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  1. 5 minutes ago, cloyfan said:

    @Ambivert for what it’s worth, I’m sorry that I offended you. This is all speculation of course but in terms of marriage, I think it’s too early to wonder why they haven’t progressed to that point. Negotiation promos started in August 2018 so it wouldn’t have even been a year since the start of their flirtation when CLOY filming began. I don’t think it would’ve made sense for them to think about getting engaged during filming because of the hectic schedule. Plus I assume how well they worked together during filming would’ve been a big factor in the development of their relationship. Luckily, their chemistry was on fire and they seemed to genuinely enjoy working together. I only imagine CLOY made their relationship stronger. I hope I’m not being too delusional here but if marriage is in the cards for them, I would think it would be this year or next year, given the timeline and their age. So let’s hope this ship sails to its final destination :)

    I am betting on 2021. Yes hoping for the best If they are destined they will make it to the end.

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  2. 32 minutes ago, PrettyNoona said:

    Hi guys,

    At the end of the day, it’s actually BinJin business. We shoppers only ship them because we love them both. But how their relationship turns out, it’s not up to us so take it easy guys. I think everyone entitled to their own opinion. Let’s hear each other out and see the differences. We can agree or disagree but let’s be kind to each other. It will make the thread more interesting when someone showed different aspects and we can all discuss and learn more. Lets lighten the mood and don’t take things too seriously. I’m interested in what Ambivert have to say. Ambivert, if you could, pls post it here. Thank you! :heart:

     

    Thanks for you kind words. 

    This is nothing but pure speculation and don't click the spoiler button if you just want to see good things. I don't stand by this anymore thanks to some fellow shoppers helping me out and bringing me back to shipping binjin positively. Before I put under spoiler I will repeat this and say I'm not a troll check my old posts for confirmation

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    So it's nothing just like we all have been assuming how HB might be protecting yj unni because she isn't ready for marriage yet or haven't had public scandal so to protect her image HB is denying the rumours through his agency my K friend who ships another couple with me told me she thinks about it in the opposite way. What if it's hyun bin who is not ready for the marriage yet and gave me complete opposite interpretation of the bts. yj unni is at the age where she would want to marry as you know because of her woman cycle that is the reason why she might have cried in that I want to marry you-cloy bts. Then I felt there is a possibility that she might be correct and looked at the bts from that perspective and felt there were few moments where hb was being unnecessarily cautious not like TN HB. It's funny how I was completely fine before and sensible enough to understand that they are not at that lovey dovey stage so they can control themselves but since I was under the impression that HB might not be thinking of marriage I assumed that he is not  into her like he was during TN anymore. I know silly me but like I said I had my moment of weakness and shoppers with whom I had chat on dm pulled me out of it. So because of that I also assumed that VAST check your dm and all was hb's way of avoiding all the rumours. Now this is where I acted as solo yj unni fan instead of shipper I accept that  but I didn't mean any harm to hb. I also said yj unni likes hb a lot in my original post and I ship them hard because of that. As yj unni fan I can see she is happy with him so obviously I will ship her with hb. I like hb as an actor but got interested in him due to yj. My post got misinterpreted and I was called troll by few so I jumped into my defence. I didn't post all this because this was based purely on speculation that's why I just posted that HB is different in cloy or less passionate unlike in to to get everyone's opinions about the same. I wanted a healthy discussion but I guess it's sensitive time for everyone because the thread got locked before.

    By the way my Korean friend told me that BinJin is like an open secret in the industry. Some reporters also knows about their real status. The Koreans also think they make a good couple but just wonder why they are not admitting. Now all we have to do is wait and pray desperately

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  3. 20 minutes ago, Monica Palad said:

    Please remember that this thread is NOT ABOUT YOU. It's about Hyun Bin and Son Ye Jin in a ship sailing to a successful voyage. If you believe in this ship, post. If you dont because you do not believe in either HB or YJ but believes their ship should sail, that's just plain confusing. There are indivudual threads that would be best for you. Please do not try to justify anything beyond that is not about BINJIN IN ONE SHIP. If you do, please converse in DM because there are some people who are here for the good stuff about HB and YJ as captains of the ship. Other hatred topics kind of destroys the vibe.

     

    The world is chaotic nowadays and for some people, reading good and respectful comments about BINJIN as captains of the ship gives them the calmness and peace. Please allow us to have this safespace and continue whatever non-BINJIN conversation in individual DMs. Thank you and be safe.

    If this was meant to be directed at me you should have dm me. Since I already put full stop to the discussion. I believe in the ship but everyone has moment of weakness which I had but I was called a troll by few for expressing my concern so I rightfully put my piece and defended myself. You have no right to tell me what would be best for me if you don't know me and how involved I'm in this ship. I'm a shopper I know it. If you just want to read good things I don' t think an open thread is a place for you. This place is for discussion so you are bound to have mixed posts. Good things follow a fan account or shipper account. Also this wouldn't have been dragged if not for people quoting me. I clearly said dm me and stop quoting I will respond there. Now back to regular shipping.

     

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  4. 5 minutes ago, Pepper said:

    What bts? Is that something that we have not seen before? Or was it the one where he playfully shoved her? 

    There was something that wasn't part of bts and just specualtion that I got it cleared with @Chewy. It's not important anymore. Because of that specualtion I perceived a part of bts bit differently and got misinterpreted as a troll. It's all good now it's nothing important. It was me overthinking nothing more. You know how we get over emotional when we are too involved in the ship it happens to me sometimes too. 

     

     

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  5. 14 minutes ago, rookiehistorianAB said:

     

    Hi there! I totally get why you would see that. In Nego promotions, he looked like a shy puppy always staring at her. And then when you get to the BTS on the first few months of filming, you would see him sometimes holding back a smile.

     

    But I always took it as a sign of familiarity and being comfortable in a relationship to be able to joke around. 

    Just a few examples:

    1) in the BTS of episode 1 when they were kidding around with the director, she sayid "Am I right? Be honest with me. " and he replied with "Stop annoying me" even with a little shove. 

    2) in the BTS of episode 6 in Mongolia, she places the blankets on him and said "I can't help touching you." and he jokingly removes her hands "Please go away" 

    Idk it's like a joke between them. My bf jokingly does that too when I'm being too clingy :lol:

    I'm not sure what changed but their actions in BTS changed once they were in the 2nd half of filming. I think it's because they realized that filming was almost over and they'd probably won't be able to work this close again, especially if they go public. Also again, this is EDITED BTS lol they showed only what was probably allowed. 

     

    At their age, I don't think they would be the type to date around without having the end goal of marriage. From HB's prev interviews, i think he does date seriously. They have always stated that they want to get married by 40. For me, I think they are both really serious about this relationship. Feelings of being in ~love aside, realistically, it's hard to find someone you match with so well, and from my understanding, that is important in south korean culture. 

     

    I have never shipped a real life couple that wasn't married before shipping them (like Emily-John Krasinski, Blake-Ryan Reynolds), since it's so hard to hardcore ship without security that they will really end up together, but these two are an exemption. Honestly, if we were just basing things on their interviews, BTS, yes i would ship them. But would I believe that 100% they were dating? Maybe not. Those sightings in LA and grocery pics are honestly a godsend, and the most definitive proof for me that they are seeing each other. 

     

    I'd love to hear more thoughts from everyone :)

     

    Hi thanks for providing me your opinion and welcoming my different not so positive perspective. This was the kind of healthy discussion I wanted. I wanted different options so that I can get rid of my concerns even if they sound lame. Your post did help me a lot so did @charray's.

     

    Also kind request let's maintain healthy atmosphere and welcome different opinions that are eligible of discussions and not just call posts that are bit not in the favor or positive light a troll. It would be boring if we all agreed on the same thing here. 

     

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  6. 44 minutes ago, Kurniva86 said:

    Yeah I do recognise you from the old post @Ambivert so I was kinda surprised when you upset a few people in here. I am curious what are the things that you have observed that made you feel concerned too. Can you DM me please if you are not posting them here? Thanks!!!

    Thanks .I didn't mean to upset anyone but I guess some are being way too protective since the thread was locked and sensitive so unable to differentiate between trolls and shopper with different perspective. I thought one can have healthy discussion but see how my each and every word was misinterpreted. The amount of dms I got how they understand me shows how shippers are scared to be open here. Because of some trolls real shoppers are hesitating.

    Anyways peace. Let's get back to regular shipping. Sorry for upsetting some of you when I didn't mean to

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  7. 17 minutes ago, liltash85 said:

    I agree with @Chewy, just write what is you so concern about @Ambivert. Many will give answers and observations. We have a bunch of ninjas n detectives here.

    The more you are beating around the bush with your post, the more you look like a non-fan of HB. You said you are a shipper and ship them hard but on the next line you are contradict yourself. 

    I have some concerns just like you had before? So does that mean we are non-fan of hb or we are anti shipper?  I have dm my concerns to some shoppers. I'm yj unni fan first then a shopper but does that make me a troll? I don't think I have contradicted myself. My post was misunderstood and blown out of proportion

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  8. 5 minutes ago, Sibongile Kgoahla said:

    Let's not forget the last kiss scene on the green poster yi jin kissing him on his cheek was because hyun bin was sick that's why many people were commenting that he looked cold on her which i totally disagree, he was protective of her. Be positive they are doing well. 

    Thank you very much for being so kind in your responses. Yes I found that bts very sweet. I have no concern over their kiss scenes. I didn't find him cold at all in the last bts. I like that bts more than any other bts. 

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  9. 6 minutes ago, Chewy said:


    I welcome you and your concerns! Only if you could talk with clear basis on your concerns on Hyun Bin. 


    do you realise that your post has resentment towards the actor Hyun Bin? Of course you never said you don’t like HB but you don’t relate to him on a personal level like you relate to your Yejin unnie. 
     

    and let us all hear your observations and perceptions then? Why is he not good enough then? 
     

    I never ever did call you a troll just to be on file 

     

     I'm saying it again I never said that he is not good enough for her. There was this one concern I put it in the spoiler tag and one fellow shipper was kind enough to reply to me with her opinion. But the other concerns may offend some shoppers and fans so that's why I didn't reveal like I mentioned in my main post. I got trolled for something I perceived differently from the bts. I don't even want to imagine the horror of what all I will be called if I put more out here so I will just dm you. 

  10. 15 minutes ago, Chewy said:


    I won’t call you a troll in fact I find your arguments interesting so we can all talk things out. 
    But first things first, can we at least see that equilibrium on your salutations for them respectively, because you address SYJ as Yejin unnie twice in this post and only address HB as HB when they are clearly the same age, if she is unnie then he is oppa to you, right?  So with this basis you are clearly positioning  yourself very steadfastly as a solo Yejin unnie fan and how are you a self proclamied shipper then?
    And if you have so much resentment against HB, how can your Yejin unnie ever find happiness if he is the one that she fancy but her fans don’t? 
    And how can anyone be good enough for your Yejin unnie then if all fans don’t like the someone she likes? 
     

    If you truly love your Yejin unnie, it’s her happiness that count and not the fans. You love who she loves. Period 

    I relate to yj unni on a personal level so the unni. Hyun Bin I respect him as an entertainer and also a fan of his acting. Like some started liking Binjin because of cloy my interest in hb grew because of yj unni. Before Binjin for me hb was just a good actor. I like his acting. I'm a shipper because I can see how happy they both are together. But does that mean I shouldn't be concerned? If some actions can turn you into a shipper then there are also some actions that may make you question the otherwise. 

    I also said I ship them hard why would I say that if I have so much resentment against hb. I also said I know she likes him a lot. One of the main reasons why I'm a shipper. I never said I don't like hb. I just said I had few concerns. Because I just observed or perceived something which many may have not. Even if they have I'm pretty sure no one is putting it out here because they don't want to disturb the dynamics of the forum. 

     

    Again I repeat I'm a shopper. CHECK MY OLD POSTS if in doubt. But I have some concerns regarding future so made that post but I can see there's no welcoming for different observations which are not in favor of ship so I won't post anything like that anymore. 

     

    My only intention with that post was to have everyone's opinions but clearly that wasn't received well so now I have learnt my lesson and will just go back to being a lurker. Last thing I expected was to be called a troll. I may not post regularly but I think I was one of the few who stood to protect this thread when it was being infected with real trolls.

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  11. 2 minutes ago, Sibongile Kgoahla said:

    Hi team 

    I don't want to offend anyone but in a relationship there's a honeymoon phase and after that it's the couple leaving their real life. 

    You can't judge hyun bin by behind scenes. Their relationship has taken another level, they are comfortable with each that's why we see a lot of teasing. 

    I'm a binjin shipper i love them both. 

     

    Hi first of all thanks for not name calling me unlike few here.  And I agree with your point I looked at his action with this pov too but still I'm bit worried. I would like to mention it here to have more opinions but since everyone here just wants to hear the same and most importantly just things that will sail their boat I'm afraid to mention it here. 

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  12. 6 minutes ago, Velocity said:

     

    I am not getting off this ship until both of them deny.

    I just wanted some opinions. Sometimes when you overanalyse it is only normal to question some things.  And also means that i care enough to backread the comments.

    I admit that it bothered me a lot, that is why i decided to share it here. 

     

    Peace and cheers!:D

     

    Then next time do us a favor and don't bother to share these things here no one is interested in reading such immature comments. 

    If you are so unsure dm a mature shipper since you care enough you must also know who will always clear your doubts and comments you get bothered by instead of ruining the mood and PEACE here. 

     

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  13. 12 hours ago, Velocity said:

     

     

    If you get so easily affected by some xyzs comment you never were a true shipper maybe you thought you ship them truely but the minute you start questioning the ship and also believe in comments like media play you should start thinking of you truly every shipped them. Do you think Binjin are kind of people who will stoop so low for publicity if you have such opinion about them don't bother to ship them. Before shipping two people together you got to respect them and if you can't then sorry but not sorry stop shipping them and bringing the mood here down. You people are not even providing some legit source but bringing in some random keyboard warriors comment and not only letting it affect you and also others here. 

    I think now is the good time for people who get affected by random comments, articles and denials to question themselves if they ship them because many people ship them? If they ship them because many say they are a couple ? If so these are the unhealthy reasons to ship so better jump now. 

    You ship two people if you think they are right for each other and based on available evidence you see a bright future for them and most importantly they make you happy. 

     

    Not a single day goes without negativity here. Sometimes I wonder if people watch the same interactions for them to get demotivated so easily and also ships based on what others think?

    I pray that the hype dies down soon so that all those who don't genuinely ship them leave and only the true ones post here. Who needs antis when there are shippers who behave like antis :vicx:

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  14. I know I'm posting a lot but I feel HB has been indirectly accused many time here.

    Hyun Bin is so handsome so no wonder woman love him but that doesn't mean he is someone who dates around. All the relationships he have had in the past lasted for 2 or 3 years. He doesn't just date for the sake of it. 

    Hyun Bin is a busy man. He is the CEO but statements and all I don't think he writes them. Denying or accepting is maybe his call but wording the statement is not his job.

     

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  15. 1 minute ago, pnaysurfer84 said:

    Imma head out. 
    There’s a whole bunch of Debbie downers on this ship. 
    I suggest to those who have major doubts to back read and listen 

    I love BinJin as individual actors and together. 
    But all these toxic attitudes about this ship is tiring to read. 

    @cybertron, continue happy sailing. 
    I’ll come back when everything dies down.

    I agree. This place has become such a buzz kill. Whenever a ship sails smoothly some people have to come and bring the whole atmosphere down. There's difference between different opinions and negativity. How many times shall people explain that vast denying hand holding is not that big of a deal. They just finished shooting for one of the biggest kdramas ever. If fans don't give them a break then who will? Imagine you work hard shooting even while you were sick and next day you see a rumor floating that could result in questions about your professionalism will you just stay quiet without addressing it? 

    There are so many signs that they are together but some hold onto few signs that are not even that big of a deal and start to sink the ship. Shipping is not for the weak. This thread before the drama finished airing used to be such a heavenly place with increasing popularity I feel like this three became vicitm of an evil eye. Now I understand why celebs don't come out with their relationships because they won't let them breathe freely and read too much into  every action. I pray Binjin never get caught and if they do they deny it and only announce when they are ready.

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  16. Ended up killing Fast Forward button for the first time in eleven episodes. I am dreading that ratings don't end up decreasing drastically. Climax was the best part. I feel the writer is under using the chemistry of leads. There were so many missed opportunities. This writer has tendency to mess up drama from second half. For instance in MLFAS things started getting draggy after episode 15 and LOTBS after episode 12. I don't want CLOY to face the same fate.  

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