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[twinkle_little_star]

 

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[axelthefox]

 I wonder what happened to the electric guitar being in popular music?

 

Cause i like remember in the 80's it was in pop music back then, but lately i noticed pop songs don't have guitar in it and i'm like "where is the guitar?"

 

 

 

 

Both those songs have guitars or guitar solos.

 

I wonder what happened to the guitar being in pop music?

[Gumiho]

19 hours ago, nasvaytarasova said:

I'm too lazy to read all the posts, so this may have already been mentioned, but I'll ask. Girls, what do you think about online dating? Aren't you afraid of such men? It just seems to me that only perverts sit on such sites...

I think if we good to others then we will meet good people too. Whether online or offline <3

 

But if can better to date offline than online. Even in office we would prefer actual meeting than virtual meeting LOL. In the real meeting example like we always held at hotel we will have coffee break times twice a day and 3 times meals, compare to the online meeting we would not get snacks LOL.

 

Rather than affraid I would rather chooses to not believe easily. 
 

Well my friend get a good husband from online sites and now they are having 3 children. I think it’s depend on our faith and destiny <3 even in reality too we will meet perverts everywhere. 

[ceila]

On 3/23/2022 at 1:37 AM, nasvaytarasova said:

I'm too lazy to read all the posts, so this may have already been mentioned, but I'll ask. Girls, what do you think about online dating? Aren't you afraid of such men? It just seems to me that only perverts sit on such sites...

Online dating is a waste of time - at least for me. Quality men just aren’t there. I’ve met a few guys from online dating websites and each date was a disappointment. I wasn’t afraid of perverts since I met these guys in open, public places after having chatted a fair bit online. Paid websites will have more people who are serious about finding long term relationships. 

[Gumiho]

On 4/29/2022 at 5:15 AM, anton privetov said:

Girls, I always wanted to ask you a question, how do you feel about intimacy on the first date?

 

For me, It is okay as long as he has a promising future and is serious with me.

 

On 4/29/2022 at 5:15 AM, anton privetov said:

I often see that more and more girls register on dating sites here.

 

oh this one is dangerous. If meeting online make sure that you both will be meet offline and learn about her psychological first.

 

On 4/29/2022 at 5:15 AM, anton privetov said:

I certainly understand the benefits of casual dating, meeting dozens of new people. You get to know yourself better when you meet a lot of new guys or girls, this way you can make a lot of friends. Casual dating is a type of relationship in which you are more meaningful to yourself than to your partner. You can turn down a date invitation if you want to spend time with pizza and Netflix or with friends.

I am 37 and a mama so I like money more than to be more meaningful to my self. Hahahaaa.. 

From my POV, I will turn down a date invitation if he does not have a permanent job hahahahaa..

because of the butterfly effect I like to feel is the feeling when my partner give me money. The mirth feels different. HAHAHA  I am sorry but I am very serious about my materialistic statements. Hahahaa

[Gumiho]

59 minutes ago, steveaonson said:

How do you behave when you notice that your girlfriend is cheating on you? How do you behave when you didn't notice before, but now you start noticing SignsCheating?
 

 

Just ask her.. tenderly.. ahem ^O^ .. why are you cheating on me? Just ask her: you want me or him? But don’t make this sound like a judgement.. make it more tender.. and soft.. and sweet.. even if it will be difficult for you to handle your emotion but anything that be talked in a low soft tender discussion, the solution will be satisfying <3

 

59 minutes ago, steveaonson said:

 

I'm wondering why, if you don't like a man, why not just talk to him, try to change him or find out the reason for his behavior?

 

Sometimes it is not about we, women, don’t like his behavior.. sometimes it is just about feelings and the butterfly effect that we feel inside our stomach when we stare at that someone.
 

btw nobody can change anybody if they are older than 25. It’s s character. No one can change anyone’s character. 
 

in a relationship at the end it’s about the agreement. It is more like agreeing with our man/partner weakness and strength. And live with it.

 

59 minutes ago, steveaonson said:

I think it's better to deal with this relationship than to just run away from it or try to shut yourself off from all the problems and pretend like there's nothing going on. 

 

I agree.

 

If I have problem like this with my bf or man I will just come to him and kiss him tenderly and soft and make him forget that he feels that I cheat on him. I can sing too for him if he wants me to.. after kissing him tenderly.. and after that…

 

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[Simon Miller]

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Online dating is a waste of time - at least for me. Quality men just aren’t there. I’ve met a few guys from online dating websites and each date was a disappointment. I wasn’t afraid of perverts since I met these guys in open, public places after having chatted a fair bit online. Paid websites will have more people who are serious about finding long term relationships. 

I noticed that women often have exactly this opinion about online dating. It's strange for me because as a man I often meet very interesting women. Maybe it's because my interests are more related to asian dating. You gain more self-confidence when you realize that you can easily communicate with new people and find common topics. However, I do not refuse ordinary casual acquaintances (on the street, at a party).

[KaiTan]

What's something that always makes you laugh or smile?

[Leo Wong]

Is there a skill or talent you've always wanted to develop?

[aircompanion12]

In discussions about female perspectives on behaviors and relationships, it's crucial to acknowledge the diversity of experiences and preferences among women. Preferences in men vary widely, encompassing qualities such as kindness, confidence, and humor. The importance of personality often surpasses physical appearance, emphasizing qualities like intelligence and emotional understanding. Actions that might seem puzzling to men, such as valuing deep communication or emotional connection, highlight the significance of understanding and expressing feelings. Effective communication, both verbal and non-verbal, plays a pivotal role, with women often appreciating openness and subtle gestures. Balancing independence with a supportive partnership is a common theme, where emotional support takes precedence, emphasizing the significance of empathy over immediate solutions. It's essential to recognize the uniqueness of individual perspectives while fostering open communication for a deeper understanding in relationships.

[hanging_with_my_gnomies]

On 2/23/2024 at 8:40 AM, KaiTan said:

What's something that always makes you laugh or smile?

 

I really like watching videos of small baby animals. Their sweet little faces and the way they play always make me happy. It's like an instant mood booster.

 

[mns321]

haha sweet

[hmrhn]

On 2/23/2024 at 7:40 AM, KaiTan said:

What's something that always makes you laugh or smile?

There are several things.

 

Healthy kids: they are so lovely, innocent, kind hearted, no prejudices.

A funny sitcom series: basically it's already fun and light hearted, we don't have to think.

The nature: walking in the nature, watching trees moving in the wind, blooming, branches w. no leaves in winter, listening to birds whistling....

 

But it's just me, not all the girls laugh/smile at them.

 

[singlebilingual]

1. If a random guy and you were being threatened, and that guy yelled back or even used violence to protect you, would that turn you off? Would you distrust him? Would it make you feel uncomfortable? Or would that make you feel grateful?

 

2. What do you think of a guy who can play a musical instrument? What do you think of a guy who can draw? And what do you think of a guy who can dance?

 

3. How would you feel if your boyfriend revealed himself to be wealthy months after you two began to date? Would you think he was being humble, or would you think he was being dishonest?

 

4. What do you think of a tall guy? Would you go out with a guy who's 5 years younger than you? Would you go out with a guy who's 10 years older than you?

 

5. Who's your favourite male movie character? Who's your favourite female movie character?

 

6. Who's your favourite stand-up comedian?

 

7. What was your most scariest experience?

 

8. What was your happiest moment?

[hmrhn]

On 3/18/2024 at 9:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

1. If a random guy and you were being threatened, and that guy yelled back or even used violence to protect you, would that turn you off? Would you distrust him? Would it make you feel uncomfortable? Or would that make you feel grateful?

If it's a dangerous situation & violence is needed, I would be grateful. But I don't want that kind of situation happens.

 

On 3/18/2024 at 9:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

2. What do you think of a guy who can play a musical instrument? What do you think of a guy who can draw? And what do you think of a guy who can dance?

 

My 1st thought is that: he's very interesting, artistic and we may have many common things. A bit later, I think: it's so good, but let's see. Because I know a man who is quite good at many things, but his character is not OK.

 

On 3/18/2024 at 9:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

3. How would you feel if your boyfriend revealed himself to be wealthy months after you two began to date? Would you think he was being humble, or would you think he was being dishonest?

Are you describing a perfect man for every girl (draw, dance, wealthy...)?

It's OK for me. I think, he does not want to show his wealthy at the beginning because showing it to every body is maybe not good for him.

But at least, don't pretend to be so poor & have many difficulties. That can push me away. Because this life is real & I am although romantic but I try to be reasonable.

 

[Gumiho]

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

1. If a random guy and you were being threatened, and that guy yelled back or even used violence to protect you, would that turn you off? Would you distrust him? Would it make you feel uncomfortable? Or would that make you feel grateful?

 

I think I wimm be grateful. But I hope any problems will be solve in peace and tenderness 

 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

2. What do you think of a guy who can play a musical instrument? What do you think of a guy who can draw? And what do you think of a guy who can dance?

 

then this is an artistic guy. Means he is creative and imajinative. Possibly romantic too. sometimes people who can draw also a intelligent and clever person. 
 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

3. How would you feel if your boyfriend revealed himself to be wealthy months after you two began to date? Would you think he was being humble, or would you think he was being dishonest?

 

I think he is a humble person. 
 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

4. What do you think of a tall guy? Would you go out with a guy who's 5 years younger than you? Would you go out with a guy who's 10 years older than you?

 

I could even go with a guy who is 15 years older than me as long as he has good manners and we both can enjoy our moments and conversations. Oh and the most important is if he wants to pray together with me and go to the church together. Chemistry is something you could not just find everyday
 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

5. Who's your favourite male movie character? Who's your favourite female movie character?

 

I think I love mr darcy or colin bridgerton. 
 

my favorite female characther is daphnee bridgerton. Her characther describes me perfectly. Traditional, wants to be a good wife but also love and feelings are important for us. We both are perfectionist
 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

6. Who's your favourite stand-up comedian?

 

my minister. He is the best stand up comedian and also a very bright obgyn

 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

7. What was your most scariest experience?

 

working with my secretary boss now HUA HA HA HA I feel so scary every monday oh gosh.

 

On 3/18/2024 at 10:23 PM, singlebilingual said:

 

8. What was your happiest moment?

when I am having my 2 little princes. Feels like I am success as a woman hehehe. Like making 100 scores lol. 

[hanbook1]

On 6/27/2007 at 10:22 AM, Guest Stevent said:

why do girls feel the need to go shopping all the time when they have a gazillon clothes in their closet when they dont even wear about 1/3 of them?

 

simple answer. just not my taste anymore

[hmrhn]

On 6/27/2007 at 8:22 AM, Guest Stevent said:

why do girls feel the need to go shopping all the time when they have a gazillon clothes in their closet when they dont even wear about 1/3 of them?

Good question haha....

Just your question is enough, no need to answer.

 

yeah, me too, not addictive but I also have a big closet.

I go shopping just for fun, hopping that new beautiful clothes will make me cheer up, blow away some kind of sadness inside me. Many times, it doesn't help or it helps just a little bit.

 

After a hard working week at office and also housework, shopping is something to relax.

 

Sometimes I really need to have new clothes for events, sometimes I want to buy something to be creative, to play mix and match with the thing I already have, just follow the urge to create, to be me.

[Gumiho]

Girls need to go shopping all the time because we love fashion and we love to have many many many clothes for references 😆 and we need to update our fashion too. Like me today I bought 4 tutu skirt from shoppee. 4!! I feel guilty to my husband but also I feel satisfy 🤣

and why must I bought 4 tutu skirt? Because I need to have 4 different tutu colors and model. Lol. 
oh ya just.. I also now confusing between which adidas samba I want to buy. I am a pink girl but white black samba looks chic and confusing must I buy samba first or a pink new balance 327. And I think in the future I need 2 colors of adidas samba and 2 colors of new balance 327.

See.. 

[Tayne]

Why do you care sm about Idols?