Asian girls dating white guys?

[Guest yesungsgal]

Man, I don't know where to start...so I got a link from Angryasianguy about a race based vandalism at UCLA and I clicked out of curiosity. The long story short was that someone vandalized one of the asian organizations door with a racist message about asian girls being sluts with honkie white guys. That was well, things like that happen. I personally didn't think the school should've made such a big deal of it but that's just me.

What really blew my mind was the comments sections. It was filled with such racist misogynistic comments from ASIAN guys about asian girls being sluts who sleep with only white guys. I can't even- just take a look for yourself.

http://www.dailybruin.com/article/2012/11/rally-planned-in-response-to-vsu-sign-vandalization

Sample comments from self proclaimed asian guys: "asian females are YELLOW TRASH!!!!! The SELL OUT JUDAS of asian society"

Or: "Why do many asian women keep Changing their eyes ROUND? That is SELF HATRED!!!!!!!!!! So ashamed of your Slanted Eyes, you want to look white. The white supremacist must have a LAUGH when you asian women do that."

The sad thing is. This isn't even new. I know a guy who's fully convinced that the only reason white guys date asian girls is because they fetishize us and that we're too stupid and ignorant to see past that. And that the only reason we date white guys is because society tells us they're more attractive.

To me, this is a load of BULL. I personally find asian guys more attractive, but if a white guy came along who was absolutely perfect and fit everything I want in a boyfriend, I'm not going to turn him down!

I mean, what do you girls think? I know some girls out there say they only date white guys, but I think it's because they just find western features more attractive. It's fully their choice and I would NEVER try to shame them into dating someone else.

[odaesan]

yesungsgal said: "Why do many asian women keep Changing their eyes ROUND? That is SELF HATRED!!!!!!!!!! So ashamed of your Slanted Eyes, you want to look white."

[Guest Muso]

I think someone said that they think that the one who wrote that letter to the girls was written by an Asian guy.
Maybe he was upset that a girl he was interested in was interested in a white guy and lashed out his anger in that way.

I honestly find it pathetic that guys of one race will bash their women because they like to date outside their own race. They are not stuck to date only their race.
The world is going to be a huge melting pot.
For some men, not a lot, maybe 3/10 have a fetish for Asian women and date them because of that fetish, but that comes with almost any race of men and/or women.

It's all preference. If they don't like it, oh well. There are other women out there. Don't get mad just because one or a few turn you down because you don't fit what they are looking for; look and personality wise.

[Guest yesungsgal]

Ugg yeah. I'm just so pissed off at the sheer arrogance and self-denial some of these guys have. It's like, if all girls keep rejecting them, instead of looking to themselves and wondering whats wrong with them personality-wise that's driving away all the girls, they immediately lash out and blame the girls for being mentally deficient in some way for rejecting them.

It's like a guy who keeps applying for jobs and getting rejected. Instead of wondering if there's something wrong with the way he interviews, or if his resume needs fixing, he immediate starts yelling discrimination or blaming it on others. I mean sure, sometimes there IS discrimination, but if it keeps happening continuously, then maybe it's time to take a step back and take a good look at yourself.

[Guest Gofishus]

Mousy-Muso said: I think someone said that they think that the one who wrote that letter to the girls was written by an Asian guy.
Maybe he was upset that a girl he was interested in was interested in a white guy and lashed out his anger in that way.

I honestly find it pathetic that guys of one race will bash their women because they like to date outside their own race. They are not stuck to date only their race.
The world is going to be a huge melting pot.
For some men, not a lot, maybe 3/10 have a fetish for Asian women and date them because of that fetish, but that comes with almost any race of men and/or women.

It's all preference. If they don't like it, oh well. There are other women out there. Don't get mad just because one or a few turn you down because you don't fit what they are looking for; look and personality wise.

[Mannosuke]

I love how an asian guy accuses asian women of dating white men by creating some racist vandalism, and then more asian guys comes in and continue to accuse asian women of dating white men by commenting on the racist vandalism.
WHY THE IRONY. It is too awesome. It doesn't even matter who wrote the message anymore; the fact is whenever an asian guy sees a topic about asian girls going for white guys, the asian guy WILL start talking crap about asian women. As if AM/WM topics is an automatic trigger to start insulting asian women.
If the vandalism was meant to be an experiment, all conclusions are clear: asians would rather self-loathe and pull themselves down rather than try to bring each other up.
If an asian was elected into some nice political seat in the states, you bet a bunch of asians would start talking crap about it.

[Guest Kerriganton]

It is surprising that I see more mutual Asian relationships than interracial relationships surrounding Asians. 

[Guest yesungsgal]

I think, its not because Asian guys don't like interracial couplings. We just see this particular pairing (AF+WM) so often. Even Hollywood movies have taken care to proliferate this pairing. I mean, I really don't care if white guys date asian girls and treat them well. That's fine.But when you have a cottage industry of stuff like this....
http://www.amazon.com/Asian-Sex-Stories-Indonesian-ebook/dp/B0047DWYK0/http://www.amazon.com/Romance-Lights-Asia-Relationships-ebook/dp/B0070DOYDY/http://www.amazon.com/Girls-By-Speaking-Chinese-Mandarin-ebook/dp/B007A4WUVQ/http://www.amazon.com/Barely-Legal-Babysitters-Sensation-ebook/dp/B0058KAOYO/
...basically books on how to pick up asian girls or inappropiate stories about how you conquered an asian girl (all written by white men unsurprisingly), then it becomes a problem. Hope you can see it from an Asian guys point of view.

[Guest Kerriganton]

mannosukehermit said: asian guys are inferior. they're just mad that we get first pick at the asian girls lol. they can keep the ugly ones though.

[odaesan]

Samud, you need a life.

[NPB-XK]

I'd like to recycle these words from you:

yesungsgal said: That was well, things like that happen.

[Guest yesungsgal]

NPB-XK said: I'd like to recycle these words from you:

yesungsgal said: That was well, things like that happen.

[NPB-XK]

yesungsgal said: NPB-XK said: I'd like to recycle these words from you:

yesungsgal said: That was well, things like that happen.

[Guest Gofishus]

yesungsgal

said: I think, its not because Asian guys don't like interracial couplings. We just see this particular pairing (AF+WM) so often. Even Hollywood movies have taken care to proliferate this pairing. I mean, I really don't care if white guys date asian girls and treat them well. That's fine.

But when you have a cottage industry of stuff like this....

http://www.amazon.com/Asian-Sex-Stories-Indonesian-ebook/dp/B0047DWYK0/http://www.amazon.com/Romance-Lights-Asia-Relationships-ebook/dp/B0070DOYDY/http://www.amazon.com/Girls-By-Speaking-Chinese-Mandarin-ebook/dp/B007A4WUVQ/http://www.amazon.com/Barely-Legal-Babysitters-Sensation-ebook/dp/B0058KAOYO/
...basically books on how to pick up asian girls or inappropiate stories about how you conquered an asian girl (all written by white men unsurprisingly), then it becomes a problem. Hope you can see it from an Asian guys point of view.

[MiDnite89]

You know what's funny is that I think I see more posts about Asian girls dating white guys, than actually seeing that in person. And even of those Asian girls who date white guys, many of them have dated Asian guys in the past. It's so overblown by insecured Asian dudes

[Guest yesungsgal]

I didn't say you weren't making a point, I said I didn't understand what you were trying to say. No need to get snarky about it...

I'm not targeting this at you, but in general, yes. Some White guys fetishize asian women. We all know about yellow fever and that, it's pretty gross and stuff. But some asian guys seem to think ALL white guys fetishize asian women which isn't true. It's a very unfair generalization and at the same time it's demeaning for asian women. They're also implying that if we're dating a white guy, then by default we're too stupid to realize he's fetishizing us.

Anyways, my rant was that I was shocked at how ignorant and disgraceful some asian guys are. They're simultaneously racist and sexist at the same time and completely oblivious to their own flaws. Then they're all shocked when they find out girls don't want to date them and immediately blame it on the white establishment and start quoting a ton of statistics about how the "game" is stacked against them from the start instead of trying to undermine it and prove it wrong.

[Guest rickertv2]

Why are we beating the same dead horse?

[NaughtyDog]

Gofishus said: So, 3/10 is actually alot. that means, every 1 out of 3 guys has an Asian woman fetish, and dates her solely because of that. Isn't that terrible? And there are studies that show that out of interracial coupling, by far Asian girl + White guy is the most common. Heck, just take a walk here in San Francisco or LA to see how common these pairings really are. And here's the article (take it with a grain of salt since its online) http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/?a=1 

I think, its not because Asian guys don't like interracial couplings. We just see this particular pairing (AF+WM) so often. Even Hollywood movies have taken care to proliferate this pairing. I mean, I really don't care if white guys date asian girls and treat them well. That's fine.But when you have a cottage industry of stuff like this....
http://www.amazon.com/Asian-Sex-Stories-Indonesian-ebook/dp/B0047DWYK0/http://www.amazon.com/Romance-Lights-Asia-Relationships-ebook/dp/B0070DOYDY/http://www.amazon.com/Girls-By-Speaking-Chinese-Mandarin-ebook/dp/B007A4WUVQ/http://www.amazon.com/Barely-Legal-Babysitters-Sensation-ebook/dp/B0058KAOYO/
...basically books on how to pick up asian girls or inappropiate stories about how you conquered an asian girl (all written by white men unsurprisingly), then it becomes a problem. Hope you can see it from an Asian guys point of view.

[Guest Gofishus]

yesungsgal

said: I didn't say you weren't making a point, I said I didn't understand what you were trying to say. No need to get snarky about it...

I'm not targeting this at you, but in general, yes. Some White guys fetishize asian women. We all know about yellow fever and that, it's pretty gross and stuff. But some asian guys seem to think ALL white guys fetishize asian women which isn't true. It's a very unfair generalization and at the same time it's demeaning for asian women. They're also implying that if we're dating a white guy, then by default we're too stupid to realize he's fetishizing us.

Anyways, my rant was that I was shocked at how ignorant and disgraceful some asian guys are. They're simultaneously racist and sexist at the same time and completely oblivious to their own flaws. Then they're all shocked when they find out girls don't want to date them and immediately blame it on the white establishment and start quoting a ton of statistics about how the "game" is stacked against them from the start instead of trying to undermine it and prove it wrong.

[NaughtyDog]

Gofishus said:

yesungsgal

said: I didn't say you weren't making a point, I said I didn't understand what you were trying to say. No need to get snarky about it...

I'm not targeting this at you, but in general, yes. Some White guys fetishize asian women. We all know about yellow fever and that, it's pretty gross and stuff. But some asian guys seem to think ALL white guys fetishize asian women which isn't true. It's a very unfair generalization and at the same time it's demeaning for asian women. They're also implying that if we're dating a white guy, then by default we're too stupid to realize he's fetishizing us.

Anyways, my rant was that I was shocked at how ignorant and disgraceful some asian guys are. They're simultaneously racist and sexist at the same time and completely oblivious to their own flaws. Then they're all shocked when they find out girls don't want to date them and immediately blame it on the white establishment and start quoting a ton of statistics about how the "game" is stacked against them from the start instead of trying to undermine it and prove it wrong.