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    Is hard to forget bat first love and moreover is already 10 years

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    there is nothing wrong abt SS looking at women but things get wrong when he cheat

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Usually, in real life men like SS their marriage don't last ...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Anyway, back to the drama, SS just think abt himself and he don't spare a thought for the 2 women that he love.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    How can he just disappear like that?

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    As for SH, I don't think he is very possessive ... He is giving IY alot of freedom

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    He don't show up when SS is at IY place ...although he could

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    He has not much say in this relationship as he know

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    He was hurt that even the basic politeness of IY is not concern abt him at all.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    If everyday you are seeing each other, the r/s is not normal ..... Hahaha

     

     

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    I finished reading 2nd part of the recaps ....

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    The more I read the more I am angry with SS ... He is such a jerk

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    He left his car at IY house so she will keep thinking of him ...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    After he is back ....the way he sounded like that is so him

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    He had no fault at all ... Man he really dun sees he is at fault

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I mean ppl changed as you go along but ....being a cheater is no way

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Meaning when u are having an affair ... You are already not thinking abt IY

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I like how SY said abt having sex .... Actually that is so true being 1st and later many times become a diff but there will come a point she will get sick and settle down.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Abt DS ....he is so mystery .... Is he interested in HJ

     

     

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    I'm not convinced that SS is the first lead, since a romance w/ SH was established at the very beginning of the series w/ lots of sexy sparks.  It seems more likely that the series is about IY's emotional growth and her learning to trust a new love.  I suspect there will be a breakup w/ SH for a while, because he feels betrayed on unappreciated, but that ultimately, IY will love him.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I hope what you said will come true too .....

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Wishing ....

     

     

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    Thanks rockmelon!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    You are really details in ep 8 and really appreciated very much as I know is hard to translate. There are not much ppl tuning in oversea so is really hard to come across any translation or recaps. Frankly, I really salute you ... hahaha

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    This drama is really very good and I really like how the production team is shooting (like they have the main stand alone frame stop)

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Wow! I really like this I really hope IY and SH can be together in the end.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Hope the production team will not give audience fake hope that SS can be a changed man!! That will be a joke!!

     

     

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    in reality ... after 10 years of dating or marriage ... SH might just very well be another SS ... don't you think? :sweatingbullets:

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Nah ... I don't think so

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Basically, both men are of diff character and I agree that SS has the charm but men like him really break a lot of women hearts

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Like what he is doing to IY & KH ... If SS want to start a new r/s for god sake do a clear cut with his present gf. Or be firm to reject any possible attraction!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    But see what he did? He just made the situation worst for making 2 women neither here nor there

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    In reality there are a lot of such men ....they are gentle and even open the car door for u ... Take your bags, open or held on any doors to led you go first, pull the seat for you etc. But due to the character that charm a lot of women and they will throw themselves at him. So they are the killers.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Ok this is a drama ... I am thinking too much hahahaha

     

     

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    A man like Sung Soo ...

     

     

     

     

     

     

    he cannot live without love and indecisive about love

     

     

     

     

     

     

    he is testing out the love between him and the actress

     

     

     

     

     

     

    and holding on to In Young in case that actress is not suitable for him

     

     

     

     

     

     

    he wants to has a life with women that they can be 'friends'

     

     

     

     

     

     

    a man like him breaks alot of women's heart.

     

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    *quoted image*

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I felt bad for Sung Hyun. He was so happy that they kissed but In Young doesn't take him seriously because he's her junior.

     

     

     

     

     

     

    And after kissing him with tongue she still doesn't see him as a man? <_<

     

     

     

     

     

     

    *quoted image*

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    But I don't know if I can be mad at Sung Soo now since she cheated too. Who am I kidding? Yes, I can still be mad!

     

     

     

     

     

     

    And Sung Soo... why is he acting like he has two wives? And not just that... the young girl, why is she acting like In Young is the senior wife and she's the junior wife? What kind of situation is this? :wacko:

     

     

     

     

     

     

    *quoted image*

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Actually, what are in young & sung hyun talking about after the kiss?

     

     

     

     

     

     

    In young is so shy after the kiss, like a little girl ... Agrrr so cute

     

     

     

     

     

     

    But her reaction changed so fast after she realize that sung soo came ... That is very funny thou

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Poor sung hyun .... I am hoping some one can tell me their conversation after the kiss and when sung soo came

     

     

     

     

     

     

    But the preview looks promising for Sung Hyun :D

     

     

     

     

     

     

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    Sorry to say ... I find the thread starter is not a genius case.

     

    Just posted 2 days ago and things can resolve or suddenly turned so fast into his favor.

     

    That his wife cheated also ... How weird?

     

    Suddenly, he dare to confide to his wife

     

    The best part is initally he said he is 26 and now he claimed he is 29

     

    The whole things is too fake to me ...

     

    I think I am an idiot who take his thread seriously but he treated me like fool going around in ride.

     

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    Just be yourself and be confidence ... (**REMEMBER TO HAVE PROTECTION for not having any unwanted babies**)

     

    That is a personal choice but just remember ... no one can force you or pressure you (I still think not to lose it but society change so no choice)

     

    What is peers pressure? That is just so lame excuses ... come on ... are you telling me you don't have a brain of yours?

     

    What others are doing ... there is not a need to follow is just so brainless.

     

    Let say if in a grp of 9 and only you are still a 'V' you should be proud rather than being pressure.

     

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    I am viewing this topic seriously and I hope my comments is being treated seriously. I am not going to paint a nice picture for him to just think or only see himself and Ellie as one but as a father and husband .. he need to take up the basic responsibility.

     

    The way he said ... 'She doesn't work and I don't want her to be a single mom with two daughters'. Why in the world, he can't take the daughters and care for them instead of living with the mum. Let the mum free to find her life while she can cos she is 25 only if he is filing for divorce. That why he is selfish ... he only think about himself and Ellie in their lust world without the kids hello.

     

    The problem is not about marrying at a young age and later regret ... I had friends that know each other during college and married at his age and living happily. Temptation come and go thru' your life so fact is you need to learn how to reject. I don't mind that couple break up during a relationship ... this we are talking about is a family that is going to break up soon due to his lust.

     

    If he still care for his wife and daughters ... he should turn back and keep a positive faith and not keep thinking about Ellie.

     

    You know there are alot of home wrecker around and they come and go ....

     

    He said 'I cannot lose Ellie. She is everything to me. She has been the ray of sunshine in my life and I don't think I'll be able to be without her. On the other hand...I know Ellie is hurt that I wont leave my wife for her. She doesn't vocalize it,but I know. She shows me her jealousy and hurt and sadness...and it really hurts me that I'm hurting her.' - By showing her jealousy / hurt / sadness is already vocalizing, you are blinded because now you are 'in love' with her.

     

    The whole story is developing the affection / lust over Ellie ... and only after the very last paragraph he is talking about his family. Frankly as a man you need to restrain yourself for falling over.

     

    At the age of 18 ... they fall in love and had been in a relationship for long to know about each other and that doe not happen like suddenly.

     

    At the age of 21 ... they decided to get marry and have kid after 1 1/2 years

     

    At age of 26 ... then he regrets about marriage

     

    Frankly, I think he had enough time to think thru' b4 marrying his wife

     

    Even if you play game ... you level up right that is how life is ... you can't forever stuck at the honeymoon level.

     

    Cos the fact that if he is not getting any sense back into his brain there is no point of us arguing over the comments.

     

    He needs to set it right ... return to the wife and be a good husband and father. He already forgot the good about his wife.

     

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    After reading your long beautify story ... sorry to say I am disgusted!!!

     

    You are not sorry AT ALL for what you did ... cheater of wife

     

    YOU JUST WANT OR NEED ANYONE OR SOMEONE who will sympathetic with you and agree with you!!

     

    For god sake ... for being at the age of 26 ... you still very much immature I guess for saying that one day you woke up ... she lost her shine of being the one you loved b4. One day, you will also feel the same for Ellie (I hope Ellie will do the same to you and leave you when you lost your shine as well)

     

    For the past years when you are 18 mistakes has been made and so MAKE IT RIGHT!!! You are not taking up the responsibility up by saying you are stuck with her till now!!! Come on ... sparks in marriage will cease and how to make it work again is up to you that takes both hands to clap.

     

    Just for how many years ... you already sick of your wife so what do you think your life will be with Ellie still ... I can assure you SAME!!! CHEATERS WILL ALWAY BE CHEATERS!!!

     

    TO ME I WILL ONLY SALUTE TO MEN WHO ADMIT THEIR MISTAKES AND TURN OVER A NEW LEAF ... like my friend.

     

    I have a couple friends who we know for years but after they married very young too but no shot gun issue.

     

    One day my gf found out hubby been cheating on her and she told us not to breath a words to him.

     

    I was damn angry with my guy friend how could he ... cos a group of us help him to woo my gf. I am terribly hurt ...

     

    The outcome is he turned back round to my gf who was hurt by him and make the relationship work again

     

    Now they are happily still going strong with 2 kids.

     

    What we say or advise is no use if you are already decide on your side?

     

    If you still care about your kids ... please dun divorce.

     

    They need the fatherly love ... I dun understand why youngsters nowaday has such a short term relationship.

     

    I had friends who are divorce too and sad to say is alway the guys that cheat.

     

    They gave all sort of stupid excuses like no sparks in relationship / can't feel the love is so damn common excuses!!!

     

    What sparks you want and need ... your sparks and need are your children and wife ... you life cycle has up the level not stuck at the honeymoon level like with Ellie. When will you grow up ... if you still have the mentality of having sparks or not and attractive or not is so shallow!!!

     

    Grow up ... you are already an adult and get a grip of yourself again the lust / love / greed to feel young again!! That is all in your mind setting ... as you say OPEN MINDED AND think positive that your relationship will work with your wife.

     

    Frankly, if you only think positive of Ellie and how both of you can work and only negative on how bad your wife relationship will not work ... of cos that will happen in what you want!!!

     

    So revert the situation and be responsible father and hubby not a shallow fellow who are after the lust / greed / love.

     

    Resign from your job ... cut off all contact with Ellie.

     

    I have say what I need to say ... if you still feel we are not in your shoes ... meaning you are still a baby

     

    TO ADD ON ...

     

    SHE (YOUR WIFE) NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR DAILY NEEDS (IRON YOUR CLOTHES SO YOU LOOKS SMART IN IT) & COOK FOR YOU TO FEED YOU & DO UP ALL THE THINGS SO YOU HAVE NO WORRY AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN ... DO YOU THINK SHE WILL HAVE TIME FOR HERSELF?

     

    SHE NEEDS TO DO ALL THE HOUSE WORK AND TAKING CARE OF THE CHILDREN FULL TIME!!!

     

    SO YOU CAN GO OUT AND HAVE FUN WITH ELLIE AND CHEAT ON HER WHILE SHE IS SLOTTING HER LIFE.

     

    SO SELFISH / MEAN / NATIVE FELLOW

     

    SO THE SPARKS YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT IS BEING PUT OUT BY YOU

     

    SHE LOST HER SHINE BECOS OF YOU AND KIDS

     

    SO WHAT IS SMART / BEAUTIFUL ELLIE DOING JUST HAVING SEX WITH YOU IN ORDER TO MAKE YOU HAPPY?

     

    DOES ELLIE KNOW HOW TO COOK / IRON YOUR CLOTHES AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR KIDS? GET HER TO DO THAT I DOUBT ELLIE KNOWS HOW TO DO ALL THESE?

     

    I THINK YOU OWE YOUR WIFE BIG TIME ... SHE SHOULD INDEED ASK YOU TO SHARE WITH THE HOUSEWORK AND TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS INSTEAD OF GIVING YOU SO MUCH FREEDOM TO CHEAT ON HER.

     

    OH! YET I THOUGHT I READ THAT YOU CAN'T BEAR TO LEAVE THE KIDS ... HAHAHA WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO KID ANYWAY? THE MINUTE YOU HAVE SEX WITH ELLIE YOU HAVE LONG FORGOTTEN YOUR WIFE AND YOUR KIDS. IF YOU SO LOVE YOUR KIDS GET THEM WHY MUST YOU LEAVE THE WITH YOUR WIFE? JUST GET THE KIDS LIVE WITH YOUR ELLIE ... I WILL VERY MUCH LIKE TO SEE HOW SHE SURVIVE THRU' THE ORDEAL OF DEALING WITH YOUR KIDS. I SHALL SEE HOW LONG ELLIE CAN ENDURE ...

     

    THEN GIVE YOUR WIFE A CHANCE TO KNOW OTHER GUYS AND NOT TO TIE HER DOWN WITH YOUR KIDS (I MEAN LIKE YOU SAID WIFE IS ONLY 25 SHE CAN STILL PRETTY MUCH MEET SOMEONE BETTER WHO KNOW HER GOOD RATHER THEN BEING TREATED LIKE A DOMESTIC HELPER WHO LOST THE SPARKS AND SHINE). I THINK THAT IS BEING PLAY FAIR ...

     

    GUYS ARE JUST SO MEAN THEY CAN CHEAT AND JUST WANTED TO BE ALONE WITH THEIR HOME WRECKER AND SO DISGUSTED TO THINK THEY CAN JUST LEAVE KIDS WITH THEIR EX JUST PROVIDING MONEY AND SOMETIME MEET UP WITH KIDS! SELFISH! SO WHAT ABOUT THE WELFARE FOR THE WIFE THEN?

     

    GIVE HER BACK HER LIFE AND YOUTH ....

     

    IF I GOT TO KNOW YOUR WIFE, I WILL ADVISER HER JUST LET GO AND MOVE ON COS SHE IS ONLY 25. GIVE UP THE CUSTODY OF THE CHILDREN AND LET YOU RAISE THEM WELL.

     

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    Sela_07, I believe Auntie_Mame was responding to Halo21's post where Halo21 thought K-drama Thorn Birds was created from the novel Thorn Bird's of Colleen McCullough. I was about to respond to Halo21's post myself to clarify and include the complete preface from the novel regarding the Thorn Birds.

     

     

     

    Anyways, latest article from KBS Global

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I am afraid that JE will secretly leave YJ ... in the wake of the truth and she know that she can't deny YK / YJ / HB / MJ are connected or linked by blood. She may just sacrifice herself again as a thorn bird maybe????

     

     

     

    Btw, Thanks Creidesca for the live link .... thanks again!!

     

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    My own opinion : I am a JI & MR shipper ... I think JI is too reserve and he seem like protecting himself behind a shield. Now now with MR appearing in his life, things are not the usual as he lives before.

     

     

     

    I agreed that JS influence did affect JI in alot of way ... being brought up by his dad and being the only child, he seem not comfy enough.

     

     

     

    1) when he wanted to place a note at the door where MR sleep ... he is thinking of all lot of possiblity and replay the count of whether will MR be able to see his note. His action was caught by MR unexpectally, he got a shocked and trying to compose himself again while he about to place the note on the floor. I think the little gesture that he did, showed alot of him and feeling for MR. If JI really dun care about MR ... I think a person will not go to such length (eventhough is his dad who want him to get marry).

     

     

     

    2) he gave MR alot of personal space and not wanting to be pushy but this give him alot of disadvantage. He dun really hv the quality time to share with MR. So he is not open up to MR as I am expecting.

     

     

     

    3) he is alway readily to help MR without question asked

     

     

     

    4) eventhough he is rich ... he dun throw tatrum like MG which I think a guy should behave like a guy not a kido. Both men are smart and good looking but the show until now still very much a disvantage to JI.

     

     

     

    Frankly speaking, I really dun mind if MR don't end up with any of the guys, sort of still as friends and hinting of getting to know both men better. That is only my wishful thinking ... hahaha

     

     

     

    I hope SJ will be pair with MG instead and JI with MR.

     

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