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Boyfriend "liking" girls pictures on facebook - do u get jealous?

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  • Beboo DuchezzBeboo Duchezz Posts: 12Member
    yes ! if i see it, i'll kick his Richard Simmons ~
    metalheart
  • justxlouisejustxlouise BIGBANG & 2PM ♥ SydneyPosts: 2,210Friend of Soompi

    IDOL

    It really all depends on the picture and how often these 'likes' happen. From experience, my boyfriend initially would like pictures of these few girls on Facebook and I let it slide and didn't want to bring it up. These pictures were of his friends who were being all sexy and wearing racy clothing. The more I let it slide, the more he was able to get away with things so I eventually confronted him. He stopped for like a month or so but continued again - there was always this one particular girl he would always like pictures of though. It got to the point where he was flirting with her behind my back and what not, and it wasn't a pretty ending. Moral of the story? Sometimes there's more to just a 'liking' a girl's photo.

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    The deeper we fall, the more we lose control"
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  • arronyansarronyans Posts: 125Member
    Honestly, I do get a little jealous just because I know that he had crushes on some of these girls once or twice in his life. But I know that he only have me now, so I don't worry much.
  • RinRin GreecePosts: 453Member

    IDOL

    No matter how much I'd try to hide it, yeah, I would feel a small sting inside. I'm a quite jealous person, really, and I do believe that if a guy really loves a girl, every other girl should be non-existent in his eyes. Call me close-minded, I don't care actually. You see, if he really cares for your feelings he won't "like" it even if he does find her attractive/sexy. Because he will know how his girl would feel if she found out. Simple as that. The same way I think about his feelings and don't go around liking pictures with half-naked men.
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  • metalheartmetalheart Posts: 6Member
    It's disrespectful, period.

    It does depend on the picture. If it's something cute or non-sexual, it doesn't bother me, unless he's doing it constantly. But liking pictures of half-naked bikini models, and also girls that he has flirted heavily with before our relationship, doesn't make me jealous, it pisses me off.... because I feel it's disrespectful, and it shows your GF/ Wife, ((and everyone else for that matter)), that you are looking and liking something other than what you have. Liking other chick's pics and not your own girlfriend or wife's pictures tells the world that you are a snake. For me, it's all a matter of respect, NOT jealousy, because I am a beautiful woman and I am not jealous of others. But it shouldn't matter what you look like.


    Everyone can find other people attractive, but keep it to yourself on public forums. I bet you don't walk down the street or somewhere in public with your guy and he starts pointing at other women and saying, "OH she's hot, she's pretty, I like her..."  I bet many girls would smack their guy upside the head for doing that... well this is no different. Liking sexy pictures of models, exes, etc and using the Lame excuse "she's just a friend" is so see-through.  I guarantee most girls don't really like it, they just say it's ok or they put up with it and don't say anything to him.

    What Ajlee said here, is the truth, not to mention the person in the picture the guy liked may take his 'like' the wrong way. 


    "by pressing like on the picture, he is heading to the end of the slope. he tells him self it is acceptable to appriciate other girls' beauty, soon it will be ok to express it to other girls and soon he will be flirting cheating etc."

    ajlee613 nailed it on his post.
    ajlee613 said:
    a guy who is truly serious about the realtionship wouldn't do that, just like a girl who is truly serious wouldn't dress up to attract attention from other guys.

    when i am really serious about a girl, other girls pretty much dont exist anymore. even if we are past the honey moon period of the relationship. and even if i found a girl atttractive, by pressing like on the picture, he is heading to the end of the slope. he tells him self it is acceptable to appriciate other girls' beauty, soon it will be ok to express it to other girls and soon he will be flirting cheating etc.

    same goes with girls. you cant blame someone in this day and age for being subconcously afraid. after all the bad relationships our generation goes through before society tells us it is okay to fully commit, we have all been emotionally crushed. think about your first relationship, u really gave it ur all right? "whooped" as some may say. well that is natural imo. that is how human beings are supposed to express their love. however as it stops working out, we get crushed over and over again and realize, if we care that much, if we get "whooped" and it fails, we will be crushed, so we subconciously defend ourselves by "liking" other girls' pictures and dressing up to impress other people. it is our way of telling ourselves "if it doesnt work out, i have other options"

    this way of thinking raises the chance of failure in a relatinoship. thus, why u are talking about your EX here


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  • MentorMentor Posts: 424Member, New Member

    IDOL

    oooroosay said:
    i'm single now, but i used to get jealous when my ex would "like" pictures of other girls on his facebook....

    most of the pictures he "liked" were of his friends in bikinis, in clubs (wearing sexy clothes) or like.... other kinda "sexy' pictures.... 

    is there any double sided meaning to these "likes" on facebook? and is there a reason to get jealous?

    when i "like" pictures, its only if i think its funny or cute (like a picture of a dog or something)... but i never have the balls to "like" a picture of someone im interested in or attracted to

    but then again, men are from mars and women are from venus right?! :P 

    what do u guys think?
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  • nana544nana544 Posts: 10,301Member

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    edited May 2013
    Yes, I would be upset if the girl is not our friends. Like, why does he even do that for? There is something going on if your boyfriend does that.

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  • KerrigantonKerriganton Posts: 1,830Member

    ROOKIE

    Some people just like anything that pops up on their feed.

    Nothing really wrong with that...

    Unless facebook is such srs business.
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  • lexyylexyy Posts: 6Member
    I'll only get jealous if the girl was attractive, big boobs or not.
    nana544
  • jphenrybrownjphenrybrown Posts: 59Member
    haha~the post is really fun~ i never do that on my facebook~ coz i only put PILI puppet picture on from Taiwan~ BUT i have several such picture on my phone~ lol~
  • TheJVSTheJVS Posts: 273Member

    IDOL

    edited May 2013
    oooroosay said:
    yea, theres a difference between liking a picture like this:

    image

    and like this;

    image

    the FIRST picture... id be okay with. the second picture... not so much...

    both girls are very pretty. but the second one.... i mean.... ('o___o) ....ya know....
    A agree with this. I'd be lying if I said I won't get a bit jealous when my man "like" a picture of another girl (not celebrities/models) with their Richard Simmons hanging out. Thankfully my boyfriend doesn't go on facebook much and knows better than do things like this to make me uncomfortable.  :)>-

    And I think it's okay for us girls to be a bit insecure at certain things until they get resolved. 

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  • nana544nana544 Posts: 10,301Member

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    ^Perfect example for this question :).

  • HERMITHERMIT Posts: 10,552Friend of Soompi

    EXALTED ONE

    Why would liking the first picture be any "better" than the second one?
    I would have thought liking himself a 'little bit o' lesbian action' would also be of concern to the girlfriend.

  • flyhigh1030flyhigh1030 what is it? Posts: 2,784Member

    IDOL

    Yes i do get jealous lol. At first it was my insecurity taking over my mind and i would tell him not to like any pictures of other girls. Oh man i was very very jealous lol but when i think about it all of it wasn't necessary. In the end he loved me. Of course i'd be bothered to a certain extend but you have to learn to let those things go and work on the relationship and trust issues
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  • nana544nana544 Posts: 10,301Member

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    HERMIT said:
    Why would liking the first picture be any "better" than the second one?
    I would have thought liking himself a 'little bit o' lesbian action' would also be of concern to the girlfriend.
    There is a big differences because the second picture is a sexualized photo of a girl and her big breasts showing, and so why would a boyfriend go like a photo like that? Because I think if a guy does that, then as the girlfriend, she would think that he has a thing for her. Also, most girls gets insecure easily, so that could be why too.

  • ikweliikweli Posts: 462Member

    IDOL

    edited May 2013

    Nana544 said:
    HERMIT said:
    Why would liking the first picture be any "better" than the second one?
    I would have thought liking himself a 'little bit o' lesbian action' would also be of concern to the girlfriend.
    There is a big differences because the second picture is a sexualized photo of a girl and her big breasts showing, and so why would a boyfriend go like a photo like that? Because I think if a guy does that, then as the girlfriend, she would think that he has a thing for her. Also, most girls gets insecure easily, so that could be why too.
    as a guy it's kind of funny :P
    pictures.

    i admit i do it to my gf on purpose sometimes just to get her a little clingy for a little bit. only when im right next to her where she can hit me tho
    "damn shes f-ing hot! *likes* "           lmao.
  • nana544nana544 Posts: 10,301Member

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    edited May 2013
    Haha lol, I'll hate to be your girlfriend then :P. Well, what if it's the opposite, your girlfriend like random pictures of hot guys with abs and muscles? Would that make you jealous, or at least a tiny little bit?

  • ikweliikweli Posts: 462Member

    IDOL

    lol not at all. so many reasons why it wont worry me.  2 quick reasons are that her life is mostly within our social group and that shes happy where shes at now.   liking those pictures is not a big deal. maybe she's thinking about me when she does it ;)
    nana544
  • nana544nana544 Posts: 10,301Member

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    ^That's good to know, it's nice to have trust like that in a relationship.

  • mintydewmintydew Posts: 12Member

    ROOKIE

    oooroosay said:
    i'm single now, but i used to get jealous when my ex would "like" pictures of other girls on his facebook....

    most of the pictures he "liked" were of his friends in bikinis, in clubs (wearing sexy clothes) or like.... other kinda "sexy' pictures.... 

    is there any double sided meaning to these "likes" on facebook? and is there a reason to get jealous?

    when i "like" pictures, its only if i think its funny or cute (like a picture of a dog or something)... but i never have the balls to "like" a picture of someone im interested in or attracted to

    but then again, men are from mars and women are from venus right?! :P 

    what do u guys think?
    I would get jelly over that! T.T Since I don't club or get dolled up for the club or parties, if my boyfriend liked those kinds of pictures of other girls, my first thought would be "does he want me to be like that too?" and question things.. but he doesn't so thank goodness haha : )

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