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19 minutes ago, triplem said:
Gal.... I laughed so hard at this ! Thank you for bringing this up.
What do you think of the two of them? I feel WS is not ready for a commitment like marriage. She may say she wants to marry him because it’s him. But I recall her having this happily after thoughts of being a home maker, and he is in no position to do that for her now.
He actually want to settle down but is afraid cos he can't provide for the family.
It's a big reality in today's world. There are girls that has been in a long relationships hoping for something to happen but nothing. At last some separate and it's mostly hard on the girl cos of woman factor and some societal taboos.
Programming is his calling and passion. Why can't he look for some other thing to do part time while still holding on unto his dream. Or will it be to hard on him? I actually feel for him. Life is so unfair.
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4 hours ago, Dramanoona said:
Hmm.. I think when SH mentioned if JH could find a job at a cafe near their home, she did mention how she had tried and many cafes (remember the one she went where she was interviewed by a lady -and was rejected?) did not want to hire her. So she was grateful to at least get this job. At this point JH doesn't know what we suspect. That BN may not be who he seems but she feels some unease (when he mentioned her hair style). He actually hasn't done anything to her at this point so how can she accuse him of something he hadn't done.
Even for SH who got WS to check on BN and WS informs him about how BN had another complaint from another app. WS asked SH if he should inform JH of his suspicions but SH didn't want to accuse without proof. You can see SH is ever logical and likes to view from all perspectives before solving a problem (see how he stares at the rubric cube until he has sorted out the answer. Kind of like what he is doing with the JH and BN issue.
However, all logic flies out the window the moment he kicked that motorbike
Sidenote: Perhaps WS can develop an app to cross check profiles of people on these social apps. Sort of like a security app to vet people.
Do u know that he is still being logical here. Look at this;"I will pay back till the year 2048...."
Who the hell is the writernim pls? This drama sucks u in like vacuum cleaner
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1 hour ago, ahhhjummahhhjo said:
6. Maybe BN was Se Hee's old tenant?
On this point, I was thinking that if BN was once SH's tenant,won't he be able to recognise him?
My annoyance is that they are making such a handsome guy a bad boy. He is too sweet.
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2 minutes ago, enigmatic_zephy said:
share link for why loving cat means more than loving dog
I have read my post again and I didn't see where I wrote loving cat means more than loving dog. Can u show me where I said so please.
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I have been thinking,cos mostly good drama writers reflect the society at large.
Seems like behind every stoic and cold character,there is a sensitive and soft caring side we aren't shown unless we dig deep. Initially I was asking if men like SH exist. I remembered somebody gave an example of a man who is so loving towards his family yet stoic outside.
That's exactly how SH is. The way he treated the stray cat is who he is actually. He is very humane,considerate and loving. I have said at one time that a man who loves a cat is a very loving and considerate man. We should ask why they didn't use a dog (I don't mean men who love dogs aren't considerate pls), we actually did a very long analysis on men who loves cat in another drama recently.
That threw me off considering his outside demeanour. They are extremely romantic so we should be shown that side of SH too.
They are so very caring.
Their eyes spits fire if u hurt their loved ones. And they are very calculative. They love being alone and in the comfort of their home.
In fact, if we try to analyse SH character based on him and his cat, I can say he is actually being himself. That is who he is although some thing must have made him to seem to go to the extreme on certain issues but he is actually being true to his natural character.
Recently I said Im gonna find me a cat lover
. They are too cute and irresistible-
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6 minutes ago, lclarakl said:
After today's episode:
1) We learn how SH got Kitty, she had been neglected and abused. Although it wasn't his cat, he spent a lot of money for the vets to save her. That tells me about his heart. It appears to me that SH felt a connection with Kitty and wanted to protect her. I have to wonder again about his youth and his relationship with his father.
2) It is also obvious that SH asked JH to take Kitty to the vet so that he could protect her. For him to trust JH with Kitty, it tells me that his concern over JH is outweighing his protectiveness of Kitty. Which was later again verified when he left the cat at the vet to look for JH.
3) BN is still a big question mark for me. It's hard for me to believe he's a stalker. I have a feeling that there is an explanation for his actions.
4) I'm about to say something that I know is going to be unpopular with some, however, SJ by the way she carries herself, will always invite the unwelcome advancement of men. She's taking off her bra and men can see her bare breasts through her thin tops or white thin tops. She especially does this when she goes out drinking so she can drink more. Nor does she push back against men's unwanted advances. All of these things make men think she's dressing this way to be provocative, to entice them. However, let me make one thing clear or my mother will come out of her grave to get me especially since she always said this to me and my siblings, (brothers included) NO MAN or WOMAN has the right to touch someone without their permission and I don't care if the person is a stripper or exotic dancer. However, if I personally didn't want these men feeling as if they can just touch me, I would most definitely take care in how I carry myself around them.
It appears that she's slept around and now has a reputation. She likes Mr. Ma but doesn't feel she's good enough for him.
5) I just loved how SH not only kicked the expensive mirror, but also the how bike.
Next episode seems like the romance will begin. Can't wait.
I totally agree with you. Is she the only female in the office? Why do they pick only her? She give out the wrong vibes and I believe that she is the type who thinks she can climb the corporate ladder through her skirt. Her character sucks. Men make advances on her and she keeps mute because she want to secure her job. What a useless excuse. She has a very low self esteem and I don't think she feels she is good enough. Otherwise she shouldn't be presenting herself as cheap skirt. Sadly lots of female in the corporate world are like this.
Awh, JH is totally in love now. Look at her face when SH pushed down the bike. Remember this same bike brought lots of embarrasing moments to them. So he redeemed his image before her by dealing with d bike. Oh my! No matter how needy a man is,don't ever mess with his pride. So happy he dealt with that bike. He has totally gone nuts.
Wonderful drama.
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8 minutes ago, teep523 said:
yesss I totally agree. I'm excited for possessive SH!
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Oh btw I forgot to add on another detail on why the whole ending heroic scene was so awesome..
SH mentioned that yeah BN's bike is expensive, but he'll pay for it along with the housing loan even if he has to finance the loan+bike til 2048. And what's great here is that earlier, when SH hurt himself cos he was trying to avoid the bike, everyone else was laughing and snickering at him cos he was basically being a miser and would go to extreme lengths just so he doesn't add to his existing financial burdens.
At the pharmacy, JH also asked him why he went to such lengths to avoid the bike. and also nagged at him for a bit by saying that even though so, how could hurting your body be better than breaking a bike?? And guess what SH replied? lol, he said Well because I knew my medical fees would be lower that the amount I would have to pay for scratching the bike.
So all this + the exchange BN had with SH and his colleagues about a company dinner in 2048 once SH clears his debts in ep7.. I feel like there has been a general impression that SH is really a miser (well, I guess really frugal, if we were to put it nicely haha). Well, at least I had that impression of SH, that being frugal to a fault was one of his main flaws.
But today when he broke the bike it was even more awesome because it shows that he's proving everyone wrong! he's not a miser when it comes to things that matter to him, and that he's willing to take on extra burdens when it comes to stuff concerning JH
I had to quote this. There we have it. Thanks for the analysis. This character intrigues me and got me thinking anytime I remember this drama. Gosh, he is losing control.
Can't wait to watch the sub.
Seems I have a penchant for strong characters. It's amazing watching them crumble.
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I haven't watched this episode yet but from what I have seen here, this episode alone has grabbed an award for this guy.
That bike kicking summed up everything he was feeling and yet while doing that he was still rational.( I feel like hugging him)
A normal guy will go for his enemy first but he went for the bike instead. What was in his mind that made him to hit that bike. Poor bike,it wasn't ur fault. Sorry.
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I'm thinking,judging from SH''s character, and how possessive he is towards anything that belongs to him eg cat, will he become a possessive lover?
Since we have all agreed he has feelings for JH, how will he handle their relationship as it progresses? Or will he crumble and allow it flow naturally.
Are introverts possessive in nature?
I know one thing though, they love deeply. But since we don't know where to place SH,I can't wait to see how he will manage his world with this latest unplanned addition.
Just finished episode 7. How can they make that cute boy a bad character? Shows that appearances can indeed be deceitful. See his killer dimples and smile. Seems that's the norm now. The bad boys are very handsome and swoony.
I had to fast forward that ceo''s episode cos I couldn't stomach it anymore. Such a sad reality.
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1 hour ago, sophisticated said:
This is very accurate. I also had a similar experience with my co workers. I taught English in Korea and we often go out for dinner & drinks with all the faculty. I noticed that my VP and principal would get so touchy with my female teachers, hands on thighs, arm around shoulder, etc. I asked them why they never said or did anything, they told me if they were to say anything, the principal/VP would make life difficult for them at the school. They said they'd rather just not say anything, get through the school year and get the experience and points to transfer to another district than ruin their teaching career by reporting the sexual harassment.
What level of sexual harassment is this. I thought for a country that has progressed to electing a female president and a developed country these things shouldn't be happening. Don't they have female legislators or organisations that fight for the females in their society? A lady who lost a husband very early and with a kid is automatically ruled out from marrying again cos society has already condemned her. Female celebrities are hawked to the highest bidder for sexual gratification yet nothing is done about that. A very known fact. All these girls idols are transported to neighbouring countries for money by their agencies. Aside k entertainment I seems to like a lot,I wouldn't want to visit that country. Their society is very cruel to their women. I'm just so angry.
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1 hour ago, cute_Cher said:
Don't forget about other small details.... Like SH's house passcode is "0101" (or is it "1010")
so binary for someone robotic
That pass code is very simple to memorise. This means he don't want a complicated life. I can uderstand him very well. I use a certain code for almost all my Internet related stuffs cos I don't want complications. Stuffs like that gives me headache but I'm neither robotic nor a nerd
. I'm extra loving that character cos it's like a puzzle.
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13 minutes ago, roseeflower said:
Perhaps :
Ep7 Because This is My First Time Being Jealous
Wanted to say that
Thanks @mapleoaks4 for the insight. Love changes everything.
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I have been thinking and reminiscing. This drama is not fantasy so I assume it showcases reality.
My question is this; do people like SH really exist? Are there people that sees marriage like algorithm truly?
I know there are emotionless characters in this one as regards love but one has to feel something for something. In SH case,does he really love his cat,house or work? A robot these days have feelings.
But towards the end of episode 6,I saw a flicker of something when JH demanded for her spoon. Before I could decipher what it means,it's gone.
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4 hours ago, rembrandtz_5e20 said:
I kept wondering about the same thing too!
Will the writer make him stay true to his character and be logical and rational? Or will logic and sensibilities go out the door for him, as it does for all of us, when it comes to the girl he likes?
Of course, love defies logic and calculations. Both men are very skeptical logically to commit but all over history and ages, love seems not to obey some certain set rules else it's no longer love.
I'm very intrigued and curious about SH character. That guy is a pro. Just look at the face though his face makes me wanna laugh anytime he appears on screen. Very robotic.
I'vegone through almost all the posts with wonderful insights.
I will wanna say that SH will feel jealous. Realistically, men are naturally a very jealous beings. It's part of their nature. Men are territorial being. Be it sisters, ordinary friends, colleagues, mums or wives. Once there is another man the woman around them shows more care and attention, that aspect of their life surfaces and they are not good at concealing such emotions like the females.
I'm looking forward to that and also when she will leave the house when it becomes too uncomfortable and unbearable for her. His journey will be so much fun
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4 hours ago, yoochun95 said:
My heart sank at the breakfast table. He is just like a kid
Sometimes kids knows. He don't know anything yet but his expression has said it all.
No wonder he couldn't eat. Poor thing. He is already into her but didn't know yet and it's painful to watch.
I love the drama.
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I'm super excited!!!!!
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. They are too cute and irresistible
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Thank u,thank u very much. I haven't watched any of her work. She is great and the actors especially SH deserves a diamond medal. This is the first time I'm seeing him and I'm so in love.
Actually, I wasn't into this drama at all. I only know the female lead from FIS and decided to check out her latest work as I loved her in father is strange so much. I even skipped episode 1. Watched episode 2 halfway but was so disturbed I went back cos I was so curious and disturbed. Now,I'm doing a mental research because of the drama
This is exactly how I want my drama to be. Hope writer will maintain the tempo.