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Guest Sakuxsan

Guest Sakuxsan

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this totally happened to me Dx

i never knew this guy...

but we became SUPER bestfriends... in jsut like...1 week

we told each other EVERYTHING like our old crushes...and stuff

he liked me

but i didnt like him...cuz i had a bf at the time...

then. i broke up with my bf and i started to liked him

but he stopped liking me. :(

now he is with another girl... :(

gotta say im jealous...:sweatingbullets:

but he never talks to me anymore... :tears:

so i kinda got over it... :mellow:

but if i find the chance...i would still talk to him.... <_<

but my ex and i are pretty good friends :lol:

so ya :mellow:

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Guest daisie

Guest daisie

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This happened to meee!

What makes me upset was the fact that after we decided that it wasn't going to work out between us relationship-wise, he said that the thought of us not being friends made him really sad.

But... he never tried talking to me again. And whenever I tried to talk to him he was really short with me.

I bet if someone asked he'd deny ever being more than aquaintances, let alone friends for three years.

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well, Reality bites!

that's true! I mean my ex and I started first as a complete stranger..

then, months passed by we completely got to know each other better

hang around like almost everyday, we talked on the phone until were

out of topics, chat online.. and boom! were instant bestest friends..

after two years of being bestest friends, we've decided to crossed the boundaries

between being just best friends in to being more than just friends...

we've dated and decided to be an official I'm your gf your my bf kind of thing!

then, after four years of being together.. finally we went on our separate ways...

and now, were like a complete stranger to each other! I was hurt by the fact

that we have a beautiful friendship and now I can't bring that friendship bond

between us..

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Guest kiHyuN

Guest kiHyuN

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Woahh... Mine's more like...

Strangers ===> Get to know eachother ===> Best friends ===> BAM! Strangers.

Confusing. I don't even know why it happens.

Yeah, my guy friends and I never go to that GF/BF level. Apparently a good majority of them think of me as a younger sister, so... Yeap..

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Guest youuuu

Guest youuuu

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hm; agreed. the majority of it. but like some people can still be best of friends after it all. which is good cause like, it isn't about how well you decide to forget. it's just basically knowing how to handle situations.

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Guest xtw1nkie

Guest xtw1nkie

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i guess it's a natural thing because that happened to me too..

why do guys ignore you when clearly they're the ones that said let's just be friends? <_<

they're confusing :angry:

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Guest flyxme.

Guest flyxme.

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stranger, friends, date, stranger

cause i have no feelings for him at all anymore

and it just pisses me off to see his face

i think that if you can be their friend

and still talk comfortably then you still

have feelings for that person&you want them back

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Guest clumsyxdreamer

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i didnt realize it happens to many other people too >.<

mines-

strangers. friends. more than friends. but didnt go out. things happen. strangers again.

i dont even understand it. but i miss him.

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Guest KeY;;<33

Guest KeY;;<33

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thought i was the only one =/.

it was my birthday today ..

and were supposed to be "besties"

no fone call

txt email

nothing :tears:

boys.

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For me it's more like stranger, Best friend, BF & GF, Break up, then back to best friends but still sorta act in a way that makes people think we are still together. :sweatingbullets:

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strawberrii chuuu Fan Level: 24-3

strawberrii chuuu

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me and my first boyfriend.

we were strangers. then friends. then best of friends. then boyfriend/girlfriend. then we tried being friends. it didn't work out. now, we don't even talk at all and he's going out with one of my friends.

me and my sort of ex.

we were strangers for a long time. then friends. then best friends again. then it came to the point where we were best friends with benefits... and then we ended everything. i wish it never ended. i miss him. we barely talk now. well, he still wants to be friends but its just hard for me. i need time.

i hate this cycle.

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Guest joyousx0o

Guest joyousx0o

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Right now.

He's my best friend right now.

Haven't dated yet, but I didn't tell him if I wanted to date him or want to continue being friends but not the way we are now because right now is his one sided love.

I don't know what to do.

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Guest lido0LmisSundersto0D

Guest lido0LmisSundersto0D

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=(

i don't want that to happen. is there a way to prevent it?

....

never mind, it was a dumb question.

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