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[Guest mojomunkeez]

You think that's it?

Woman are so confusing. D:

[love]

So there was this girl I went out with a few months back, we had some good times, but in the end we broke up. I didn't blame her at all for wanting out, I wasn't giving her the attention and love she deserved, so I let her go fairly easily, hoping that it would put an end to the pain I've caused. Later on she gets a new boyfriend. Whatever. I didn't think too much of it, but as time went by I realized I still had feelings for her. Well, naturally, I kept them inside since she was taken. So then she broke up with that guy and a few weeks later she told me to visit her, so I did. (she lives about an hour's drive away)

It started out platonic, we talked and joked and caught up. Went to the park, to the mall, drove around in my car, flirting all the way. Then we went to watch a movie. Halfway through the movie our hands found each other and we started holding hands, which then progressed to cuddling, and then kissing and making out. At the end of the movie we walked out hand in hand, just like a couple would. After getting something to eat, we cuddled some more before I took her home.

Afterwards, I hit her up and asked her if this meant she wanted to get back together with me. She responds by voicing concerns about how it would work out (communication issues, all that) and how she doesn't want a boyfriend right now and how she got carried away that day. In the end she concludes that she doubts that it would work out, basically saying "no".

What gives? How does one explain her actions, then?

some girls just like to be held and caressed by a guy and sometimes they can get carried away in the moment.

or maybe she still harbors feelings for you and got carried away thinking it was like the old times when you two were together.

[Guest *.:StarryEyeSurprise:.*]

You think that's it?

Woman are so confusing. D:

I think so. I mean it's either a rebound or that (most likely the latter)

she's just testing the waters this time before jumping in lol

[Guest aLiC3xNiN3]

Haha, cuz my friend told me that my "personality" is hot?

cuz since i LOVE ANIMALS, and i want to be a vet and i want to save animals from the bad ppl that abuse them :tongue2:.. but at the same time I'm a nice sensitive guy, but i love getting into trouble.and i have this "Bad Boy" look?

haha i just want to know what she is talking about? she said guys that are sensitive yet a bad boy are really cute or hot w/e she said

is this true ladies?

cuz if so then i think she complemented me and i have to thank her

[Guest aLiC3xNiN3]

NOT ONE REPLY?!?! DANG NO LOVE WHAT SO EVER!

[songielove]

I typed up a whole bunch of things.. but decided that--

Who doesn't like someone that has care for others??

It's just like when someone does bad things, but in the end they return to love their mom..

It's a sign of relief that they have some sense in them.. some emotion and consideration.

It's a mysterious character...?? LOL.. Am i making sense?

Anyway, I see this a lot in kdramas/tdramas.

[Guest aLiC3xNiN3]

I typed up a whole bunch of things.. but decided that--

Who doesn't like someone that has care for others??

It's just like when someone does bad things, but in the end they return to love their mom..

It's a sign of relief that they have some sense in them.. some emotion and consideration.

It's a mysterious character...?? LOL.. Am i making sense?

Anyway, I see this a lot in kdramas/tdramas.

OK THANKS FOR REPLYING! haha i get what you mean lol

[Guest ★★★]

Yeah I like it when guys are bad sometimes

but can come back and be a total sweetheart.

I think girls like guys that like animals because its sweet

I'm kinda the same way,the guy I like loves animals alot...

I love animals so much I became a vegetarian for along time because I didn't wanna eat them : ((

however its expensive and now my mom REFUSES to buy me my vegetarian stuff

Ohhhh well... I try to stay away from meat as much as I can

So yes she was complimenting you.

go thank her now : PP

[Guest aLiC3xNiN3]

Yeah I like it when guys are bad sometimes

but can come back and be a total sweetheart.

I think girls like guys that like animals because its sweet

I'm kinda the same way,the guy I like loves animals alot...

I love animals so much I became a vegetarian for along time because I didn't wanna eat them : ((

however its expensive and now my mom REFUSES to buy me my vegetarian stuff

Ohhhh well... I try to stay away from meat as much as I can

So yes she was complimenting you.

go thank her now : PP

haha, yeah go animal lovers!!!! whooo!! lol

yeah imma go do that now lol

[Guest elleny5566]

yeah i think its cool to have two sides, u know

just being the nice/sensitive guy is a little...wishy washy

& girls like bad boys but not as their bf...

lol yeah, u do remind me of some kdrama character!

[Guest aLiC3xNiN3]

yeah i think its cool to have two sides, u know

just being the nice/sensitive guy is a little...wishy washy

& girls like bad boys but not as their bf...

lol yeah, u do remind me of some kdrama character!

haha wow me? i actually remind you of a character of a K-drama?!?! wtf haha thats the first time i heard that XD

[Guest ★★★]

You remind me of a taiwanese drama star

watch "why why love" and "devil beside you" with mike he

in both he plays a bad boy but with a caring side

ITS ADORABLE! : PP

and Wooo animal loves lol

haha you like alice nine i'm guessing?

I use to REALLY love them... but now I only listen to a few songs.

hiroto was my favorite member

however I dont know why O.O

[Guest lovesaffinity]

Uhm, totally pianist.

Though I'm a sucker for bassists. LMAO. Okayy...

OMG ahaha me too!!! total sucker for bassists!! haha

but i would say..god this is hard..

mmm pianist

[bong]

i wud say pianist !!! romantic !! but then drummer can be SMEXY !! LMAO..

BUT Still i prefer PIANIST !

[Guest One Lifee One Lovee]

pianist (:

reminds me of those cute lovey dovey korean dramas

[Guest xstarberrii]

i think pianist because it's kinda more romantic ! xD

[Guest Angxizzle]

i like both but if i had to choose drummer for sho! i love the whole loudness of it!

but for romantic stuff it be better for a PIANIST.

[Guest mrsjaejoong]

Too many guys play the drums now, it takes a REAL man to play the piano like it does for him to wear pink! haha

[Guest doofus9]

a drummer. more exciting. bang my head to the beats

[Guest anti trends]

hahaha

sry but i have to say this

this probably didnt really help the guy up there much hahahaha

random: Girls who Break(dance) are F-ing HOt hahaha