Ask The Fellas

[Guest Nerdy]

if you already had a girlfriend, would you let a female friend hold you close (for far longer than the quick friendly hug and allow her to rest her head on your shoulder) and not resist her tight embrace? would you consider this just a friendly gesture?

Seems like there's more to this situation than meets the eye. I think it's easy to distinguish when something's friendly and when it's more than that. I wouldn't let it go further than friendly. Then again, it's hard to pry some girls off when they're comfortable like that without hurting someone's feelings. You gotta do what you gotta do, though.

[Guest YeonCouture]

So i'm just wondering how sensitive most guys are.

I didn't know that some guys can be REALLY sensitive

until a couple of days ago.

I was on the bus and a close guy friend [X] of mine and a friend of his[Y]

were just playing around, hitting eachother, and Y was trying to hold X back

while X was trying to hit him and they were just playing around and suddenly

Y got mad and started crying...

then, today, I just made a new friend a couple of days ago and he would

sit with me and my friends on the bus and today he said that he didn't want to

sit with us because supposedly, someone didn't want him sitting there.

so then, my friend talked to him and found out that he felt that my best friend

and I don't like him because he feels left out and almost started to cry...

0.o never knew that guys would be so sensitive.

so GUYS, how sensitive are you?

[Kiribati]

He started crying?

o.o

[Guest Nerdy]

Not very sensitive in those terms, lol. I generally don't take little things to the heart.

I guess I'm a little soft with girls sometimes? I dunno

[Guest 7thprincess]

If you only wanted guys' opinion, you could've posted this in ASK THE FELLAS.

[Guest YeonCouture]

If you only wanted guys' opinion, you could've posted this in ASK THE FELLAS.

because then i'll most probably get just one guy's opinion.

i want to see how a lot of guys would react to things like that.

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Yeah, he started CRYING. I just thought that that was really weird.

and the guys is not feminine in any way.

he's usually all macho and stuff...

[Guest 7thprincess]

because then i'll most probably get just one guy's opinion.

i want to see how a lot of guys would react to things like that.

Actually in the ASK THE FELLAS thread there are quite a few active members there who respond to questions. Like for example, Nerdy posts in there. Plus, you won't get spam if you post in there.

[Kiribati]

Nerdy posts.

That's a new one.

Anyways, there's nothing wrong with being...sensitive. But there's something wrong about being sensitive at certain times, like on a bus, with the rest of your friends.

[Guest INSANE]

Anyways, there's nothing wrong with being...sensitive. But there's something wrong about being sensitive at certain times, like on a bus, with the rest of your friends.

i agree. that is really weird/awkward

sounds more like mood swings to me O.o

[Guest YeonCouture]

i agree. that is really weird/awkward

sounds more like mood swings to me O.o

hahaha i know right!

especially the first story!

it was just like out of nowhere crying.

[Guest muta]

You can hit me as hard/often as you like.

So i'm just wondering how sensitive most guys are.

I didn't know that some guys can be REALLY sensitive

until a couple of days ago.

I was on the bus and a close guy friend [X] of mine and a friend of his[Y]

were just playing around, hitting eachother, and Y was trying to hold X back

while X was trying to hit him and they were just playing around and suddenly

Y got mad and started crying...

then, today, I just made a new friend a couple of days ago and he would

sit with me and my friends on the bus and today he said that he didn't want to

sit with us because supposedly, someone didn't want him sitting there.

so then, my friend talked to him and found out that he felt that my best friend

and I don't like him because he feels left out and almost started to cry...

0.o never knew that guys would be so sensitive.

so GUYS, how sensitive are you?

[Guest CitrusFlower]

How do you guys feel about quiet girl? The girl who doesn't talk in class and don't smile much

[Guest Nerdy]

How do you guys feel about quiet girl? The girl who doesn't talk in class and don't smile much

Is she cute? lol

Why doesn't she smile much? That's the best weapon in her arsenal.

[Guest CitrusFlower]

Is she cute? lol

Why doesn't she smile much? That's the best weapon in her arsenal.

Lol. Well, she said she has no friends in the class with her and she's not really sociable and for her cuteness it really depends on the guy right?

[Guest Nerdy]

Lol. Well, she said she has no friends in the class with her and she's not really sociable and for her cuteness it really depends on the guy right?

If I think she's cute, I'll try and check out her personality first-hand. rofl

[Guest I Wonder]

if you already had a girlfriend, would you let a female friend hold you close (for far longer than the quick friendly hug and allow her to rest her head on your shoulder) and not resist her tight embrace? would you consider this just a friendly gesture?

really depends on the mood. Cuz actually i had this really close female friend who "claims" me but both of us know we're just friends. So basically she treats me like a tote bag whenever she sees me and wants me to go somewhere. Instead of bringing me there, she headlocks me and drags me to wherever. (sometimes my face is about maybe 2 inches from her breasts XD )

[Guest jN x3 sK]

lol I admit I'm sensitive at times when it comes to certain things (girls to be exact). The story you're telling lol I'm not that sensitive. Little things like that I don't take to heart, but some are more sensitive than others when it comes to certain situations.

[Guest Sophi.e*]

Hey guys. There's this guy that I like, but I know NOTHING will happen to us because he is, sadly 6 years older than me):. I see him about every Saturday for volleyball and last Saturday I notice that sometimes he just stares at me?! For example, we would be talking and then we would stop and just stand there waiting for someone else and I can tell he is staring. I've seen him stare at me then if that happens I would just look at him& smile, but he would just stare anyways.... o.O LOL. I just find it weird and makes me feel self consious. haha. Btw, his stares are not in a perverted, stalkerish way.. haha.

Any ideas why he might do that?

[Guest shirotaka]

I think everyone is sensitive but what makes a man, a man is when he has the balls to grow up and not cry over it. Sure he can be sad but crying?

[Guest ms. rachellica]

hmmm interesting. my first ex was really sensitive. he wud cry when we had arguments and he wud cry when i wrote a card saying how much i loved him. kinda weird rite? even after we broke up he'd cry wanting me to get bak with him nd threatened to kill himself if i didn't. guys like that jus look so weak to me.