You See An Attractive Stranger, How Do You Start A Conversation?

[NEVERland]

I've been pondering this since forever. I usually meet people through other people, (school is excluded, so for me, it's basically an entire network. But what if you see someone at a fair or something and want to get to know them. How do you go about doing that? Do you just go up to that person and go, "Hey, what's up?" I can hold a conversation with people, but it's people I already sort of know or do know. How do I start a conversation with someone random?!

[Guest twenty4k]

Well if it was at a fair, you could line up with them for the same ride and ask them if they know how the ride works, then start talking from there.

[Guest It4cH1]

first evaluate the situation. you notice something about the person. talk about that.

like "hey i like your shoes"

and if they're interested maybe he'll start a convo

then you can just introduce yourself, oh btw. my name is "."

the most important thing you have to know about going to a stranger is keep your confidence up, and don't worry about being rejected. Cause think about it. Its a stranger. you'll never see them again lol

[Guest _ATELIER]

/slaps richard simmons.

aye baby, /raises one eyebrow.

lol.

[hold up i just re-read the thread, and i honestly can't find any way to approach attractive strangers lol]

they usually always end up being a friend of the moment...so i never put in much effort =_=,

but i like that complimenting idea, just compliment the shoes or w.e and build off of it lol.

[Guest babikorean]

Well if it was at a fair, you could line up with them for the same ride and ask them if they know how the ride works, then start talking from there.

haha this year at a fair i saw a really cute boy sitting on the bench with his friends

and i was in line for the ferris wheel. He didn't look occupied or anything

so i just went up to him and said "hi, look i don't have anyone to ride the ferris wheel with! i'm a third wheel today, do you think you could save me and come on it with me??" he smiled and was like of course!

from then on i made a friend with a complete stranger! we didn't exchange numbers or anything like that.

it was just for fun lol!

[Guest twenty4k]

lol I'd be pretty startled if I was the boy, to have a random stranger go up to me like that. But I gotta admit that was a pretty swell idea to meet someone cute.

[Guest Regina Rae]

If I think he's really attractive, then yes. Usually I will go say hi or something.

It's usually at the mall & restaurants when I see these attractive guys. These are perfect places because they offer a lot of conversation starters.

[NEVERland]

Alright, compliments seem to be a good idea.

[Guest spiral_flare]

lol

This thread makes me laugh for some reason. I get so nervous around attractive people I don't think I could ever do that.

But if you're feeling confident, honestly, just smile and say hi.

[Guest AS1AND0LL]

You guys got courage if you are able to go up to a person who you thought was really attractive, I'd probably freeze up and just stare at them from afar rofl.

[Mannosuke]

Just go up to them and say hi. Why not just think back at how guys approached you?

[Guest sacky]

be smooth.. lol one time I was being an idiot, here's how it went

me: excuse me, do you know how much a polar bear weighs?

her: haha.. no.. how much?

me: enough to break the ice! hi my name is richard. xD

she found it hella funny. she's like my bff now hahaha.

anyways, hopefully they aren't stuck up or something. =X

[Guest MiizzHyukiie]

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^ thats smooooth.niice. haha

i'd be like "whats cookin good lookin?"

how do you approach people at the mall, instead of a fair???

[xxvictastic]

You guys got courage if you are able to go up to a person who you thought was really attractive, I'd probably freeze up and just stare at them from afar rofl.

haha exactly my thoughts. XD

[wishless]

Hahaha some replies are so funny. I don't think I can ever approach a stranger...Unless maybe they looked interested in me too? Or else I'd be to scared. Yeah just try asking questions. They'll have to respond right?

[Guest AWeSomeNeSS]

"Hi, I just wanted to say that if looks could kill, you'd be on death row."

Works like a charm.

[Guest alainachen_604]

whats cookin' good lookin'

lOl............

[Guest sourpoplime]

Ah... peoples' confidences and self-esteems these days are awful! Just talk to the stupid guy. Introduce yourself, compliment him, people were made for communicatin'! Learn how to talk! Jesus.

[Guest L]

A good pickup line always works, provided they have a sense of humour/can understand it.

i.e

you: Hi did you say something to me?

them: er. . no?

you: well then please start

[Guest chewy130]

h-h-hi my n-n-names Ronnie