Hi Chingus! I meant to be a silent lurker but could not ignore the prodding of @pauliza to come out. The truth is I've become a NamJi goner ever since their unforgettable first kiss on SP. I then understood what I read in this book Real Moments for Lovers by Dr. Barbara De Angelis who said: Kissing is really your way of chewing, sucking, gnawing nibbling, and munching on that which you cherish the most, your mate. It is a form of "eating" the person you love!! I'm staying on this ship and fervently wishing, hoping and praying our NamJi will end up happily together. This thread with your delightful musings and sharings has been a joy to me. Thank you everyone!