Ask The Fellas

[Guest CIRee]

What do guys think about girls who turn tomato red really easily?

What about girls who wear glasses? Is it a turn off?

I know it somewhat depends on preference, but it would help coming from 1-2 guys and their own preferences.

1. something to tease her on

2. i find it hot since i wear glasses too.

[Guest iSNT LiFE JUiCY]

wow...there are so many girls dying to ask questions.

you guys in this thread are awesome.

thanks to stevent, blindboi, riderkamen, and all the other males in here.

i dont really have a question....

just wanted to say thanks.

[Guest han.]

what does a guy think when a girl buddy randomly buys something that they like

for ex: i know my guy buddy really likes polar bears

so i buy a polar bear doll for him

what would he be thinking?

lemme add that theyre pretty good friends too

like.. the girl would tell him her problems and the guy would be there

to listen and give her some advice?

another things is

if the girl buys him something

and instead of just giving it to him to make it seem obvious

she decides to play a game

and if the guy wins then he wins what she got for him

Males are simple creatures. He would enjoy the gift from you and he'll thank you for it.

I don't understand the second question. Why do you need to play a game?

[Guest Bamidele]

We're just really busy during the school year. Hes done with classes for this school year, but I still have a month to go ><. We usually end up talking every other day ^^.

every other day seems fine to me, I mean you guys can do your own stuff, but still keep each other up to date, and in the loop!

[Guest akiralove]

Males are simple creatures. He would enjoy the gift from you and he'll thank you for it.

I don't understand the second question. Why do you need to play a game?

dont wanna make it so obvious that you bought him something haha

so instead of saying.."i got you something"

its if you beat me in bball or...something

then i'll give you something?

[Guest jaeners]

What does it mean if a guy tells his girlfriend where he puts his condoms at and that he has porn on his laptop?

[Guest CIRee]

What does it mean if a guy tells his girlfriend where he puts his condoms at and that he has porn on his laptop?

who knows maybe he want you know that if you guys were going to have sex, you know exactly where the condom are at.

[Guest Stevent]

What does it mean if a guy tells his girlfriend where he puts his condoms at and that he has porn on his laptop?

he gets lonely at night without you around, well that's how i interpret it haha

[Guest jaeners]

^ Haha I was kind of thinking that too, in a way. x:

who knows maybe he want you know that if you guys were going to have sex, you know exactly where the condom are at.

Heh..I actually thought he was joking about the condoms until I went to look in the box he told me he put it in and they were there. He could've told me later bc I told him before that I wanted to wait and he said so himself that he doesn't rush into having sex.

[Guest Keris]

How come this guy tells all of my friends that he likes me, yet he can't come up to ME and confess. I mean, if he likes me, he should tell me of all people, right? Not my friends who would always just encourage him and tell him to talk to me. Gah, I don't understand guys.

[Guest Stevent]

How come this guy tells all of my friends that he likes me, yet he can't come up to ME and confess. I mean, if he likes me, he should tell me of all people, right? Not my friends who would always just encourage him and tell him to talk to me. Gah, I don't understand guys.

scared of rejection as everyone else is.

[RiderKamen]

How come this guy tells all of my friends that he likes me, yet he can't come up to ME and confess. I mean, if he likes me, he should tell me of all people, right? Not my friends who would always just encourage him and tell him to talk to me. Gah, I don't understand guys.

He's a shy guy and he wants to look good infront of his friends SMH.

Dude gotta step up to plate or don't step up at all.

[Guest Keris]

scared of rejection as everyone else is.

Yeah I guess... should I make it easier for him by talking to him first about it?

He's a shy guy and he wants to look good infront of his friends SMH.

Dude gotta step up to plate or don't step up at all.

Yeah maybe he is shy... I'm just annoyed that it doesn't ever seem like he's going to have the courage to to step up and ask me out.

[Guest iEatPowder]

Yeah I guess... should I make it easier for him by talking to him first about it?

Yeah maybe he is shy... I'm just annoyed that it doesn't ever seem like he's going to have the courage to to step up and ask me out.

That's a great idea. It's already known that he likes you. Why not just go up to him and ask him out if the feelings are mutual. There's no rule written in stone where a guy has to ask a girl out. I'm sure he'd be flattered if what he's telling your friends is true.

2 years ago i did something stupid, i had sex with a guy i had no feelings for. but that was two years ago.

he called me throughout the years. and recently i just can't take it anymore. he called me past midnight and i was groggy

i basically told him i regretted sleeping with him. what would it do to a guy's ego, if a girl tells them that she regretted it?

Wow, i am amazed by how over-generalized and presumptuous blindboi's answer was (this isn't an attack on you, but you shouldn't just go off assuming things like it's the absolute and final answer)... I DON'T think he just wanted more sex. If he did, he would've called a few times and gotten the picture, not call throughout the years. I believe what happened was that he misinterpreted the situation, and developed feelings, thinking that there was a relationship in it for him. Emotions are dangerous, and if what I said is true, then he could've possibly been hurt. Depends on how sensitive he is. If I'm wrong and all he did want was sex, hopefully he'll stop calling you. Best of luck.

haha the guys i hang out with that i am referring to are ard...20-23years old. so theyr not young. but they stil talk about that kind of stuff a lot...i guess its just a bit hard for me cuz the guy i was kind of interested in says a lot of that kind of stuff...

im pretty sure there would be a lot about me which is unattractive....but im trying to find out what. becausde no guys approach me and i dont know why! even if i dont say anything...

There's a number of variables here in this situation. I doubt I could cover all of them, but it's possible that they're just immature/macho? I snuck a peak at your myspace, and you're NOT unattractive. Maybe your friend just developed a big-brother complex and sees you in that light, rather than a serious relationship type. And, maybe that's why guys don't approach you. You don't talk so you come off as cold and almost austere. I'm not saying to act 'easy,' but maybe friendlier perhaps? I'd have to get to know you further to make a better judgement, but best of luck.

..i'm a girl &i stay up all night playing video games basically.

i adore them.

question: Why do some guys send mixed signals when it is clear that they don't want a relationship with you

& tend to have a big ego around their guy friends?

again.. @blindboi... it's not always that the guy just wants to get into a girl's pants. For the first part, guys may send mix signals when it is clear they don't want a relationship because it is possible that they don't want to hurt the girl's feelings. I know in the end, leading someone on just leads to hurting them regardless, but some guys just don't know how to let a girl down. The ego thing's just an immaturity thing. It usually goes away with age (unless you're some frat guy).

What do guys think about girls who turn tomato red really easily?

What about girls who wear glasses? Is it a turn off?

I know it somewhat depends on preference, but it would help coming from 1-2 guys and their own preferences.

blushers are cute, imo. Glasses don't really matter. They can always come off. I never think about it as a factor in judging anything.

[Guest smrt girl]

^I agree with you IEatPowder on some of blindboi's responses, but some of these questions are so fricken specific. There are girls who literally ask, "read the mind of my boyfriend through this superficial description." Shrug. Most of his answers are pretty good so far and seem to be honest from his point of view. I dont think he's trying to give an absolute answer.

Anyway, I think I have the deepest question yet: Do guys shave their balls? Are guys even concious about shaving their balls? Does it tickle or hurt if you do?

[beckii]

There's a number of variables here in this situation. I doubt I could cover all of them, but it's possible that they're just immature/macho? I snuck a peak at your myspace, and you're unattractive. Maybe your friend just developed a big-brother complex and sees you in that light, rather than a serious relationship type. And, maybe that's why guys don't approach you. You don't talk so you come off as cold and almost austere. I'm not saying to act 'easy,' but maybe friendlier perhaps? I'd have to get to know you further to make a better judgement, but best of luck.

haha ooh thats a bit blunt with the 'you're unattractive'...but thats ok haha....i assume u mean physically since u dont know me haha...sorry i snuck a sneak peak at your myspace too.....and.....0_O

kidding.

it cant have been a big brother complex, because i kno otherwise. but i guess i could improve on the being less cold thing. cheers.

[Guest yumei]

If a girl confess to a guy and he acts even nicer than he usually is, would he do that if he only saw her as a friend? would a guy give up the girl he likes for his really good friend? do guys try to make every girl laugh or only if he likes her? does guy usually call a girl their confidante or is it special? if a guy said he was very insecure about something and one of them being you, because he thinks you were acting erratic towards him, what does that mean?

thx! sorry for so much queestions.

[Guest y_yuen12]

before i ask something i just wanted to say a thank you to all the guys for answering our questions =)

okay..

what does it mean when a guy asks for your phone number, and asks for your email, but after a week doesn't contact you at all?

[Guest sookkyung123]

i know this sounds really stupid but.. what does it mean when a guy just STARES at yoo?? is that good or bad?

THANK YOO!! ^^

[Guest nyc88]

how much confidence does it take for a guy to ask a girl out online through myspace, facebook, xanga etc, where all his friends and my friends and other people can know? Do you think this is sincere or a little suspicious...? or am i just being paranoid..? lol and thank you guys for answering our questions!!!