Official Seohwa/용서/Yongseo Sweet Potato Couple Thread 1 ♥

February 6, 2011

one more thing, eric, care to share what do u mean by 'lose her fans?'

u mean to say hyun's fanboys?

Yes, and the reason is (also my opinion):

Boys perspective of WGM S2 is to watch and learn how a true married couple

should be, and also watch how SeoHyun (Wife) would act in certain situations.

Of course, they would watch it to certain point of view. Relating to their own

fantasy of having a wife and a wife like SeoHyun, but... if she knows a way to

constantly get onto her husband and constantly show that attitude. It could cause

so many different problems. All of the people watching this show knows for a fact

that she has never been with a guy before, but if she was in a previous relationships

and still behaved that way on the show then there would be a point where she'd lose

many of the guy fans interest.

They could also think to themselves, "Oh, maybe... All SNSD members are like her?"

It's all about image, since she's not just a wife but also a celebrity in Korea.

February 6, 2011

I agree with hihi_hehe. I think Yong's words did not mean bad. He is behaving like a normal boyfriend, what a boyfriend would do when his girlfriend nag him. Boys is always boys. They are sometimes difficult to find a better word. And it's make girls hurt. But they do not mean bad. Just their expression is not good. Whether they're a famous singer or president, ... Anyway, Yong is a boy, normal boy.

I feel because he says so, he expressed the interest and character of an ordinary boyfriend. And it comes when two people really comfortable and above all, when they're a couple in love. I think If he does not really care about her, he can completely ignore her words and didn't say nothing. No one will blame him. And Huyn, if she does not care, she can sat quietly, smiling like she always smile in stages and encouraging him as normal friends. No one also will blame her. And if they're like this, they aren't YongSeo whom I know and I love

and after, in an interview, he said: "I'm already thinking about it to myself, than it's like ... for example, it's like a mother telling her son who'sapplying for college to study Harder khi he already knows he has to . "His expression did not upset or annoyed, whereas he smile so many smiles and we can see he was happy, we can see his dimple, it's shown when he smile so widely and happily. Even when he said "You're worse than my mom, " he shows no anger or frowning.

February 6, 2011

This episode also show how much they have progressed.

Its natural for them to worry about each other.

Yong cooking breakfast for hyun in the last episode and hyun bringing yong to check on his stomach problems.

hyun does know alot about yong's eating habits. keke

I enjoyed the massage scene even though its alittle short.

besides the they wanna die together scene, its how intimate that scene is.

Regarding the "nagging" bit, there's nothing to worry about.

thats what alot of people will say to their spouses.

it will only be offending for people who are not close with each other,

if not everything's fine. keke

what i find interesting is the mc's reactions. Misun unnie, as a wife, knew the reason why hyun is behaving that way but i think jake oppa knows why yong is behaving that way too. so that is just part and parcel of married life. keke

February 6, 2011

I think the nagging parts was cute and humorous.

If you've ever been in a relationship you would probably

know that nagging is very very normal. My boyfriend and I are like

that all the time. It shows how much we care about each other is all.

I didn't feel that Seohyun over did it at all or that Yonghwa was rude in his reply.

Take it with a grain of salt people.

And I definitely don't feel that Seohyun will lose fans over this incident.

If anything, her fanboys will be asking "Seohyun, why can't it be me you nag? What's so great about Yonghwa?"

LOL. Well that's just my personal take on it.

Edit///

OMG. "We should die together."

Ahhhh so cute!

February 6, 2011

If anything, her fanboys will be asking "Seohyun, why can't it be me you nag? What's so great about Yonghwa?"

LOL. Well that's just my personal take on it.

Wow, that was very beautifully said. I agree with this one 110%. Hahaha!

February 6, 2011

Yes, and the reason is (also my opinion):

Boys perspective of WGM S2 is to watch and learn how a true married couple

should be, and also watch how SeoHyun (Wife) would act in certain situations.

Of course, they would watch it to certain point of view. Relating to their own

fantasy of having a wife and a wife like SeoHyun, but... if she knows a way to

constantly get onto her husband and constantly show that attitude. It could cause

so many different problems. All of the people watching this show knows for a fact

that she has never been with a guy before, but if she was in a previous relationships

and still behaved that way on the show then there would be a point where she'd lose

many of the guy fans interest.

They could also think to themselves, "Oh, maybe... All SNSD members are like her?"

It's all about image, since she's not just a wife but also a celebrity in Korea.

okay...since u said this is your opinion..

tks for sharing

but i sincerely believe that, in general,

her fanboys would be more understanding, and also accept this 'nagging' part as

another of her charming caring nature..

have u guys read abt SNSD diet plan?

no wonder they are so slim. either that or they have high metabolism

if hyun doesn't mind...i can give her my extra 10kg!

winnieho · February 6, 2011

yong is not the first guy to snap at his wife/gf and hyun will definitely not be the

last girl to be snapped at.

yongseo is real..

I came out of lurker mode to put in my 2 cents!

Before I proceed with my 2 cents, I would just like to say that the word "nagging" does not have a negative connotation in this scenario. To me, it's just an "exasperated" emotion which we would describe someone close to us who basically tells us things which we don't want to hear (especially our Mothers!)

I've been married for 15 years and in my marriage, my hubby is the "nagger". My reaction, when my hubby said something which I don't like to hear, but which is true, is harsher than Yong's. I would raise my voice and snap at my hubby to shut up and that he is worse than my Mother (who in my opinion, as well as my sibling's opinion, is the world's best nagger! ) To me, I didn't see anything amiss with Yong's reaction to Hyun's so-called "nagging". To me, it looked REAL.

JNJ said it right (the part which I've embolded in her quote above... there are billions of people in this world and I guess hundreds of millions of relationships. In these hundreds of millions of relationships, I am sure that there are millions of either males or females who are being "nagged" at this very moment... and who would respond in various degrees of exasperation. And still the world revolves and the sun rises in the mornings and sets in the evenings. Hyun just did what a REAL girlfriend/wife does in such a situation, and Yong just responded in EXACTLY the same manner that a REAL boyfriend/husband does in such a situation.

So... what was the argument?

February 6, 2011

Yes, and the reason is (also my opinion):

Boys perspective of WGM S2 is to watch and learn how a true married couple

should be, and also watch how SeoHyun (Wife) would act in certain situations.

Of course, they would watch it to certain point of view. Relating to their own

fantasy of having a wife and a wife like SeoHyun, but... if she knows a way to

constantly get onto her husband and constantly show that attitude. It could cause

so many different problems. All of the people watching this show knows for a fact

that she has never been with a guy before, but if she was in a previous relationships

and still behaved that way on the show then there would be a point where she'd lose

many of the guy fans interest.

They could also think to themselves, "Oh, maybe... All SNSD members are like her?"

It's all about image, since she's not just a wife but also a celebrity in Korea.

OH MY GOD, r u serious? do u really need to be that serious? back up please....get ur mind back...

thats just the way she is..please respect them....and remember dont share ur thought here cause ur thought might be meaningful for urself but not for the other, then if u have anything to say, say it to urself or keep it for urself, no need to share with other, that just ruins people's feeling...

February 6, 2011

Wow, that was very beautifully said. I agree with this one 110%. Hahaha!

I doubt your sarcasm is welcomed here.

And you don't need to fuzz over the whole thing. Like some previous users stated, this is Seohyun's first relationship, so she will be lacking.

ALSO, this is a reality show. In spite of scripted missions, every action and dialogue is genuine. As an SNSD member she has an image to protect, yet as Seo Joo Hyun, Jung Yong Hwa's wife on We Got Married, she has a personality to convey and duties as a wife to fulfill. And taking care of her husband is one of them.

February 6, 2011

@eric-original: I think you think a bit too much into this. I don't think fan boys would lose interest in her and generalize such thing to other SNSD members just because she nags a little [i don't even think that was nagging though, but it's another story]. Because let's say she DID nag, her fan boys of course would know she's still inexperienced so she doesn't know how to make YH do what she wants more properly. Besides, nagging is just like she's showing her true self, which is 10000 times better than faking everything for the sake of her image. Don't people always say variety shows with idols are boring because they tend to ACT to protect their image instead of going all out for the REALITY show? Moreover, she didn't nag him because she wanted him to buy her an LV bag or a diamond ring, it was for his health, so that's not entirely a bad thing [although I admit that some boys don't like to be taken care of way too much as they think they might lose their freedom].

One last thing, most of my male friends don't really think much when watching these things. I don't think boys would watch this and think "it'd be horrible to have naggy gf like SH. let's just forget about her and like some other SNSD girls, oh but if SH is like this, maybe the rest of SNSD are the same, let's just forget SNSD altogether". Besides, it's not like they can have SH anyway, so they'd still fantasy about her anyday

February 6, 2011

I doubt your sarcasm is welcomed here.

And you don't need to fuzz over the whole thing. Like some previous users stated, this is Seohyun's first relationship, so she will be lacking.

ALSO, this is a reality show. In spite of scripted missions, every action and dialogue is genuine. As an SNSD member she has an image to protect, yet as Seo Joo Hyun, Jung Yong Hwa's wife on We Got Married, she has a personality to convey and duties as a wife to fulfill. And taking care of her husband is one of them.

Wow, I feel like I'm speaking with only pre-schoolers telling me

that their drawing of a horse is a horse, not a unicorn.

Wow, okay. You girls win, geez. What's the big deal?

Not typing in here, again. Something's seriously messed up in here.

February 6, 2011

I'm typing my FIRST post after lurking for so long. Just wanna share my view towards Seohyun's so-called "nagging".

WGM is a reality show. A reality show requires the celebrities to show their true self/feelings to their viewers. If Seohyun has to manage her SNSD's image by not nagging at Yonghwa, it would be better to give her a script to memorise and act out a sitcom instead, isn't it? I guess those who are Seohyun's fans will know that she is rigid, prim and proper right from the start. They love this side of her and many other qualities of hers. They know how much she values health and thus, would like Yonghwa to value it too. There is certainly no right or wrong in it and the point on Seohyun loosing her fans because of her nagging is exaggerated.

February 6, 2011

hello, gogumas!!!!!!!

its my first time to post here, coz I'm just fond of reading all your comments and reactions. for me this is the best episode because they (yongseo couple) really showed us what is beyond skinship. they showed us their real feelings for each other. now we know that hyun buin really cares about yong choding. its my first time seeing her nag somebody else. because for the past 2 years that I've been a fan of SNSD, I never saw her nag not even to her unnies about this and that. i didn't hear from her unnies that hyun nags. really, it shocks me. LOL. she is also serious about taking care of yonghwa, when she said that: "Gosh, there’s a lot more that I need to take care of now." to yong. I guess she really mean it. Awwwwww... maknae is grown up already.

EDIT: I didn't know there's a commotion regarding the "NAGGING" part. Actually, what hyun did was not a nag. bacause, nagging is an annoying persistent fault-finding. Hyun did not nag, she just stressed a fact that there must be something wrong with Yong's stomach because he always complains about it. According to one of the MC in WGM that: "But then, you shouldn’t think that she’s nagging. She’sjust saying it because the husband’s not doing it. But they call that nagging." Maybe, Yong was so scared of what they just found out, that is why he freaked out and tell Hyun not to nag. Remember the doctor suggested an ENDOSCOPY. It's an uncomfortable laboratory procedure, if you google it you will find out.

February 6, 2011

Ok, we can talk about "nagging" but Please don't forget about Yongseo's 1st anniversary next week!

How is your feelings right now? I feel like all the eps are running through my head now

YongSeo has given each of us a precious journey. We all like them for every different reason, but I think one reason is they have showed us what a progress relationship is

It's been one year - 365 days-with all our feelings toward this beloved couple!

We should do something to our couple, how about wishing them?

Pleas a list of your wishes that you'd like to wish our couple

We will call it :365 wishes since we all want Yongseo to go for ANOTHER Year

Let's get started!

February 6, 2011

Thsi arguments about nagging is actually leading to an arguments. Look at it this way, woman nags for her man's good but often times, man doesn't realize that. And this remind me so much of the song "Nagging" from IU feat Seulong

Lyrics:

IU: Stop being out so late

Try not to drink so often

You don't listen to me like a 10 year old child

Seulong: I can only laugh

Who are you calling a child?

Really, I can only laugh

IU: You don't know how it feels for me to say these things

Seulong: You don't know that I only want to say nice things to you

Should I stop? Let's stop

IU:

From one to ten, they're all words for you

But since you don't listen to me, it's only nagging to you

Let's stop, let's stop

There's not even enough time to just love

A story told by the heart, not the mind

Stories that I can't help but tell you even if you hate them

Let's stop, let's stop

I only hear your nagging

IU: Are you eating at the right time

Are you staying away from girls

I want to be beside you all day

Seulong: That's how I feel

If I could keep you in my pocket

I'd be really happy

IU: Our story where we can only be two

Seulong: A story that would make someone laugh if they heard

Should I stop? Let's stop

From one to ten, they're all words for you

But since you don't listen to me, it's only nagging to you

Let's stop, let's stop

There's not even enough time to just love

A story told by the heart, not the mind

Stories that I can't help but tell you even if you hate them

Let's stop, let's stop

I only hear your nagging

Seulong: Even if you glare and try to scare me

Your face is just too cute to me

Are you going to keep this up? (You) I can't hold back anymore

I really might get angry

A story that wouldn't be told if we were to give up love

The sound of my heart that thinks only of you

Even if you're angry, even if you shout

Your nagging is just so sweet to me

A story that can only be told if we love

But since you don't listen to me, it's only nagging to you

Let's stop, let's stop

But trust my feelings

credit: dokhi-dokhi

DDuk · February 6, 2011

Yes, and the reason is (also my opinion):

Boys perspective of WGM S2 is to watch and learn how a true married couple

should be, and also watch how SeoHyun (Wife) would act in certain situations.

Of course, they would watch it to certain point of view. Relating to their own

fantasy of having a wife and a wife like SeoHyun, but... if she knows a way to

constantly get onto her husband and constantly show that attitude. It could cause

so many different problems. All of the people watching this show knows for a fact

that she has never been with a guy before, but if she was in a previous relationships

and still behaved that way on the show then there would be a point where she'd lose

many of the guy fans interest.

They could also think to themselves, "Oh, maybe... All SNSD members are like her?"

It's all about image, since she's not just a wife but also a celebrity in Korea.

Look. Seohyun is brand new to this thing called a relationship with a boy. What might have come off nagging was really worry mode to Seohyun. She was genuinely scared for her husband health. I really think (Can't speak for others)that Seohyun is deeply invested into this program and so is Yong. But for a girl with her first time boyfriend (albiet fake) you can't help but invest and worry. Her nagging wasn't really nagging it was her worrying.

@love~eastsea OMOMO! you are totally right! time to listen to that song~!

winnieho · February 6, 2011

Wow, I feel like I'm speaking with only pre-schoolers telling me

that they're drawing of a horse is a horse, not a unicorn.

Wow, okay. You girls win, geez. What's the big deal?

Not typing in here, again. Something's seriously messed up in here.

Eric-original, I have been reading your several posts, which to me, were worded in a contentious manner. And I have decided to pass up what I thought of your posts, until now.

You must be new to posting in this thread, or are you a by passer? Many posters who had responded to you are regulars here. Besides the written Soompi rules, we have an unwritten rule here which were more or less agreed by every Goguma here, and that is we MAKE LOVE NOT WAR. So... it behooves me to say that beginning from your 1st post several pages back, all your posts were worded in a contentious manner. And just to let you know, when I saw you getting the red negatives to your 1st post, I gave you a positive instead because you gave an opinion without breaking any Soompi rules. However, after that... I saw a behavioural pattern that I felt was uncalled for in this Goguma Village.

Also... it is not very mature of you to call posters here who replied to you as being "pre-schoolers" when they question your posts? If you are a mature individual, you would have explained in a clear, but POLITE manner without calling people names your POV or your stance.

February 6, 2011

Hello..I've been lurker in this thread for quite sometime. I'm posting this for the first time just to say that it is not true Seohyun's fanboys will lose interest in her just because of this episode.I found her more appealing than she already is. Maybe because i'm old bachelor, i'm 27 years old male ,girl like Seohyun is more appealing to guy my age n my career. Caring ,responsible and smart. Her nagging in this episode showed her motherly quality. I'm conservative type of guy in heart even though i did date girls who are fun, cool n carefree but. if i’m about to settle down,i hope my wife is someone who i can trust to raise my kids healthily and wisely .So,i really don’t mind if Seohyun, especially Seohyun nagging at me.Worst come to worst,i'll kiss her to shut her up..

YSInternational · February 6, 2011

Since we had an intense conversation a while ago... let me repost some of the reasons why we love YongSeo

I'm not sure if you want your reason to be posted here, but I'm doing this for fun and also to keep the thread rolling

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TO BE CONTINUED...

@eric-original Thanks for coming to thread you made the thread move for about 2 pages

You're actually helping us reach our goal for 2000 pages I must admit that In-Go-Paem are chodings but "pre-schoolers" wow! that's something new I just hope that you take the episodes lightly and will not put too much thoughts on every actions made by YongHwa and SeoHyun. They were just goofing around but you took Yong's comment seriously...If you want people or posers to respect you, I think the respect should start from you. Learn to respect other's POVs even though they are totally different from yours. Let's end the issue here

IN-GO-PAEM just stick on happy thoughts!!!!

ladylia257 · February 6, 2011

Hello Goguma shippers family!

First, I want to tell that I have post another goguma fic. I hope you like it.

http://lady-lia257.livejournal.com/98472.html

I just finish watching the episode with subs. Thank you Mountainmadman! You're amazing! About the nagging, I actually like the fact that Seohyun nagged him. For me, it means she really cares for him. And for Yong Hwa to protest at her, was normal, I think. That's what my Dad does everytime my Mom nagged him to drink his medicine or go to the doctors. I think it's normal for guys to hate doctors. They are afraid to hear that they are healthy. They want to feel strong all the time. And for Yong to protest like that means he is really comfortable with her.

The fact that Hyun must gain 9 kg to be actually healthy (in a normal way) really made me concern for her. I got to be aware again, how girl idols must maintain her weight to look good on camera. She must have to go through diets and lots of exercise to be that slim. I--as her fan-- will admit that she looks super gorgeous this thin. But I would like her to be healthier. I think she would still be beautiful even if she gain 9 kg more. But SM wouldn't like it, I think. Not to be negative, but maybe it's just the rule of the entertainment world. With that schedule, it's amazing that she doesn't get sick living like that. It's good that Seo Hyun always take good care of herself. Please be healthy! And I hope Yong Hwa will eat more regularly and get an endoscopy. Just to be safe.

The scene when Yong grabbed her leg is still awesome for me. He got so much braver on skinship these days. And Hyun just go with it, with zero awkwardness. They have come a loooong way since they first met.

And to be able to understand what they said when they talk during the foot massage. Hyun looked like it really hurt. But I'm amazed, she is a really strong girl. She didn't complain or moaned or even scream at all. Seohyun jjang! And when Yong said he wants to live until 101 and Hyun said "We must die together". That really got me. For me, it seems that Hyun blurted out her real feelings, maybe because she was out of her mind from pain? I don't know. But she was so sweet!!!! Did she really picture her future with Yong then? Doesn't it scream REAAAAAAAAAAL to anyone of you? Seriously.

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