It must be hard to be in Binnie's shoes. Its a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
Since he is so quiet, and he is such a good actor when he immerses into a role, people mistake him for many things, unrealistically expect many things, and at times unconsciously project their own cultural contexts and expressions into what should be or not be done, what is expected or not expected.
Well, Binnie, I will support you - whether you are dating, married or choose to remain single.
All I ever wanted from you was great performances, and you never disappointed