karaxi
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True.
Next person knows how to play the guitar
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True.. lol more than I should be proud of.
the next person is resting his/her chin on their left hand. -
Yaki udon.
Goodness my photo is HUGE.. sorry. -
@radiocat
shoulder down! you work out so I think it would look really nice! -
false haha.
The next person would rather spend his/her time outside in the nature than inside? -
x0ny said: Ladies, what's your definition of clingy?
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It's been i guess over a month since i've broken up with someone. It's still bothering me because I feel like i've wasted so much time trying to be the best girl I could be for him and he just ended up leaving probably for another girl. I was always there when he needed me and i've literally picked him up when he was down at his lowest sacrificing so much to get him where he is. Now he's up there successful with a good job . I really think that he wouldn't be where he is without me.
i just don't understand why i still think about him, it's not like i had the greatest time during the relationship. I was hurt a lot and most of the time i was only convincing myself that i was happy and that he would change. He betrayed me many many times and left me insecure and after cheating Ive started to have anxiety issues. deep inside i knew it was a bad relationship and I knew it would end sooner or later. but now that it's over, i should feel relieved but i don't. Why is it like this? why is it so hard? I gave him many things that he did not deserve .. why is it that now that it's over, he still takes over my time still giving me a hard time when he's not even physically here anymore. I've already given him the world while we were together.. why can't i just have this time now to heal.. it's over and i've accepted it.. he doesn't deserve my time anymore but he is still taking over it..
I suffered during the relationship and now i'm still suffering and he's probably happy.Life is so unfair. -
@Ninshark it really depends on what kind of girl she is, like at @riti89 says above, some girls don't look anymore once they're official. I think it's best to talk to the girl and see where she is at that point and it's always up to the guy if he wants to keep going or not.
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Do you guys ever think about the girls you've dumped? just curious
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HERMIT said: @karaxi: Yeah, it seems to me that he's doing all that stuff to get under your skin by being ironic. Just don't give him the pleasure by not reacting to it. In some way he's kind of doing you a favor in doing that because it's apparently making you hate him more - and thus it's easier for you to emotionally distance yourself from him. You have a new guy that seems to have caught your fancy anyway so just focus on him and the future moving forward.
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writerstale said: @karaxi: If I were in his shoes you wouldn't have to ask me to put statuses up, or do romantic things because when I meet someone I care about and she's there for me I reciprocate. I think he doesn't want to lose you so he's trying to get your attention. My thing is if he took you for granted so why put effort into someone who took you for granted.
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I really need a guy's opinion on this..
Is my ex trying to make me jealous or just being a jerk and trying to get me mad.
My ex boyfriend and I had been together for 2 years. I've always been there for him specially when he was down at his lowest. He had done lots of things that hurt me but I forgave him each time, like adding different girls and talking to them. Anyways, My ex and I have been fighting a lot lately and broke up for at least two weeks. We got back together and everything seems so well but one day I added him on a a messenger app but the next day he deleted his account and when I asked he got defensive and deleted it we fought again and broke up.
I give up trying to chase after him and i'm actually happy going on dates with this new guy. But recently i've noticed he's starting to put cute statuses like hearts and what not which he would never be caught doing before. During our relationship, when i ask him to do something sweet for me (which is rarely) like putting status and stuff, he gets mad and we fight.. now all of a sudden he does it? Idk what going on, do you know if he found someone new or do you think he's just doing that to get my attention and make me angry? i'm ok if he has someone new, I'm getting over him and I have a bunch of activities ahead of me but I just don't understand why someone would change how they are that quickly. I'm More so i'm just mad that I feel like he didn't care at all while we were together, which actually makes me hate him. anyways guys..what could be the reason? if it were you, why would you do that?
I really need your help and i appreciate it alot.
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Happened to me once but I think he was more embarrassed than I was . Personally I don't mind as long as they don't stare lol