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[Guest Je t'aime]

My ex-gf was a very cruel person and really messed up the image of a girl...

Do you think I have to move on and look towards the bright side?

Or.. keep freaking out whenever I see girls and look down on them all the time?

i dont know what your deal was with that girl.. but really.. not all girls are cruel.. just because one girl messed you up.. doesn't mean.. all girls are going to do that to you.. but if you really want to swear off girls.. go right ahead.. that's your decision.. but i hope you dont lose hope on love or girls.. in that matter..

so.. i guess what i mean is.. move on.. and look on the bright side.. one girl shouldn't mess you up like that...

[Guest xt1naaa]

My ex-gf was a very cruel person and really messed up the image of a girl...

Do you think I have to move on and look towards the bright side?

Or.. keep freaking out whenever I see girls and look down on them all the time?

Everybody is different and not all girls are cruel. I admit that some are, but most arent.

You should look on the bright side/move on and try to pick the good from the bad.

[Guest aironeousB]

This question is for the female asian americans which means you are over here right now in the U.S..

Do you prefer a guy that speaks more than one language?

If he (your bf or potential bf) does not speak more than one language do you think of him as stupid?

If he does, is it impressive or appreciated a lot if you are going out with a non-asian guy?

Also the same question but the other language he knows is not an asian language.

[Guest predator]

My ex-gf was a very cruel person and really messed up the image of a girl...

Do you think I have to move on and look towards the bright side?

Or.. keep freaking out whenever I see girls and look down on them all the time?

You should move on & look towards the bright side.

Not all girls are cruel. =]

Don't freak out & look down on all girls just because of your ex.

This questions is for the female asian americans which means you are over here right now in the U.S..

Do you prefer a guy that speaks more than one language?

If he (your bf or potential bf) does not speak more than one language do you think of him as stupid?

If he does, is it impressive or appreciated a lot if you are going out with a non-asian guy?

Also the same question but the other language he knows is not an asian language.

-I don't prefer a guy that speaks more than one language, but it'd be nice if he did. ;D

-No, I wouldn't think my potential BF is stupid if he didn't know more than one language. I can't judge him from the number of languages he knows.

-If I go out with a guy who knows more than one language, I think it might be a little impressive, but the relationship is not about how many languages the guy knows. =]

-If he doesn't know an Asian language but knows a non-Asian language, I think it's fine.

[Guest tropical_star91]

My ex-gf was a very cruel person and really messed up the image of a girl...Do you think I have to move on and look towards the bright side?Or.. keep freaking out whenever I see girls and look down on them all the time?

Definitely move on and look towards the bright side because not every girl is the same and I'm pretty sure that there are a lot nicer and better girls out there than your ex.

This questions is for the female asian americans which means you are over here right now in the U.S..Do you prefer a guy that speaks more than one language? If he (your bf or potential bf) does not speak more than one language do you think of him as stupid?If he does, is it impressive or appreciated a lot if you are going out with a non-asian guy?Also the same question but the other language he knows is not an asian language.

Honestly, I don't care about HOW MANY languages he can speak just as long as we both have a language in common so then it'll be easier for us to communicate.

[Guest kiss_bunny]

1) What specific thing can a guy do to make your knees weak?

2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?

3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time?

1) i got lots of this. I guess holding both my hands facing me and telling me "i love you" and really mean it. he has to say it while looking at me. OR giving me the mos softest kiss ever.

2)insecurity? So i dont feel like the guy stopped loving me.

3) why do guys like to be correct? this question is for anyone. everyone likes to be right.

Got another one, what do you girls think of a guy that is good with kids?

its different taking care of a little kid than his gf. i mean little kids are soo cute and a ball of energy. It tells girls that the boy just doesn't care for himself and cares about others, and loves kids...who doesn''t like kids?

[Guest tropical_star91]

If I kissed a girl when she's just my friend, do I have to go out with her because I kissed her?

Is it okay if I act like nothing happened the next day?

It depends on where you kissed her. If you kissed her on the lips, then you got some explaining to do, but if you kissed her on the cheeks, then it should be fine (depending on the girl). No, it is not okay to act like nothing happened the next day.

[Guest tropical_star91]

Your boobs. Do you ladies know when we're looking at your chest? If so, what is it like? Do you ever feel like yelling at us? Or do you find it flattering?

If the guy was my bf, then I wouldn't mind, but if the guy wasn't my bf, then I would mind and ask them "what are you looking at?"

[Guest MoiraElla]

If the guy was my bf, then I wouldn't mind, but if the guy wasn't my bf, then I would mind and ask them "what are you looking at?"

agreed. i can tell immediately if someone is looking at my boobs

its so ANNOYING AND UGH i would yell at them and say "WHY DON'T YOU JUST TAKE A PICTURE, IT'LL LAST LONGER"

puahah I don't think it's flattering at all, if they're not hot or hot, it's rude. esp if I'm having a conversation with you.

[Guest michele17]

If I kissed a girl when she's just my friend, do I have to go out with her because I kissed her?

Is it okay if I act like nothing happened the next day?

u dont HAVE to go out with her, but u got to talk about it the next dayy

[wasabi29]

My ex-gf was a very cruel person and really messed up the image of a girl...

Do you think I have to move on and look towards the bright side?

Or.. keep freaking out whenever I see girls and look down on them all the time?

Don't move on, yeah all girls are cruel and that includes your mum. Yeah, look down on them too and have a spazz attack while you're at it

[Guest what~the~vu]

So, this girl just got out of a really bad relationship. she liked me but made herself stop because she doesnt want a relationship... so know we are friends. do you think she will ever look at me as being more than a friend anymore?

[wasabi29]

So, this girl just got out of a really bad relationship. she liked me but made herself stop because she doesnt want a relationship... so know we are friends. do you think she will ever look at me as being more than a friend anymore?

No, she'll never look at you as just a friend but the timing is wrong, like you said..she just got out from a bad relationship so you need to give yourself and her TIME..You don't wanna be the rebound guy, right? So just stand by her side and let things take it's own course by itself.

[Guest Bamidele]

I was wondering when the ladies would create this thread...this will be interesting.

[Guest 강유미]

Don't move on, yeah all girls are cruel and that includes your mum. Yeah, look down on them too and have a spazz attack while you're at it

I'll move on, because you sound like a loser.

[Guest lily-chan]

If I kissed a girl when she's just my friend, do I have to go out with her because I kissed her?

Is it okay if I act like nothing happened the next day?

Oh no no no! Don't act like nothing happened the next day! That messes us up real good! But no, you don't have to go out with her. You'll have tell her though, or she might be freaking confused.

This questions is for the female asian americans which means you are over here right now in the U.S..

Do you prefer a guy that speaks more than one language?

If he (your bf or potential bf) does not speak more than one language do you think of him as stupid?

If he does, is it impressive or appreciated a lot if you are going out with a non-asian guy?

Also the same question but the other language he knows is not an asian language.

As long as I'm able to communicate with him, its fine. Although, it gets sometimes on my nerves when people have heavy accents in french(main language for where I come from) and english. It is always impressive when a guy knows many languages... but useless in a relationship if I don't speak or understand it.

So, this girl just got out of a really bad relationship. she liked me but made herself stop because she doesnt want a relationship... so know we are friends. do you think she will ever look at me as being more than a friend anymore?

Well probably she will since she already liked you. Just give her time. But if you see that its really leading nowhere, just move on.

[Guest what~the~vu]

No, she'll never look at you as just a friend but the timing is wrong, like you said..she just got out from a bad relationship so you need to give yourself and her TIME..You don't wanna be the rebound guy, right? So just stand by her side and let things take it's own course by itself.

its been like 5 months since they broke up...shes just doesnt want to feel hurt again....booo for bad timing

[NaughtyDog]

its been like 5 months since they broke up...shes just doesnt want to feel hurt again....booo for bad timing

Yeah, 5 months seems like a long time, but for a serious relationship or a relationship that ended on really bad terms, it takes a long time for a girl to get over an ex. Has she told you straight up that she liked you or is it just something that you assume? Because a lot of girls use that as a way to reject someone without actually rejecting them flat out lol.

[Guest sxc-babi_vu]

Q. Do ugly girls get married or they plan to live as a single for the rest of their lives?

Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?

Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?

Q. Why are girls materialistic?

~yes a matter of fact even ugly girls get marriedd-.-

~because we do not want to discuss it to the public and get humiliated

~girls are not meanner when thr pretty! that is all stereotype!! ive met many pretty people and they are very kind.. like u may think models would be total stuck up B*TCHES but they are actually very nice.. dont judge people upon there appearance!

~because some of us want to impress guys that only look at appearance and not personality.. and most of us aren't. its just tv!

1. How come you ladies never take notice when your guy does nice things for you. But when we mess up just one time, you just can't let it go? >=T.

2. What does "I hope we can still be friends" really translate to?

3. On that note, what does "I want to wait until im married before having sex" really translate to? Me and my buddies assume its a test, but we could be wrong.

4. Would it be wierd if a guy you havent spoken to in 4-5 months started calling you and talking to you on MSN?

5. Personally, what are your views on dating younger guys?

Those questions oughtta keep you busy.

1. haha usually we do notice but we dont tell u we notice and when u mess up its a big big then .. =/

2. let's just be friends

3. we want to wait till we're married to lose our virginity

4. yes, but then we'll get used to it if we're tht kind of girl tht talks alot

5. GROSS :]!

[Guest Stacy]

I'll move on, because you sound like a loser.

I think she was being sarcastic..