeable and opposite view points from each other.

 

I can relate to what's happening a lot because it's like reliving YoonA's and LSG's story and break up.

 

Things are often perceived differently inside and outside the country.

 

Regardless, it's obvious that Koreans would know more about certain situations and the real facts at hand that happen inside their own country rather than anonymous international fans posting on the internet, some blinded by the love, admiration, and distorted image they have of the person they idolize.

 

Some things which would shock foreign fans are public knowledge and taken for granted in Korea.

 

I'm not saying 진짜 빛을찾고 싶다   is 100% correct in his/her account of the story, only to listen carefully to what he/she says and that it's more believable and credible.

Sorry but korean or not, reporter or not, unless we are privy to their marriage, we really do not know the truth and these are all speculations. It is better to not speculate at all and accept the fact that their marriage has fallen apart.

 

What is most disheartening about this divorce, however, is that clearly misogyny is still so prevalent. A marriage fails and the woman’s past gets opened up again, making issues out of non-issues and painting her as someone wicked and terrible when we do not know the whole truth.

 

And may I clear that although I am more of an shk fan, I do not view her as an angel who can do no wrong. She’s human and as they say, to err is human. It is wrong, however, to crucify her without knowing the truth and hearing her side. Likewise, it is also wrong to blame sjk. And to those who say that shk fans are blinded by our adoration of her, remember that both sjk and shk are humans who can also make mistakes. Shk is no angel, and so is sjk. All these speculations really are not helping them.

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2 hours ago, 진짜 빛을찾고 싶다 said:

 

 

 

 

How do you know that those reporters are reliable? Personal channels?Im sure anybody can hv their personal channels and claimed to be reporters, so.....no need to update with reports from personal views of certain personal channels

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I think it’s sad. I am a fan of both of them but when I checked SHK’s thread here on soompi (I always do since years back) you can see that everyone’s just attacking Joong Ki. It breaks my heart because everyone thinks that feminism means always siding to the female even if they don’t know the whole story yet. Gosh, if you could read the nasty things, it’s heartbreaking. That’s why I symphatize to our Korean comrade here who just voiced out her support for Joong Ki. 

 

@babyskye please delete our comrades’ comment as it may cause harm to her

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56 minutes ago, babyskye said:

How do you know that those reporters are reliable? Personal channels?Im sure anybody can hv their personal channels and claimed to be reporters, so.....no need to update with reports from personal views of certain personal channels

Kindly don't post if you have nothing healthy to update

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30 minutes ago, dlvelasco said:

I think it’s sad. I am a fan of both of them but when I checked SHK’s thread here on soompi (I always do since years back) you can see that everyone’s just attacking Joong Ki. It breaks my heart because everyone thinks that feminism means always siding to the female even if they don’t know the whole story yet. Gosh, if you could read the nasty things, it’s heartbreaking. That’s why I symphatize to our Korean comrade here who just voiced out her support for Joong Ki. 

 

@babyskye please delete our comrades’ comment as it may cause harm to her

I agree that it is wrong as well to say nasty things about sjk. What I said about stopping the speculations and the blaming game goes for both shk and sjk fans. Such things will just make matters worse. However, our korean friend is also wrong to put down shk just because she thinks sjk is being unfairly judged. We can defend our biases without being nasty to the other party. Like I said, we are outsiders in their marriage and we do not know their truths. It is best to just pray for them and hope that they will be happy and better persons after this.

 

As to feminism, I agree that it is not about always siding with the woman. That’s why I also do not subscribe to pointing fingers to either of them since we do not know personally what happened between them. However, it is very disheartening to me that with the news of this divorce, almost immediately, shk’s past relationships were brought up and almost everyone jumped to the conclusion that her marriage falling apart is entirely her fault. That is where misogyny comes in and it is very unfair. I still believe that marriage involves only two persons. Apart from shk and sjk, no one knows anything. It is not the reporters’ story to tell, and it is most certainly not us, fans to tell. The whole truth is just between shk and sjk. So we should all stop speculating based on sources we do not even sure are reliable. We are all outsiders to their marriage and we can keep supporting them without insulting or bringing down the other.

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In a marriage there are two party involve and some times it will also involved their immediate families that will be affected.

 

We as their fans can only listen and think about it, however we are not there so let the 2 party work out their differences.

 

Who is in the wrong who is in the right there is no specific scales that can measure it, what happen to be wrong in your eyes will be right in the others and what is right will be wrong in others, so pls guys do not argue and bring backslash here.

 

We can air our grievance and misgivings however pls do remember to respect each other views.

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2 hours ago, sheng308 said:

I agree that it is wrong as well to say nasty things about sjk. What I said about stopping the speculations and the blaming game goes for both shk and sjk fans.

 

My post was not directed at you. This is about the posts that are circulating in SHK’s thread with a title - We stand by you! And I agree that misogyny is prevalent. I myself is a woman working in male dominated work force. However, if you notice, a chunk of SHK’s international fans (and most are female) have been saying things that are below the belt and I sympathize because not a lot of people support SJK. If you check the SJK  thread in soompi, it’s  silent and most are support post without raising speculations. I think that’s the more mature way of handling it. 

 

It makes me sad that people can’t be neutral and will easily blurt out “I trust you”  to one side without knowing all the details. Hope a messy divorce will not happen to any of their close families because their eyes will be opened about the evils a person can do - male or female.

 

I don’t want us to finally know the truth someday and eat our words. Just wish both of them well.  (this post is not directed at you @sheng308 but is a general statement. Peace and love)

 

 

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39 minutes ago, dlvelasco said:

 

My post was not directed at you. This is about the posts that are circulating in SHK’s thread with a title - We stand by you! And I agree that misogyny is prevalent. I myself is a woman working in male dominated work force. However, if you notice, a chunk of SHK’s international fans (and most are female) have been saying things that are below the belt and I sympathize because not a lot of people support SJK. If you check the SJK  thread in soompi, it’s  silent and most are support post without raising speculations. I think that’s the more mature way of handling it. 

 

It makes me sad that people can’t be neutral and will easily blurt out “I trust you”  to one side without knowing all the details. Hope a messy divorce will not happen to any of their close families because their eyes will be opened about the evils a person can do - male or female.

 

I don’t want us to finally know the truth someday and eat our words. Just wish both of them well.  (this post is not directed at you @sheng308 but is a general statement. Peace and love)

 

 

Sorry if it seemed like I was attacking you. I just wanted to clarify my statement about misogyny and my reply to our korean friend.

 

I agree with you. It makes me sad to read comments insulting shk or sjk as well. It is wrong to crucify either one of them because we do not know anything about their marriage and what they went through. It is sad that there are people who jump to conclusions right away when we all don’t know the whole truth and we are all just speculating. Regardless of the reason for ssc’s divorce, we cannot deny that they are both hurting and going through a very difficult time. As a fan of both, I still hold hope that they can work out any problem they have. Marriage is a lot of work and if there’s still a chance, I hope they choose to reconcile. However, if they don’t, let us respect their decisions without pointing fingers. I just hope that if they push through with the divorce, they both find peace and that things move smoothly. Let us not make things any harder for them. We can support them without destroying either one of them.

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