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  1. Hello, this is my first post here (and it will be probably the last, 'cause my real life can’t afford me here debating with you all, unfortunally :(, but couldn’t help myself and not post at least once lol).

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    So, in my opinion, it is clear that the writer’s main plot is that about two people once married and who have failed in that marriage, fall over in love again, and in spite of all things (past and present cruelties and wrongdoings, reason and pain) in their heart will want to stay together, even if one of them or both will act against this wish. IMO, from the beginning we were told that JE and HK will fall in love (again - if they will just rekindle their love it is something to debate).

    In this sense, I’m watching and enjoying this drama in a “detached way”, that is: I’m not judging it from my moral point of view. What I’m looking for is if the writer will be able to demonstrate that JE can be forgiven, that despite his wrongdoings we (the audience) can pardon him (because I’m sorry to say that, but HK would accepted him back if he asked for that even before her memory loss, and with her great love if the writer want to make her stay in character she will pardon him in the present if he begs for). So, from a narrative point of view, will the writer be able to convince us that JE can get another chance to be happy? This is my main point in watching this drama (there are anothers, but this is the principal). 

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    you explained it well @ninaanin ~ have to agree with you; think the drama isn't really about infidelity only but rather about a marriage that goes through a cycle. if a marriage goes through a traumatic event like a death of a child, can a couple grieve together? if the couple tear each other apart, push and punish each other with cruel deeds, can they learn to forgive each other later when time has passed? can a couple who meet again fall in love again and get past all the emotional baggage that occurred in their old relationship? can a couple mend after meeting again and is it okay to do so? these are the questions that the writer is pursuing and it is difficult to answer. as you pointed out, JE is not a completely bad person even though he has cheated with SR. and lets not forget HK is not a saint either. so it will be interesting to see how this turns out. ultimately, it is not a question of whether JE deserves a second chance but rather what happens in the couple's relationship despite the faults, the mistakes and the baggage they carry.

    P.S ~ come back when you are free! it was good reading your post. :)

    completely my feelings about the drama.

    everyone is too caught up about what is right and wrong.

     

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  2. Thank you for explaining, @armanigurl! I understand what you said! But I don't think it's "right" for Jin Eun to (still) love Hae Kang when he's currently in a relationship with Seol Ri! He needs to control, do something about those cray cray feelings, actions to Hae Kang!

    in ordinary circumstance perhaps he won't have any feelings for HK after his return.

    but because he came back n saw his ex wife at that state, perhaps it brought back his protective feelings towards her. I mean who wouldn't be concern? She lost all memory and has took on another identity, his curiousity roused alot of hidden feelings perhaps, not to mentioned remorse. 

     

    Yes, I understand that as well! But no, it's still wrong for him to have love, "remorse" feelings for her! She's no longer his wife! Whatever state she is in is none of his business! Before he start making her his business, he needs to end it with Seol Ri!

    Haha.. well I think he knows he has to end with SR. What SR is experiencing right now is truly a payback for what she did to another woman. Now she feels what is like to have her man taken from her. I would like for her to experience more of this, seems like she still have no remorse at all!

    As for JE and HK, they've been through alot. They lost a child together. I mean if we put ourselves in their shoes, that is sure to rock even the strongest of relationships. The pain must have been so great, and it must have been too much for both to deal with. I mean unless we have gone through that ourselves would we understand why JE and HK both turned out that way.

     

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  3. Thank you for explaining, @armanigurl! I understand what you said! But I don't think it's "right" for Jin Eun to (still) love Hae Kang when he's currently in a relationship with Seol Ri! He needs to control, do something about those cray cray feelings, actions to Hae Kang!

    in ordinary circumstance perhaps he won't have any feelings for HK after his return.

    but because he came back n saw his ex wife at that state, perhaps it brought back his protective feelings towards her. I mean who wouldn't be concern? She lost all memory and has took on another identity, his curiousity roused alot of hidden feelings perhaps, not to mentioned remorse. 

     

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  4. But i say, he has a right to love his wife.. no matter if they divorced or not. She was once his wife, it's not unusual to feel love for her.

    May you please explain more on that paragraph above if you don't mind? I want to make sure I understand you correctly!

    But before you explain (if only you want to), I would like to answer you on what I think you meant!

    So, are you saying that, for example, my husband was married once before he married me, if he were to see his ex wife again whenever in the near future, it's okay for him to still have feelings for her, to still love her, his ex wife since she was once his wife?

    Whether Jin Eun loves Seol Ri or not, he has been with her and he is still with her at the moment! If you were Seol Ri, would you be okay if Jin Eun still loves Hae Kang, his ex wife?

    If I was Seol Ri, I wouldn't be okay with it! She pushed herself on him and he accepted her whether he truly loves her or not!

    If my husband were to meet his ex wife again and still have feelings for her, still loves her after all this time that we're married, I would be so pissed then go crazy and divorce him!

    umm.. 

    Because sometimes we cannot control our feelings..

    Why? Because when people say in sickness and in health, till death do us part. Not till divorce do us part.

    we are only human, we cannot say i stop loving and the feeling is totally gone. Some takes years some never heal.. that's just the way it is.

    In JE's case, put a beautiful girl like SR in front of him and he still can't let go of his wife. He merely burried her in his heart when they divorced, he didn't even realised until met her again.

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    A bumpkin is a naive country person who is unaware of urban existence and poor GH comes to Seoul and she's always doing something wrong because she doesn't know the way things operate. And you are right AG --that part about her gives some humor to everything she does.

    oh thanks for explaining :) bumpkin rhymes with pumpkin..

     

     

     

    this drama really looks interesting.. but i'm too lazy to soak myself in a long drama right now.. however i do enjoy all the discussions going on in here (minus the actual dramas of this thread)

     

     

     

    glad i learn a new word today. ;)

     

     

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    thread will be closed until u guys agree to stop quarelling on the board.

     

     

     

    closing~

     

     

     

    *edit* i changed my mind.. arghh this thread is making me crazy..

     

     

     

    can some of the regulars please pm me on what is REALLY going on with this board? I'm sick of reading about the arguments in here.

     

     

     

    and because i am not a regular here, i need to find out what is the truth that is happening with this board. thanks if you are willing to enlighten me.

     

     

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    why posting her ip adress here???... may you should of warn her first through pm ...

     

     

     

    because i didnt want u guys to continue arguing on who's right or who's wrong in here. i think for those who are saying that they are tired of rbeach repeating himself, it gets tired for me too to see people going about in circles trying to attack him. if you don't like what he has to say you can just skip/ignore his posts and post what is on your mind. lets just keep talking about the drama and leave the arguments that are really wasting forum space.

     

     

     

    this is my last warning for this thread. if you all cannot behave yourself by simply conforming to the rule and just discussing a simple drama, if you guys want to attack each other more than you want to enjoy the discussion of this drama, then we shall consider closing this thread.

     

     

     

    please do not answer my post in this thread. tq. *outta here until the next report* *meanwhile, please behave *

     

     

     

    *edit* i will remove her ip address from my post.

     

     

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    professor97 same IP with puffygirl

     

     

     

    i find it ironic that these two posters are sharing the same IP addresses. can we stop arguing unrelated stuff in here.

     

     

     

    you are not allowed to have more than one account in this forum and then posting to answer to your own post. professor97, your IP is not being investigated. if found guilty we will delete your accounts.

     

     

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    pinklegirl007 & rbeach

     

     

     

    TIME OUT! Both of you are not seeing eye to eye and because of a drama character?

     

     

     

    Both of you are generating great discussion because of having difference of opinions. But do realise that you don't have to get angry at each other because of a different understanding.

     

     

     

    Let's be respectful of each other in this forum. At the end of the day its just an opinion. Do read what chevm just wrote too.

     

     

     

    -If you guys would like to carry on bashing each other, please do so in private messages and not on the main board..

     

     

     

    ag

     

     

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    THREAD CLOSED DUE TO EXCESSIVE SPAMMING THAT HAS BEEN DELETED.

     

     

     

     

     

    I told you guys no thread milestone celebrations, and for the past few pages you guys have been posting about voting in soompi polls that is totally uninformative / not useful information for this thread at all. The threads are used for discussions, not to gather votes or to inform others that you voted.

     

     

     

     

     

    I will allow a new thread to be started but make sure that it is purely discussions about the drama.

     

     

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    oh gosh i see the same people in every drama thread... ^_^ *cough* I mean dramaok :lol:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    just saw an episode of this today, gotta say that I'm a teeny bit dissapointed because the first episode was a bit too sappy for my liking.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I mean its alright to have sad openings, but to have such pitiful cries from UTW and LSJ so early in the show really bugs me..

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I also find this drama a little corny somehow.. meeting in the water. pffttt.. that's new.. kinda over the top i must say.. a little over dramatic for me.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I like all the actors but the script is rather corny for the first episode.. I hope episode 2 gets better.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  12. wow! *eyeballs drop out of socket* the body is WOW!!! it's so perfect it looks almost unreal... WOW.. *jaw drops*

    nice muscle pics... nice... ^_^ 몸짱 indeed... WOW~ *speechless*

    sorry can't translate but the title say's Lee Suh Jin Body JJang (best), he joins the ranks of others such as Kwon Sang Woo, Bi, Cha Seung Won.

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    this drama beat the other 2 dramas (one fine day; invisble man) in the same timeslot. that's amazing for a premier episode. the two actresses are awesome. yoon da hoon (soonae's husband) bleh. i can't stand that guy. omg and why do we have to see him half naked so many times in here. first in the hot spring. yuck. next the almost entirely nude scene on bed in the hotel by the sea. yuck. then next shower scene. yuck again. does the writer have a crush on him or something. really not a pretty sight. the white torso. flabs. ugly nipples. yuck. *sorry for the graphic lg*. i just really really don't like that actor, but i suppose he was cast for this for his comedy experience. bleh. whatever. can't wait to see more men. any man will do at this point.

    soonae's goodfriend looks like she could be the mistress's uncle's sister. cute concept. now each woman can see what it feels like to be the other. the scene when shim hye jin imagines park jin hee with the beauty mark is hilarious. lol.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    thx luv for the caps. i agree park jin hee is really pretty. she's so clean looking but very sexy and cute as well.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    puhahahahha... Well at least you got to see Soon Ae beat him up. Although he deserves much worse.. keke. pervert guys like the husband really need to suffer.. I hope they show alot more scenes of his sufferings~ not showing us more of his unwanted unsexy body scenes ya.. *pukes with dramaok* actually 1st episode made me wonder what was beautiful park jin hee with such an old ugly guy??

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    dramaok, i checked out this drama after reading ur kimchi review :rolleyes: at first i was like "wat the heck" then after a while it got better..

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    its good to see park jin hee back... :) and shim hye jin is totally different from her last drama.. whoa~

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  14. Hi Lee Jun Ki Fans :)

    Just dropping by to say that you guys have kept this thread well informed about Lee Jun Ki and its nice to see a thread that co-operates with the rules of the forum. I'm impressed with people who abide by the picture re-quoting rules in this thread. Most people in the forum often choose to ignore such a petty rule, but when I saw how this thread chose to stick by the rules it warmed my heart. Well done to all that has managed to maintain this thread so well. :) Keep spreading the LJK love everyone and thanks for the co-operation.

    ag

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    erm first i saw the pic mj07 posted and I nearly fainted.. Lee Seung Jae is also one of my most favorite actors.... he's HOT!! Sizzles!!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    then I saw the pic shirley posted... what a contrast of HOT. why are drama fashion co-ordinators always so awful??? that korean wave hair.. PLEASE, Winter Sonata is over.. when are the men going to stop having long hair????

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    UTW looks totally hot tho.. NO COMPLAINS.. :x

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

  16. its creepy that he's starting to look more and more like jang dong gun..

    and is that his house??? i would like to take down those pictures of himself.. i remember ryu shi won used to have a huge poster of himself in his house and alot of people bashed him for it.

    of course joo jin mo needs those pictures to remind himself that he's the best gift from God to women.. so hmmm, i just hope it wasnt his idea to put his own pictures so huge like that in his house.. :/

    but then again, a man confident of his own looks is kinda sexy ^_^

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    Oh, so many...

    Any couple involving Kim Hee Sun. God, what a terrible actress. She never has any chemistry with her co-stars. I felt sorry for Go Soo and Kwon Sang Woo. :rolleyes:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Song Seung Hun and Song Hye Gyo. I didn't mind the incestual implications actually (after all, they're not blood-related), but SSH's acting just grated on my nerves. I much preferred Won Bin.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Bi and Shin Min Ah. I'm sorry, but they did nothing for me. I never cared about this couple. What a shame.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Dennis Oh and Nam Sang Mi. GOD I HATE THIS COUPLE!!! I couldn't understand how they could possibly get together, what with her not understanding a word he said most of the time. <_< Plus, Dennis Oh's acting was possibly the worst I've ever seen in a K-drama. And that's saying a lot.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Lee Dong Gun and Kim Ha Neul. I dunno, maybe it was just because I hated the drama. But I felt nothing for this couple. At all.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Jo In Sung and Ha Ji Won. I'm pretty neutral towards them now (after who knows how many rewatches of WHIB), but occasionally they still get on my nerves. I felt so bad for So Ji Sub. :tears:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Song Seung Hun and Son Ye Jin. A bad couple in a bad drama. Just boring.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Han Jae Suk and Kim Hyun Joo. Ugh, I hated this couple. They had the cheesiest lines EVER. And she looked much better with So Ji Sub. ;)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    That's all I can think of for now.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    WOW I enjoyed this post... i agree about kim hee sun.. me and some friends would like to see a ban on her to never act with any guy actors again.. every new drama that comes out we are praying that the co-star is not kim hee sun.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I hated Dennis Oh and Nam Sang Mi coupling too!!!!!! like I could take a gun and blow off their heads. KOALAH~~ *hair standing and starts puking*

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    and yes lee dong gun and kim ha neul... i hate hate hate too because of poor kim sung soo... poor baby~

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    another one that i really didnt like was jo in sung and go hyun jung in spring waltz that made me spilled so much blood all over.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    now that i'm recalling all these couples i actually feel abit traumatized.. arghh!!!!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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