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Meany-chan said: There's this novel titled To All the Boys I've Loved Before about a girl who wrote letters to all her past crushes and they mysteriously got mailed out. My question is did any of you write letters to your crush but never gave it to him as a way of getting your feelings out? Or even if you did, how did he react?
I don't know why but everytime I tried do that, I was never able to finish it or even start. -
@writerstale not a feminist and no anger towards men. Just being honest regarding how girls think. Most girls wont say they want a guy to be a mind reader, but the fact is they do. My comment was more towards when its a special occasion, or when the girl preserve it to be a special day, they would like a guy to surprise them with something. They wont say it, but they will expect the guy to just know what to do. Cause girls are romantic creatures. So the 'mind reader' portion will be considered a flaw to some people.
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writerstale said: suju_lovee said: 'ey fellas. What are some personality traits that you find UNATTRACTIVE in a girl?
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@Kiribati do you still want to continue your relationship with your gf?
From what you have written feels like she is ashamed of you. Not wanting you to hang out with her friends. I would have understood if it was an all girls thing but from the sound of it her friends bfs are attending aswell. Why doesnt she want you to?
If she really liked you that much she wouldn't care what her best guy friend/ex thinks of you. There is prob some lingering feelings between the two of them.
Oh and the fact she is hiding what she really thinks of you, is a pretty big sign already.
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Half true. Its on at ridiculous times where I live, im still sleeping. So replays it is.
Next person have been having trouble sleeping recently.
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Hey ladies,
A friend of mine is expecting a baby. What would be a good gift to get for her? Keep in mind that she doesn't know the sex of the baby yet. Baby onesies would be more useful, right? I know there's already a gift thread but nobody's questions get answered in that thread.
Personally I like being practical. So I always buy a 'baby sleeping bag'. You might want to google it. A few brands make them.
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Years ago I was told by two friends (girls) that I would be pretty if I lost weight cause I had a cute face.
Most recently I showed a picture of my overweight 16 yr old self to the hubz and asked him if he would have gone out with me if I had still looked like that. He didn't answer.
*note now im slightly still chubz but not the way I used to be, which was 2 dress sizes up.
So question: does it really matter what size a girl is, for a guy to consider going out with her. Even when she has a great personality?
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interpretation: please do not bore me to death.
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Just another one of those relationships that should have ended earlier.
Sure she did a lot of wrong and untrustworthy things, but you are the one who decided to stay again and again. So if things gets worse and in another 5 years you realise you should have broken up earlier (cause obviously from the sounds of it you are not going to break up with her), its your own fault.
Stupidity, why once trust is lost why people still stay...of course not, they would never ever cheat again, etc. Etc.
All I see is you are backups for each other. Cant find someone else. Lets go back to the one that will never leave me no matter how bad I treat them.
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True but im bad at it.
You are very sleepy right now
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cristolephe said: Just wondering, did you girls ever meet some guy in let's say school and he was average to below average looking. Then many years later he's Adonis-man. Would that be intimidating? What would your reaction be? Let's say the guy had pimples and nerdy glasses then he now has clear skin and contacts.
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Have you ever considered that maybe your bro had always disapproved of and felt it was against his morals, what happened with the cheating girl situation but never said anything about it to you, as you were his friend. But since he found this girl who potential could be his wife, he is using this new situation to finally distance himself to start a different future?
I would not want my partner to be friends with someone who has cheated because I know the 'bro code' of guys. To me, if he has a friend that cheats or have cheated, how do I know that he would not be influenced by that friend and does something similar. I mean what is he own morals, if he could turn a blind eye to what his friend was doing. Unless he had truly tried to stop his friend from cheating but his friend just didn't listen to him. If that was the situation, then who is the worst friend? A cheating friend who didn't listen to the advice of a concerned one, or the friend who has made the decision to distance himself?
Of course, everyone makes mistakes, but cheating is a major mistake, no matter where the greater fault lies. It takes two, there is no excuse to justify what happens. Unless somehow, the cheating parties, end up getting married. Then I guess there was a reason for what they did. -
If you've known the girl for awhile before you started seeing each other. Then I dont think a week is to fast. But if you have only known the girl for a short time. Then prob is to fast. But it all really depends on the situation. The girl might be waiting for you to make it official already or could be wanting to get to know you a bit better.
Dont think there is a set time frame. You just have to feel the situation and the vibe you get from the girl.
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I dont believe majority of women will marry a guy just purely on credentials. Even if they are getting on in age. In western society anyways. Womens do have more self respect then that. Well the ones I know anyway and they are all over 25.
The ones that do that, well im guessing they are still young cause if they were older, lets say over 31, they would not be the one requesting for a divorce cause generally trying to find another partner being over 31 gets more difficult, cause as a women you are competing with girls much younger then you for that 'ideal' guy.
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He doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you.
I mean he only started to talk to you more and be more closer AFTER you started dating another guy. Now whys is that?
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Meany-chansaid:
ilovefruitssaid:
What do you think of a woman who doesn't want children?
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Movie: The A-team
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Anyone wanna bet esapele contributes $0 to that $140k? no hate
Lol. I would LOVE to be contributing $0 to that. Unfortunately that's not the case. T_T
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If you are in a serious relationship and potentially going to get hitched and buy a house (avg house price here is 500k) and start a family. Then I would expect a min combined income of $ AUD 140k which should increase every year.
If you are just dating nothing too serious then min requirement is not that important as long as they have enough to pay their way in life.
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After being sick for the past couple of days and surviving off just soup.
A vietnamese pork roll, never tasted this good! -
xXx (that vin diesel movie). I like action movies ok. >.<
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esapele said: I agree with the above statement, only because this my life. I was never ever a house wife type of girl. I had my own life, did my own thing, I liked my independence. But once the S/O and I moved in together, that completely changed. His just like your average modern day type of guy, goes to work, goes out with friends, allows me to do whatever I want really. But like most guys, expects their girl (even in these modern times) to do the traditional cook, clean, ironing thing. I have never in my life, cooked, cleaned, ironed as much as I do now. However, I do these things, as this is the balancing act, give and take. I work full time also, I go out with friends, but I still have to take care of the house, which means, getting dinner on the table even after a long day at work. This is my role, this is how it will be. But this is also what you call love, respect and appreciation of one another which I don't think most people actually realise exist in these 'gender' roles that occur now. Girls out there, you can counteract as much as you want on what I have said, but when the time comes and you are in a serious relationship, you will see that this is reality. -
ajlee613 said:where have u heard a guy ever say "i dont think girls should be allowed to vote or go to school" on these forums? never... but girls should do the house work, clean, be traditionally womanly, if she expects the man to be a traditional man. the man opens doors, pays for dates, does the heavy lifting, does the driving etc. the woman cooks, cleans, does non-heavy lifting house work, does what she can to ease the stress the man has from earning money to pay for her way. this is equality under the law, but it is obviously not equal in a cultural level. one could argue this is balance, but "separate but equal" didn't work back in civil rights, and it doesnt work here. you cant separate the roles of male and female and be culturally equal.
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Even before I read the last sentence. My thoughts were you had just indirectly told her you were interested. In general no one gives a picture of themselves to someone else with no reason behind it and the fact that you topped it off with a gift aswell.
However this could cause confusion for the girl as she could be questioning if you were just being nice.
The picture could be a good conversation starter regarding your interest though. So go talk to her!