Ask The Fellas

[Guest AtomAgeStrawberry]

radiocat said: AtomAgeStrawberry said: radiocat said: @atomagestrawberry i mean not referring to me as a badboy lol.

[Guest Terazu]

@speedredefined
"You can tell a good girl from a bad girl in bed." 
I only asked whether or not there was a way to tell a 'good/bad' girl from how they act in bed.
Imma guess the good girls are like those quiet, bookish ones that turn into freaks.
And the bad girls are the ones that act very normal in bed.
Then again, I have no first hand experience since I'm not attracted to girls sooo..@therealtk thanks for the short hand answer =D

[Guest aorisu]

hi, i am interested in a colleague, and has been trying to talk to him, just be friends ya...emails, facebook, but he usually replies really slow or doesn't try to keep the conversation going.. does this mean he is not interested? he has asked me to join him for a vacation next year (maybe just asking out of politeness?) he also said that he likes girl to make the first move, but i am really shy!
and initiating conversation is the only thing I can do . and I am always the one initiating!
will he know that I am interested? or how do I show him? if he is not interested, then fine, but I just want to know!

[Ninshark]

aorisu said: hi, i am interested in a colleague, and has been trying to talk to him, just be friends ya...emails, facebook, but he usually replies really slow or doesn't try to keep the conversation going.. does this mean he is not interested? he has asked me to join him for a vacation next year (maybe just asking out of politeness?) he also said that he likes girl to make the first move, but i am really shy!
and initiating conversation is the only thing I can do . and I am always the one initiating!
will he know that I am interested? or how do I show him? if he is not interested, then fine, but I just want to know!

[Guest strongvibe]

a bad girl is the type of girl that needs a spanking. strongvibe is more than happy to oblige.

[Guest Terazu]

Don't pretend you didn't smile when you read it either ;P

[Guest Kerriganton]

Terazu said:
In the mood to hit on the fellas on this thread....

And don't pretend you didn't smile when you read it either ;P

[Guest Terazu]

@Kerriganton
woooahhh... wait what? XD;
No. o_O;  What made you think I had a hubby?!?

[Guest SlicedBread]

@AtomAgeStrawberry, my viewpoint comes from the belief that the 'bad girl'/'good girl' dichotomy is just the old 'madonna/richard simmons' complex in different window dressing.  (edit: Damn the filtering system. It's known as madonna/richard simmons complex around my area. Not sure what the soompi version is.)
In that light, it's not all that easy to tell who you are really dealing with because people put on too many fronts, and you don't always get to scratch below the surface. 
There are a ton of 'good girls' who are really 'bad girls' who are putting on an Oscar worthy performance for your benefit. Then there are 'bad girls' who are only playing at being 'bad'; when it gets too hot in the kitchen, they run away scared. 
Then you have real 'bad girls' who just don't give a damn if you know they are 'bad'. They'll flaunt it proudly and tell society to stick their judgmental attitude up their Flamingly Gay Fitness Icons. 
Then I guess you have what people would consider 'good girls', but in the end, it's all kind of useless, because people are dynamic and beliefs can change.

I mean, as women, some of you may have been raised in a certain conservative way, so you may behave conservatively, you may actually think in a conservative way, and you may even feel conservative. Still, that's the present; now. Who knows what's going happen in your life an an hour from now? Or tomorrow? Or maybe even years from now? 

See, if you're a true conservative type, those convictions may be part of you now, but despite them, or even because of them, some of you may not even be aware of your potential to let go of your beliefs and enjoy being 'bad' girls. With me, that's just the way I've experienced these things, and I never take anything for granted one way or the other.  And the funny thing is that once that happens, a person may even stop seeing those things as 'bad', but as an expression of a free spirit. The mind is something funny.
So, the bottomline is that I personally can't tell, unless I'm privileged enough to have a window into a particular person's mind and heart. And you can only have that when there is mutual trust, respect, and a feeling of being on the same wavelength to some extent. Otherwise why would anyone share something so intimate?  Hell, people cherish thoughts and feelings that not even their BFFs are privy to.  

So, ;tldr; I wrote a huge wall of text just to tell you: "Hell if I know. I'm just gonna play my Xbox."    
@Terazu said: whats the difference between a good/bad girl in bed? 

[Guest SlicedBread]

strongvibe said: a bad girl is the type of girl that needs a spanking. strongvibe is more than happy to oblige.

[Guest SlicedBread]

@radiocat said: @AtomAgeStrawberry said: radiocat said: @atomagestrawberry i mean not referring to me as a badboy lol.

[Guest nana544]

^Lol @SliceBread, yes you're a bad boy with your Harley. I will never look at a Harley the same way.

[Guest SlicedBread]

nana544 said: ^Lol @SliceBread, yes you're a bad boy with your Harley. I will never look at a Harley the same way.

[Guest SlicedBread]

aorisu said: hi, i am interested in a colleague, and has been trying to talk to him, just be friends ya...emails, facebook, but he usually replies really slow or doesn't try to keep the conversation going.. does this mean he is not interested? he has asked me to join him for a vacation next year (maybe just asking out of politeness?) he also said that he likes girl to make the first move, but i am really shy!
and initiating conversation is the only thing I can do . and I am always the one initiating!
will he know that I am interested? or how do I show him? if he is not interested, then fine, but I just want to know!

[Guest AtomAgeStrawberry]

SlicedBread

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@AtomAgeStrawberry, my viewpoint comes from the belief that the 'bad girl'/'good girl' dichotomy is just the old 'madonna/richard simmons' complex in different window dressing.  (edit: Damn the filtering system. It's known as madonna/richard simmons complex around my area. Not sure what the soompi version is.)

[Guest AtomAgeStrawberry]

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Terazu

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whats the difference between a good/bad girl in bed? 

[Guest AtomAgeStrawberry]

jennibear01

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AtomAgeStrawberry

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[raymondc27]

jennibear01 said:

AtomAgeStrawberry said:

@Terazu said:whats the difference between a good/bad girl in bed? 

:DI'm not sure if you're asking in the sense of whether she's a good lay or a 'good girl' in the other way. 

At the very least, a woman who is good in bed needs to be enthusiastic and visibly passionate without veering into fake porn star territory. Not because I don't like porn stars, but because in my mind their act is hella fake. I personally want a lot of caresses, kisses, and tenderness in between the hair pulling and biting.

hair pulling and biting??? lol what about whips? maybe you need band aids hehe

:-O

i feel the same way! i think i blushed while reading that  haha. doesn't it make you wonder who else in here is hiding some perversion like that? lol

 answer honestly guys. do men enjoy kinky and pervert things like that?X_X

Depending on the man but I would love to bring the whips and cuffs out. Men are forever perverted no matter who the guy is