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    Freaking BRUINS! They won the cup! :angry: We all failed in our predictions although I did mention them previously... :ph34r:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    I want to clarify if these are the right videos: KYS and Physicx.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    That was pretty cool!  Thanks for the recommendations.  :D

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    But those are missing the new crazy moves they've had lately...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    KYS is really amazing especially if he doesn't "crash" a lot... (unfortunately, he does crash a lot...)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Physicx is insane and he doesn't even crash that much, plus, he can really kill the beat... :P

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Whenever I wanna try some power moves and freezes, I look at them as inspirations...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Physicx's trailer is shorter here (but old as well):

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    and more popular... B)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    I eat them when I go to casino... They're quite pricey there but *drools*... I don't have pictures of them but they were made like:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    for a sec i thought u were you talking about basketball players.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Like Basket Boys?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    How about... being a Backstreet Boys? That could also be charming to some girls I think...

    What exactly are bboys? Gathering context clues from posts, I'm guessing it's a type of dancer? :unsure:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Breakboy Physicx and KYS The End are my favorites... You can find them! :w00t:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    At first, I didn't mind... but now, I'd personally want it out because some Soompiers I randomly talked to kept talking about how they got neg repped here and there (and they've started to post less than before, sensitive and afraid to voice their opinions)... I mean, we were talking about how awesome our days were and how extraordinarily delicious my chocolate milk was and out of nowhere I hear about their own Soompi posts "being neg repped for no reason" (according to them)... Awesome.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    None of these "useless" discussions would have happened if my chocolate milk had a normal taste and the reputation system didn't exist... excl.gif

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Freaking Boston beat the Habs tonight... <_< That makes everything stressful now with 2-2...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    For like 5 years in a row, my predictions have been pretty accurate for the Stanley Cup finals even though I never said who's REALLY gonna win the cup :lol:... I hope it will keep going on a nice streak though!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    This year, I'd say it's between Red Wings or Canucks. That would be what I would personally consider a "final" this year. The real Stanley Cup final wouldn't even matter to me because either the Red Wings or Canucks would be able to beat any Eastern team.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If Red Wings get eliminated before meeting Canucks in the Western final, then I bet Canucks will win the cup. If it's the other way around, I bet Red Wings are gonna take it.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Canucks are in a bit of trouble right now, losing twice in a row in a shameful way. But they're facing the Hawks (defending champs) who wouldn't easily give up. But if Canucks play their best games, they're very deadly + if Luongo doesn't choke too much.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    As for the Red Wings, they got too much playoff experiences now. Howard is getting better at playing in the playoff since he made quite a lot of key saves (something he hasn't done at all last year in the playoff). Other players like Helm, Miller, etc are young players who already had many experiences in the playoffs, which is deadly.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Even without Zetterberg (very important playoff player) and without Franzen for some times (a playoff monster), the Red Wings managed to sweep the Coyotes anyway. Even myself didn't expect that. I was amazed by how great everyone in the team was. The craziest part was Datsyuk being unstoppable.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If the Red Wings keep that pace and become even stronger with the return of healthy Z and Franzen, it's Stanley Cup for sure.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    http://drawahouse.com/houses/show.asp?houseID=704418&houseHash=c18ed3564c1d65b5a66bcb9ffaf846b9' rel="external nofollow">

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Click here to view my house

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Personality is soooo not true. :ph34r:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Are you in the military?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Recon sounds like a military term lol.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    No I'm not... blush.gif

     

     

     

     

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    At my job, we don't really use the term "scouting" as a way to obtain informations and intels from other nations or "enemies".

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    We use that term when we wanna sort of recruit someone with great capabilities for some specific tasks or assignments.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Scouting for a new unit member, scouting for a new bomb squad specialist, scouting for some new computer security specialists, scouting for more Personnels, etc...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    It's like observing carefully the people who have some necessary potentials we're looking for, finding more infos about those people, etc... Scouting could be done in a wide range on multiple people, and slowly closing in (by elimination) until we're more focused on a few out of the bunch.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Just saying how we use that term at my work...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Stalking is another story, different reasons and intentions... To me, it sounds more like an harassment, more against the law, likely a complete invasion of a person's privacy only for creepy personal reasons, etc... I usually only use that term as a joke...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    There are more terms that could fall into spying category or similarities... Even expressions you can't find in the dictionary...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    At my job, when we want to obtain informations from the "enemies", we don't use "scouting"... We use "recon" instead. Reconnaissance. Preliminary reconnaissance.

     

     

     

     

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    Hi I just have a question about French--

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    How would you say "sports car" in French?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Would you say, "une voiture de sport"?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    And how would you say, "introducing"?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    (context wise, I want to say, "introducing...the brand new blah blah sports car". (Like an advertisement).)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Thank you so much! :)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Yeah I'd say "voiture de sport" for sports car. It's a sports car = C'est une voiture de sport.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    As for "introducing", we don't really have a word for it so we'd go with alternatives like "Voici" which is more equivalent to "Here is". That's just a suggestion on top of my head.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    "Voici la toute nouvelle voiture exotique, la HTT Pléthore!"...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    But sometimes I hear some announcers going like...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    "Elle est la toute nouvelle voiture exotique Canadienne, nous vous présentons la HTT Pléthore!"

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Which is like...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    "It's a brand new Canadian exotic car, we present you the HTT Pléthore!"

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Or they could say "on vous présente" instead of "nous vous présentons".

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    But that's all weird...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I prefer the "voici" blah blah.

     

     

     

     

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    Haha our stories have similarities except mine has a variation that isn't so beautiful... The girl planned to cheat on me way before encouraging me to go back to my old job... "Distance" became one more excuse for her to cheat even more...

    This is what really happened. Since my new job didn't pay enough for both of us + helping my mom, she agreed to find a job. So I helped her find a job for her. Without my help, she wouldn't have that job.

    She sees her co-workers more often than me every weekdays. Guess what... Her and her manager had developed some feelings. Her manager even knew she was already taken but apparently, he didn't care because he was a flirt by nature.

    She "pushed" me to go back to my old job where I get paid more though I'd risk my life more as well... :lol: And I've already told you the rest... Yep... I was innocent all these times until I returned from an assignment.

    Just two weeks after we broke up, they both became a new couple. That was the most hurtful thing I saw... I thought she would calm down and take some time to think but nope. It really made me go "cruel-mode", even affecting my tasks at work and social life. But I got a whole lot better many months later (I even tried to get into another relationship but it got me thinking even more and at least, thankfully, the girl understood me even though she was a flirt and it was another reason why I wanted to stop :lol:)... Until today, she's been with him for over a year now. She still tells me (through FB messages) how much she regretted, how weak and "stupid" she was, how I was more attractive, faithful, smarter, protective, etc and how there would be no one who's better than me (according to her).

    Before she even had that job I found for her, she was always with me, almost 24/7 (except when I work but she would meet me). She was really all over me, which didn't annoy me at all since I was so in love with her, it always made me happy. :lol: Once she had that job, things changed and my guts feelings started to tell me the truth that I refused to believe...

    Nowadays, that girl kept telling me that if she were me, she wouldn't wanna talk with a girl like herself. She told me how strong I was to be able to still talk to a cheater calmly. That's probably because I'm used to calmly talk to people I don't have sympathy for, whether they're people who did bad things or just some unwelcomed strangers... But I just have no feelings or emotions when I interact with them...

    You can see the difference between your relationship's ending and mine... haha!

    At the moment, I haven't met any interesting girl over here but I wanna be prepared what to do if I ever find someone interesting and yet I'm all tied up here with my projects and works... Usually, a lot of "busy couples" get along together because they're busy at the same place (same schools, or even same class, same work place, etc). They help each other in studies, works, etc. How adorable... :P They have some matching schedules...

    My projects are full of businessmen and my job is filled with muscular guys... Not a chance! HAHAHA!

    If a girl could adapt to my current situation, then I'd be a lucky guy :P... I'm one of those who believe that when we're not always together, we'll miss each other so much, we'll cherish love to the fullest when we really see each other, making those moments special. I might be wrong but I personally think it's rare to find a girl like that...

    Sometimes I generate some imaginations like "How will it be like if I have a girlfriend right now?"... And sometimes I wonder stuff like "Hmm who would my future girlfriend be? Maybe right now, she's currently happy with a guy before breaking up and finding me years later... -_- " hahaha...

    Do some girls also think like that?

    PS. Your reply makes me feel better to the point I wrote so much... :P

  12. I might be pretty young but I'm awesome. B)

    Haha I was just like your boyfriend then, except I chose to be committed in my relationship. I even gave up my dangerous works/trainings (government related but I'm back in it nowadays :lol:) and found a safer job just to be close to my girlfriend and take care of her. But since I'm someone who's ambitious to do more, I even started some other business projects and focused on it only when my girlfriend was busy. (It's also because my job didn't pay much since she was a student with no job and depended on me a lot + I also had to help support my mom after her car accident). All my projects were still far from getting done (since I like to do everything by myself). So she pushed me to do whatever. So I got back in my previous job since it pays so much more. For an assignment, I had to stay somewhere very far away and guess what, she said she was so much in pain that I was not there in person for her. Skype didn't even help much even though I sacrificed some times just for her. She just wanted to feel me there in person. When I got back, we decided to break up since I found out that she cheated on me.

    I don't want such thing to happen again even though I know that not all girls are as "weak" as her when their boyfriends are away. That's why I'd rather succeed in my projects first so that I could combine them with a safer job where I'll be able to spend time with my dear. Or even to the point those projects can become my full time job if I earn a lot...

    That's why I'm not really into relationship for the moment... I'm not in good condition enough. :( So it's hard if I find someone interesting but because of all that, I dunno what to do...

    It's strange that my guts feelings have always been right. They go against my heart and they go against what I want... But most of the time, they're never wrong (I must be gifted haha)... I don't know how many times I've tried to challenge my guts but failed...

    Since I haven't been in relationship lately, I forgot to think about those "notions" I've had... It feels like what you're saying there were simply like reminders of what I've learned when I was in relationship. You woke my consciousness up! Thanks again! B)

    I shouldn't be afraid of my guts feelings anymore, I'll go for it until it fails... :ph34r:

  13. *Has received a huge thanks from NPB*

    Hahaha yeah girls can be so confusing... :P to the point there might be some misunderstanding...

    For sure before going back for the girl and try to make a move on her, I gotta be really sure about everything first... Like being sure she's still "available" and she's really the one for me before even trying... :lol: But yeah I shouldn't expect too much out of it either or else I'd end up hurt or disappointed...

    Yes you're right, I'm just like you (the kind of person that doesn't want to get involved unless you know the person well enough).

    Hahaha true I'd come off as a flirt if I kept doing that (I didn't even think about that). But you just made me think... I don't need to change anything much about myself after all... It's like "too bad" if the girl lost interest so quickly... She's just not in the majority, right? (I hope) :lol:

    It's really tough for me when I currently don't wanna have a girlfriend since I'm too busy with my works and projects. But it still doesn't stop me from possibly liking a girl and be really attracted to her... And the girl might also be interested in me and like me... But it's just that my current situation doesn't let me have any girlfriend at the moment so that's why I don't make any "romantic move". Should I confess everything to the girl if it ever happens? She wouldn't be confused too? :lol:

    Everything you said makes good sense and it makes me understand more from the other person's perspective! :) It also assures some of my thoughts because I hate living with just "guessings"... Thanks again!

  14. oh, I just realized something! I started using "you" instead of "he" :lol:

    I give up... :wacko:

    ^ That would be kind of risky...it could potentially just ruin the friendship that you've built with her. If you didn't show interest in her before or you did and then just stopped, you might just end up confusing her. Hmm, it might depend on how close you are with her already. If you're really close and spend time with each other regularly and usually that "connection" doesn't happen, you're probably better off not trying anymore. But if it's someone you haven't seen in a while or don't talk to often, I say go for it. You can probably spark that interest again. :) But this time be careful too. lol.

    Ohhh you're so right! I didn't actually think of that...

    Hmmm... What if I stay away from her for a very long while because I'm "busy" and then later I say "Hi long time no see" out of nowhere and try to develop some romantic attraction and hope she "missed" me? :P (What a plan! HAHA :lol:)... But by that time she might already be with a guy... D'OH!

    Ah well, I just gotta be careful at first time as you said... But I just dislike something about myself... It takes more time for me to have some strong interest in a girl... :( And once I've developed more interest for that person, it's "too late"... It's like I'd be in some hesitation in trying to develop a romantic connection or friendship connection...

    If I ever met another interesting girl, would it be better if I try to develop a romantic connection first just in case? And drag it a little until I genuinely get interested in her?... Hahaha... And if I'm not interested, uhm... :phew:

    Some couples were friends first before being couples... But you'd have to go through a lot of confusions before getting there as you said, I'm sure... :vicx:

  15. lmao tell me why this "friend" of yours seems so close to you. XD Well if a girl finds those talents a bit intimidating even if they ask for it, I guess the other thing he could do is show them he's not a robot. Be real (be yourself/honest), have a little sensitive side, and be sure to give the girl enough attention. And it's also all about the connection. There have been a lot of instances before where average looking guys (and even below average) were really attractive to me just because of their personality and abilities. They seemed really dateable for long term relationships. But I never really showed them any interest because I guess they were just kind of intimidating. They seemed to have so much going on in their lives and I didn't think they would actually have time for things like that. So instead I just chose to become friends with them where no romantic connection could really happen and the potential kind of just went away. So I guess for your friend, he's gonna have to take action asap and show those girls he's interested or else it's gonna go to waste.

    He's like a siamese brother to me... :sweatingbullets:

    Thanks! I really love your words! It makes sense and I understand better now!

    Haha he's certainly not a robot since he knows when to say "No..." (but not in a rude way).

    But I see how it is now... That's the point of view I needed to understand... Like how a girl would lose interest, etc...

    Fortunately, the guy is interested in no girl at the moment (everything I mentioned was an old story)... But now he knows what should be done to not make the girl lose romantic interest in him! Thanks! The fact that there are possibilities of girls who would even go for "below average" even makes him happier! :w00t:

    But one more question... Assuming that he was interested in a girl but she's already in the "no-longer-interested" phase, is it really "too late" to take action and win her interest back and feel a nice connection? This will get him prepared next time he "fails"...

  16. Modesty is sexy. Show offs are turn offs. Maybe your friend shouldn't show any of those talents until he actually gets with the girl he's interested in. Cause then for the girl it'll be like, BAM! OH DAMN! I CAUGHT ME A GOOD ONE! XD As long as he knows how to treat a girl right, things should go pretty smoothly. :)

    Sexy is such a powerful word... :wub: I like it!

    The guy actually reveals his talents and knowledge if the person asks him except when he's too shy or it's in an inappropriate place to reveal...

    Like the girl is bored and gives him a paper by saying "Here... I don't know what to do with this paper since I don't have any pencil to draw" and the guy goes "Hmm what animal do you like?" and she's like "A bird... Why?" and then he transforms the paper into an Origami bird and the girl is like "What the heck! Since when were you good at Origami?!"... But then he does a magic trick and transforms it into a rose and the girl is like "You're also a magician?!" and so on... :lol:

    But all that aside, he's a "good-at-everything-essential" guy (great at cooking, fixing cars, electronics, computers, electricity, etc) so that's where the girl often feels useless since he would do everything better even though he wouldn't mind letting the girl do whatever she wants to do and improve... :P

    What's unfortunate is that the guy is probably just average looking so not many people know about such "sexiness" right away. :( But your words are still encouraging! B)

  17. :w00t:

    I don't think that is a common problem. A lot of girls like boys who they can show off to their friends .. and much of liking someone often stems from admiring/respecting the guy. I think modesty will be the most important thing if a guy is that talented. Perhaps friendliness too, and not coming off richard simmons-y. :)

    Yes, it can be kind of overwhelming--at first. (Girls are a little insecure :lol:) In the beginning stages of a romantic relationship the girl might be a little bit insecure about it, but as the relationship grows she'll just treasure him that much more (that is if everything goes well). I think in order to keep it going well you'll just have to assure her that she has everything you need. :)

    Thank you for the replies!

    The guy I'm talking about (I know a lot about him :ph34r: ) often lets others show what they can do first, and then he tends to compliment them a lot and that's about it... But as soon as they insist on him to try, that's when they've realized he was some sort of a professional and they suddenly felt humiliated because he did way better than everyone there (it wasn't the guy's intention at all to humiliate them)... It went on like that so many times and that's when some girls were like "if I had a bf like him, I'd feel useless and hopeless because I'd find out he's better than me in everything..." and some others would say that it's kinda intimidating...

    Good thing it's not a common problem then! :P

    If a girl that he likes would think such thing, he'd try to convince her that he still has so much to learn and they could learn together. He would also love to learn many things from her and teach her some few great things he has learned... (I wonder if this would work :vicx: )

    So now a new question... Is there anything wrong with him there or he's all good? :phew: Like... Should he be a show off in the first place? Or should he just keep everything for himself? Haha!

  18. No. The girl should just go tell the guy to marry himself then =_=

    Unless you mean the guy has too much talent, knowledge, and intelligence to the point that his ego is skyrocketing...

    No I didn't mean it as a pretentious arrogant bastard show-off... I meant it as something that others notice... Something that others found out by themselves about the guy.

  19. If a guy has too much talents, knowledge and intelligence, doesn't it overwhelm the girl and he should not reveal too much of those? Because some girls were like... "Oh that guy is too perfect for me, I don't think I could keep up with him if I dated him, I'd feel totally useless"...

  20. OK, I really need help with how to express my feelings....

    So I suppose I'm a bit older than everyone else who asks "relationship" questions on this thread. But I'm wondering... how do you tell guys you JUST want to be friends? In my case it's a bit tricky, because I'm a new graduate unleashed into the professional world... I go to a lot of parties and meet a lot of guys. Of course when I go on first "dates" with them, I am interested in getting to know them to see where it could go. But a lot of times I find myself disinterested in the romantic way after first or second dates. My dilemma is... I understand it's dating "etiquette" to ask someone out on the third date, but I don't want to go on these third dates giving these guys the false hope of something more. I want to make it clear that I'm not interested BUT I really would like to get to know them better as friends only.

    Also another thing... when someone I exchange numbers with ask me out on a first date, they usually say things like they are very interested in a romantic way. But i'm usually just held back like "dude i barely know you. this is just hanging out to get to know each other." what do I say/do to make it clear that I want to be friends only first without sounding too obnoxious or hurt the other person's feeling?

    thank you for your help, =]

    Personally, I think you gotta try your best to avoid giving hints (even if it's unintentional) and find the best opportunity to explain them that you're not interested in anyone romantically at the moment... I think it's better that if they know you're single right when they met you, you should also make them think you're not into dating as well (even though deep inside, you might be looking for someone)... If not, they might "rush it"...

    So when they ask if you're single and you say yes, I think it would be better if you also clarify that you're not into romantic relationship... The wise ones would just try to befriend you and eventually later, maybe you'll develop more interests, feelings and etc with one them and the other way around... A lot of guys would try to rush things up so the trick is to show no interest in romantic stuff right from the beginning... Hahaha... So that way, the only option for them to remain in touch with you is to be your friend, which is where you want it to be first before anything further like romance.

    If it's too late and they already know you're "looking for the one", then you'd have to clarify that you only wanna do this and that on the next date and take it slow... They have to respect it... :P and to those who you only wanna remain as friends for good, you may have to be direct at them about it...

  21. Just make sure you draw the line with her and give her hints. so next time when she asks you "do you think i'm pretty?" Say, "beauty is only skin deep, i don't think you should worry about this kind of things. i'm sure you'll find someone who loves you for who you are." or "confidence is what makes a girl pretty." or "yes, you are one of my prettiest FRIENDS"

    HAHAHA... Alright... I like the 2nd option... I'll go with the 3rd if she keeps insisting for a direct answer (and hope hard that she doesn't make a move on me).

    Thanks!

    No more question from me (for now)... B)

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    Haha, that's a funny question. When my dog was a puppy, he would try to come in while I was showering or doing my business in there. Eventually, I let him come in. It does not matter at all.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Ah ok... But... Do you know why your dog always wants to accompany you in the bathroom? :wacko:

     

     

  23. *Bows of thanks*

    It sounds like, to me, that since she's stressed out/sad/etc. that she is in need of comfort, so because you guys dated those feelings of the comfort you've given her are still there so her reaction would be to go to you. I am not sure how to explain it... but i know from personal experience. Especially when you've dated for a long time or went through a lot together.

    Yeah... She said I was her best bf and we went through a lot when we were dating (for just a month and a half)... :lol:

    I thought she was over with "looking for some comfort from me" nowadays especially when I told her I couldn't give her that anymore and that she has plenty of friends who could do better than my current self...

    So how did you fix your feeling from your personal experience? Maybe I'll let her know what to do for herself (next time she comes after me).

    I don't think she means any harm by doing what she does. She just sounds like a really insecure girl, and I kinda feel sorry for her. I have friends who like to mess with guys like this, but they usually just like this sense of male attention. They need someone to assure them and make them feel confident. I don't think she has bad intentions but you have to know one thing... insecure girls can be dangerous without realizing it themselves. You can do whatever you want, ignore her, be nice to her, etc. Just don't get yourself too emotionally involved because I don't think she wants to be emotionally involved with you. If you fall for her again or care too much, in the end she will just turn a cold shoulder on you because really all she needs is attention.

    It's alright, I hardly have any feelings when I talk to her... But I'm kind to her only because she's someone familiar and that she hasn't done anything wrong as a friend... I hold no grudge or anything from her flirty behavior when we used to date... As long as she's not my gf, it's alright... :P

    When I'm busy, I'm very snob... And when I have some free times, I'm so friendly that people might think I really care... :lol:

    I won't be hurt by her at all but one thing is for sure, I don't let any of my friends "abuse" my help/assistance for their own comfort/ego/etc (after helping them enough already)... So I tend to keep a limit and find a way to stay away...

    There's just something in me that makes me not want to let her hear what she wants... HAHA!

    But how about I boost her confidence and hope that confidence would help her go find "her guy" that could comfort her? Plan failed if it makes her even more confident to come bother me... -_-

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