Took me a lot of Courage!

I like this guy. He's a freshman in the university. I always notice him whenever he passes by the blue chairs where I and my friends usually hangout. My friends like him too. One time, when he was walking by the lobby, I approached him and asked for his name. He smiled and handed me his ID card. There I knew him. I started to like him so much. There was this moment when I called him up. He looked at me but my friends laughed. I guess he was embarrassed. I decided to write him a letter. I even made him a doodle that night not even minding having a comprehensive exam in one of my major subjects the following day. That morning, I saw him. I ran toward him to hand the letter. He stared at me, smiled, but said NO. Then I somewhat begged saying "please take this." He nodded, took the letter, and walked away. That was the last time I saw him in the campus. I was hurt. Maybe life isn't really like the series or movies I've watched before. Life ain't easy. But I don't care if his absence means rejection. At least I was able to confess.

Congratulations on mustering up the courage.
It's strange that you never saw him on campus after seemingly seeing him on a regular basis.

Maybe he was a janitorial temp or something.  I don't know.

Good job!!!!

Next time give the person the letter and a sweet wet kiss lol. You wont regret it

LOL! No way! He's a business administration student! XD

nice, follow up by talking though. whenever you see him that is. it's a shame...I got a letter once and I didn't even know how to react. I didn't respond or ever hope to make awkward confrontation. I was just so in disbelief and dumbfounded, a girl I barely knew wrote that. It wasn't creepy, but it was uncomfortably unexpected... I guess I silent-rejected her. not gonna lie though, it could've been really hard on him to take that letter from you, especially if he suspected that, but knew he didn't like you back. In that case, we would rather hide it than read it for fear that it confirms those suspicions and then we'd feel responsible for having to break your heart- a burden we'd rather not carry.

and this is one reason why I prefer to be the initiator, because all the pressure is on the girl, not me, if they ask me out or give me a letter, won't even know how to react, and then gonna have to go through the pain of rejecting her. sad to say that confession may be the only way to get the message across, it only works half the time- he likes your or he doesn't, simple as that. if he doesn't, then it's uncomfortable.

Chaii said: LOL! No way! He's a business administration student! XD

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LOL! No way! He's a business administration student! XD<br />

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LOL so? who doesnt want a wet deep kiss?<br />

hey at lest i made you laugh lol

Aw, at least you'll be able to move on! There are people out there who spend years hanging onto the same person because they aren't certain of the other party's feelings. You'll eventually find better

Better than always wondering, "What if?" afterwards.

Good job for working up the courage.
I remember one time I was walking home and a random girl walked up to me and gave me a letter. She saw me walking with a friend of mine whom she had a crush on and thought he was my boyfriend... It was quite awkward cause I was walking with two guys and didn't know who she was talking about. Till this day I don't even know if I gave the letter to the right person LOL. Quite stalkerish since my friend has no idea who she is.

Ninshark said: nice, follow up by talking though. whenever you see him that is. it's a shame...I got a letter once and I didn't even know how to react. I didn't respond or ever hope to make awkward confrontation. I was just so in disbelief and dumbfounded, a girl I barely knew wrote that. It wasn't creepy, but it was uncomfortably unexpected... I guess I silent-rejected her. not gonna lie though, it could've been really hard on him to take that letter from you, especially if he suspected that, but knew he didn't like you back. In that case, we would rather hide it than read it for fear that it confirms those suspicions and then we'd feel responsible for having to break your heart- a burden we'd rather not carry.

and this is one reason why I prefer to be the initiator, because all the pressure is on the girl, not me, if they ask me out or give me a letter, won't even know how to react, and then gonna have to go through the pain of rejecting her. sad to say that confession may be the only way to get the message across, it only works half the time- he likes your or he doesn't, simple as that. if he doesn't, then it's uncomfortable.

raymondc27 said: Chaii said: LOL! No way! He's a business administration student! XD

justxlouise said: Good job for working up the courage.
I remember one time I was walking home and a random girl walked up to me and gave me a letter. She saw me walking with a friend of mine whom she had a crush on and thought he was my boyfriend... It was quite awkward cause I was walking with two guys and didn't know who she was talking about. Till this day I don't even know if I gave the letter to the right person LOL. Quite stalkerish since my friend has no idea who she is.

Ninshark said:and this is one reason why I prefer to be the initiator, because all the pressure is on the girl, not me, if they ask me out or give me a letter, won't even know how to react, and then gonna have to go through the pain of rejecting her. sad to say that confession may be the only way to get the message across, it only works half the time- he likes your or he doesn't, simple as that. if he doesn't, then it's uncomfortable.

I felt like I just read a summary of an shoujo manga.

I_play_with_dolls said: I felt like I just read a summary of an shoujo manga.

im proud of you my stranger friend.

EJM said: im proud of you my stranger friend.

Chaii said: raymondc27 said: Chaii said: LOL! No way! He's a business administration student! XD

raymondc27 said: Chaii said: raymondc27 said: Chaii said: LOL! No way! He's a business administration student! XD