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Its great to see Wookie looking rested. I hope he stays healthy until he gets out of MS in 21-months time.
Anyhoo, back-reading and picking some convo that I've left off. So, lets talk about fashion a bit as our JH will be walking the red carpet come this fall/winter. No offense meant but I find K-Ent red carpet style & fashion to mostly range from playing it so-so, playing it safe and so safe its so beige and then the fashion fails. Unlike their C-ENT and TW-ENT counterparts.
Going back to KBS Awards 2014, Ji-Hyuni was just so on point and pur-fect that night from her head to her toes. And sexy to boot. No wonder someone keeps on stealing glances.
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I don't know if its the lighting but are those tan lines on her shoulders? Or, fabric?
SpoilerJust luminous!
22 hours ago, attriste said:22 hours ago, malaya said:I loved in her in that blush gown too. I hope her stylist gives her a more vibrant choices of gem colors and accentuates her assets. Maybe a thigh high slit? Oppa will have a heart attack!!
I had a mini one just thinking about it omo!!! Ooh she might stun in turquoise? Teal? Powder blue? I am not sure! Her skin is so suited for blush tones!
Well she should choose either showing off the legs or the shoulders, keep some to keep oppa hanging! I mean, keep some to be left to the imagination. Just enough to tease.....
Couture fashion for fall/winter 2017-2018 is mostly running on sort of medieval theme (think GOT) with similar silhouettes. There are several designers her stylist can take inspiration from. I especially love Elie Saab's and Zuhair Murad's Couture Fall/Winter 2017-2018 collection. Depending on whether she wants to show skin or not, there are lots of wintry jewel tones with their embroidery and beadwork that are to die for) that I think will be perfect for wuri Ji-Hyuni this December.
Elie Saab
SpoilerSpoileror Zuhair Murad Couture Fall/Winter 2017-2018
I think she can really pull off the off-the-shoulder above.
SpoilerETA: CTO all the photos and vid
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Curious too. Somebody PM me the vid pretty please. Thanks.
ETA: @riririru you're young in age but you've got an old soul, sweetie.
BTW, are you by chance near Surabaya or Central Java (e.g. Semarang)?
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Hahaha! 40s represent.
Its good to know that we don't have anyone below 13 year old here because if you look at soompi's T/S its not allowed unless there's full consent from her/their parents/guardian.
So to our underage lurkers, please make sure that your parents read the T/S and knows the caveat emptor on some provisions.
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5 hours ago, attriste said:
I really liked the blush pink one in 2014 before she changed into the one for her duet with hyungsik.
The current trend seems to be what ah? I'm imagining her again in pink but either fishtailed (will show off her nice behind) and plunging, or an LBD up above her knees and bustier styled. Shows off legs beautifully. And in bunned up hair, not let down. I found the bun up very appealing.
I loved in her in that blush gown too. I hope her stylist gives her a more vibrant choices of gem colors and accentuates her assets. Maybe a thigh high slit? Oppa will have a heart attack!!
5 hours ago, attriste said:If Hyunni has studied social and or behavioral psych, she would totally know wook was into her maybe even befor he confessed (if he did) hehehe. It's usually a year 2 or 3 subject in my country. I think I did that in year 2.
Exactly. If we as an onlooker can make that assessment, so should she as the recipient of his advances.
5 hours ago, attriste said:Ah forgot about the no promo part. Maybe they been holing up doing it quietly now delulu me. 200 sgd is much money you know, without wookie hyunni combustion??? Would love to see them handclapping together spastically and hyunni laughing till she disappears off screen and wook staring in adoration at her gahhhhhh
In the spirit of creativity. They should pity the fans and give them some crumbs.
5 hours ago, miss0115 said:Yessss, agree with you chingu!!
True that, we can only see a glimpse of what they are doing in wrap up party, the thing that makes me feel "awkward" was bcs I saw him drinking beer while having that flat expression meanwhile hyuni is there right beside him, i wonder why. Maybe bcs I already had a high expectation before, and I feel like they really seems to be in a rush (everyone). But, rationally thinking, just like what you explained, maybe during the wrap up party, he is barely pull himself together. They just ended the filming in the morning tho >< Not only him, but Hyuni also and other staffs.
I always going back and forth when thinking about their relationship lol but the only thing I'm very sure about them is they have a feeling for each others. I'm kinda confused bcs it's really reaalllyy hard to differentiate Reel and Real when talking about them LOL sometimes even when we assuming something non-sense, then it appears to be possible out of nowhere after confirming how they act towards each others ROFL
Yes, nothing can beat your own FATE. their relationship is sure a beautiful one. /sobbing/ now, I miss them like crazy T_T
I missed that bolded part. But then I think Wookie was somewhat lethargic even when he was talking after Mr. Bang called him to talk.
5 hours ago, Swanflwer said:Erm .... I dunno if this has been suggested before, but I am thinking, we should all learn how to do GIF. So that we can make a GIF a day of our favourite scenes. I think with everyone loading a GIF a day, we can all last the next 21 months
From what I have noticed, every time there's a new (or a reloaded) GIF, there will always be a new discovery somewhere. That's why I think a GIF a day will keep the ship sailing
This is what I'm gong to do. A note to myself to quickly learn. Stat.
5 hours ago, lovethatlook said:That is the most savage ninja move ever! High 5!
Where could they be at night? Not in bat cave? I mean thyre not batman and batgirl...
Hmmm..in a rabbit hole....you know how rabbits can be so prolific.
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1 hour ago, pauliza said:Fake eng sub posts Part 24,25 ,26.I love flow of the story in this posts .Credit to wookie_loves_hyunnie ig
Its like crack. So addictive. And never fails to amuse.
1 hour ago, daloula said:They were both ninjas today. No news at all
If we discover later that the sp cast and crew already met up, they will deserve the Ninja stamp. That's not just two people meeting up, that's a huge group.
I can't help but still wonder where NJH disappeared during those 5 days. And also who she was sms-ing so much the days leading up to that disappearance. Because in her latest pics after her reappearance, her sms addiction is not as strong.
I hope, just a teeny bit possibility that if they have the get together, PD-nim and the DP-nim will bring their cameras, and have Wookie and Ji-Hyun do a quick commentary for the DVD.
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10 hours ago, attriste said:Backreading! The super serious part just made me reel, slightly. Coz there is also no way he would have said it on national TV if it was just a joke. They could have bantered by themselves privately. Going from your train of thought, it's the anxiety and (some) insecurity that every man will go through on enlisting that probably caused him to also blurt it out...coz it might have started out as a joke or not, but evidently what she said warmed the cockles of his heart that he imprinted it on his memory hehe.
Her encouraging words has really done a number on him.
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HEY Everyone, my apologies if I'm deviating a bit of what's currently the convo in the latest pages....
TO OUR DEDICATED TRANSLATORS @riririru @shady01girl and to those I might not have mentioned who understands Korean: I NEED YOUR HELP CHINGUS. PLEASE VALIDATE IF THE ENGLISH WORDS (I'm relying on the subtitles) I AM USING IS WHAT HE REALLY SAID. Going further it would be great if you can humor me and list down the number of times he utters the following words:
1. Personal pronouns - e.g. I, us, your, she, them (Subjective personal pronouns: I, You, He, She, It, They, We)(Objective personal pronouns: Me, You, Him, Her, It, Us, Them)
2. Impersonal pronouns - e.g. any, its, somebody3. Prepositions - e.g. to, for, above
4. Articles - e.g. a, an, the
5. Conjunctions - e.g. and, or, but, whereas
6. Auxiliary verbs - e.g. am, have, are
7. Common adverbs - e.g. very, really, so
8. Negations - e.g. no, not, never
9. Quantifiers - e.g. few, lots, much
I'm going to attempt an experiment which focuses on his use of the function words and touches a bit in relation to the vocal tonality (lowering of the voice as a form of communicating attraction/sexual desire) and body language/facial expressions. The use of function words i.e. articles and pronouns matters because as experts say its less subject to control manipulation. By so doing maybe we can extract his innermost thoughts thru his speech patterns...i.e. the way he phrased his words as he talks about her and things that are related to her. So, we have some sort of an idea where they maybe at, affirmation on certain conversations they may have, etc. For now, I'm going to concentrate on the particular segment where he talks about her and the army visit.
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ETA: starting at 2:12
Wookie: I feel calm. Although its very late the time has come for me to go. I'm waiting for it as I complete my schedules.
me: For this question he uses the subjective pronoun "I" in both sentences. Its a subjective reference (a sign of self-focus) and the level of honesty is high and the word calm subscribed to his mental and emotional state with regards to his enlistment. He is ready and he's just tying up loose ends.
To quote a famous scholar of Psychology:
QuoteHonesty: When telling the truth, people are more likely to use first-person singular pronouns such as “I.” They also use exclusive words such as “except” and “but.” These words may indicate that a person is making a distinction between what they did do and what they did not do—liars often do not deal well with such complex constructions.
Q: Who will be the very first to visit you (in the army)?
Wookie: Ji-Hyun-yang-ie (?). She said she will come but I told her not to come.
me: "Jihyunie-yang (in loving tone and then he does thing thing with his mouth, lower lip pouting and that I-know-I'm-cute-and-I-know-you-can't-resist-begging-you-look)...PSG must be melting as well as he directs his gaze towards her. Again, the subjective personal pronoun "I" and twice "she". The significance of the first "she" followed by the verb said (a simple past tense of say), IMHO is that its an affirmation that they spoke/communicated and he heard her say it and he gave his response. The second "she" signifies that she told him with conviction but his a man with his pride. He was narrating this with laughter. So the underlying message to me was that what he has his fears but he's covering it with laughter and during that conversation he doesn't want her to see him that he's worried and for her to see him less of a man.
Q: Why?
Wookie: I have my pride right? I can live well!! Don't worry about oppa!!...But.....If she does come...well. [If you do come, thank you]...I will probably be very thankful.
me:the subtitles were put in brackets so I'm guessing this is not the literal translation? Here, he continues to speak BROADLY and enunciated the words...I can live well! Don't...worry..about..oppa!...BUT (emphatic and dramatic pause and with eyes closed)..[then continues to say]...If she does come...well..[he spoke this phrase in continuous pattern. I'm not sure I'm describing the way I want it understood. Its like on a musical score, the notes corresponding the lyrics, are joined together by a tie (curved line above the notes) so when you sing particular lyrics should be flowing continuously without pausing for breath.]...if you do come, thank you [with emphasis on you and facing as if he's talking to her face-to-face). Again he uses personal pronouns (I, oppa (me), she) and the subjective pronoun (she) + action verb (will, does). In the "will" there is a future plan and in "does" is an earnest desire and the knowing that it will happen.
By the way, the negative sentence, "don't worry about oppa" is an emotionally loaded sentence specifically his use of don't which conveys a message that JH should not worry about him (me/oppa). The word "oppa" with the cadence of his voice, in reference to how JH calls him is akin to a term of endearment.
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10 hours ago, gglex6275 said:The clapping while laughing is really NJH's mannerism... I have never seen him do that before SP. But after SP in the GD interview, he did the clapping thingie and even the laughing movement of NJH when she is laughing so hard. Isn't it quite strange that, the habit or mannerism that he had unconsciously acquired of her, is when she is extremely happy? I mean seriously, this would totally mean, that whenever NJH laughs heartily or shows happiness, his eyes must be watching her every move. It is the only way it could have been imprinted on his mind, that he can subconsciously mirror it.
Yep. It all points to their body language, doesn't it? His eyes must be constantly focused on her that in split seconds his optic nerves emits and sends signals to his brain and CNS signals to mirror such reflexes.
9 hours ago, babyval22 said:You got the description to a T dearie! Its the stability in their relationship and one that makes me feel they dun take each other for granted. Hahahs. Especially with that terrible first morning after, I love how jw knows he has to make up for that to erase that memory. Hahahahs. Sensitive guy he is. Writer nim really wrote their characters really well.
And jw also gave me abit of the possessive vibe in their first morninf popo. It's like you're finally completely mine after all they've gone through.
Gah. I seriously can go on and on and on about jibong.
Was it you who mentioned about the writer-nim being inspired by what's really happening between this two. That changes she might have made is a play-by-play or reflection of the changes in CJW's and NJH's relationship maybe from the first episode up to the final one. This is not to say they are actually engaged in real life but akin to being committed.
9 hours ago, songsongdiehard said:LOL, he is sucking the life out of her kekekeke
I'm reading this as I imagined the sucking sounds they make.
9 hours ago, gglex6275 said:OMO! Sucking eh? *eyes the #byeontaesquad* LMAO!
LOL! It sucks that we have to mind our p's and q's.
9 hours ago, songsongdiehard said:LOL... they have to be nice today, eagle eyes are lurking
I hope their eagle eyes, are tuned to the gifs and videos so they can confirm and reflect upon themselves that the insights and captured by our senses are not completely delusional.
9 hours ago, gglex6275 said:uhmm so okkkayyy are we going to venture into this type of convo, now? LOL!
9 hours ago, songsongdiehard said:After SS I said I'm done with shipping, it's emotionally tiring but look where I'm at again but no regrets. These 2 have to be shipped, I had to give in, I followed my heart
LOL... they have to be nice today, eagle eyes are lurking
Ikr, but then it is fun trying to find new and better ways to discuss their kisses! LOL! Initiating evasive tactics on!
More kiss gifs chaebal! Sorry an urgent matter came at work and was not able to continue this convo with you guys.
I think we have enough material to keep the convo going for the next 21 months. Roll the dice, chingu.
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11 minutes ago, gglex6275 said:
Machana! He did the teasing her first, and when she returned the teasing that's when he got territorial I think! LOL! Rawr-mode!
. In a sense, I think all those who are just starting into a relationship goes through this [well not that I am saying they are into one]. But usually isn't it the man is most likely to control the reins so to speak when it comes to a relationship. But you know what they say about a man in love. He has 100% control on himself with other women, but negative control when it comes to the woman they love. LOL! So maybe in theory, they wanted to test their limitations, as a couple (?). So like if he hugs her or holds her tight, how long can he last without doing anything. Or try looking at each others eyes without moving closer to each other. Or just talking to each other without unconsciously touching each other. Or him kissing her without drawing it deeper. LOL!
The teasing scenario usually happens in new couples, I think, especially when they are trying to discover means and ways to express what they feel without words.
If we were to align the BTS with all the scenarios I have placed on the first paragraph, so he can hug her or hold her but in the nex second, he would unconsciously rub his arm/hand down her back or bring her in closer into the hug, so in a sense he cant really last long without doing anything. He can look into her eyes, but in the next second, his eyes will smolder so much heat, its a wonder she didn't spontaneously combust hahaha, evidence is the heavenly necktie scene. We have seen proof of this, in the Aegyo scene, there were a lot of moments that they looked into each others eyes, NJH always ends up sitting closer to JCW, I think in one instance, PD-nim asked her to move a little farther away I guess that's for camera blocking. Lots and lots of behind the scenes showed that both of them cannot keep their hands off each other, whether if it was just to brush a little or a full blown touch or slight rubbing, its there. Touchy and clingy was their nickname. JCW could be touchy, while NJH was clingy. Now their kissing... bah, and humbug! In this I would rest my case. Those who would say otherwise, I am not the one who is delusional, you are.
Its classic noh? I just love how you describe it here. He teases her to submission to gain control. But then she teases him back and more (seductive JH)...and he succumbs every time. He doesn't mind one bit if she seems to get the upper-hand. Then they both surrender to their desires.
It's really not the big gestures and declaration. But the little moments and subtle intimate touches (I'm afraid to say the complete word "f_r_p_l_y" in case someone sic the mods on us) that leads to the big moment that gives off such sexual energy when the two of them are within proximity of each other.
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20 minutes ago, Olivia Panelewen said:
i'm sorry i forgot thet my ig account is private one. kkkkk
wait i'll fix it @tomago @malaya @lilclumsy
look at 1:54 - 1:56
Someone has reflected another habit K K K K K
something fishy
something suspicious
Thanks. See it now, chingu.
Dang, in-sync and simultaneous reflex reaction.
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8 minutes ago, babyval22 said:
I love love Love love their morning kisses popo in the last ep. Sometimes I think I prefer that to their steamy kisses. Hahahhas. Their popo kiss is so sweet and BH/hyunni looks so happy receiving it. Hahahs. And the way jw/wookie kissed her is a full on popo kiss. Not those touch and go kind. My replay button is gone whenever those scenes come up. Hehehehehe. So much feels!
6 minutes ago, gglex6275 said:I have always found it amazing that all throughout the drama, all their kisses to each other were always reciprocated no matter if it was just a peck or a full blown, open mouthed kiss.
Soooo, which of the two of you should we blame for that, JCW and NJH?
Me three. While the passionate-tear-our-clothes-off kisses gives the tingles/out-of-body feels, their morning kisses gives off that old-married-couple-been-together-secure-stable-relationship intimacy and familiarity in equal measure.
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20 minutes ago, Olivia Panelewen said:
Someone has reflected another habit K K K K K
something fishy
something suspicious
Chingu, I'm seeing nothing on the instagram link.
53 minutes ago, miss0115 said:And don't forget the part where his ex make a comeback in his life when he literally done with her, by that time he realized that he found his true love, that's why he said "i left you for her, this is my woman now".
And maybe this is the reason why he chose this scene as his best4 during his concert. He seems like giving confirmation to his ex whomever trying to get him back after witnessing how hawt he is during SP, that he is no longer available, this 22 y.o girl already owned and controlled his heart.
Makes sense? No? Ok i'm just going to hide again lol
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(going to catch up later, i see a lot of thing spazz-able but real life is waiting for me ;____; going to sacrifice my lunch time later to spazz haha)
Hmmmm.... the underlying message on the hints his been dropping not just to ward potential suitors off but to ward the ladies off that he's definitely taken. Heh!
P.S. Hi y'all. Its midday in my neck of the woods.
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49 minutes ago, babyval22 said:
Okie guys.. We gotta be real good already. Hahahs. We should blame it on jiji for turning us into Byeontae squad. Hahahas! Let's be good girls then and leave the byeotae-ness to both of them! Behind their closed doors. LOL.
BTW, your analysis on the team vacay jiji being ninja.. Hahahs. It may be plausible but considering the schedule Wookie was on.. Hahahha. Very tiring for him. LOL. But we won't ever know also won't we?
Sometimes honestly I wished we had fan sightings. Hahahs. I don't want dispatch to disturb them. But fan sightings without pic would be good for our souls. Hahahs. But uri jiji is super ninja, so what to do? Keke.
Although we should really clarify thoufh. If the gifs and video is about jiji, is it allowed? How do we check on that?
Ah the possibilities are endless. You know what they say about the truth being stranger than fiction. And as the old adage goes, if there's a will there's a way. If one's not inclined, one will find excuses.
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40 minutes ago, MoonlightSerenade said:
I guess this will be me ...
... *ROFL!* ... and yet N
Pssst....chingu quoting Proverbs 5:15:19 NIV
"Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love."
Mark 10:6-9 NIV
“But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
37 minutes ago, MoonlightSerenade said:Right. These games that "minors" play is unbelievable... but I respect rules so I'll just be literally ... *oh hello bible! You have been hiding for awhile. Welcome back.*
Lmao!!!
IKR? Ya know, methinks we are on the right track that are making people uncomfortable.
34 minutes ago, tomago said:So many theories today and i m loving it!! Too many to quote so I will just put one quote here... hehe.
I kept thinking abt the 8years that jcw mentioned. First I tot was he talking their first project tgt (wbsd) but that happen in 2011 (6 yrs ago), then 8 yrs ago hyunnie was in the drama "queen SD" and they nvr met, then was it their 8 yrs diff in age?? Then I read the storyline of wbsd, hyunnie appeared in the drama as a 12yo young lady, then when jsw appeared as the adult version, was he 20yo in the story? I can't seemed to verify the latter part. If it is, then it explain why he say he waited 8 yrs to meet his female lead!
@Huntergal love the way u describe their meetup in 2014!!!!! Please do
I like where your going chingu. Puts it in a slightly different perspective.
30 minutes ago, lovethatlook said:Noooo. who would divert our attention when things start to get so teary and lonely??? LOL!!
WORD. But makes me more determined. This too shall pass.
30 minutes ago, lovethatlook said:SpoilerIMO, we were discussing kissing scenes and bed scenes, spooning and what not. How that becomes disrespecting the artists when they were the one who did the scenes. Such double standards. You cant write about it but who is stopping people from talking about those scenes in the bar, dark alleys, cars, taxis, friend's house, tea parlors, madam's boudoir, pet shop, coffee shop, resrto bar, whereever. People here share ideas and bec all of us have different opinions on it, the discussion could become heated, funny, educational and sometimes serious. I do not discuss there kissing scenes and analyze it like how you water your plants, who does that? LOL.
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SpoilerIA. Its not that different from making a commentary and discussing a scene(s) of a particular movie or drama. They are actors who are comfortable in their own skin. Heck, Wookie even kiss a man in his musical. Was their an uproar from his fans that he kissed a man?
So if I make a reference to say a movie like "Jit" with some explicit scenes, is that also not allowed in Soompi? Its precisely why movies are rated or there's that conspicuous tv rating (GP, PG15, and in my country SPG (sexual content, etc. that needs parental guidance).
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30 minutes ago, nikih said:
noted! but we can still post suggestive bts gif from Suspicious Drama like slow mo french kiss right under spoiler right?
I want to know too. The word SUGGESTIVE is constrictive. And hope its defined clearly.
I hope the MODS does not take offense but CHILDREN nowadays are listening to songs whose lyrics are quite suggestive. And who knows what kind of videos they are watching when no one is looking.
This is one of the things that I'm conflicted at times with how these times the world has become so PC. See, I grew up with the freedom and was given the CHOICE on what kind of literature or movies I watch.
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Sigh. It's hard to put into perspective. Just wanna add that during those times I knew where my parents and older siblings kept their stash on porn. But I was never tempted or if I knew they were watching I just shrugged my shoulders and continue with what I do because I have my own with Harold Robbins, Rosemary Rogers, Jude Deveraux, etc. We were taught to be independent thinkers during those turbulent times in the 70s. So I guess its different nowadays.
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9 minutes ago, MoonlightSerenade said:
After getting
I guess I'll be ... LMAO!!!! Awesome! Thanks! I'll check it out.
I hope you don't escape to some convent, chingu.
I'm still on Jibong high....somebody clue me in. So, we cannot even talk about
SpoilerSEX and all it entails
and put images/gifs under spoiler?
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14 minutes ago, nikih said:
goosebumps and butterflies in belly looking at this collage
What i love about this is they're filming their character. This is all JCW looking at NJH as man and woman.
how can they be this perfect together?
Goosebumps, indeed. The way he looks at her has not changed.
I'm suppose to get ready……gotta run.
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8 minutes ago, aa95 said:
Did you guys notice how JCW used the word "psychology" quite a few times in his answers. The "dont like me scene" he's talking about his character already liking her but because of the "psychological" relationship issue on his part --- previously he also talked about portraying the "psychology of men and woman differently"(during the press interviews posted on JCW kitchen) ---- I think there were other times too post-SP.
Just an observation. I think both NJH and JCW talked alot on the psychology of their characters. It makes sense that NJH as a psychology major would be in-tuned to the thinking of the characters. And them having a lot of conversations in regards to that aspect.
It kind of reminds me of the NJW and EBH discussion in the last episode about the lady that hit her husband with the bat. EBH was explaining why it makes sense that she would attack her husband after all these years after keeping her emotions bottled away for so long. She was taking a psychological approach.
I am bummed that I slept through @taonaka's post! But it's okay- I understand why you'd delete it eventually!
Also going back to 2014 - since we know that they had the same hairstylist even at that time- I can imagine them getting their hair done that day around the same time. Also since they both had filming schedules for their respective projects- it's likely they ran into each other often around that time as well.
He was most definitely attracted to her. He probably didn't know her that well and probably didn't at first think too much about the attraction but it was there. In a way he really did wait for her - maybe not "8 years" like he said (though that is their age difference) but his crush wasn't a new phenomenon. I also imagine NJH crushing on him as well but she's a bit harder to read. It is clear though from all her previous BTS - that she was the happiest and most lively during SP.
I think it's easier to understand who that "destined person" who he "kept running into and taking a look at in passing but not being able to forget" was. Also I imagine NJH maybe knew from observation who she was talking about when she said she likes some one who is "serious when he works but playful otherwise".
Since SKL and K2 (2016ish) were around the same time and so was Healer and What Happens to My Family (2014-2015ish). Even when they were filming different projects -- they probably ran into each other thanks to their very own hairstylist.
This. This running into each other that they constantly have. If they've been bumping into each other since 5 years ago. He saw her blossomed from a young girl into this young lady who catches his eye as someone he can be attracted to. That night might have been a point of realization for him. She's not a girl whom he saw often and prolly has a certain fondness off because our fairy godmother and everyone at the salon are always signing praises of JH ("angel") . His body language that night, he was looking at someone he was interested at. At some point antsy he keeps looking at something/someone behind him (this is when I think JH was not on their table and she might have changed her dress, from long gown to the short one which shows off her legs for the duet number.
I think JH was being shy and being reverent in his presence. And I agree someone who is seeing her crush in close proximity.
Ahh. Whatever….people can disagree but this my conjecture. Hah!
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1 hour ago, shady01girl said:
if i won the lotto i would totally take u guys to korea with me for his farewell...lol i think itll be fun hahahaha
And dinner's on me. Heck if they announce they're married plans. I'll splurge for us to check-in and just spazz at Shangri-la Mactan and have a drinking binge in the room for those in the Phils. [I'd better start saving for this voucher].
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I'm one of the lucky ones who saw @taonaka's IG posts and it was still in my page cache when I fell asleep. Too bad I was so sleepy after reading genxv's fanfic and didn't save it. Then refresh the pages this morning and found it gone.
I thought I have gone so delulu I'm imagining posts that weren't there or was it part of a dream. LOL! I'm glad to know she really post it and its not just a figment of my imagination. Hahaha!
And speaking of SP withdrawal symptoms. I echo everyone's sentiments.The struggle is real….
What to do? To wean myself post-SP:
1) Watch early episodes of SP in between trying new K-drams dramas that might catch my interest. I've already re-watched SP from EP1-EP40. Still hooked and find no cure forthcoming.
2) Read this Jibong thread from page 1 and giggle, nod (agreeing and so much word on what's being said, the analysis, the musings, people's confessions on why they are on board this ship, clicks like again)…cackles and LOL at the byuntae squads gifs and banters….giggles some more on the BTS posted and goes back to watching the BTS at youtube and read the comments again.
……DIGNOSIS: It's hopeless. Its hard to stay away from one's HAPPY PILL.
3) Tried picking up and books and catch up on my readings with subjects/plot vastly different from SP vibes…..but why am I rummaging thru my stash of old romance novels huh? Amidst the clutter, saw a Scott Turow book (PRESUMED INNOCENT, BURDEN OF PROOF), somehow its still related to SP. Aiyoo!
BTW Shout out to @genxv I AM IN LOVE with your FANFIC. I totally devoured it last night. For a first time fanfic writer, you are doing a swell JOB. Had you not mentioned it in your foreword, I reckon you're a seasoned romance writer. This coming from someone who started reading romance novels in elementary/grade school. And I'm so looking forward when you up the ante in the later chapters. Hehehe..
I don't know if reading your fanfic will wean me from SP but it sure made me more ADDICTED with JIJI/JIBONG. As the movie goes, I"M INTO THE DEEP, there is no surfacing. Hahaha!
4) Since none of the K-dramas, TW-drams, mainland C-drams aren't catching my interest currently…. I'm now contemplating re-watching some lakorns that I've enjoyed pre-SP (Yai Kanlaya, Raeng Pradtanah, Kleun Cheewit (both the old version and new 2017 version). Its funny because, with YK, I ship Michael Pattradetch and Bow Melada because of their chemistry in the lakorn and then later found out people were shipping them outside of the drama. But I'm not as gaga over them as I am with Jibong so I don't seek any news about them. With the other two (RP and KC), the other half of each of the OTP (in RP - the OTP is Kim and Nadech and in KC - the OTP is Yaya and Mark) in the lakorns are real life couples (i.e. Yaya with Nadech and Kim with Mark). Though please note that I haven't been keeping up with Thai-Ent lately and from I recall they are all still together. So sue me. Heh!
BTW, I'm gonna put this into spoiler because I'm gonna go slightly off-topic and talk about my sorta "shipping" (I'm not sure it qualifies as shipping as I don't really follow them religiously as I follow my other ships before and my current obsession with JIBONG. Also I found myself shipping her with another actor when she did a drama with him) of Kim and Mark although its not on the same level as I'm now shipping Jiji. Out of respect for those who might find it off-putting because there are people who have issues with how they started and doesn't like him (he's a player) and doesn't like her (go-getter and she's only with her then boyfriend who is older to further her career) and doesn't like them together. PLEASE SKIP IF YOU DON'T WANT TO READ ABOUT THEM……...
SpoilerI don't know why but my biases before Jiji seems to start their love story with some controversies. One of my other bias which started with controversy went into the distance (long committed relationship, children, marriage, separation) but I'm not going to talk more about them because its heartbreaking and I don't want what's going on with them to color my shipping experience with Jiji, as up until now there's still a teeny bit of hope in me that down the line they are still the endgame. Same as thru I'm pinning my hope and my belief that NJH and CJW are the ENDGAME not just in SP (as NJW and EBH) but also in RL.
Anyhoo, going back to Mark and Kim and one of the reasons why I relate to what I observed between them to what I see/sense in CJW and NJH. And with conviction I can say there is more to their actions/talk outside being professional actors. I first saw MK in a 4-series drama (2010) but they were paired with another. Because of that drama, the main cast became friends and formed their gang of friends. Up until now Yaya and Kim are still close and Nadech and Mark are too. Only it was later on revealed when MK are already a couple, and I gleaned this from an interview with the other main cast and Mark (indirectly) that he was interested and liked her then. But he didn't act on it for a lot of reasons, one of which is TIMING IMO. I think it was also because he's justing starting in the industry and his agency was having him in a love team with another actress. My memory's fuzzy so I can't recall if he was also dating at that time. Maybe he was. I also don't know if Kim was dating at that time but I do know that her relationship came out to the public with her then-boyfriend 2 years after the drama. So they have always been in the periphery of each other and have spent time together in group activity and outings with mutual friends and are friends but not really close. Then they were paired in 2011 as one of the 3 pairs in Sarm Noom Nuer Tong. I remember, watching then and to me they were the pair I found to have the most chemistry among the 3. But that was that, my interest on their chemistry was only as far as the drama goes. I guess the powers that be noticed the chemistry and fan interest and sought to capitalize on it. They were then paired again as the OTP the year after and that's when they were dubbed as a Koo-Jin (shipped couple in Thai Ent) by many fans of the drama and their pairing. At that time Kim was still with her producer boyfriend but they were having problems and Mark was also dating another actress. MK shippers were borne out of the chemistry in the drama and the BTS - they were sweet, playful, goofing around, he teases her a lot), lots of talks came out then of their sweetness which made the shippers giddy and surmises that something is up between the two. That's when I watched an interview of them together to see for myself and observe their body language. The interview was very telling at least on Mark's, not so much on Kim's. He was hanging on to her words, leans towards constantly (they were seated beside each other but his head, legs, feet points to her direction), his eyes follows her, fidgets and seems to unconsciously tries to move closer. His body language spokes volumes that the interviewer (a respected and seasoned one) at one point teased him about it. So I also surmised, the shippers were not being delusional. In that interview, he's just into her. On her side though it was very subtle. I was even doubting if she reciprocate his feelings. Then the scandal came out of their line chat leaked (from his phone). It was the opposite and I paraphrase - M: "missed me?, to which K replied: "Missed you so much I'm going crazy". Shippers went crazy too. The haters went nasty. They got so much flak after. Then months later news came out she broke off with her then boyfriend and he seemed to stopped dating the other actress as she also posted in social media that she's not seeing him anymore. Then the rest is history as they've publicly become a couple after. I guess they were fortunate because the fans accepted their love team and they had support from the industry. So, though there was backlash it has not affected their career,
So my experience with this Thai couple and my other biases that came to be true, relates to my shipping experience with Jibong. Just like our chingus can relate their experience with SongSong and their other ships. The rational and skeptic part of me may question of how it came to be, what I SURMISE might just be purely conjecture borne of my desire to be proven right. But….as a human being I'm also equipped with instinct that has helped me in a lot of sticky situations, be it personal and in business/work related.
I'll reiterate the top 3 causes/reasons that has been beautifully narrated and explained by many intelligent and high EQ chingus in this thread that has become my raison d'être -
1) The body language - the theory on mirroring - no need to expound.
2) The change in tonality in their voices when talking to each other or about each other. It has also been discussed in this thread how they change tones in their voices when they are talking in the BTS and interviews (e.g. the couch -aegyo scene really stood out to me as has been mentioned countless of times by many here. Wookie's voice really lowered (it was a noticeable dip in his voice register) and JH voice too becomes huskier, when she has a natural lilting voice.
3) The inner calm (being comfortable, shedding of inhibitions esp. on JH's side, the trust she has for Wookie and his trust and admiration for her in both as person and fellow actor) one gleans from when they talk about each and interviewed together. If you've been in a relationship, its telling when the person of the opposite sex becomes an anchor and you speak about being steadfast in your belief of who that person is as himself and not just the persona on screen.
Will continue my spazzing later as I'm running late.
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28 minutes ago, lovethatlook said:
ahahaha!!! IKR, I try to be good for an hour, is time yet??? LOL
Awww! I missed my daily dose of byuntae talk and banter from you guys.....it never fails me to crack me up.
Another first that I've experienced with Jibong. I've been in forums (political forums) where the threads are closed or posters getting banned due to personal attacks but this is the first where there's a warning due to what is deem as "MATURE CONTENT". Amazing.
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10 minutes ago, solaire said:
With all this good looking younger, older namjas singing praises of wuri Hyunnie......I can understand why he wrote, "Honey don't cheat on oppa. LOL!
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7 minutes ago, aa95 said:
BTW the playful feet bit--- did you guys see how he started playing with his watch when NJH foot came into contact with his?!! Hehehehehehhe I think we just caught a very intimate playful moment between the two!!
And both their hands were not visible when Wookie crouched and then he straightened and fidgeted with his watch. These two..
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13 minutes ago, gglex6275 said:
This one is closer, so we can all try to see, if he was holding her hand or not. Seems to me like he was blowing at her hand or something. LOL! I only have one conclusion, these two? Domo Bitchusoooo!! Both of the Chincha! Crazy Fools in love!
Thank you. He may not be kissing but he is definitely holding hand. If he's going to cup his hand and whisper, its not really necessary to hold her hand. But with this two. So intimate oi.
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7 minutes ago, ymmezari said:
don't be...whatever happens it's their life....their journey....they're just being truthful but if it really wasn't meant to be...2 yrs is no joke...for sure it'll be a good memory..."natawa naman ako sa yo sa bina-bakuran, ganon din ang pakiramdam ko" and he knows how potent jihyunie is...bata at sariwa kakatakot (young and fresh...too scary) lol!
I know I shouldn't because its their lives....just that I feel like I'm a parent worrying about her kids.
I don't know if it was you who mentioned it in the down thread about "pinapahinog muna bago pitasin" (literal meaning is waiting for the fruit to ripen before picking. The the figurative meaning is a guy waiting for the girl to grow up and become an adult) is also similar to their situation in reference to what you said about "him having someone already at the back of his mind and he kept the thought of her in his heart".
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I'm working on something important but I can't help to sneak and refresh this thread. The struggle is REAL.
BTW you guys, he bought a CARTIER love bangle/bracelet for his friend/manager. Y'all think its possible he also bought something at CARTIER for his special someone?
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More kiss gifs chaebal! 
I guess I'll be ... LMAO!!!! 
[OFFICIAL] Ji Chang Wook and Nam Ji Hyun Couple (JiBong/JiJi Couple)
in shippers' paradise
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It's very telling noh? And Nara's and CTJ's knowing looks pretty much reveals that something went down between the two. Nara's candid expression was saying, these two love birds are just off into their own love-fest world. I love it!
Let me chime in. As has been observe, there's seems to be a pattern of these waves/bumps that attempts to rock our boat. They perfectly time it when we are on to something. IMHO it re-enforces that some people are threatened.
Aww. Bliss! Thanks for posting this. If you see one of them, the other is not far behind. LOL!
Hmmm..I hope someone picks up and verify.