Guest peacee Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 almost never. it often saves me from being hurt or embarassed cause i kno i have 0 chance with that person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damyoungji Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 I do and do not regret it. I regret it in the sense that if I had confessed, how would have things been? If he tells me off or rejects me, it will be easier to get over him, rather than waiting around and starring at afar when he has no clue that I like him. But at the same time, I do not regret it because if I have confessed, he could have used me and played around with my feelings when he does not even like me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Baybe3 Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 I've never confessed and i dont ever plan to either. Im way to shy and so afraid of the rejection. All my friends always push 4 me 2 confess but im 2 afraid...^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CitrusFlower Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 No. It saves me from embarrassment and less drama for me. If I were to confess the world would know and everyone will be attacking me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lilaaa Posted December 30, 2008 Share Posted December 30, 2008 Not really, I eventually get over it. I never liked/wanted someone THAT bad that I wanna suddenly confess my feelings for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TheFirstTime Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I did really like this one guy, I don't know if I still feel anything for him though but I confessed but not really since he knew I liked him because I tried to make it very obvious to him, even his family knew so I would've liked to confess to him in person but don't know if I still should, he's birthdays comming up and i was thinking of telling him face to face before his birthday but my feelings are starting to go away so I don't know if I should still i did try in the fall once online, but i backed out but he still got the picture he knows i like him, but he didn't do anything cause idk, maybe he was wondering if i asked him out or he's really not into me any advice? should I still confess even though my feelings are going away, but I still have a thing for him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest whattaPYT Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 i usually confess unless its a crush that lasts under a month even though i usually only date guys for a month.. but w.e the guys i like are pretty sweet and usually like me back but i only confess when i know they like me back or just have to say it its can be one of the scariest things or most relieving but either way i think you might as well confess sooner or later but i usually confess after i stop liking them so hehe but yeah its just fun to know if they liked you back or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ShadowMax76 Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 you get to a point of denial where you say "it's better this way" if you don't see the person anymore, it's easier to think that. _ if you don't confess, you'd think of how awkward it'd be. that it's better this way. if you did confess, you'd think of how you've finally done it, and you can move on. that it's better this way. x_x' just do what you wanna do.. you'd be happy nonetheless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest darkcontender Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I've only confessed once. and that was with a guy that I really, really cared for. He used to like me. But I was a really horrible person and brushed him away. Later on, I'm crying because he has someone else that he cares for now. Even so, I told him that I like him. (EMAIL. LMAO.) but yes, I didn't regret it. I felt like I took a biggg load off my chest. And even though he never returned my feelings, I was glad that I confessed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jskee Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I'd rather confess then keep it in because you'll never know what would happen If it goes well then, Awesome If it doesn't then at least you tried, Good enough If you feel like it's time to confess then confess haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest insanelyCRAZY Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 nope. no regrets. my little crushes, it was just fun. never have i thought about going out with them so no point in confessing. my other crushes. i didnt have to confess. they liked me back [x but by the time some of them liked me already, i got over them like couple days before. =x then...there were two. one is my ex. another is my current<3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Twinny Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 Never. it often saves me from being hurt or embarassed cause i kno i have 0 chance with that person Me 2, Last time I've met a cute guy on a bday party from a friend, in the beginning he talked to me, just a small talk. I regret it that I didn't really try to make a conversation with him. But I didn't have really a chance because he played the wii all the time...-___-! Now I will never see him again! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest !Lei Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I never confessed. I don't wanna take the chance and the risk. >< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jskee Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 Nope I haven't regretted Because for two times, It worked out and the third time, I got rejected but then I found out what a betch she was Better to confess then keep it inside ..___.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KOGEPANN;) Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 the guys turn out to be jerks once i get to know them better, my mind changes, I want to be completely certain, certain that I like them for sure, without a doubt kind of thought before confessing and usually I stop liking them afterwards anyway. When I think I like them I did regret confessing to them, but the after effects make me realise it was a good decision to keep my mouth shut after all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabrications. Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 No, never. Quite the opposite actually. I actually regret confessing to the people I had a crush on. People say that "If you don't confess, you're going to regret later and wonder what it could have been, blah, blah, blah..." But this typical situation is overrated. Either way, you're gonna forget that person. It'd be way more embarassing if they didn't like you back and acted as if you were the scum of the universe. It's definitely better to let it go, in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sushie-chan Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 When i was on secondary school, a guy confessed to me but invonlontary i rejected him. Today, i regret soooo muuunnncchhh! After 4 years, i still love him. But now, i don't have news about him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest saranghye.xx Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 From what I read in this thread..... it seems as if lots of people have no regrets.. I am a really shy person so I cant confess.. I did once and I regretted it cause he then never talked to me again.. but Im glad he didnt say yes but there are 3 other times I deeply regretted it 1) I didnt confess cause i was too shy, and before I knew it, I could never see him again.. (i had to move away) 2) I didnt confess cause i wasnt sure, but he moved away without telling.... so i cant see him ever again 3) I didnt confess cause I was too shy, which I shouldve.. cause he used to like me, but now I cant cause he moved on.. to another person I think that if you like someone, you should hurry and confess before its too late,or they/you move away.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest aubrei Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i never have regrets like that. i think its better to love and lost than never had. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TOPBIGBANG Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 i dont know i never really thought about it. but i'm a shy person so if i confess it'll be a really big step...i know i'm such a loser.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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