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We know there will always be inequality between a man and a woman especially talking about Gender pay gap which is way too sensitive of a topic to be discussed. So, let us not go that route especially if we are discussing BINJIN. The numbers doesn’t define them. Let us not put too much emphasis on trivial matters not related to their love story for we believe in the alchemy that is - BINJIN .
There is no need for comparison, instead let us celebrate each individuals for their own talents and contributions to the entertainment industry for without them we won’t be having this forum of logical and intelligent conversations, of sharing the same delusions, experiences, the countless laughs and banters and etc’s. the constant sharing of giddiness and love.
We are dealing with a lot right now(COVID-19 included). Let us not dampen each other spirits by the constantly doubting. It is always understandable, but try to shake it off before it gets into you and always go back to where everything started. We will always have that #grocerystore receipt and tons of BTS, interviews to swoon us over and over. Their presence is ubiquitous amongst us. Let us remember why we are here, we are shippers not naysayers. I have to keep stressing this out because we always fall astray when there is drought of news about our BINJIN.
I’ll leave this with a quote from Sleepless in Seattle - When you’re attracted to someone it just means that your subconscious is attracted to their subconscious, subconsciously, so what we know as Fate is two neuroses knowing that they’re a perfect match for each other. This screams so BINJIN
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9 hours ago, Binjin2Ri said:
I don’t wanna wait til July!
This shipping business is already emotionally draining me out, I need it to reach its destination soon I promise myself I won’t ever ship anyone else after Binjin, they are a special case, my first and last. Shipping takes too much time, effort, not to mention the emotional roller coaster.....who knew shipping could be so hard
I feel you! I heard myself saying that before, but here I am, doing the same thing all over again. My first shipping was a success and I am seeing the same thing and having the same feeling with BINJIN. I hardly ship, but when I do, I do it passionately with the intent of protecting them from the gaggle of people who are full of negativities and doubts. That is why it is so hard to separate yourself when you feel like they are being attack, your instinct is to protect them. I sometimes go to work with less sleep which is a No-No because I need my brain to function analytically. I am always thinking, I will screw up work and get fired if I continue doing this, going to work like I just inhaled or on drugs. I swear I’ll stop doing this to myself because it is literally, taking a toll on my life and work, but here comes BINJIN, be darn! I am not quitting till I see my BINJIN married and happy with their cutie patooties in tow. So, the goal for now, is to see through BINJIN till the end and not screw up my work along the way.
Btw, are there Dummies for fangirling ever written or sold on any bookstore? I need one badly!
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12 hours ago, Felizak@t said:
The death of us...but we will be eventually revived coz it's too soon for us to die. We still have to send them to the altar, see their twinsies and binge watch Return of the Superman with Bin-ssi and the twins as features. Yiiiiiii! Too much to do. I've already ordered additional life for myself. Thanks!
I haven’t sign any DNR just to be clear and safe hahaha! And I can’t wait for BINJIN cutie patooties to come sooner.
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Aww! So heartwarming to see Yejin post an update on her IG thanking the front liners (you are welcome Yejin) and acknowledging her long silence. Also, did I mention how beautiful she is bare faced with an aura of contentment. Loving everything about her. Her happiness and his happiness. OMO! Happy BINJIN shipper here!
Here is my two pennies worth - my honest matter of fact perspectives and my trusting in the collective power of the universe for BINJIN.
BINJIN, I think are few of the people who are grounded in life and are both secure of their stature that anything don’t trigger them anymore except maybe, when it comes to their personal lives. I think that they value it too much that protecting them is a no brainer decision to both. They both did - The Negotiation
- they know how to negotiate their way around. They have become quite blasé about the risk because of the nature of their work, but when their Personal Life is involve, become the center of rumors or getting a lot of flak, they know that this is one of the NoN Negotiable. They will do everything in their power to shield and protect it. With that being said, I think we just have to reverently respect and wait for the time when both are ready to announce it to the world. I know waiting can be daunting, but I know we are not waiting in vain for deep down I know something is going to happen. The universe is not in a hurry we are, that’s why we are anxious to a point of making non factual stories. I myself, included, but it stays at the confines of my mind because. I don’t want to jeopardize what they have going forward. We just have to trust in the timing and what’s mean to be will be. We gotta have Faith in BINJIN and their Law of Attraction.
Also me - and if ever they decide to go to the award together being lovey dovey that would be the death of me.
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Yay!!! Huge congratulations to our BINJIN. Well deserved if i May say. I may not be familiar with Baeksang Arts Awards (how it works) and have only watched CLOY from all the listed nominees/nominations, but I thought the emotional vulnerabilities of the actors brought a lot of laughter and tears during its16 episode run, that to me counts for a superb acting. That is more than enough reason to get the nod from the award giving body.
I may sound bias, okay I am bias, but hey CLOY made it’s international debut too -that and being nominated is already a winner by itself. I also think that the complicated premise and controversy surrounding CLOY reflects the paradoxical nature of its global success and that attributes to the screenplay/writing.CLOY to me is already a winner and getting the Baeksang would be another feather in their cap. I will be rooting for BINJIN and the whole CLOY team to win, but i don’t expect BINJIN to show up together, unless they are finally willing to blow out their covers
for us. Only when you are ready lovebirds, no pressure. We will be always cheering for you no matter what.
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Recent news/sightings or not any newsworthiness is all good news to us
. We don’t even know all the W’s on them. We all just have to keep the faith that they are working real hard to keep that relationship going and private around the confine space of their own. Patience for their slow step forward on their own timelines. We don’t want want them parading around naysayers either.
Let us put aside all thoughts of self doubts. We are BINJIN shippers, that should be foremost on our minds
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10 minutes ago, TotoroSY said:
To be honest, I think most likely Binjin was there with staff, maybe after recording or other works near TVN, and had a meal there together. Because it's kinda unlikely for them to go there by themselves openly in a Seoul restaurant, with all the rumor news surrounding them. We also do not know when they dined there. But it's still so so nice to know they were eating together and enjoying food together.
Regardless, if they are with their staff or whomever, the fact that they went together is telling of how comfortable and how far they have come with the relationship. Re-grocery shopping- They did it before. We just don’t have the receipts for every outing, the outs and abouts of them every time. My delulu mind tells me they are actually slowly testing the waters if it is safe to come out.Loving their ninja moves. Our BINJIN is going strong. Take your time lovebirds, whenever you are ready we will be here celebrating with you.
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7 hours ago, binniejinniecultivator said:
'Cause some of us read here on their free time. They have limited time... so they'll all just read DM DM DM.
I think most of the shippers here are adults and working professionals, so reading a thread with all the request for DM’s is not really what everyone expect to read in their limited time. I also think, it would create a feeling out of curiosity. I suggest that we should always be mindful of each other when requesting and sharing any informations. If it benefits all the BINJIN shippers let us just say it out loud for everyone. After all, this is place created to share all that happy thoughts, but if it reads negativity let us just keep it within ourselves.
@Felizak@t... they are keeping a watch on your eagle eye
.Lurkers getting curious now hahaha!
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As everyone of you would know I was not into K drama, CLOY was available on Netflix. I got curious watched it (stressful work gave in). I thought the two leads look really good (acting wise not to mention they both got the looks you can’t stop swooning) and the chemistry was through the roof. Finished the series moved on.A friend ( fan of the previous SS couple who I believe was silently shipping during that time) recommended DOTS watched it and saw the same chemistry. Got curious with CLOY- rewatched it again and that’s when I saw something that really got my attention, before I even hear any dating rumors and the LA pictures. Watched YouTube out of curiosity and watched pretty much everything that swoon me ( from TN, BTS, interviews etc.). I and came to a conclusion that these two are definitely dating or in a relationship already (basing on the previous shipping experienced I have. I got the same giddiness). Plus, it is not a rocket science. The clues are actually in front of us.
1. It is a shared activity from eye contact to hand-holding through the synergy they evoke.2. The shared privacy, to maintaining their own identities, they may be arguing, but they are also laughing and teasing and these are signs of affection because they have made emotional connections.
3. Affection - It can be verbal or physical, but it is 100% necessary.
4. Curiosity - engaged contact is essential showing you care by listening and reciprocating the conversation.
5. Playfulness- The happiest couples are playful. You can find them smiling at one another or falling into hysterical laughter . Their relationship is full of private jokes. When they look at one another, it is as if they slipped into a private world. A shared sense of fun underlies their relationship.(This one is really them
). Taking all that notes our Happy couple is a pleasure to behold. I can go on and on...
My point here is we’ve been going back and forth with our theories/analysis here re:BINJIN. I don’t think we need more fillers than what is presented to us just to prove our curiosity because by doing so, we become so intrusive to a fault even digging the past, we contribute into jeopardizing the privacy which they have built and protect for so long and the normalcy they wish to have. Case and point - Yejin doesn’t do updates on her insta knowing 1 post will create a hullabaloos among her fans. She’s going incognito.Trying to be normal is near to impossible because of all the attentions given especially on the relationship status. I ship them hard, but I still want them to live as normal as possible. I want that quiet times for them to nurture what they have. Wishful thinking, maybe?!, but I really do! Contrary to popular cliches, a healthy relationship is not about finding someone to complete you, they are built only with people who are already complete going in and I think BINJIN are at that point in their lives. We just have to respect their wishes for privacy and then we just have to wait and wait..
Ok this is getting long, but my delusions is getting the best of me. Thought I would share
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2 hours ago, Felizak@t said:
I never expected that a simple curiosity would lead me to fall for BINJIN's dynamics. Not in a million years have I imagined living this secret life. My friend yesterday kindly warned me that I am getting too deep into shipping.
It's okay. I put a "leash on my neck" when I decided to become a shipper in February so that my cat could pull me back to reality when I am going overboard (like still lurking here when it's already his meal time ).
Same dilemma here!. My dog thinks I am abandoning him. I am off schedule with our daily walks now. If he can walk by himself he would have done it, put a leash and drag me himself instead. Kidding aside, I am actually always looking forward for our daily walks. It’s our alone time and my time to keep that sanity intact.
I used to ship another couple before BINJIN and it was what I expected it to be. Took awhile, but it ended being blissful. Promised myself to stop shipping because, it ruins my life
, literally! But, i can’t abandon BINJIN. When I ship a couple, it’s because I believe and see that they inspire, compliment and are mutually good for each other. I see that on BINJIN. I’m getting schmaltzy talking about my BINJIN here. Besides, my intuition never fails me. So, here I am shipping hard hoping for another happy ending.
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My take on everything media related and I can’t stress it enough! Only trust the information when it’s legit. With legit, I mean the trusted and the involve. If it’s not from any of them chances are its not true. We are living in an era where social medias are a way of living and for some it’s a source of income, and a place where it becomes a hustling for worthiness. Everyone can post without regards to any consequences and the lack of boundaries is really appalling. We, as a reader have the full control of differentiating truth/facts between the lies and the made up commentaries/articles and its contents. Trust your instincts. Don’t get to riled up. Observe the actions. Most often than not, the clues we are looking for are just infront of us, but most of the time we are too busy over analyzing we don’t even realize it. I take comfort knowing my BINJIN is happy and that is more than enough. I don’t delve too much to preserve some sanity. My delusions are for my own happy thoughts
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3 hours ago, aicila said:
Can someone introduce this BinJin Soompi forum to YJ? She can do all the lurking here!
My thoughts exactly! I think she will enjoy reading everyone thoughts and opinions. She’ll be amaze knowing we know so much about them, and how we analyze, dissect and put together pieces by pieces all the available informations we have gather about them, without being too overly nosy and with great respect for it. We are like the Dispatch on the hunt for scoops without the pay.
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2 hours ago, pariss said:
I think it’s ok to bring up the past, but without the intent of malign and intense comparisons. It’s more of bringing a closure and moving forward with only a constructive criticism attach in mind. It’s a way of going forth with the future. I believe that our past makes us a better version of our present. If we don’t learn from the past, what’s the point of having a future? Life is a vicious cycle, we have to learn to play along with it in a manner that we don’t dwell over our past, only then we can look brightly with our future. I think our BINJIN is going along fine moving forward and the future never look so brilliant for them, but we also have to remember it’s BINJINs life we are talking about. We don’t get to play with their emotions.Also, this is a Shippers Paradise. There should be a general consensus for certain topics to be discuss with, because some people might not be on the same page or comfortable discussing it with. We should just be more considerate and respectful with one another. After all, we only wants what’s best for our BINJIN
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4 hours ago, Choi sam sook said:
Yeahh i noticed. If i were syj after my fans bashing my friend insta. I don’t think i will keep giving coment to their post.
Idk somehow she likes to tease her fans.
hahaha! She offers something that we her fans wants, but don’t necessarily give it directly to us. She can comment on her friends insta, but she won’t post on her own insta. She’s lurking!
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1 hour ago, Choi sam sook said:
say what haters wanted to say and give tons of excuse. You can say they don’t know their nickname on that kakao talk. So thats why they said that or whatever
I don’t care.
That Kakao talk was too cute. You are working with your “close friend” on that set I’m pretty sure you would know either nicknames especially, if it has a reference to your characters. Awww..! My BINJIN trying to be subtle as always, but your actions always betrays you. We are not complaining though.
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46 minutes ago, girlpepper said:
Quoting my own self. Sorry! Not intended to do so. Was being passionate about my BINJIN couple here!
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Other peoples paradigm doesn’t change the fact that this is a Shippers Paradise mainly dedicated for BINJIN, I repeat BINJIN (specifically HB and SYJ). Any negativities are obviously not warranted, but there will always be a few DEBBIE DOWNERS that will keep on popping up every now and then just to ruin the happy flow of the thread. Let us try to ignore and go on uplifting BINJIN and each other by being happy. We are already living in a cutthroat world, let us not add to it. Any negativities will get us nowhere near our destination. Let us celebrate our BINJIN instead. Happy Weekend
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3 hours ago, Yanny62 said:
I feel like HB answers the well prepared questions while SYJ answers the unprepared questions because for the unprepared ones HB would rather let SYJ decide on what she wants the press to hear so maybe that's why he looked at her when the MC threw in an unprepared one.
Totally with you! HB can totally handle it himself, but he let Yejin answer the unpredictable question because He knows more than anybody else, Yejin values her privacy the most, so the ever gentleman and intuitive Bennie let her answer to the way she wants everyone to believe/perceive and hear about them. But if you listen to the unsaid words, and observe them quietly, read the unspoken words between the lines. They really have mastered the art of listening, although their actions say otherwise.
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14 hours ago, TotoroSY said:
Just be aware that this Binjin forum is visited by A LOT of people who takes posts from here (without permission) and post it at Social Media. Do be careful about your predictions, guesses etc and ensure it does not harm the reputation of BInjin or cause inconvenience or headaches for them eg. needing to put out fire on rumored news.
Looking forward to more Rainbows here!
Somewhere out there is a hater or just your plain nosy neighbor who probably doesn’t like BINJIN, but still religiously checking the page, or the subliminals who are too eager to share posts and taking every meaning out of context. We can’t control the triggers, but we can control what we say and posts. We really need to be consciously aware of everything we say, do and posts, so as not to jeopardize our BINJIN. We have the responsibility to protect them. We need to take it upon ourselves.Never been so passionate about shipping this two. Love them
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9 minutes ago, Ri Se Ri said:
Agree. It also feels like an analogy to me. Hyun Bin and Son Ye Jin seem to be investing in each other (marriage) soon. Hahaha. My delusional heart!
Also, the article said:
"Discarding is when you choose to discard and choose a condition with sufficient investment value. "
In light of the ex issue, don't you think Son Ye Jin is the best investment for Hyun Bin, right? Like what he said in an interview, he is not the type of guy who looks back (discarding) and is the most realistic person.
Suffice to say, They are both each other’s investments. One cannot fully invest without the other person consent. It is of a mutual decision. Ever wonder why they are being evasive about the dating rumor? One cannot go into it, knowing one is not fully invested, therefore, our BINJIN is wholeheartedly invested on whatever relationship they say they are, although, we already know what they truly are and it will only be a matter of time, before we hear that announcement because, I think they already are sufficiently invested in one another. Weeh!-
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1 hour ago, Felizak@t said:
Right! Right! Yiiiiiiiiii! I have to control my squeal!
Controlling Squeal to avoid neighbor suspicion 101: 1. Get pillow 2. Scream/squeal until you are out of breath.
The whole point of investing is putting everything there is, so in the end you’ll gain more than what you put into it. You won’t go into investing knowing you’ll lose everything may it be with money, career and personal relationship. Seems like, our BINJIN have a really good eye for investing. They both found each other who are willing to invest and at this point They are working really hard to protect their very own investments -EACH OTHER.
My delulu theory, because why not?!
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5 hours ago, Felizak@t said:
Just because both of them gave up on one side, it was not an investment without investment value. Discarding is when you choose to discard and choose a condition with sufficient investment value.
Reading between the lines here. This is really an interesting write up. This means to me, that all the rumors and denials are their way of turning their relationship into a lifetime of investment. Discarding and Choosing not to address the rumors, until the right time. To me, TIMING of great value is everything. Yay! I am living vicariously for this BINJIN news.-
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Not sure if I am allowed to share this.
But, here goes anyway, while I can’t get over CLOY, what’s left is to live through such talented fanfic writers. I came across *Archiveofourown.org and this very talented fanfic writer *CoolIssue with her story *At Long Last (not completed yet). I don’t know how to post the link, I am such a technologically challenged dork, but I swear her work of fiction is well written and thought of as though you are seeing the untold story of season 2. The writer is actually a fan of both RIRI and BINJIN and she is really, really good. You’ll read a lot of referencing about our couple. This is more of a RIRI, but while I am reading through it, I am picturing BINJIN, must be the drought to fill in as my filler. A thought of caution though, it has a lot of mature contents, but well thought of and research. Check it out.-
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Ughh! here we go again with the comparisons of who love the most, who makes more money, who has the upper hand in the relationship, who is better, who gets the first say, and etc’s.? Why do we always have to resort to comparisons? Can we just be happy for them and leave it as it is? First and foremost, we don’t get a say on the BINJIN relationship. It is between two consenting adults, who I think are more than capable enough to figure out something for themselves to be in that relationship. We are here only to SWOON over BINJIN, play cupids, send them to the altar (which I hope soon) and to some degree play protector to them and to their privacy because of the ever increasing cynic and pessimistic populations around them.
People reading some negative posts had a hard time grasping the context of it, how much more the people involve? No wonder, BINJIN are going incognito. Can’t really blame them. I’d rather they stay quite and enjoy their alone time together in private than going public and be continuously judge about it. We put them in a pedestal that we forget they are humans too just like the rest of us. Every humans need to have their private moments, but most especially BINJIN away from the flashing lights. Enough with all the negative overly analytical thoughts, we are past beyond that by now, let us celebrate BINJIN instead.
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This shipping business is already emotionally draining me out, I need it to reach its destination soon 
I promise myself I won’t ever ship anyone else after Binjin, they are a special case, my first and last. Shipping takes too much time, effort, not to mention the emotional roller coaster.....who knew shipping could be so hard 
for us. Only when you are ready lovebirds, no pressure. We will be always cheering for you no matter what.
. We don’t even know all the W’s on them. We all just have to keep the faith that they are working real hard to keep that relationship going and private around the confine space of their own. Patience for their slow step forward on their own timelines. We don’t want want them parading around naysayers either. 
.Lurkers getting curious now hahaha!
Controlling Squeal to avoid neighbor suspicion 101: 1. Get pillow 2. Scream/squeal until you are out of breath.
[OFFICIAL] Hyun Bin ❤️ Son Ye Jin (BinJin Couple)
in shippers' paradise
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To me this is a confession. Because both are in the public eye, everything is not always easy, it is never easy!
They can’t go out or do something normal without people noticing them. Everything and everywhere they go and do always make a noise or on the front page of every news or media outlets. People talk about them. So, as much as they want to say it to the world “ This is us, This is happiness, This is what we want”. They have to consider the repercussions of that actions. Once they open that pandora box, there will always be that risk. A risk they are not yet willing to take because that would mean risking the relationship they are trying to built and protect. Not everyone is very accepting and understanding. For now, protecting and nurturing that relationship is their main priority. I applaud BINJIN for trying everything in their power to not give in to the pressure. I know they are just waiting for the right time and I totally agree with them.
@BJHope... you are very keen with your observations and you thoroughly put it into words to get the points across very well.