Guest sixth. Posted December 19, 2009 Share Posted December 19, 2009 You can't judge a guy simply cause he smokes cigarettes (and everything else), pops pills or punches weed. It's a hard habit to change and put an end to. +1. I like this comment very much. I know I've posted in this thread before, but I cbs finding my post and editing it. I used to be one of those girls who would insist "Ew, smokers and drug junkies are gross, I would never associate myself with those sorts of people." Except, after being exposed to the world of recreational drugs, my opinions have changed a lot. One interesting thing I learned was that alcohol can be even worse than some of the drugs out there - don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to advocate drug use - it's illegal for a reason. But I just feel that a lot of people are quite narrow-minded/judgmental about it and won't even stop to think before they jump to shun someone that chooses to do drugs. If I meet a guy, and he does drugs, I'll give still give him a chance. The only exception is if he does drugs that require shooting up... that would make me hesitate - no one wants to be HIV+. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest doofus9 Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 i dont have a problem with dating a guy who smokes (i smoke) but drugs.. i'm fine with weed and possibly the occasional cocaine. but heroin and "special k" and all those more hardcore drugs i dont think i could tolerate that. however. if he were to pressure me to smoke and snort even after i tell him no then i would definitely have a problem with that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WhiteRabbitsTime Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Join in! No, don't. I was just kidding, kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest christelle-g Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Smoking and drugging are definitely a no no for me. Especially drugs. Nowadays, almost everyone, I said almost, smoke. If I was in love with someone who smokes, of course, love will take over it. You can't avoid it. My ex smoked just sometimes at parties, when chilling out with friends and never in front of me. I've never smelt smoke on him. If the guy is dependent to it....never. I don't want to date someone's like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest changminnie01 Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 Well.. people who smoke don't generally mean there bad people, Altho it seems to be the case most of the time. the people i meet anyways. I think i'd rather them not but if they do, it's their choice really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JAEBOO- Posted December 20, 2009 Share Posted December 20, 2009 really for me, it doesn't matter if he smokes . but drugs , a big no for me. i have a crush on this guy who smokes, really i knew the reason why. but, i accept the fact that he smokes. i don't really care, but we can't stop them right? it's their own decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest --Sedgewick Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 I don't care if the boy smokes or takes any other drugs. Nearly everbody I know is smoking and/ or is taking drugs. The personality and how the boy looks is more important to me...! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eunhae Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 before i was opened to so many new people, i was like NO WAY. but now, i'm kind of more open to it..as long as he doesn't do drugs & doesn't smoke a pack a day, i think im good...but i must say, i can't really take smoke very well -0-;;; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest IntangiblyYours Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 I can't stand the smell of smoke. I start coughing a lot whenever I inhale it, so dating a smoker just wouldn't work for me. I'm iffy about drugs though. I rather not have him do it, but maybe if it's not harmful, like heroine, I might be able to deal with it. As for alcohol...I can deal with that if he doesn't drink much. My boyfriend doesn't do any of these, so I hope it stays that way. :X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ramen-C Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 I don't mind a once in a while smoke.. I prefer non smokers because smoker's teeth, toenails and fingernails go yellow. And I already hate feet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wowwh Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 Smoking ew. Just the smell. I'm easily agitated and if I smell a smoker. Things will be thrown. Hm. Drugs? Well. It's complicated right now. I'm not a supporter. Definitely not. But ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 3ephemeralWinds Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 never i know its a very close-minded opinion but i don't want to stick around and watch that person slowly kill themself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest NoBreak09 Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 T.O.P. smokes weed and does ecstasy. So what? Girls love him mucho. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LozloPengo Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 T.O.P. smokes weed and does ecstasy. So what? Girls love him mucho. r u serious? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SilkInfused Posted December 21, 2009 Share Posted December 21, 2009 T.O.P. smokes weed and does ecstasy. So what? Girls love him mucho. Is that right? His voice is actually deeper and thicker than the other boys. But E? HA! I have a bigger problem with alcohol than cannabis. I'm curious about it myself, anyway. Anything else, I'm not interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest P a p e r_C l i p Posted December 23, 2009 Share Posted December 23, 2009 I don't care as long as it's not excessive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JCho7 Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 It's a big turn off for me esp. if you kiss them.. it's just X_x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kawaiiai Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 hmm...Good question..ive not dated a guy who smokes before..but..should i end up dating someone that does..im not about to start liking him any less for his habit..& as long as its not done excessively..however drugs is altogether another subject..& anything asides from cannabis..and such as cocaine..& heroin..is a huge..No..No..in my books..ive seen the effects first hand of what those can do..and i would just not watch the person i love..spending their time doing those things..whilst knowing the possible result of their actions.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest chopper! Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 well, i don't like guys who smoke, but that wouldn't stop me from dating a guy if he's a really good-hearted person. just wished some guys would stop, b/c they smell so rancid! my dad has been smoking for about 20 or 15 years and i can never be around him because he smells like my dog's richard simmons, sorry dad, but it's soo true. his mouth, hands, feet, whole body always makes me throw up, so my mom can never sleep next to him, and i can never be around him for 5 minutes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Shui Posted December 26, 2009 Share Posted December 26, 2009 I hate the smell, but honestly it's not my choice. If he wants to smoke I'd rather he didn't do it around me, but if he has too then go for it. As for drugs, well it doesn't really matter to me. My boyfriend does acid, its his choice again. I respect it. Doesn't mean i have to like it, but i'm not going to get mad at him for something he wants to try or do. He also smokes a lot of weed, doesn't really bother me. Since I've smoked weed before it's hypocritical of me to even consider talking to him about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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