Elmaas
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Just a quick question, why does it take so long to sub this show? I've tried watching it on viki, but they release the episodes a few days after it aired which is so weird.
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I'm not one to be on the meddling second love interest's side but I feel like Sae Yi is going off of the vibe Woong is giving off. She's not imagining stuff, I feel like he kind of likes her but that he's not ready for a real relationship with her. He might not be ready to admit to his feelings now but I have a feeling that he'll end up with her in the end.
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50 minutes ago, partyon said:
@ktcjdrama @hsmz I am with you on this one.
BHR's revenge was petty and it was beneath her. I'm disappointed in her, but not surprised.
Does she really think that she will get her way (i.e. snatch a chaebol sound engineer) by destroying 4-5 people's lives? Potentially more?
She allowed her ex-husband to be doxxed, which means that he may never be able to practice law ever again (because no company will hire him). She also threw her parents in law under the bus and outright lied that she had only taken what they had offered her (when she actually specifically told them what she wanted), as well as, lied about who asked for the divorce.Song Won is almost due to give birth - she doesn't need the extra stress right now. And what about the baby?
What about PSH's brother and family?
She gave no consideration when she decided to lie and manipulate the story so that she alone would look innocent and impress Seo Ban. Lady, it's not a good look on you. Not all.
She's been selfish and abusive from the start, so I guess we should applaud her for being consistent throughout the drama. I feel extremely sorry for the people whose lives she ruined due to her ego....
People who go for revenge normally only hurt themselves in the process. They think people will comply with their demands, and that the party they want to hurt will respect them more. Actually it always does the opposite. The person that the avenger hurt will only hate and disrespect the avenger more. And they will definitely not comply with the avenger's demands.
I hope that BHR will face karma by the end of this drama. She's done too many bad deeds to be allowed to go scot-free.
Next week we will see 30s and 40s wife fight it out who will win Seo Ban. Too bad I think that he will choose 50s wife....
Why should she take the high road? Why is the onus on her? He didn't show any grace or empathy to her and her pain and neither did the mistress so why should she worry about their feelings and how they'll be portrayed when everything is brought into the light?
She didn't go for revenge and she didn't manipulate anything- she chose to tell the whole truth. He DID cheat and he DID get another woman pregnant while he was still in the marriage. He wanted to throw away his wife of three-years in order to be with his mistress and his parents DID try to help him do that. Why should she announce her divorce and let the people blame her when she can tell the truth.
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The writers finally did something right. I LOVED BHR revenge, I loved that she played cool in front of the parent-in-laws and the cheating a-whole for a husband. I loved that she showed them that she could've been a great wife and a great daughter-in-law. I especially loved that she made sure that she went all out and public with her pain and betrayal.
The fact that some of you are blaming her for dealing with what her cheating husband and his parents did to her is mind blowing to me. The MIL made sure to cozy up to the mistress as soon as she could while she was smiling and gaslighting BHR. Her husband dragged their marriage through the mud and put all the blame of the destruction of their marriage solely on her. Why should she show grace to the people who tortured her behind the walls?
BHR may be self-centered, materialistic and self-absorbed but she was true to herself and upfront with who she was throughout their marriage. The husband changed and realized half-way through their marriage that the life he had build with his wife wasn't looking too hot anymore so instead of being an adult and having a dialog with his wife, he chose to cheat. Not only that, he got his mistress pregnant and got his whole family on the "let's-blame-the-wife" bandwagon. I'm not the least sorry for any of them. They should feel the pain and loss BHR felt.
On another note, I'm seriously impressed by how strong and level-headed the 40s wife is.
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7 minutes ago, Lfd said:
And he’s got to be holding his wife while trying to make a baby with her why would he EVEN be trying for a baby with her
EXACTLY. There's nothing redeemable about him and his mistress.
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5 minutes ago, hsmz said:
Yeah, she shouldn't. Just let him die or kill him, better.
She should've blasted his sorry cheating behind and manipulative mistress all over the net and let the whole house burn down to the ground. He got the balls to cheat and get another woman pregnant then he should have the balls to be responsible for his own happiness.
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3 minutes ago, hsmz said:
Good then for the goddess to torture him slowly and slowly then let him die unhappy in that unhappy house. Suicide maybe? Like the goddess, she can't handle her anger that's why she try to hurt anybody who hurt her. Then for the unhappy person? They also fragile. But as I have no idea what the WRITER-NIM has prepared for the 30s couple remaining 8 episodes, what can I say.... I have no power for her to change her storyline tho...
Why do you think that it's the wife's to look after a cheating husbands happiness?
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I don't understand why some of you want BHR to show sympathy towards someone who cheated with her husband. She's not crazy, she's just dealing with a mistress, good-for-nothing husband and PIL who keep gaslighting her in every turn. The PIL keep telling her that everything's fine and that she should focus on her marriage while they're cosying up to the mistress behind her back.
Everyone in her life right now are making her seem the guilty part while her husband CHEATED and got another woman pregnant. He gave that woman a promise ring, introduced her to his parents, made his mother promise to buy his mistress a house and basically made her the second wife. Is she supposed to be all dandy and happy about that? Seriously?
For all of you who are blaming BHR for holding onto her dead marriage, why aren't you placing equal blame on the husband? He's the one who keeps telling his wife one thing and his mistress another thing. He's the one who's supposedly in-love with the mistress but is planing on having a freaking baby with his wife. Like what kind of piece of trash for a husband does that?
I've said it before and I'll say it again, PSH is an emotionally stunted man-child who can't make any decision on his own. If he's not into his wife anymore then start the divorce-process already. He's trash and I really, really hope that BHR sees him for what he is and dumps his sorry RickRoll'D.
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@hsmz Yea but he knew that she was on a strict diet so I don't understand why he's getting mad at her. Why should she throw everything she's worked for in the trash because he doesn't feel like telling his mom that maybe she shouldn't bring over that much food anymore. It's his mother so I don't understand why the onus is on BHR to tell the MIL. She shouldn't have to cook for him since he's and adult 30+year-old who have full functioning hands and mind. I get that he's changed and he's looking for something more in the marriage but that's why he should've taken a moment to talk things over with his wife. That's what grown ups do.
Again, I think his parents marriage messed him up a lot. He doesn't know how to have a healthy communication with other people so he relays on manipulative tactics to get his way. He tried to make this parents hate his wife by telling them that she's not an ideal wife and when that didn't work he manipulated his them to feel bad for the mistress. He never apologized to BHR for cheating, he just expected her to be ok with what he's done and end the marriage on his terms. He's selfish, manipulative man child who blames everything that went wrong in his marriage on other people.
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I really liked the first ep, it's different from the dramas that's airing right now. I kind of agree that SKs acting isn't the best though.
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I've seen a couple of post blaming BRH for throwing out the food that MIL brought over but idk if everyone remembers that one of the flashbacks revealed that the food went bad which was the reason she threw it. Blaming her for that incident is kind of
Here's what I think happened in their marriage and I'll try to be as objective as I possibly can.
PSH met a beautiful woman and he fell heads over heals. She was strong, independent and the opposite of everything he was used to. He didn't care that she was a workeholic or that she valued the finer things in life and that having a perfect image was important to her because at that time getting her was more important than if they were compatible. After getting married and after that the newly married bubble burst, things that were charming and unique about her started to drive him insane. Instead of putting on his big boy pants and sitting down to have difficult discussions with his wife, he ran away. He started to play mind games with her and started to expect her to know that the life they were leading wasn't anymore the one he wanted. He started to resent her and when another woman came along that was similar to the one he imagined being with in his mind, he went for it.
I don't blame him for anything that happened prior to the cheating. I really think his parents marriage messed him up. He grew up with an unhealthy marriage where the husband abuses and berates his wife and family. His mother never really stood up for herself or for him and I think meeting BRH felt like a breath of fresh air for him. But I don't think you can really know how to be in a marriage with someone like BRH that is so different from what you're used to without dealing with your demons and trauma first. That's why I don't really think his relationship with the mistress will work out in the long run. I don't think he knows what he wants and how to be in a relationship.th
When it comes to BRH, I think she's way too modern and independent to be with someone with PSH background. She needs to cut her losses and move on because being with PSH and his family will mess her up even more than it has at this point. It takes two people to break a marriage so I do think she played a role in the deterioration of her marriage but I don't think it's her fault that he cheated. People cheat because they want to cheat and there's nothing the other partner can do or say to make them not cheat.
Another long winded comment but I wanted to rant lol.
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Now that I'm caught up with season 2, I'm still having a hard time to understand why some of you are rooting for the 30s husband and his mistress. I get it, she's repenting for her mistakes and she's had a difficult marriage but that doesn't really excuse her actions. In my opinion, the fact that she's gone through a failed marriage makes me questions her actions even more than the other mistresses. She knows the pain of being left behind. I get that she's sorry and that her situation isn't ideal for her but being sorry doesn't mean that much to the person that you hurt. Feeling apologetic doesn't take away the pain and the hurt. Wishing that you've made different choice doesn't take away the ugliness of your action. It's easy to repent and hindsight is always twenty-twenty but that doesn't make her less of a traitor and a ugly person who've made the decision to hurt another woman. Intention doesn't equal redemption.
When it comes to the 30s husband, my opinions of him hasn't changed. He's a whiny man who always think that the grass is greener on the other side. I've seen some people blame the wife for failing to cater to his needs, but he knew who he married. He was well aware of the person his wife was before he married her but he started to blame her for not fitting into his mold of how a wife should be. Instead of having honest discussions with his wife, he turned to someone else and then blamed the wife for not recognizing his needs. He never gave the wife a chance to understand him and for some reason he made it out to be her fault. And the worst part is that he never felt sorry for hurting the wife. That's what gets under my skin. He feels guilty for not being a good son, he feels sorry for the mistress and he feels sorry for not being fully there for his unborn child. He feels sorry for everyone but the person who he intentionally hurt. And the worst part is that he's trying to justify it by blaming her for not being a good enough of a mind-reader to fit into his idea of how she should be. He's a coward and disgusting for constantly gaslighting the wife and trying to paint her as the bad guy.
I don't really know why I keep torturing myself with this show but the only reason I'm still watching it is for the wives arc. I really hope to see them take back their fate and make these lousy men regret the day they betrayed them. I know S.Korea struggles with female-empowerment movements but I really hope the writers give these women a chance to show their strength and how you can overcome something like this.
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[Upcoming Drama 2024] Weak Hero Class 2 , 약한영웅 Class 2- Season 2 premieres in 2024
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Can someone tell where I can find the ost?? I've gone crazy trying to find the last song in ep 8. LOVED the drama btw.