BeautyBigboss
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Oy vey ... We all want them to be together all the time, but just because that's probably not happening right now doesn't mean it's time to worry. LOL. They should be secure enough in their relationship that they should be able to go on separate vacations with their buddies; that's trust.
Re-posting this from the thread (from a long time ago) when people worried that their busy schedules might get in the way of their relationship. There are positives to this whole thing ... Some parts have been edited. LOL.
QuoteFirst, They’re both popular actors, and as someone mentioned before, that’s a boon to their relationship.
Because they’re in the same profession, they can easily empathize with each other. They both understand the level of commitment involved in their successful careers. I am sure that Hye Kyo fully encourages Joong Ki to seize all the opportunities that have blessed him recently, and without a doubt, Joong Ki reciprocates the same kind of support to her. As they’re pretty much industry veterans, they have the wisdom to acknowledge that they can’t be greedy with each other’s time.
Second, while her past relationships with her co-stars may have been painful for her, Song Hye Kyo has also learned something from those. If there are lessons about the significance of personal time and privacy, then she will apply them to whatever she may have with fellow actor Song Joong Ki. She is, after all, a very sensible and wise woman
Meanwhile, Song Joong Ki has the maturity and foresight to appreciate and protect the time he has for himself and the people close to him, which I bet includes Song Hye Kyo.
Third, there is advanced technology like smart phones (as well as assistants/managers). They’re handy communication tools
, especially when you want to set up a date with your significant other or just send your love a sweet message like, ‘I wish you were with me. I miss you!’ The Songs might even instruct their managers to have flowers or food delivered to their partner
Fourth, they’re lucky to be living in the same country. They could be an intercontinental couple, like Jim Sturgess and Bae Doo Na were. However, those two traveled for each other all the time, and I know for a fact that what broke them up wasn’t at all because of the long distance or the lack of quality time between them. Likewise, last I heard, the very busy stars Song Seung Heon and Liu Yi Fei continue to go strong, so, they are finding ways to be together.
Fifth, the Songs are good on their word that they don’t do things half-assed---so to speak. They invest themselves 100% into what they do, and it seems even if it might mean spreading themselves thin. So, whether it’s work, family, charity, or a meaningful relationship, I believe they’re motivated to make things work and give each area their balanced attention.
I think this fourth positive ties in with the first one. Because they’re celebrities, role models, and someone’s child, they understand and accept that their time is shared with other people and responsibilities.
By the same token, I also think the Songs are cognizant of their personal limits, so, as much as we would love for them to go all the way to the altar, we should also understand the flipside.
Sixth, they’ve got secret agent skills.
We didn’t know until later that they had a New York rendezvous, and they’ve been to Serengetea at least three times, with at least one visit extending late into the night. And on the day of their departure for Hong Kong, Hye Kyo was able to walk through the airport undetected, thanks to Joong Ki who was the recipient of stalkerazzi attention. After their Hong Kong press con, it seemed they managed to have time alone together after dinner, as their whole entourage exited the restaurant through the front door. They hung back and (later) chummed it up with the chef
And when they were driven back to their hotel by the chef, who knows what else those two could have done together? Though, based on Hye Kyo's radiant mood the next day, it might be she had a great time ... with Joong Ki ... the night before
Yeah, yeah, we know all these, but obviously, we sometimes have to be reminded because once in a while, a few Panic Patties pop up and overreact. The point is that even the most famous actors find innovative ways to maintain their privacy and still have a life---even a love life---and the Songs have Lee Kwang Soo, Yoo Ah In, and their friends from Studio Concrete to help them.
Seventh, remember the saying, 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder.' When they are apart for long periods of time, they probably feel more for each other as they'll miss everything about the other. If the Songs' bond is strong, then, they'll have more appreciation for those moments of togetherness in between commitments. And if the Songs didn't value their connection, then, I don't think they would have bothered to make time for each other even months after filming for DOTS has wrapped up.
Eighth, if their attraction/connection is profound, their basis of mutual interest is solid and broad, and the trust in each other is intact, then those should be more than enough to keep them going despite their schedules.
All these positives could really be summed up in one statement: If the Songs treasure their relationship, then, they’ll find a way to make it work.
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Been asking people about this ... so, how early did Jo In Sung know about SJK's attraction to SHK? Since Big Boss visited the set of TWTWB? Even before their Thailand vacation with Kwang Soo?
Did SJK fess up or did JIS pick up on it? How did that conversation between JIS and SJK go? Or was there even one?
SJK to JIS: "Hyung, I like Hye Kyo Noona." LOL.
Don't they seem like high school boys in this pic? Possibly knowing that SJK has a thing for SHK, maybe JIS and LKS indulged him and posed with SHK's poster. LOL. Sounds like a bunch of adorable high school boys geeking out. And maybe they sent the pic to SHK, who could have had a good laugh. LOL.
Ah, my delusions. Don't mind them. LOL ... They're hyperactive since it seems we've hit a bit of a dry spell. We've been spoiled too much by the Songs! LOL
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What's your number today? It it the number that SJK often wears?
I just pimped SC ... so, I think I should be compensated for this
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Just as we haven't stopped being loyal shippers, we also haven't accepted defeat just because we left that place. If we had, then, we wouldn't be working with our Korean friends to help support the Songs. We just want to be in a better environment.
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Thank you @angieknows and @joongkyo, i can still see you here and because of your so much love with SSC you are willing to share/clarify things here.. every time i visit the thread i am very careful now with all the info that is posted.. just like you, i don't want anything untrue posts regarding SSC, especially with what kind of person they are.
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DON'T TAKE MY TRANSLATION ANYWHERE!
Just leave them SJK, just leave them. And of course Kyo and YAI are the most precious people because it's obvious that they're behind UAA clearing SJK's name.When UAA has SJK's back more than Blossoms!
Blossoms = Trash.
송혜교ㆍ유아인 측, “송중기, 그날 함께 회식”…루머 대응 지원사격
SHK.YAI agency, "SJK, that day was together"..... support him by refuting rumours
유아인과 송혜교의 소속사 UAA의 한 관계자는 1일 “박유천 사건 당일인 6월 3일에는 백상예술대상 시상식 후 유아인, 송혜교, 송중기 씨와 두 소속사의 매니저들이 함께 회식을 하고 있었다”며 “송중기 씨는 계속 그 회식에 있었기 때문에 루머는 사실이 아니다”라고 설명했다.
An official fro, YAI and SHK's agency UAA on the 1st of July stated that "On the day that Mr.SJK is rumoured to have accompanied Park Yoochun of the 3rd of June was actually the day of the BAA and Mr. SJK along with his manager was at dinner with YAI, SHK and their managers." "The rumours are therefore untrue since Mr. SJK was present at the dinner".
http://news.heraldcorp.com/view.php?ud=20160701000283
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Someone just shaded us and totally missed the point of the messages, but I'm glad for the reminder for why this exit was necessary.
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A copy of my last post on the SS thread in case it gets deleted
My last post on this thread is dedicated to anyone who does truly care about SJK, SHK and this thread. This is not to remonstrate or scold or police or to be sarcastic or sanctimonious or whine.
I truly mean this with the very best of my intentions and with heart-felt emotions.
At the cost of sounding overly dramatic even a man being taken to the gallows gets to say some last words, so I hope that people will allow me a few last words of my own.
What many of you thought to be policing, I took to be protecting - not just SJK and SHK but the person who being "policed" as well. I thought this was a family and people wouldn't be so sensitive to be corrected about the truth by a family member but I was proven wrong time and time again. That's all right though - my mistake for thinking of this thread as a community where we had stronger bonds than that.
Apart from the trolls, I never once reported any of you to the Mods even if you posted false information etc. but many of you reported me for "abusive behaviour" - I think this should serve as proof of how I felt towards you and in return how you felt towards me.
I wanted all of you to only have the true version of facts on every topic and honestly I know that the people who were being corrected even if they felt "attacked" at the moment must have known my true intentions.
I don't think that I come across as an internet bully who likes to pick on people, so you all must have known the true intent behind what I said and when I said. If you still held a grudge because of how I said it then I am sorry but can you truly admit that it was not just your ego being hurt? If it's not the latter then I apologise again.
In addition many of you who felt wronged by me, know for a fact that in several panicky situations in the past that I was the person who you wrote to via PM. And I tried my very best to talk and help anyone who wrote to me - Maybe you have forgotten?. To say I am not hurt by you all would be lying to myself. But then again, this was wrong of me to expect something from you but I thought I had earned that right to expect your understanding towards my actions by me having demonstrated care for those of you who panicked and wrote to me.
What hurt me the most is being called a tyrant or accused of tyrannical behaviour because
- I asked people to back-read. [ I did it to so that you would be up-to-date with the news and events in addition to maintaining order in the thread]
- I asked people not to re-post the same content. [Again, I did not realise that this would come across as tyrannical. I thought everyone would logically read from the last post/page that they left off and therefore there was no need to post content that was several days ago]
- I asked people not to spend false news. [I though the reason was pretty obvious why I did this.]
- I pointed out people who were trolls. [Unlike what many of you might think, fighting of trolls isn't a fun activity. I did it to make sure that we wouldn't have a panic situation and those of you on the thread know just how many times this has happened in the past.]
Many pointed out that I ought to be "more polite", well I am sorry that I was not mindful of my Ps and Qs but maybe if you all had been equally mindful of your posts then I wouldn't have across as being rude. I will take responsibility for my tone and words but can you all also take accountability for what you've said and done?
Some said that I was the reason behind lurkers not posting because I scared them?. Well, all of you at one point were lurkers - I don't think I have attacked any first time posters on this thread, after all we've all had a first post on this thread - haven't we?.
Yes, if you were a troll or exhibited troll-ish behaviour in your first post then I have been suspicious of your intentions to de-lurk - if that made lurkers uncomfortable to the point that they decided that they shouldn't post. But, I don't think I was the only one - or was I?.
Many of you took your hate against me to other SNS sites making this a personal issue but I have never once done so, several people with whom I had past disagreements are now people I speak to regularly via PM. I din't know that correcting someone on the thread made me your enemy. If it gave rise to such negative emotions in you then once again, I am sorry. There is enough negativity and hate in this world - my intention in correcting false facts was never done with a feeling of superiority. In fact people on my PM list know how uncomfortable I felt when people started calling me "Captain J ", I have never ever felt like I was better than any of you and honestly it hurts me that you all would think that I was someone like that.
Being called a "Ms. Know-it-all" yet you copied my news on your SNS sites?. I was't a good enough person for you to like but to pick up the news that I translated was good enough?. I was a horrible person but my posts and information was good?.
The reason why I am writing this is because try though I might to wash off my hands off this thread see , I feel a sense of responsibility because I've been here since the very beginning but I realise now that this is not my sole responsibility. I felt compelled to "police/correct" because I truly felt SHK and SJK deserved it. I felt compelled to write several long paragraphs of translations for all of you, several times I did it while it was live stream because I felt the shippers deserved to know the news - fast and accurate-. If I made any mistakes in translations then I have immediately corrected myself. The same standards I held for the rest of you, I held for myself.
So basically at the very end, I want to end on a positive note. My parting with this thread and many of you may not be on the best of terms, but please treat this thread more preciously. You all deserve better than just "spazzing for the sake of spazzing" and moreover SJK and SHK deserve a thread where fans are more responsible towards them and the content that they post about them. Let my post be the last time that the issue of false information is raised on this thread. I wish all of you the very best for your lives and your duration on this thread.
I hope that page 1300 is the end of all negativity on this thread in a true sense and all of you're a much better support system to each other than some of us might have been for you in the earlier pages.
A special shout-out to the people I can call my friends on this thread, thank you for being my support system in times of need. And a also to the people who always send me PMs asking me how I'm feeling after a bad day on the thread, I feel so very touched that a person who doesn't know me in real life can show me such care and kindness. Thank you for being people with beautiful hearts.
Good Luck everyone and Farewell to you all .
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worst bf/ex-bf ever. Thank god she didn't end up with you.
Meanwhile, Song Joong Ki has the maturity and foresight to appreciate and protect the time he has for himself and the people close to him, which I bet includes Song Hye Kyo.
, especially when you want to set up a date with your significant other or just send your love a sweet message like, ‘I wish you were with me. I miss you!’ The Songs might even instruct their managers to have flowers or food delivered to their partner 
And when they were driven back to their hotel by the chef, who knows what else those two could have done together? Though, based on Hye Kyo's radiant mood the next day, it might be she had a great time ... with Joong Ki ... the night before 
