Guest aliciaatethesandwich Posted August 8, 2012 Share Posted August 8, 2012 I don't regret it because I think that if it was really meant to happen then it would have whether I confessed or not. But I do kinda like the idea of telling everyone I've ever liked that I liked them. It's on my bucket list. Some people would argue that there's no point in that, but...I don't care. It's nice to get things off your chest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starrynight288 Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 Thank God I didn't. It turns out I never really had a crush on him I just liked the idea of having a crush. Also, I avoided a lot of drama especially since about 5 girls liked him that year and 3 of them are my close friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pink_chocolate Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 Clearly, he knew I liked him because we barely knew each other and for Christmas, I bought him a sweater and a Happy Feet penguin. AHHAH. My friend told me that he walked around school all day with my gift and a huge smile. If it wasn't for my immaturity to rush into a relationship with my ex, I think we probably make a good couple. But, my own fault for not saying straight to him that I like him and I could have wait for him. Ugh. I hate myself when I think about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rosebanks123 Posted September 20, 2012 Share Posted September 20, 2012 I had a really hard time bringing this little secret about my crush. I wanted to burst out and shout to him that I love him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest akp124 Posted September 21, 2012 Share Posted September 21, 2012 I actually confessed and I regret it. We don't talk like we used to anymore.Dude, I like you, not want to marry you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ritzy! Posted September 22, 2012 Share Posted September 22, 2012 Sometimes it's good to have a crush and just..crush..haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Iron_Maiden Posted September 23, 2012 Share Posted September 23, 2012 No, I don't regret it. Things could have been a lot more worse in my life if I did. Besides...it turns out that all those guys I went for are losers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jojo16 Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 Looking back, I'm glad I didn't tell her. Took a step back, and it turns out she has a rather selfish personality that I wouldn't be able to put up with. However, next time I will definitely make the move on another girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest rhoyourboat Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 yes i regret it.... cant wonder what if now i just go for it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest iilysium Posted September 24, 2012 Share Posted September 24, 2012 I just don't have the courage to do it, I have no problem talking to random strangers and going on dates with people I barely know or if I don't have much particular interest in them..but once I get to know them and like them a lot, I get super duper extra shy and start withdrawing and trying to avoid them. ): I don't know why I'm like that. But luckily for me in past cases, some of my ex's thought I was playing mind games and it was kinda like a chase/got more interested because of me not seeming like I cared? so they chased after me extra hard until I got comfortable around them. But I wish I could get past this shy habit of mine, I hate it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Nomnomasaurus Posted October 1, 2012 Share Posted October 1, 2012 I really can't say I regret it. I'm usually very fickle in regards to the girls I like to the point where there would be times I like two or three girls at the same time. The only time I ended up "confessing" was by accident (she was screen sharing with a mutual friend), and it had dire consequences so since then I have refrained from doing so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KoreaDarling Posted October 2, 2012 Share Posted October 2, 2012 NO! because i knew i was young and i'd get over them LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest aliciaatethesandwich Posted October 7, 2012 Share Posted October 7, 2012 It is what it is now and they'll find out eventually. Mission #1 on my bucket list is to tell ever guy I've ever liked that I had feelings for them at some point in time. I know it sounds a bit stupid but...what's the harm in telling my crush from head start that I liked the way he played in the sand box? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gangdur Posted October 8, 2012 Share Posted October 8, 2012 I have only ever confessed once and thank goodness I did. I liked that dude for 3 years on and off it was getting worrisome. Also, no he did not feel the same way but I was still a happy camper for being able to move on.Ever since then I give the guys I like under 4 months of my interest. If he fails to confess to me that he likes me then I move on. I know, a little harsh but how I feel is that if he does not have the balls to admit his feelings then what else does he not have the balls for in life? I mean.. come on.. I need a real man No regrets!This method has also become effective as well because I know that there is an expiry date to it and I go about things differently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest pleiadian Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 what if u confessed but ur crush doesnt like u?? that would be awkward u know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BoiceMelodyInspiritBeauty Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 I confessed 2 times and I didn't regeret it because I found out what's his real color. Now I don't do it anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inxomnia Posted March 13, 2013 Share Posted March 13, 2013 I've never regretted it because I've never had a crush on someone seriously. I've always fiddled with the idea of who that person was and how we'd be together. I can't commit to anything more serious so I never have to worry about actually falling for them. I prefer to be chased more anyways. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bella_mygga_insek Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 I was in love with this guy for 9 years, but never confessed,,, I cannot really say that I regret it, I did not have the courage to do it. And being a girl, it was even harder for me, additionally also being a shy girl. But I do go back in my memories sometimes and think about him. But it no longer lingers as a regret in my mind. I have passed that stage. So in the presence, now, I will strive to be true to my feelings so that I dont miss out on anything.But right now still struggling with my feelings, having a crush with a guy I know already have a girl he likes. Yet I find myself texting him again and again, not wanting it to end. Being all clingy and sentimental, all by myself. I am afraid of destroying our friendship,.. so not confessing may be a good thing sometimes.. I´d orignally promised myself to be true to my feelings, but in this case, it´s very impossible to confess and have a nice outcome of it. So yeah, life is not simple, and it was never simple for anyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TheJVS Posted April 21, 2013 Share Posted April 21, 2013 I have "crushes" on guys really easily. I'm convinced that I didn't confess to all of them. It would've been a mess if I did and they had the same feelings... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiocat Posted April 22, 2013 Share Posted April 22, 2013 Some things are better left unsaid, which leave good memories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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