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  1. My question: Is he jealous? (help a gal out!!)

    Two nights ago me, my boyfriend, my (i guess he's an "ex"?) and some other friends including two girl friends who apparently are really close to him, were hanging out. Throughout the night, I would notice little things... when we were all walking out the door, he was one of the first ones out, but he waited around until I got outside and walked behind me outside. At the restaurant, I think he was still following me. I sat down at the left-most seat, and my boyfriend quickly sat next to me, and my ex sat next to him. I would notice him looking at me a few times, but maybe that was just because I was talking or something.

    Anyways, after dinner, we were all standing outside and I was holding my boyfriend's hand. I happened to glance at my ex and he was looking at our hands, (kinda like, when you eyeball someone up and down, do you know what I mean?? i can't explain it.) and then he puts his arm around one of my girl friend's neck and is all over her. He kinda did the same thing to my other friend when we were walking back to his car, but put his arm more around her side... it seemed really weird and not like him. We broke up almost a year ago and decided to be friends, but now I feel these weird vibes... we don't even talk much when my boyfriend is around because my bf is still pretty insecure about the ex...

    So anyways... is he jealous seeing me and my boyfriend together? Could that mean that he still likes me or is still attracted to me...? I really need to know. I'm too chicken to just ask him, but I wonder if I should just confront him about it? Please help me out! XD

  2. Well, I was at the mall with my friend once to meet up with two of her guy friends, and he brought her a gift for her birthday, and gave me a little stuffed dog too. I was actually pretty flattered, and I think we only met maybe once or twice before. If you like him, do it! It'll show him that you're interested in him, and it could be a good opportunity for you guys to talk more. :)

    Good luck!!

  3. Last night was supposed to be a celebration for my boyfriend's 21st birthday, but I think a few of my friends found it as an opportunity to take over and do their own thing. Some of their attitudes last night were completely uncalled for, especially when it came down to my boyfriend... he was still feeling sick from the night before, and spent the whole day trying to feel better so he could see you people. Hmm... I thought I had planned for us all to go karaoke after dinner, but T pretty much dictated that we go to this "Hookah Lounge" place, and A and E pretty much jumped in, which was totally shocking to me. But then again, I think A is upset with me or something; he kept hanging all over E and T whenever I was with my boyfriend... it felt like he was dangling them in front of me or something; what am I supposed to think of that?? I thought we decided to be good friends, and not rub it in each other's faces... Ugh. Also, T made it sound like this place was really "chill" and you just sit back and relax.... the air was SO SMOKY and there was no privacy whatsoever. Not the place I felt comfortable in. So me, my boyfriend and J decided that we need to ditch the three of them and call up AT and N (who left after they decided to take over the party) and go karaoke. We told A, E, and T that my bf wasn't feeling good, which was true (he was up all night throwing up, and you take him HERE?!) and E got mad at us because she had paid $24 for two of those, "bong"-things or whatever they were, when we were told we could just sit there and didn't have to smoke... Da gave her whatever money he had on him, and she went over to see if she could get a refund. She came back, handed him his $7 back, and coldly said "Happy Birthday." and walked away. Didn't even look at him. I didn't expect anything like that from E. Usually she's really understanding and cool.... what the heck? When we walked out, I couldn't even say goodbye to them. I just kept looking at the floor even after I walked out the door. I'm sure they were talking richard simmons behind our backs the whole night after... I don't know who to trust anymore.

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    Ohh okay, because I've been saying 私は少し日本語を話せます, but I wasn't sure if it should be that way or 話します..! I've also heard something along the lines of "日本語はちょっと大丈夫ですけど", though I probably wouldn't use this just because I don't know how in/formal (or right, for that matter) this is! ^^;

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Awesome. I always hear わ at the end of sentences, but never thought about that, haha. Thank you :D

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Oh, no, that's really helpful to have the differences! Otherwise I might still be confused XD

     

     

     

     

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    What Ethnicity are you?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Irish/Japanese

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Are you a maths or an English person?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    ENGLISH. I'm horrible at math, and I've actually become so self-conscious about my math skills since my friends were always a lot better. They were taking Calculus classes while I was still taking Geometry or Algebra and failing, I might add. Also, my family is really good at math; my mom, dad, twin sister and my older sister all know Calculus, so that just sucks even more for me. Blarghh.

     

     

     

     

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    jaekaさん、すごい!ありがとうございましたぁ!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Oh, what is "わ" at the end of a phrase? Is it an expression (is that the correct word?), like な or something?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Also, I have to ask: How do you say "I speak a little Japanese." ?? I hear so many ways to say it, but was never sure the correct way... also, how do you use the verb 喋る (しゃべる)? Sorry if that's a weird question, but if I could get some examples I'd really appreciate it!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    I have a question...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Sooo, I have a cockatiel and he tends to "peck" himself, I suppose? I know that cockatiels will do this out stress or pure boredom, but I honestly can't figure out why he's doing this. We take him out every day and let him fly around, we talk and sing to him, we carry him around... He plucked his feathers off of his chest, and I am constantly catching him pecking at his sores! Could it be mites or is it psychological? Anyone who's had experience with their bird acting out such behaivors, please help me out!! Thanks!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Also random DOG fact: just like chocolate, GRAPES are POISONOUS!!! o__o okay, i'm done. :)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    50% Japanese

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    50% Irish*

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    (??% English)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    * Well, since my grandma decided to drop the bomb shell and tell me I'm also part English, I don't know the exact amount on my dad's side, haha. Whatevs, I've been saying 50/50 for all these years, I'll just leave it at that to make it easier. :)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Can anyone tell me how to say, or it's English equivalent to "I am half Japanese"? I know that "watashi wa HAFU desu" is acceptable (err, I think haha).

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I'm sure there's an actual word/term for a half-Japanese person, I came across it once, so I'd love to know the entire translation, if you will. arigatou~ :)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    also any onomatopoeia s, anyone?? ex. doki doki... also, can i get a translation for "dokyuun zukyuun". I have a basic understanding, but I want a "full" understanding, haha!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    ALSO! the verb: saseru. help please!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Lots more questions to come!! >:)

     

     

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    Hi!!!

    saw this post & was very happy about it cos I has this question for quite sometime cos I really don't know what the meaning of it..

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    can anyone help me???? please?? thanks u so much!! XD

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    通常盤初回出荷分のみ別冊フォトブックレット付き

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    may I know what this mean? thanks!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Sorry, I can only translate that it's saying something about the volume of first-time shipping for a photo booklet, does that make sense? ^^

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I hope that, if it's alright, to further on jaeka's post and explain the structure of the sentences.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    ENGLISH: S-V-O (Subject-Verb-Object)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    JAPANESE: S-O-V (Subject-Object-Verb)

    "I am a cat" = watashi wa neko desu.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Watashi = I (noun, topic)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    wa = (particle) to mark the TOPIC of the sentence, in this case being "watashi"

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    neko = cat (noun, subject)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    desu = is, am, are (verb)

    "There is a cat." = neko ga imasu.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    neko = cat (subject and object) in this case.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    ga = (particle) to mark the SUBJECT of the sentence. Basically, it marks the *object* that is doing an action. In this case, the cat is *there*.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    imasu = (verb) to exist. this only applies to the living, including people and animals. plants are not included. for non-living objects, you would use "arimasu"

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    hope that helps :)

     

     

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    hmm...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Happiest: When we would goof off at work... I would be working on the wall (we worked at Hollywood Video) and he'd be watching the front. So we would text each other, and one of us would say (i forgot which of us said it lol) "come in the back if u want a kiss!" so we'd run back one at a time and have a quick smooch then walk back like nothing happened. XD

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Saddest: When I had to break up with him... then a few months later we "made our peace" I guess through email.... that was really hard.

     

     

     

     

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    Thankfully, I've never been molested or have gone through anything like that... and I think that everyone here is so strong to be able to share your stories, even if it's in a forum. It's a piece of yourself that you've kept hidden from the rest of the world, but it's the first step to recovering from these traumas...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I did have something happen to me though, when I was about 13. I was talking to this guy over AIM, and he kept asking me questions, which seemed pretty normal though, like where I'm from, my age, etc. I was so stupid to even talk to him, let alone KEEP talking to him with the way he was treating me.... even now, I just can't believe my stupidity! But I think he was asking these things and telling me about himself just to get my trust. Well he kept asking me for a picture of myself, and if I had a digital camera, and I told him I did but I didn't know where the cord was. I kept refusing to send him a picture, so he would call me a richard simmons and lots of nasty things, so I would curse back, and he would apologize. So I kept talking to him... I think this went on for a few hours, until I finally sent him a picture because he said he would send me one of him. Of course, he never did.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    As soon as he got the picture, he turned just, so evil... he kept saying that he was going to edit the picture and post it all over the internet, unless I took pictures of myself putting things inside me... all I could do was cry and plead with him not to do it... I still remember what he wrote: "3...2...1...Say hello to the world!"

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I couldn't believe what I was reading... I'm sure now that he was messing with me, but I just sat there and cried (my sister even walked by me and didn't say anything and went to bed.)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    The only person I ever told this too was my boyfriend about 3 or 4 years later. I also never realized until I got into high school that, if I had saved that conversation, I could have taken it to my school or the police.... I was so angry at myself!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Sorry I wrote so much.... this was a big issue for me, even if it's no where near as bad as everyone else... >_<

     

     

     

     

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    I miss the days before he found out I liked him... things would've been so much easier for both of us if nothing happened between us. I don't want to say I regret it, because we had so much fun, but even after all this time, I still miss you too.

     

     

     

     

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    A: GET OUT OF MY HEAD!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    ...yeah, i still like you. i don't know why i can't just get over it. (stop haunting my dreams with your cuteness!)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    i wish you were more open and just get online just once in a lifetime just long enough for me to say hi.... and tell you what i'm feeling because i'm too much of a loser to tell you in person.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    fml.

     

     

     

     

  15. How can you tell if a guy that you previously dated still likes you...?

    It was almost a year ago, but it took us a long time to get over it and move on (it was a veryyy complicated situation) but he wanted to remain like best friends. Anyways, since my birthday back in July, him, I, my boyfriend and some friends decided to hang out, but whenever someone was talking, I would notice him glancing at me just like he used to. (Or am I just imagining things?)

    Also, whenever I would be making jokes with my boyfriend through whispering, he would do the same thing to my friend and kept hanging out with her most of the time. They're strictly friends, and actually, my coworkers thought that he hated her O_o lol... I dunno.

    I also had another question: is it true that guys get over break ups faster than girls? Or maybe my friend was just saying that so I would get over him....? (Plus I'm pretty sure she liked him for a while too) Ughhh so confusing!!

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    It doesn't really matter to me. Virgin or not, I've got 3 years behind me, I'll make it good. lmao.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I've been with my boyfriend since we were both virgins, and after we broke up I dated a guy for a few weeks who is a virgin, and looking back it doesn't bother me at all. A little surprising since he's a year older than me and I was always under the impression that guys usually lose their virginity early on, but no big deal.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    As long as you know what you're doing, there shouldn't be a problem. Take charge!

     

     

     

     

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    I lost mine to my boyfriend when I was 16, so over 3 years ago... and we had only been dating for about 2 months? I'll admit though, it sucked. XD

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I never thought about sex when I was younger. As for waiting until marriage, I'll respect anyone who believes in that, but I guess I just wonder, as mentioned from my experience, wouldn't you want to be able to please your partner? But then again, you never know, so it can be a great experience for both people to enjoy for the first time together.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I say, just have fun, but be safe. LIfe's too short, live a little!

     

     

     

     

  18. My boyfriend calls me 'pig pig' or 'pig' in cantonese.

    I just call him 'baba'.

    :P

    Mine calls me Porky. >_<;

    I get called lobster and i call him my squishy

    HAHAHA my friend calls her boyfriend Squishy too and proceeds to jiggle his belly. =PP

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