[OFFICIAL] ♡ Lee Seung Gi ♥ Im Yoona ♡ YoonGi

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Coming here after seeing little forest. Loved the concept and performance. Btw the videos of little forest in youtube are full of shippers' wishful thinking about LSG & JSM ship specially after her recent break up. I too am hopeful for them. A shipper thread would be perfect for all the dissection of the stolen glances in the show. Both of them deserve good partners like each other.

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On 8/30/2020 at 2:40 AM, Indianfan said:

Coming here after seeing little forest. Loved the concept and performance. Btw the videos of little forest in youtube are full of shippers' wishful thinking about LSG & JSM ship specially after her recent break up. I too am hopeful for them. A shipper thread would be perfect for all the dissection of the stolen glances in the show. Both of them deserve good partners like each other.

 

It seems you lost on your way and missed the destination ;-)

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Although Yoona fans claim it must be her ... still unsure, so I’ve just put under 

 

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... yet ;-) 

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https://www.instagram.com/p/CEywAEtA9rG/

 

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I see the number of replies keeps reducing. Not sure what is getting removed and why.

 

 

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https://www.instagram.com/p/CFFPhbfFgbM/

 

 

http://www.leeseunggi.com/

 

[incoty]

Looking at Sang-min's face and most of all him agreeing with Soo-geun despite being completely clueless and not knowing why always cracks me up haha.

 

 

https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/12186/push-pull-relationship/

 

A little bit of push and pull is common in a relationship.

 

But it can define the entire relationship dynamic if it’s allowed to get out of control.

 

The psychology of a push-pull relationship is interesting. Both parties are seemingly unaware of their own behaviors that drive the cycle.

 

They continue to bounce back and forth between short periods of apparent peace, love, and harmony, and longer periods of discontent and friction.

 

This article will explore this dynamic and provide some advice on how to reduce the negative impact it has on current and future relationships.

Who Is Involved In A Push-Pull Relationship?

For the cycle to last, two types of people need to become partners.

 

If only one of these types is present, and the second person in the relationship has a healthier attachment style, things tend not to last long.

 

But when both of the following people come together, push-pull syndrome becomes a problem.

 

Person A

– Has a conscious fear of intimacy and an unconscious fear of abandonment.

– Has low self-esteem and so pursues romantic interests in order to feel worthy and lovable.

– Dislikes feeling suffocated by a relationship.

 

Person B

– Has a conscious fear of abandonment and an unconscious fear of intimacy.

– Has low self-esteem and so likes to be pursued in order to feel wanted and loved.

– Dislikes feeling insecure about a relationship.

 

How Does The Push-Pull Cycle Go?

The entire dynamic can be present from the very beginning of a relationship, although the cycles may start out taking a long time before growing shorter.

 

Stage 1 – The Pursuit

At first, person A’s low self-esteem will override their fear of intimacy and lead them to identify and pursue someone they are attracted to.

 

They may put on the charm, provide lots of attention, and buy lavish gifts.

 

Person B may initially play hard to get because their fear of abandonment means they are often reluctant to enter a relationship and make themselves vulnerable.

 

But their low self-esteem means they are eventually won over by the attention of person A. That attention makes them feel good about themselves.

 

Stage 2 – Bliss

For a while, the relationship seems to go well. Both person A and person B enjoy the excitement.

 

They spend increasing amounts of time together. They may become physically intimate.

 

The enjoyment they share is fairly superficial with few, if any, deep conversations.

 

Stage 3 – Withdrawal

After a while, person A will begin to feel overwhelmed by the relationship. They fear the intimacy that has begun to build.

 

They will want to escape it – or reduce the intensity, at least.

 

So they might become distant. They close themselves off physically and emotionally.

 

Stage 4 – Repelling

Have you ever taken two magnets and pointed the ends of the same polarity at each other?

 

One repels the other. It pushes it away.

 

This is a good analogy of what happens in this stage.

 

Person B, driven by their fear of abandonment, will now become the pursuer.

 

They will seek out the company and attention of person A.

 

But person A has the opposite wish – they just want to be by themselves.

 

So person A will feel more smothered and try to withdraw further.

 

This is just like one magnet repelling the other as it tries to get too close.

 

To person A, person B might come across as needy. They might feel criticized or nagged.

 

Stage 5 – Distancing

Eventually, person B will stop pursuing person A.

 

They do this to protect themselves. They consciously fear abandonment, but in the event that the relationship were to end, they want to minimize the hurt they feel.

 

Stage 6 – Reconciliation

At this point, person A gets the space they seek. The intimacy in the relationship has severely reduced.

 

It is now that person A’s unconscious fear of abandonment makes them look favorably at the relationship again. They see it as a better choice than being single.

 

Person A begins to pursue person B again. They may extend an olive branch of peace, shower person B with gifts and apologies, or do other things to win them round.

 

Person B, whilst initially reluctant, still wants to feel loved and wanted and so they begin to let person A back in.

 

They certainly see a breakup as a far less desirable option.

 

Stage 7 – Harmony

The relationship returns to a period of relative peace and happiness.

 

Person A is satisfied that the relationship didn’t get too deep or serious.

 

Person B is satisfied that the relationship didn’t end full stop.

 

As you might notice, stages 1 and 2 are very similar to stages 6 and 7. Essentially, they are the same, but stages 1 and 2 relate to a new relationship.

 

Once the cycle has completed the first time, stages 6 and 7 replace stages 1 and 2 so that the whole thing goes like this:

 

Stage 6 -> Stage 7 -> Stage 3 -> Stage 4 -> Stage 5 -> Stage 6 -> and so on.

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I had never read this and the comments. lol those who are in denial and those who acknowledge that it's them.

 

http://netizenbuzz.blogspot.com/2015/02/rumor-mill-top-male-idol-group-member.html

 

2. C and D are currently in a public relationship but have been spotted with some suspicious behavior after a recent bout of rumors surfaced claiming that they broke up. As they say, there's no smoke without fire, and their overly sensitive reaction to the rumors has people thinking that the rumors might just have some weight to them. C has already banned questions about his relationship being asked in public and D, when asked about C, overreacts to any talk about C. Their agencies have tried to put out some damage control by saying they're still dating happily, so perhaps the rumors were just a momentary rut in their relationship.

 

Not Yoona and Seungi...just about two weeks ago he confirmed they were still together.

 

You can't really trust Lee Seung Gi's word. If they indeed broke up ofcourse he will not tell the public as much as possible.

 

Lee Seung Gi is human being..lol..He is a good person,yes but don't tell he never lie..I'm not also saying it's them or hoping it's them. I'm just replying to someone who said it's not them just because Lee Seung Gi said that they still together..let's say they indeed broke up,do you think Lee Seung Gi will say that they broke up if he will ask by reporters?In the middle of promoting his movie?

 

It screamed Yoona and Lee Seung Gi. Those rumors have been going around for a while.

 

it's not, like other person said here, about two weeks ago Seung Gi talked about Yoona and he said that they were still together. I don't think it's Yoona and LSG

 

It's obviously Yoona-Seunggi lmao
there were tons of rumors of them breaking up
Seunggi had to even admit he was dating happily
there are a RickRoll'D ton of articles claiming they're happy
yoona reacts wittily to questions about seunggi

 

I feel that it's Yoona and Lee Seunggi because they always get asked about each other and they try to avoid them?

 

Stop saying C and D and Yoona and Seungi You dont know that. Let them be happy. Just because Seunggi avoids talking about the relationship doesn't mean its them. And there are no rumors of them breaking up.

 

My guess:
2: Lee Seunggi & Yoona

 

"overly sensitive reaction to the rumors has people thinking that the rumors might just have some weight to them. C has already banned questions about his relationship being asked in public and D, when asked about C, overreacts to any talk about C."

Hmm Idk it just sound like Seunggi and Yoona, but then this is just my guess.

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http://www.leeseunggi.com/

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It's been awhile. It resurfaced.