kangta26
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Why are guys so shocked when they ask a girl if she's talking with a guy or has a boyfriend, but they find out she isn't talking to a guy or has a bf? Also,
When a guy ask a girl how many ex she has, how many is too much? And what if she her number of ex's is 0?
Not sure about the shocking part.. But about x's, i would be worried if she said she had more than 5x's, thinking hey what's wrong with her??, if it was zero, it'd be more acceptable, but still a little curiosity as to why?
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Breakfast..
slightly runny egg, 1/2 bell pepper raw, tuna with peppercini's + mustard...
have to eat healthy again getting back to my natural weight in one month
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If a regular girl friend gave you a one arm/weak hug would it matter to you? Like enough to tell her to give you a real hug? I'm not a really affectionate person and I've always done one-arm hugs but no one ever said anything about it lol.
for some reason i can't picture a one arm hug existing~
my ex and i broke up back in december after going out for four months. it wasn't mutual (on my side) but, in retrospect, i took it pretty well and we parted on relatively good terms. I told him that i hope one day, we can be friends again. he said people always say that but it usually never works out, but we don't have to ignore each other or be strangers, especially since we work in the same industry.
fast forward to now, whenever i do see him, he blatantly avoids me. never says hi (unless if we pretty much run into each other then he's forced to); turns his body so his back is facing me when he sees me coming; and he talks to everyone but me (including my friends that he only know casually).
it's understandable if it was a bad break up, but it wasn't. i thought we could at least handle this like mature adults and be civil about it, but he's just being a big baby. i'm giving him space because he obviously doesn't want to have any contact with me, but i know he is well aware of my presence whenever we have joint meetings or events.
what's his deal? should i talk to him about it or let him continue being a jackass?
He might be thinking you are trying to get back together with him w/ any contact that happens?? That's what would be on my ming.. best thing to do is to keep it brief, don't smile, even better wear a serious i'd kill you face if you talk to my a** longer than 2 minutes.. if a real friendship has a chance, i'd think you'd have to give it a year or longer..
Last week I went clubbing and I met this guy who I ended up having a one night stand with at his apartment. The next day he drops me back off at my dorm. He asked for my number and we've been texting each other ever since (nothing really deep, just "what are you doing right now?" kind of texting). He lives half an hour-an hour away from me depending on traffic, we don't go to the same school and we don't have mutual friends. I honestly thought it was just a one night stand and I would never see him again, but he still keeps texting me. Is he interested or is he just bored??
that's the problem with one night stands..
the day after texting.. if you're interested, try hanging out and see how he is.. if not just stop texting ( ~so cold~ ) -
bad. i was 16 and dated a guy 5 years older than me. 5 years isnt a lot but its a huge gap considering that he was already out in the working society and..
5 years is a huge gap, even from the age 19 compared to 21 theres usually huge maturity gap, and from 16 to 21 theres a fricking huge maturity difference.. Sorry but starting work didnt make that guy weird he was just weird and at 16 you probably didnt reallize how weird he was going out with a 16 year old..
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Lasted 2 years, she was 5yrs older? She asked me out, made all the advances, we got along great, never ever fought, great talker, very smart, sweet.. then the back of my mind told me "dont get married, you know she wants too..", "you're just starting life, you cant marry the first girl you go out with", so then i got pissed off, i cant even remember about what, and i never answered/called back".. But let me tell you about about my 2nd girlfriend, again, no fights, pretty( but not so smart
), about 2 1/2 years? I noticed how petty she was about money, i usually paid for everything which i didnt mind, guess just cuz guy thing?, and one day she comes to my apt, we head out and she asks me can we use your car because i have no gas?, i go sure no prob, we get back later, and i had to go move her car, i see a full tank of gas.. Soo bleeping petty.. Dumped her petty richard simmons in less than a week .. *shakes dirt off from shoes -
You have had how many replies that you are irrational, nuts, batshiz, and some other very creative terms? Sorry that you've had to go through that experience.. it sounds like it was very painful.. maybe take the time and step back to look at everything.. and see if you are able to see anything in a different way?.. sometimes at first glance it's hard to realize what is happening.. good luck with your situation, i hope you are able to come to an understanding of what happened..
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Its hard being a first relationship, from his point of view there must have been some doubt.. And u do always wonder if there is anything else out there.. That was exactly.. Why i broke up with my first when all her friends were having baby showers and getting married (she was older).. Just write him a letter, tell him you appreciate his honesty, and u loved all the time u guys were able to spend with each other, and that u never regretted going out as bf/gf. Tell him if he ever needed someone to talk to u hope he would feel free to give u a ring, put some perfume on it and take one of those weird funny faces picture then mail it out and move on @_@ srry kid..
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Sometimes guys are like that.. "indifferent".., not really good with expressing emotions.. something's going on.. not really communicating? not seeing each other??.. maybe ask him if he's doing okay?.. let him know everything you said here.. that you've been trying to communicate or reach out to him, but he just feels "distant??".. about you're worried about being further, because of school starting.. about how you really enjoy spending time with him, but that you don't get to see him.. anymore.., maybe ask if he's having any problems or stress that he's dealing with? that you could help him with??, you could tell him you wanna know if he's doing okay? or if there's anything wrong with your relationship??
make it both about you and him?? not only that he's "neglecting" you... do you have a right to be disappointed... yup..
good luck.. :.
Okay here goes:
Before Christmas, my boyfriend and I were fine. Fine meaning that we would still text each other regularly and we would still be interested in what the other has to talk about.
Then he went back to China for the January holidays with his family. When he came back though, he was a little different.
He would text me only at night and reply me much later than usual (i.e. from 5 minutes became 50 minutes...). Whenever I tried texting him in the afternoon, he would reply me hours later... His replies also hinted that he isn't bothered with talking to me, but every time I told him that we didn't have to text everyday he would say that he knew we didn't have to, but he wants to. (Now that I think about it, it seems like he's only saying and doing these things because it's the stuff he thinks I expect from him.) During these texts I would ask him what he's doing and every time he would say he's watching How I Met Your Mother, or Chuck, or whatever show he's addicted to at the time. You see, we're on our holidays right now, and the days when he's at home he theoretically has the whole day to watch these shows. It's not even theoretical anymore, he does watch his shows the whole day. So I don't really understand why he has to spend his nights still watching and instead 'ignores' me.
He never asks me to go out anymore either. I have to ask. We barely see each other nowadays. When he does go out, it's not me who he asks to accompany him, it's his best friend. I mean sure, I don't mind him going out with his friends, but he's been spending time with him like as if they're a couple. It hurts me whenever I ask what he did that day and he says that he went out with his best friend. Why couldn't he ask me out instead?
I have talked to him about his 'neglecting' me and he said he would try to give me the attention I deserve, but I haven't been feeling like he has... I confronted him about it again and this time he said that it was just a phase he was going through. He said he didn't know how to explain what this phase was. Should I ask him again about it? Because it definitely feels like he's only putting effort in just so the relationship doesn't stop... but it is faltering.
I keep trying to reach out to him but he doesn't respond. This isn't the first time this has happened. Last year he was so busy because of school it was hard for us to talk to each other. But that was because of school, which is an acceptable reason! We're on holidays right now for goodness sake! We're about to enter different universities in two weeks, and I'm so scared that we'll be further away from each other.
So what should I do? Am I just getting paranoid or is this something I'm allowed to be disappointed by? Does it seem that he thinks I'm just a chore to him? Help
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Yeah, I agree about this. I bought a Centrino one but it's so the battery is only over an hour, I shouldn't have listened to the sales guy, he said it would last longer. :fury: But I found out that it isn't that long lasting. I guess cuz of the screen. I wonder if I should buy another battery for it to last longer.
Anyway, thanks for this Range, I'll definitely read it cuz I have a laptop and I want to know what's the advantages of my laptop.
It helps the battery life to turn down the screen brightness.. and turning off the wireless network card, if ya have one..
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I so wanna play that new spider-man game
it's not that good... you might want to rent it first and
see if you like it..
I thought this.. just because.. awesome movement with webslinging around the city.. but after I
got past that.. I didn't even want to pass the first city level??.. just racing around and catching crooks with cheap punching and webshooting.. at first the opening scenes were cool.. i give it that.. but just rent first.. just to make sure you'll like.. !
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the day after texting.. if you're interested, try hanging out and see how he is.. if not just stop texting
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Agree with hermit on that one, if you did confront him, you'd be doing it for yourself.. either because of the way you feel and you want some type of closure to make yourself feel better.. or you think maybe there's a chance your info is wrong, and you like him enough to find out if it is.. i'm curious how you found out he had a gf? Well it would just seem like a waste of time, but if you need to do it for yourself, go ahead..