[Ask The Fellas]

put question in here soon..

[who will admit that they have never been kissed?]

 

 

i can't believe i'm admitting it with a bunch of strangers but yeah i haven't been kissed except by family and cute little kids...i'm pretty old not to be kissed (and date >.<)

But i honestly haven't meet the right person..not just someone i like/love but someone where i can actually have long term relationship (at my age, 16 long term relationship means 1-3 months..if your lucky to get into the month period and not weeks)

like i wouldn't just hook up (make out) with someone at a party..because to me why buy the cow if she's giving the milk out for free i dont mean to offend anyone whose done this but hooking up at parties isn't my thing...so i'd only kiss a guy whose my boyfriend and we're in a long term relationship...i know that sounds old fashioned and lame but that's just my opinion

 

[Hurtful Things People Said To You]

 

 

Going to school and being the only asian really changed me..like there were heaps of racial "comments" about my eyes, height, hair..generally anything that made me look different from caucasians...it's been on and off through primary school to high school but it the good thing i'm getting from this is that i would never judge a person just by looking at them(i know this is basic but lots of people i know judge people based on what they wear, socio economic status, race, looks,etc)

 

[The Ideal Asian Girl?]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

looking at it again she looks heaps scary and eerie..but her look that she does for..the doll look is so overrated and tons of people strive for it...and to me this girl isn't pretty and hardly cute....no offense but she looks weird

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i really wouldn't want to look like her..i love the traditional Chinese beauty; slightly wide face with wide cheekbones, whitish complexion (not dghostly white), demure eyes(not very big, a bit smaller than average is still nice), the slightly flat/wide nose but still kind of tall... like the photo of zhang ziyi i put up

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I don't think many asians know that some white people really love our look..i have a friend with eyes as bid as the ones they draw in animes with super long curly eyelashes yet she thinks Asian eyes are pretty and really likes them! lol she also has the oval face and smallish but pointed nose and is super tall with really long legs..yet she complains about ehr eyes being to big, being to tall!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think the trend/obssession of having an oval/heart shape face(like Caucasians) isn't that great..i have an oval face shape..kind of like caucasians..it ain't that great...people who have the traditional asian face..you don't know how lucky you have it! Like the traditional wide/wideish face isn't really embraced...i hope it is because that's what most asians girls i know have!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This look would be ok if i was like 10-16 but wouldn't ever want that look when i'm an adult...i'm not trying to offend who would want it coz it's each to there own

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[The Ideal Asian Girl?]

 

 

Umm to me her eyes are too big..i know heaps of asian people love big eyes but i honestly don't think it suits asians..

i kind of have her face/ people tell me my face is similar to/i look like hebe tian's heres a photo of her:

I'm kind of hating on my face and wishing it was more asian...like wider cheek bones but i think zhang ziyi depicts the ideal perfect asian WOMEN to the tee:

and this is what i think an ideal asian GIRL would look like..i think it's a realistic..that girls can look like this:

I like it how their eyes are traditionally asian and so are their features...like their not like hyori lee getting caucasian cheekbones/jaw, nose, etc.

 

[Girls With Guy's Hairstyles.]

 

 

I wanted to cut my hair kind of like Maki Horikita when she was in Hana KImi but lack the confidence too. Has anyone cut it like that??? If so i would like to see photos please!

 

[Does anyone else hate fob fashion?]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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um. that isn't fob "fashion"..that's like chic cross office/business attire

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Does anyone else hate fob fashion?]

 

the only reason you consider it to by fobby is b/c they are asians. If a non-asian wears them, it wouldnt be consider a fob...

from what i remember in london, alot of people layer their clothes and they are a non-asians. new york as well...

sorry but please dont say that it puts shame on all asians b/c you are not representing all asians.

The fashion shouldn't be considered to be call fob b/c it meant "Fresh off the boarder"...i dont think people in asia would call it fob...just those outside of asia...

i hate that word to the fullest extent. b/c that word is use to exclude people from another country.

omg if a word like hate is used in a forum for girls inknow its used for exaggeration or hyperbole..gosh

i dont consider it coz its asians..if anyone else wore it i'd be like yeah thats crap and looks really tacky...im not prejudice.. btw there's a right

way to layer and a wrong way...look up cue...it will show u how to layer nicely and make you look chic regardless the body figure (fob fasion msot suits skinny asians)

Dont put worst in my mouth sweetie because i never said that i represented asians..im merely expressing how i, as an individual feel

Well most asians born in western countries call it that because that's normally how you distinguish if someone is a fob or born in that specific western country..i know i hit a nerve with you with what i said but don't take it personally

 

[Does anyone else hate fob fashion?]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

fob fashion is so gross and tacky..all of it looks really cheap and from wall mart (Australia's equivalent of BigW)..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i hate how asians wear it it brings shame to all of us....i think fob "fashion" is just a bunch of fugly clothes thrown together..like don't people understand less is more...you don't need to layer 4 times on an outfit..it's so ridiculous

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The fob look seems like its for asian girls with no hourglass-like body figures..like i mean the fabrics used for fob "fashion" i sneough to tell you it's tacky...the blend of polyester, cotton blend and stretched cotton tells me all i need to know about this "fashion"

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For people seeking out of fob 'fashion' there's an Australian brand called Cue...google it!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Do You Think You Are Pretty?]

 

 

i gave myself a 3 but i think it could have been four or mayebe even 5..adults and other people (large majority are asians) tell me im really pretty/pretty but i think they're just saying that, being polite or have extremely low standards but that's just me

i really don't get why people compare themselves with people who have had plastic surgery like hyori lee..it's so stupid like i mean when people have plastic surgery their on a different scale..i think most girls should know this (but hyori lee has nothing on gong li, zhang ziyi, jessica alba, kate waterhouse or aishwarya rai....to me she tries to be a mix which i think is pathetic, sad and a slap to koreans..like i mean did she keep any korean feature of hers)

i think Jessica Alba and Aishwarya Rai does not epitomize 10 because they is so much more beautiful than that i think is they are an 11 if thats possible and if its not the scale would scale so much higher if their on 10...i think people who rate themselves 10 should be as good looking as them

 

[Ask The Fellas]

Hahaha no actually not ALL girls wanna look cute miss. Like I said before, I don't try to look cute. Hence why I buy clothes more so on the sophisticated side rather than cute. I actually hate being called cute. Well maybe to you Miley isn't cute but to me she embodies that rather than pretty. I don't find her pretty at all, and frankly her "quirky, cute, bubbly" personality annoys me. To each their own I guess. But like I said, I was giving an example of cute girls trying to be sexy.

And also, me giving you an example of myself is considering bragging? Oh enlighten me a bit why don't you

People tend to bring in their personal preferences/experiences when answering topics, you know that don't you.

And what do you mean NO ONE wakes up looking cute or beautiful or whatnot. Maybe some don't and have to put in extra effort in their looks, but there ARE girls out there who have naturally beauty you know

I guess ignorance is bliss in your case.

Puffy cheeks? I don't know any girl who likes having puffy/chubby cheeks, myself included. Most girls actually wanted the defined cheekbones look. Hence why so many girls are into contouring their face and such. Unless you're talking about those girls in Asia who try to be "kawaii". In that case, if you're only talking about girls in ASIA specifically.. you should stop saying "MOST GIRLS.." and say "most girls IN ASIA" instead so people don't get confused. Just a tip.

let's just stop this.. its going to turn in a richard simmons fight..it's just getting childish and catty

JUst telling you about the puffy cheek thing- puffy cheeks is crucial for the cute look (in those wannabe cute girl pictures where the girl looks like she has that puffy cute pinchable cheeks) and again read before i said MOST as in large majority and not all

and you said some girls didnt try and look cute and i replied with they do you just don't wake up like that..and you were just talking about yourself..like i dont even know you so how can i apply what you say to my initial question.. you using yourself as an example seems like you just like talking about yourself

cute and beauty are 2 different things i was talking about cuteness..wtf you sound like a moron because your just taking out words i say out of context..and i dont have to say most girls in Asia coz its in the same paragraph its implied...

miley cyrus is a no talent wannabe but you brought her up so i corrected what you said about her fullstop.

I'm just clearing up the nonsense your saying because you ain't reading so if you don't want to stop what was a debate im just not going to talk to you because your not reading what im saying and it's really disrespectful and slack and really frustrating on my part...

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[Ask The Fellas]

NO. Not all girls "TRY" to look cute, they just are. Guys have said I'm cute but I don't think I look anything like a child. Quite opposite actually, since most guys think I'm older than my real age due to the way I carry myself & the way I dress. You have a twisted mind if you're actually comparing a girl's looks (ie. "cuteness") to a little child's.

Maybe where you live but not over here. There's more girls trying to look sexy rather than cute. Take Miley Cyrus for instance, she's more so on the cute side yet you always see her taking raunchy half naked photos of herself

I live in australia..the look is sexy and hot..anything less than that and your a social retard..im talking about asia...goodness sakes read..miley cyrus isnt on the cute side..she's more on the funny? girly/pretty side... e.g. she wore that awesome vest from sass&bide's collection rainbows for kate.. that sass&bide vest was not cute.. it was chic with a dash of fun and heaps feminine

all girls try and look cute...no one wakes up looking beautiful, cute, hot or sexy...it takes effort e.g. getting the right hairstyle, clothes, etc

Umm. i know i sound like a b*itch and uber mean but your like.. bragging about yourself/telling me about all about your looks and frankly i don't care..

Twisted mind?! Just because you don't understand it when i described in layman's terms doesnt mean i have a twisted mind...let me try and explain in terms anyone will understand(i'm not trying to degrade you but ive explained it clearly and it's getting really frustrating)

MOST girls try and look cute like a child (puffy cheeks, humongous innocent eyes, THOSE outfits etc) therefore they remind us of a child..thus the why the comparsion is made

get it?

Note: If any other reply from me is made to you, just ignore..there's something wrong with how soompi is loading on my computer.

[Ask The Fellas]

So me and my friends don't have any guy bestfriends so i wanted to ask this to you guys:

what's the best (fastest?) way to get a guy to stop liking you?

coz a guy liked my bestfriend (she was kind of friends with him) and she asked me for advice so i told her to just ignore him coz their in classes together i.e. don't ask questions in conversations incl. msn, don't talk to him unless he talks to you and even then give monotone answers, etc.

I know I sounds really heartless and mean but... i know it should have been tell him how you feel (but she already said no when he asked her out) directly..but then he gets attracted by her more coz she'll be really sweet and nice about it...

This was a few months ago and it took about 1-2 months for him to stop liking her but i would like to know what would be the best way guys think to deal with this situation becasue i thought my advice was the best for a fast results(my other friend said wait it out )

[Ask The Fellas]

Appearance is just for the initial attraction, it shouldn't matter to anyone in a genuine relationship.

much none.

How does girl get a guy to go out with him? by looks..without looks most guys wouldnt give a girl a second glance therefore a girl cant get to step 2

[Ask The Fellas]

you mean saying cute girls are sexy?

just because it's 'wrong' doesn't mean it's impossible :/

umm..its wrong coz its like kind of saying a little kid can be sexy (aren't the large majority of cute girls trying to look like kids whether directly or indirectly) ..and i did mention miranda kerr who is on of the few females that are cute, pretty and sexy..

And this is a question..not a let's try and dissect and disagree what i say

[Ask The Fellas]

I disagree, I don't think that's true at all. I've been told I'm cute/pretty, but I've also been told I'm sexy a lot too. A girl can have a cute face/personality yet still have sex appeal or a sexy body, so yeah there are actually lots of cute yet sexy girls if you think about it. Just a thought.

I forgot to mention physically...yeah people have said (based on my looks) that im cute/pretty but i reckon their just misinformed about what it means and that im not neither (yep..low self esteem kicks in)..Pretty+cute goes together sometimes e.g. miranda kerr

I don't think their are..i think saying that cute girls are sexy is wrong and kinda gross.. it's like saying little kids are sexy because isn't that what cute girls try and look like?! Checkmate.

[Ask The Fellas]

Okay... This is a question to males on soompi...

Which type of females would you prefer cute, pretty, sexy or hot and why?

Mind you, you can only pick one (i'm a firm believer in if your cute, you can't be sexy.. like i mean its crossing child with woman ) I ask this question because where i live there is not a heavy asian population and would like to see what asian guys think as opposed to caucasians...

I'm guessing it's cute because asian girls that try and look revoltingly cute like child outnumber ones that try and ONLY look pretty, sexy or hot. And i really wonder why guys would like cute females over pretty, sexy or hot...in my opinion isn't it like dating your younger sister?? that's gross and incest

As oppose to most american, australian and every other western country,guys puts cute as on the bottom of the list..which i agree with..

Remember this is based on PHYSICAL not personality type

Okay..this is from my point of view of each type of girl that i think epitomizes each category (tel me if im wrong for putting the girls in the worng category but i think i got it pretty right..and yeah hot and sexy is the similar yet different if you know what i mean)

Cute (includes uzzlang):

Rainie Yang

Pretty/Beautiful:

Song Hye Kyo

Zhang Ziyi

Hot:

Aishwarya Rai

Megan Gale

Sexy:

Jessica Alba (I don't think a lot of photos are needed for guys.. im sure plenty of you know what she looks like in a bikini)