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  1. 12 minutes ago, TheQueenReturns said:

     

     

    To repent also means

    being reconciled to the person that you have wronged. This is a TV show so it really doesn't matter but God does not bless mess.  God is Not mocked, whatever man sows he also reaps. You may never see the reaping, but they always reap it. Conservative families do not celebrate adultery whether they like their daughter-in-law or not. You may not ever get a chance to witness it, but people reap what they sow in more ways than one

     

    Preach sister!

     

    Best words of wisdom ever!!!

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  2. I really hate how we've been getting set up to try and get us to like Seon Won. But no matter what I'm not feeling her or rooting for them as a couple.  I would really have liked for her to stay true to her "sacrifice" of permanently never being involved with 30s husband again. All these sickening scenes to try to make her affair with him justified as though it's ok cause she's "nice" is nauseating, including how they changed his parents attitude and have them literally "oggling" over her.. :crazy:

     

    I can't help but root for the original wives.  They were the victims in all of these affairs.  We're on episode 13 yet somehow all the men seem to be getting rewarded in different ways for their unexcusable and hurtful behavior. RickRoll'D!!!

     

    Where's the justice and new beginnings for the wives?!!!  Come on 30s wife and engineer's brother and 40s wife with engineer! Lol

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  3. Although it's hard to accept I'm trying to come to terms on how this series will end and like many have said,  I'm not sure it can all be wrapped up in one episode to allow all the characters closure with their own happy ending. It's hard to predict what will happen but if there was ever a statement that was a prediction, that made my heart fall to the floor, was when YR's mom told MJ... "Your biggest fear will never come true.  I know my daughter best and she will never do it."  And with that statement, dashed any little bit of hope I had left for my own personal wish of a "happy ending" and am trying to prepare myself for YR's departure :( At least I got to see a glimpse of what my version of a happy ending would've been. And oh boy was it beautiful!

     

    Regardless of how this ends,  kudos to this show for being beautiful with an amazing cast and portrayal of love in all its different dimensions, depths, and complexities.

     

    Hi bye mama fans,  staff,  cast, writers,  and director fighting!

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  4. If the intent of the ending is to have YR die  but give closure for everyone,  wouldn't it be opposite for GH cause this time he could really change YR's fate?  If she dies and he had the power to actually change that and she died because he didn't give her place back as his wife,  wouldn't he really blame himself even more than the first time she died? He really couldn't do anything the first time she died but now he actually can. Knowing his character that could really drive him over with guilt. 

     

    8 hours ago, Fabbo said:

     

    Real mother? What are you even talking about?

      

     

    Biological mother shows up after six years and wants her kid back. Okay...

    And what exactly did YR do wrong that you don't think she's not deserving of being SW's mother.  Because she put her child's life before her own? You make it seem like being a mother to her biological child is wrong,  she was out of the picture because she died.  She didn't abandon her child. It would only be fair to allow them a mother and daughter relationship since it's possible. This doesn't mean it has to totally exclude MJ.

     

    How would SW feel when she is an adult and found out that they didn't give her the opportunity to be with her biological mother? Wouldn't she feel cheated?!

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  5. I am going to apologize ahead of time but here i go ranting again after watching episode 13... lol

     

    It's great that this story doesn't really have any villains, everyone is so nice maybe sometimes a little too nice! For everybody that is supposed to be on Yuri' side because it is her family or friends, it's boggling that they have no expectation to what Yuri should be entitled to.  I understand that MJ stepped up to be the mom while she was not around. Not trying to take that away from her. However it was never Yuri's choice not to be there. She died so it wasn't exactly her choice not to raise her daughter. She now is alive and has the opportunity to be a mother something that was taken away from her. I understand that her daughter now thinks MJ is her mother but that shouldn't take away from the fact that Yuri is her real mother and should be able to be that for her. She shouldn't have to die just so that everybody can live comfortably in their original life before she came back. More than anyone she deserves some time with her daughter and some happiness. She's so busy worrying about everyone and their happiness but never thinks of her own. She put in the sacrifice before and after she died and is so understanding of how they had to move on without her. She chose not to go up just so she can watch her daughter grow up even if it meant watching from a distance and not to be able to be physically there. I am not saying that Yuri should take SW away from MJ but she has as much if not more right to be her mother. 

     

    Yes, it may be confusing and it may create chaos in the beginning but isn't the end result worth it? Who wouldn't give anything at another shot at life if it was taken from us. Maybe I am a little selfish for thinking this but why should have to die just so everyone can be back to where they were but she's owed something too. Why is she the one that always has to make a sacrifice?  Everyone may have dealt with grief but she's the one who experienced the most loss. She didn't choose to die or be brought back to life. Is it selfish for her to want to be a mother?  Wouldn't SW benefit so much from reuniting with the mother that was ripped away from her before she was born? It's not as though we don't have these kind of relationships work out right now where the mom, stepmom, and dad raise a child together. It's not uncommon, typical arrangement when mom and dad are no longer together.

     

    Also these scenes where YR and/or KW are together and one is crying out or in distraught kill me!  Why can't they comfort each other? It's not cheating to reach out and comfort someone you care about or love. It's natural for one empathetic human to another to want to reach out and give comfort to someone who is in anguish. It's more awkward and a testimony to feelings involved when you cant reach out and comfort someone that you care about because it might come off as though it's more than just comforting.

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  6. Oooh this series is going to either make me so happy or leave me cynical!! Lol

    I like many,  am a silent viewer. I've only joined one other forum (VIP) and we all know how that went :crazy:

     

    Sooo here's my two cents,  and please forgive my rantings because I'm afraid like many,  there isn't a happy ending,  at least not in the sense like those in a fairytale. I envy those that can reconcile with the fact that this series will most likely end with a sad ending where YR goes up again because such is real life,  harsh and logical. 

     

    For me,  I find this logic sometimes very difficult and hard to accept. First of all,  if we're talking logical, wouldn't it be more logical if she stayed alive at the end?  After all,  this is a series is based on an altervative reality where the living coexist with the non- living and where you can come back to life.

     

    Second,  if I wanted harsh reality that'd be easy to find,  all I'd have to do is turn off the t.v.  I'm not saying that dramas shouldn't have them.  Often it is essential so that the happy ending is so much sweeter because of all the trials and hardship before then. But it seems this series like many in the last year is going to follow the common trend, to end on a sad note when it didn't have to just because it was a logical and a realistic ending?!!

     

    But isn't a big reason for many who watch drama, to escape from that reality?? Cause I know I do. Growing up I hardly watched tv, now as a mother and in light of things that are going on,  kdrama is an escape from that harsh reality,  even if for just an hour and sometimes a nice reminder that life is good,  that you can hope for the best,  and love often conquers all.

     

    Sorry I digress,  but this series has been so beautiful with superb acting and amazing characters that continue to show different depths as more of history and flashbacks are shared but can't fully enjoy and immerse because at the back of my mind, Im going to be very disappointed and devastated by the ending. 

     

    As I watch every episode and especially the latest (episode 12) I am convinced,  that like too many series in 2019, the ending will not live up to the journey and break so many of our hearts!!! :tears:

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