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14 minutes ago, hrkharis said:

 

Thank you @fiona for the photos and video.


When SJH gave her speech, she seemed to be holding back her tears so that her voice was choked.

 

Why do I suddenly become sentimental, feel sorry for her and my tears come out ?...... 

 

It's probably because I remembered when she said at ILA that 
"When ILA gets aired my mother will worry a lot because I won't be able to find someone to marry me".......

 

And it made the hosts answer simultaneously:
"Come on" ..... "That's not true" ..

 

Hopefully that beautiful day will soon come to her, the day when the handsome man who is very smitten with her proposes and marries her. 

 

 

In body language, talking with your mouth covered is a blatant sign of lying. I believe that SJH was lying when he said this. Hahaha

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Just sharing a photo of Ji Hye with two guests in the wedding. Ji Hye is so beautiful and elegant in black. I just noticed she is wearing a very beautiful ring on her left hand ❤

 

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5 hours ago, SexyDolceVita said:

@fiona628

 

Usually at celebrity weddings, sjh will glam up a bit.

But for bestie's wedding, seems like sjh made an effort to wear simple makeup and dress typical suit look so as to stay low profile because she was one of the rare celebrities at bestie's wedding.

Sjh is really a very thoughtful person.

I hope ssh realises this and appreciates her thoughtful quality...

 

:sparklyeyes:

 

You're right. SJH looked very modest at her best friend's wedding, while she looked a little glamorous when attending her celebrity friend's wedding.

 

Seems in Korea there is like an unwritten rule, that when we as ordinary people (non-celebrities) get married, we will of course invite our school friends and office colleagues.

They will come to the wedding with dress code tends to be more on semi-formal or even business attire remember most of the guests made up of co-workers. For men are generally a basic suit and tie, for women are a dress or a blazer with trousers or skirt formal.

 

Meanwhile, when we are celebrities, of course our friends will come to the wedding with their own unique style, including female guests sometimes wearing shorts. 

(It was very surprising to me, because in my culture, when we attend weddings we have to appear formal and festive).

 

And it seems SJH adjusted herself to the event considering her friend is not a celebrity.

She wore a black knee-length overslag dress with light makeup and loose hair. 

 

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She chose black color, besides it seems to be the dress code for the bridal friends as well as so that the bride and groom become visible when taking photos together.

 

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We look back at the drama DM, where WDH attended a school friend's wedding.

There, she wore a yellow suit with an overslag blazer style top.

 

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So it seems that the semi-formal business style is the outfit that Korean people generally wear when attending weddings.


But whatever SJH wears, she's still "pretty Seo Ji-hye".

 

https://wanderlustified.wordpress.com/2015/12/09/going-to-your-first-korean-wedding-an-etiquette-guide/

 

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@hrkharis, you’re welcome my dear.

 

Yes SJH looks beautiful in anything she wears. In fact she will stand out and still look beautiful wearing just a rag. Blame it on her Big, Beautiful eyes. Her piercing eyes hits through your soul. 


She dressed low key so as not to steal Sunmin’s thunder. It’s her moment to shine and SJH does not want to rob her of her moment. 

This is so endearing of SJH. She just want to stay low key and not get noticed but we still noticed her because you cannot deny the fact she still stood out with her simple outfit and no eye make up look. 

I am reminded of the KNTV interview where SSH took the backseat and made SJH shine by letting her do the talking first. 

And at that time maybe SSH also realized that he is blessed to have this beautiful, intellectual, witty, loving person in his life

And he better not let her go!

 

This is my favorite wedding look of SJH from Ahn Jae Wook’s wedding. The dress is actually very simple but she looked hot on it. Imagine if she dressed up like that on Sunmin’s wedding. 
Chaebols, CEO’s would want to be around her. :) 

 

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Although I don’t think SSH will allow her to wear short skirts anymore. We know how jealous he can get. :) 

 

So now Sunmin is married she would probably have to move out in the same apartment building where she stays with SJH. I hope she will not get lonely now that most of her girlfriends are married and now Sunmin is no longer available to hang out with. Good thing she has Dr. Brain to shoot and keep herself busy with. 
 

My hope is for her own wedding to come true soon. 
 

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@fiona628

You meant bestie will move out of either the same building or same neighbourhood as sjh? Yes for sure, after the wedding.

You do know they dont live in the same apartment together. Bestie has her own apartment near sjh's apartment, and i've seen some photos on bestie's ig. It isnt big.

So bestie will not be able to hang out w sjh as often as before after moving away.

Sjh cant call bestie and say 15 mins before she turns up with sjh's fave indian jujubes.

 

But did u all notice how bestie didnt cry when sjh made her speech?

If im getting married and my best friend has no bf and is reaching her 40s and will be all alone after i move away, i think i will weep when my bestie is making a lovely speech for me and my husband at my wedding. Because i cant bear for my best friend to feel lonely and be all alone.

But....if my best friend is no longer single and i know she has someone she cld depend on in her life and she wont be all alone, i wont cry when my best friend is making that speech. Because deep in my heart, im not worried about leaving my best friend because she has found her lover too.

 

What do you all think?

 

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4 hours ago, SexyDolceVita said:

@fiona628

Sjh cant call bestie and say 15 mins before she turns up with sjh's fave indian jujubes.

 

But did u all notice how bestie didnt cry when sjh made her speech?

If im getting married and my best friend has no bf and is reaching her 40s and will be all alone after i move away, i think i will weep when my bestie is making a lovely speech for me and my husband at my wedding. Because i cant bear for my best friend to feel lonely and be all alone.

But....if my best friend is no longer single and i know she has someone she cld depend on in her life and she wont be all alone, i wont cry when my best friend is making that speech. Because deep in my heart, im not worried about leaving my best friend because she has found her lover too.

 

What do you all think?

 

 

@SexyDolceVita, Maybe you’re right that they don’t live in the same building. Maybe just in the same neighborhood.

 

Sunmin did not cry because she knows SJH is not single anymore and she knows SJH will be on very good hands with a guy who we all know is not only handsome but stable, loving, nurturing and has it all together.

We all know who that is. :) 

 

SJH almost teared up not because she will be lonely but mainly because she will be missing spending time with Sunmin now that she needs to prioritize her husband first.

They were inseparable for years like sisters from another mother. I am sure SJH herself understands that family comes first for Sunmin now she is married. 
Because with SJH, family also comes first.

 

My gut feel says, SJH’s time will come soon.

 

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8 hours ago, fiona628 said:

 

@SexyDolceVita, Maybe you’re right that they don’t live in the same building. Maybe just in the same neighborhood.

 

Sunmin did not cry because she knows SJH is not single anymore and she knows SJH will be on very good hands with a guy who we all know is not only handsome but stable, loving, nurturing and has it all together.

We all know who that is. 

 

SJH almost teared up not because she will be lonely but mainly because she will be missing spending time with Sunmin now that she needs to prioritize her husband first.

They were inseparable for years like sisters from another mother. I am sure SJH herself understands that family comes first for Sunmin now she is married. 
Because with SJH, family also comes first.

 

My gut feel says, SJH’s time will come soon.

 

Oh lord i really pray they are together...

Because i just can't read sjh sometimes...

She is very good in being stealth about her relationship status.

Sometimes i get the i'm still single and i'm not seeing anyone vibe from her.

 

Ssh, on the other hand, is a half open book and thus easier to read.

Why half? Because he also seems to be updating his ig lesser after dm ended.

Even with Voice 4, he also updated lesser photos.

 

Btw sjh bestie's husband seems quite well to do....he wears branded clothes and the wedding seems quite expensive... and he seems a bit younger than bestie. Hope he treats bestie well because sjh will go kick his RickRoll'D if he doesnt!

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52 minutes ago, SexyDolceVita said:

Oh lord i really pray they are together...

Because i just can't read sjh sometimes...

She is very good in being stealth about her relationship status.

Sometimes i get the i'm still single and i'm not seeing anyone vibe from her.

 

Ssh, on the other hand, is a half open book and thus easier to read.

Why half? Beacuse he also seems to be updating his ig lesser after dm ended.

Even with Voice 4, he also updated lesser photos.

 

Btw sjh bestie's husband seems quite well to do....he wears branded clothes and the wedding seems quite expensive... and he seems a bit younger than bestie. Hope he treats bestie well because sjh will go kick his RickRoll'D if he doesnt!

 

You said the same doubt that also happened between SSH and his ex, he was always more explicit by posting many pictures of her on weibo in the promotion of the movie, while she was more discreet. And I was reading news from him in an interview in China, that in 2012 he had chosen his ex as his chinese ideal type. Well, we also have SSH's statement in the japanese interview where he says that SJH is the first one that comes to his mind.

Plus the photo he posted wearing the same gray hooded sweatshirt as SJH, which I don't think is a coincidence. Let's wait for the dispatch. 

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17 minutes ago, Siomara said:

Well, we also have SSH's statement in the japanese interview where he says that SJH is the first one that comes to his mind. Let's wait for the dispatch. 


@Siomara, thank you for this reminder. 
That is our very big crumb.

 

@SexyDolceVita, please trust the crumbs!

We have 124 pages of proofs. 

Please Dear, no more back and forth doubts on this ship :) 

SJH is giving off the “I am single” vibes to stir away from dating rumors.

That is her strategy. 

As long as we do not get outright “denial” from our Lovebirds, they are dating.  
Just keep the Faith on our couple. 
 

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6 hours ago, fiona628 said:

 

@SexyDolceVita, Maybe you’re right that they don’t live in the same building. Maybe just in the same neighborhood.

 

Sunmin did not cry because she knows SJH is not single anymore and she knows SJH will be on very good hands with a guy who we all know is not only handsome but stable, loving, nurturing and has it all together.

We all know who that is. :) 

 

SJH almost teared up not because she will be lonely but mainly because she will be missing spending time with Sunmin now that she needs to prioritize her husband first.

They were inseparable for years like sisters from another mother. I am sure SJH herself understands that family comes first for Sunmin now she is married. 
Because with SJH, family also comes first.

 

My gut feel says, SJH’s time will come soon.

 

 

 

How can someone not be touched and cried when her best friend gave a speech of support for her happiness and sadness because of "separation" in the sense of status?

 

Try to pay closer attention. Sunmin was touched and tried to hold back her tears hearing SJH's speech.
Her husband turned to her and calmed her down.

 

Sunmin realized that on her happy day she shouldn't be a crybaby, even though her cry was tears of happiness.
She had to show her happiness in front of her close people and guests. And her husband seemed to give her support not to cry on their happy day.

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57 minutes ago, hrkharis said:

 

 

How can someone not be touched and cried when her best friend gave a speech of support for her happiness and sadness because of "separation" in the sense of status?

 

Try to pay closer attention. Sunmin was touched and tried to hold back her tears hearing SJH's speech.
Her husband turned to her and calmed her down.

 

Sunmin realized that on her happy day she shouldn't be a crybaby, even though her cry was tears of happiness.
She had to show her happiness in front of her close people and guests. And her husband seemed to give her support not to cry on their happy day.


@hrkharis, I was simply addressing the question on why Sunmin did not cry due to “Because i cant bear for my best friend to feel lonely and be all alone”

 

Of course Sunmin was touched with SJH’s speech. That is very evident. I never said she was not touched with SJH’s speech. :) 


I’m just saying she probably did not cry just because she will leave her BFF alone and lonely. Because I believe she in good hands with our guy :)

But you’re right Sunmin teared up when SJH was delivering her speech. Those are tears of happiness. 

We along with SJH are happy for her.

 

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White V Day today.

Will they update igs?

 

Has ssh sent sjh flowers, chocs and his love today even though he is probably still in jeju?

 

Choose :heart: if you think they will update ig today.

Choose :glasses: if you think they will not update ig today.

 

 

 

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Vaguely translated version of sjh's speech at bestie's wedding:


Hi, I am Ji Yu Eonni's good friend Seo Ji Hye.

It is a pleasure to meet everyone.

First of all, I would like to extend my gratitude and appreciation to all of the guests who have come to this wedding with best wishes today.

Ji Yu Eonni is a very bubbly and optimistic person.

In the precious times we have been together, we have shared lots of laughter and tears.

I would like to send my love and gratitude to Eonni for creating these lovely memories with me.

My precious Eonni is getting married now.

A few months ago in I Live Alone program, I've asked her to live with me if none of us is married. 

However, she declined me without hesitance and said she wanted to find a man who can brush her teeth for her. 

She has met Jong Hun. 

So, has he brushed your teeth already?

He said he will brush her teeth properly, so he has qualified.

To be honest, I am a little sad.

But when I see how Jong Hun always looks at Eonni with such warmth, my sadness has dissipated.

I told Jong Hun, "If you want to take Eonni away (voice cracks, clears throat), both of you have to dine with me at least 10 times." So far, we only ate together once.

I believe Jong Hun is a man of his words and will keep to his promise.

Although I've only known Jong Hun for a short period of time, I will continue to observe and affirm whether he loves Eonni sincerely and continuously.

Last but not least, 'There are stars in the sky, there are flowers on the land' means there is love in this world.

I wish both of your hearts will be filled with love forever.

My genuine heartfelt best wishes to both of you.

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2 hours ago, fiona628 said:


@hrkharis, I was simply addressing the question on why Sunmin did not cry due to “Because i cant bear for my best friend to feel lonely and be all alone”

 

Of course Sunmin was touched with SJH’s speech. That is very evident. I never said she was not touched with SJH’s speech. :) 


I’m just saying she probably did not cry just because she will leave her BFF alone and lonely. Because I believe she in good hands with our guy :)

But you’re right Sunmin teared up when SJH was delivering her speech. Those are tears of happiness. 

We along with SJH are happy for her.

 

 

 

I mean talking about "why does Sunmin not cry" because besides here, I read the chit chat in the IG Dinner Mate message, where this is also discussed there.

 

I just see the problem in general that there is no single person who will not cry when their best friend during their single life then one of them is married. 

 

If we look at it "positively", a bride cries because she is happy to have left her single life and will go through life with the man she loves.
Meanwhile, if we look at it "negatively", a bride cries because she realizes that her life will not be the same after marriage, where she will feel that she has lost the "times of freedom" with her best friend and can no longer be as she wants when she was single.

 

It is like SJH once said in ILA that:

"A time to me to focus on myself. I think I won't have a chance to be by myself later.

I might get married one day and I might have a kid too.
So I often think that I should spend more time focusing only on myself"

 

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The point is while she's not married yet, she will focus on herself.

One day when she gets married she doesn't have a chance just for herself, because she has a husband and children who will be her focus later.

 

 

Sunmin and SJH both held back their tears as it seemed they had made a best friend's promise that they would not cry when their once-in-a-lifetime moment of happiness arrived.

 

So if we see in the video that Sunmin is trying to hold back her tears by laughing it doesn't mean she doesn't want to show sadness in front of SJH because SJH will be alone and lonely, but it's because Sunmin wants her marriage to be a moment of joy for her like their promise of friendship.

Even if SJH was married at that time, Sunmin would still hold back her tears.

 

I am sure that if SJH gets married one day, she will also try not to cry in front of Sunmin because SJH wants to feel once in a lifetime moment with happiness.

 

Hopefully SJH once in a lifetime moment coming soon .....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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"I told Jong Won, "If you want to take Eonni away (voice cracks, clears throat), both of you have to dine with me at least 10 times." So far, we only ate together once."

 

How funny that she talks about this deal of having dinner together ... Very curious! Dinner Mate still continues in her mind ... Hahahaha 

 

:winkx:

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5 hours ago, SexyDolceVita said:

Vaguely translated version of sjh's speech at bestie's wedding:


Hi, I am Ji Yu Eonni's good friend Seo Ji Hye.

It is a pleasure to meet everyone.

First of all, I would like to extend my gratitude and appreciation to all of the guests who have come to this wedding with best wishes today.

Ji Yu Eonni is a very bubbly and optimistic person.

In the precious times we have been together, we have shared lots of laughter and tears.

I would like to send my love and gratitude to Eonni for creating these lovely memories with me.

My precious Eonni is getting married now.

A few months ago in I Live Alone program, I've asked her to live with me if none of us is married. 

However, she declined me without hesitance and said she wanted to find a man who can brush her teeth for her. 

She has met Jong Won. 

So, has he brushed your teeth already?

He said he will brush her teeth properly, so he has qualified.

To be honest, I am a little sad.

But when I see how Jong Won always looks at Eonni with such warmth, my sadness has dissipated.

I told Jong Won, "If you want to take Eonni away (voice cracks, clears throat), both of you have to dine with me at least 10 times." So far, we only ate together once.

I believe Jong Won is a man of his words and will keep to his promise.

Although I've only known Jong Won for a short period of time, I will continue to observe and affirm whether he loves Eonni sincerely and continuously.

Last but not least, 'There are stars in the sky, there are flowers on the land' means there is love in this world.

I wish both of your hearts will be filled with love forever.

My genuine heartfelt best wishes to both of you.

 

@SexyDolceVita.. Thank you so much for sharing the translation

 

As she said, SJH is sad, but also happy that her besties finally found a good guy.

 

I really hope that Sunmin's marriage will support her new thought about Love, which is changed from passive into active in Love, of course to the man that i believe she has found already.. SJH said that she will convey her feeling completely if she meet someone..And I hope, this time she will convey her thought about marriage and how to raise a happy family so that it can bring this couple closer to the M word

 

Wishing her to be the next bride, with the groom that can comfort each other like a friend..

 

And for now, its only one man could.. Yeah, its our man, SSH :Ohboy3:

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