Dating people who smoke/do drugs

[Guest The Pink Panda]

hmmmmm, I don't know, I know my bf does drugs now and then, but I can't bring myself to get worked up about it

[Guest starrykt]

i dont really like smokers, but my bf while we were dating i never knew he smoked and he told me and i didnt believe him as he never smelt like cigs, but i completely look past that he does, i love him more, and wont let the fact he smokes get too much in the way as he can cut back, he smokes about 6 a day, im gonna make him reduce it~ for his own health and mine ^^

drugs are a big no no~~ turn off.

Depends on the time moment you two know each other

if its before you two dated. then you cant blame him...because its well..fate that you met him/her after they did it.

and if its after you two dated, then you have to talk to him and ask why he's doing this and

make sure you tell him/her how you feel about this.

if tehy dont care means they dont love/care about you

so whats the point of being with them when they dont listen to you !

i agree with that~ ^

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[Guest jiwoneex3]

I wouldn't even go near those types of people

Smokers= bad

Druggies= even worse

sorry, but i despise comments like these.

what, have you been living under a rock your entire life?

there are people everywhere around you who smoke.

[Guest tofuxsoon]

i wouldn't like a guy who does weed

but i went out with a guy who rarely smoked

and had this thing with a hardcore smoker

and kissing a smoker isn't pleasant >.<

[Guest Regina Rae]

I would date a guy that smoked. But drugs? I don't know about that.

[Guest HeartXiah]

If I really liked the guy, I wouldn't dictate him on how to live his life and to stop smoking. It's his choice if he chooses to smoke and if I have a problem with it, I'd ask him to not to smoke around me.

Drugs is another thing though cause that's illegal... so that I would badger him about.

[Guest ANGELAYLAY]

I'm neutral on that issue, it's just as long as you don't do it TOO much... Ugh that's when I hate it.

[Guest lynaeina]

Dating someone who smokes occasionally is just fine

but doing drugs for me is big no no.

I like bad guys but not the worst!

[Guest 5bchm]

I am allergic to cigarette smoke, I have a hard time breathing when smelling it, so smoking is a definite turn off for me. The one I'm with, when we were just friends, he was a smoker and whenever he had the urge to smoke I would kind of move away from him. So, he knew I hated cigarette smoke and eventually did stop for my sake (we were still friends then - very sweet of him that he did). As for drugs, the more I would not consider dating someone who did.

[Guest heineken.]

I'd prefer my guy not to smoke.. but occasional hookah is okay. =)

...and no drugs period.

[Guest vulgar812]

Cigarettes and the occasional pot use is fine.

Meth-heads, crackheads, and heroin junkies = nooooooooo

[Guest makirollx3]

I don't mind smoking cigarettes as long as it's not like an addiction, but more of a once in a while thing or something like that. Drugs are a big no-no though.

[Guest jDollyLove]

I used to be a chain smoker, and it used to be like a requirement that my future boyfriend smoked too. But then I met my current boyfriend who's extremely against smoking. He did accept me even though I smoked, but I quit nevertheless.

And now I can't stand the smell of smoke (my parents smoke)! It's horrible. Guys who smoke are now a huge turn-off, they'd smell like smoke, plus it's unhealthy. I don't want second hand smoke in my lungs! O_O And I don't want to get sick or anything, I'd rather be healthy and smoke-free.

As for drugs, NO WAY.

[Guest peppermintsugar]

I love smoking cigarettes, but I've never dated a smoker myself. Both of my parents smoke, so it's close to the same thing.

My boyfriend hates that I smoke. I quit for a little while because it's just so expensive, but lately we've made a deal where he allows me to smoke again since he constantly wants to go to fighting game meetings XD Compromise!

Quitting was never hard for me. It's now been about four days since my last cigarette and I'm not craving one at all, I just really like how they smell/taste, so I wish I COULD have one :[

Anyone else ever quit, but not have a problem doing so? I actually know a lot of people that didn't have much of a problem quitting. I smoked for over two years, too. I thought it was supposed to be super hard to quit?

[Chanmie]

definitely no to smoker because i can't stand the smell of it. whenever i'm around smoker it is so hard to breath. My mom took me to the casino once and i was about to die in there so i swear in this lifetime i'll never marry anyone who is a smoke.

[Guest oyay]

aggh i would never date someone who smokes

i can't even stand next to someone who smokes, it smells too gross

and i don't wanna be worrying about them dying or getting diseases

[Guest Alikhy]

I don't smoke, but if the guy I liked smoked, I wouldn't care. I'm not going to try and run their lives.

Drinking? I've had a few drinks casually, if my boyfriend or whoever drank casually, I also wouldn't mind. If they were an alcoholic, that's a whole different story...

[Guest cherriholicxx]

I actually don't mind if a guy smokes. -tilts head-

Just as long as it's not around me though. ;;

Cause mii nose is really sensitive. </3!

[Guest sethsegel]

I think aslong as they are responsible about it, and it's not hard drugs, it's fine. I would not approve of

stuff that has negative physical/mental effects though.

[Guest love20]

I would never date a guy that smokes or does drugs.