[Ask The Fellas]

okay so my bf had cheated on me with his best friend's (travis) older sister (Leatherface) at Travis's wedding (i didnt go cause i had started a new job and didnt wanna request weekends off already)

theyve known each other for 10 years, you kno how it is, the best friend's older sister who is HOT blah blah blah

and after he told me, we broke up because he thought he had feelings for her. so they started seeing each other.

and then it didnt work out because they were better off as friends AND he missed me. so we got back together, it's been a year now and sometimes i find myself still not over it. there will be times when im okay, i dont even care, and then there will be times when im sitting there thinking about it finding myself wanting to slap the richard simmons out of him and starting a fight. im civil to her everytime i run into her, i mean i have to be because her brother is best friends with him so she is going to be around from time to time.

and i know that it happened, i forgave him, the past is the past but when i see pictures of the wedding it makes me sooo mad. and tommorow, Travis's daughter is turning 3 and we r invited to her birthday party i dont kno if i really wanna go but my bf wants me to go. he said he wont go unless i go. i just dont feel comfortable going because probably everyone who was at the wedding will be there (and they were all for my bf and leatherface to be together since they r all close friends) they all know what happened so i feel like a freakin j*ack*ss.

so basically...how the heck do i get over this stupid past? i hate to be reminded of what happened. it sucks.

Well obviously you liked him enough to take him back for what he did to you. Pretty generous there. However, now he wants to make you do things that he probably knows doesn't make you comfortable? Now that's just selfish IMHO. Its bad enough he cheated on you once...now he wants to have everything his way? Wow. You're a pretty nice person If I were you, put your foot down, let him know the boundaries and how you feel about things, and talk to him. If you don't communicate to him about this, it'll always be a thorn in the side for you...

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