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Thank you @nodame. It is a little bit scary to see that kind of karma around us. But now i try to see it as reminder. I think this is one of the strengths of family drama. it feels close to everyday life and there are many lessons to be learned too. every time there is a new family drama i always try to watch it, but only a few can be enjoyed until the end. sad this one will end!

I suddenly remember my favorite drama last year, catch the ghost (what a coincidence hyosin, hyo shin's father, and joon seon also appeared in this drama too!). the male lead had a dementia mother too. he's the only child. He had to give up on his dream job so he didnt get hurt and could take care of his mother. he was also struggle with financial difficulties. It broke my heart to see his mother didn't recognize him. JS and GJ are luckier, it is diagnosed at early stage. 

I'm so happy for sadon couple. It feels like just yesterday I saw JS peeked through cafe window to see DH with a nosy smile and now they are getting married

 

So, no second wedding for nagyu, just legally re-register the marriage like JS-HK? And no one in hospital knows about them yet?

many touching scenes in the last 2 episodes. HK said parents are the fence, the YJ-NH scene, the YJ-OB scene, and when GJ and NH realize how lonely YJ was. 

 

It seems the man YS meet in next ep is Lee pil mo. Will LPM make a cameo??
 

[[Drama 2020] Once Again, 한번다녀왔습니다]

I love how OB advised GJ about his mother. I'm happy to see what Nahee did to YJ. It's not about changing your personality, it's just about doing good and giving a little attention to your family and the people you choose to be your family.

 

They won’t be always young. Someday they will be parents and parent in-laws too. They will feel how hard it is to be parents. And there's no guarantee either that they won't be an annoying parent-in-law or an annoying parent. There is also no guarantee that they will always be healthy in old age. and from what I see around me the way your child treats you will be the same as the way you treat your parents. The way your DIL/SIL treat you will be the same as the way you treat your parent in-laws. A woman I know chose to marry with the man her parents hate, and now her daughter end up marry with the man she hate. A man who always neglects his parents ends up being neglected by his son in his old age. So yeahvwhat you do will come back to you.

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Mother is indeed someone that has big role in our life. Conceiving, giving birth, breastfeeding, and raising children is not an easy matter. Their advice is also worth considering, because they have more experience than us and they are the only people who really want what's best for us. Even if you don't agree with mother's opinion, you must still respect and treat them well.

Both mothers are stubborn. OB is little rude and emotional.as a MIL she was treated well. but has she ever thought whether her daughter has treated her MIL well. YJ is very self-centered. Her opinion on the criteria of an ideal DIL is also shallow. But, Nahee and Gyujin should try to build a good relationship with YJ from before they got married and during marriage. But they didn't do that.

How could it be that after they ignored YJ all this time and after years of resentment in YJ's heart she would give permission in just a day. They should continue to pay attention, continue to be kind, and persuade little by little. It was a consequence because they ignored her all this time. Saying harsh words to get your mother to change her opinion in a day won't work, it just hurts her.