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[Sommelier]

how do i get a girl that's older than me to take me seriously?
i met this girl and we've been hanging out.  usually we'll do something active like jogging or tennis, then maybe grab a bite after.  she's 7 years older than me, and a lot of people say i look young for my age (especially girls in their late twenties, early thirties).   i'm not "interested" in her per se.  But she has a laidback, sweet personality, and is super smart and a go-getter. it would be nice to see where this goes.  i feel like she doesn't take me seriously.  she's always commenting on how young I am.  and i know older women flirting signals since it's common in the tennis scene, and she keeps her touching of me strictly platonic.  she texts me latenight, but again very platonic more "How was your day" type of stuff.    

[AsianChemNerd]

cristolephe said: How would you like somebody to confess to you?

[MrPower]

If you could get men to change things about themselves, what would you change?

[AsianChemNerd]

MrPower said: If you could get men to change things about themselves, what would you change?

[Guest atarie]

MrPower said: If you could get men to change things about themselves, what would you change?

[Guest HERMIT]

^
Well, I'm going to the toilet, right now, by myself, it's #2 so it'll at least be a good 10 min, and I expect I'll be back as soon as I am done.
But if it will take longer than that, I'll be sure to text you.
Or, in this case.....maybe PM you on your Soompi inbox.

Joking aside, I don't necessarily view it as stalkerish perse - but don't you think it could be borderline nagging?
I can understand women wanting their guys to "report in" - but I wonder to what point do they draw the line?

[Guest evehelen]

Stevent said: why do girls feel the need to go shopping all the time when they have a gazillon clothes in their closet when they dont even wear about 1/3 of them?

[Guest writerstale]

atarie said: MrPower said: If you could get men to change things about themselves, what would you change?

[Sommelier]

are you guilty of this? 

[MrPower]

Given a choice of eating out at a restaurant, or your boyfriend cooking you a meal at home, which would you choose?

[Guest]

MrPower said: Given a choice of eating out at a restaurant, or your boyfriend cooking you a meal at home, which would you choose?

[halfmoonsmile]

MrPower said: If you could get men to change things about themselves, what would you change?

[Guest roastedmilktea]

writerstale said:For learning purposes I wonder do most women feel this way?

[Guest HMR00]

MrPower said: Given a choice of eating out at a restaurant, or your boyfriend cooking you a meal at home, which would you choose?

[Guest madbrows]

Ideal stats on a guy? (Height, weight, body fat %, etc.)

[Guest taija]

@MrPower would definitely have him cook for me at home, i don't like going out and food tastes so much better when made by loved ones.
@Madbrows height - should be anywhere between 170cm and 190cm since I'm 160cm and i like being on my tippytoes when kissing.weight - anywhere between 70 and 80kgs, if he is muscular then i dont mind an extra 5kgs

[Guest atarie]

writerstale said:For learning purposes I wonder do most women feel this way?

[Sommelier]

atarie

said:

MrPower

said: If you could get men to change things about themselves, what would you change?

[Guest DeejayS]

would you date a boring person like me?

[Guest m.e]

What do you expect the most from a man in a relationship? Pretty Open Question.