Leading someone on you have absolutely no attraction towards

Have you girls ever done this to a guy? How did you feel after? Was it something you regret because you hurt the guy's feelings or because you didn't want to be seen as a selfish dog?
I'm in a situation where recently a girl confessed that she wants me as her bf. The problem is I have no interest or attraction towards her at all (and I'm still trying to figure things out with the Hong Kong girl). She's from Laos and for me I just can't get over her appearance and her accent. I'm just not attracted to girls from that area. I prefer Koreans (since I'm half) or Japanese. Chinese girls will do if they are from HK or Taiwan. I'm also part white but I think a lot of Caucasian women these days are just too head-strong for me.
Any advice with dealing with this?

Velstatdt, you remind me of rickertv.......

knockblock said: Velstatdt, you remind me of rickertv.......

just flatly refuse with a half richard simmons reason like not being compatible, or not looking for a relationship right now.

Just tell her no? I mean I don't know why you'd purposely lead her on. 

Just tell her you don't feel the same way about her. 
If she asks why don't tell her it's because of her background.

glamazon21 said: Just tell her you don't feel the same way about her. 
If she asks why don't tell her it's because of her background.

I don't lead anyone on. I try to be upfront when I'm not attracted to somebody who for some reason is attracted to me but I am not a jerk about it.

Thanks for the helpful suggestions. I'm not trying to lead her on or do something hurtful. She's a nice person and there a few times I wonder what it would be like to actually date her. 
I_play_with_d I'm not going to tell her I'm not interested in her because of her ethnic background. You think I'm that rude or something?

just tell her you're not interested. Though just a question, how many dates have you two been on??

Velstatdt, you remind me of rickertv.......

livingforhistory and speed redefined as well...

You can't help who you are attracted to, but you can make it less painful for the girl. Be honest and tell her that you don't see her that way.Just remember there is no need to be explicit and say it is due to her ethnic background.

Yeah, don't mind me if I'm a little off but I was just reading the post. Yeah, I agree and be honest.

Leading someone on is way cruel IMO. Honesty is definitely the best policy, even if the truth hurts but hey it's best to let them know now than to drag it out.