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@severus @rosierosie So I went for it. It was pretty nerve-wracking. One of the toughest things I've ever had to do. I was inspired by that saying about all you need is 20 seconds of insane coura

Nah, you just need experience

RUN! RUN FAR AWAY FROM THIS GIRL!!! 1) She had her friends telling you that she liked you, when she had a boyfriend. 2) She got a new boyfriend very quickly after breaking up. 3) She go

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I just came upon my friend's current boyfriend's online dating profile and I'm confused as aksjdhs!!! Anyways, I'm not really close friends with her, but should I let her know her current boyfriend is having a dating profile current online? 

If you are a girl that is already in a relationship, why would you open up to new guy friends?? 

lol Hey, my boyfriend just made an online dating profile. In our case, we made some changes and decided to be in an open relationship. Does his profile state whether he's looking for something casual or say that they're in an open relationship? You could always ask her or tell him you came across his profile and if he acts fishy or says not to tell then don't listen and let her know. lol

I'm honestly hoping my friends' don't come across my boyfriend's account because it'd be hilarious and awkward and I don't really want to explain. XD

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I just came upon my friend's current boyfriend's online dating profile and I'm confused as aksjdhs!!! Anyways, I'm not really close friends with her, but should I let her know her current boyfriend is having a dating profile current online? 

If you are a girl that is already in a relationship, why would you open up to new guy friends?? 

 

depends on the status of their relationship as the 2 above user posted before me. However, when I am in a relationship it is mandatory to be exclusive. If he wants to see someone else or if I know or find out he has an online profile I will immediately break it off.

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Girls, would you be mad if you were suddenly not your boyfriends or the guy you're seeing  #1 best friend on snapchat? 

Who is he snapchatting with? Another woman or what? If that's the case...

Boyfriend - I'd be furious. But, I wouldn't choose to be with someone that lacks loyalty and faithfulness to begin with. Those are top two characteristics I look for in a man before becoming serious.

A guy I'm just seeing - I would be sad, distance myself, have second thoughts about what we have, and I'm over 100% sure that it would end. He wouldn't hear from me anymore. I'm very strict. I wouldn't settle, commit to someone that would do that to me.

I just came upon my friend's current boyfriend's online dating profile and I'm confused as aksjdhs!!! Anyways, I'm not really close friends with her, but should I let her know her current boyfriend is having a dating profile current online? 

If you are a girl that is already in a relationship, why would you open up to new guy friends?? 

First question - She's a friend, right? But not a close friend. Hmmm, you can just send the link to her and see what she says/does. Say something like, "Is this your boyfriend? Because it looks like him..."

Second question - Some enjoy making new friends, some meet other guy friends through mutual friends, some like the attention, and so on. Tons of reasons.

Yeah @jennibear01 she's like a friend from school; a classmate friend. I don't know if I should tell her because I don't want to involved myself in that sitaution. I screened shot a picture of her boyfriend's profile though. I also asked her if she's in a open relationship with her boyfriend, and she says she's not? So apparently, she doesn't know what he's doing. When I first saw her guy's pic, my guts told me that he's the type of guy that will cheat on his girlfriend and apparently I'm right. I mean, he just seems like those guys that cheats and are not sincere to be in a relationship. I feel sorry for my friend. Maybe I should take your suggestion. Thanks. 

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I just came upon my friend's current boyfriend's online dating profile and I'm confused as aksjdhs!!! Anyways, I'm not really close friends with her, but should I let her know her current boyfriend is having a dating profile current online? 

Just screen shot it, and send it to her asking if that's who you think it is, and if she knows about it. It could turn out that she knows, and is okay with it. Speaking from experience, tread lightly, and never say anything you don't have evidence for because girls are pretty bad at trusting their friends when they have something bad to say about their boyfriends. 

 

 

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so I talked to the ex gf of this guy I was seeing. Turns out he was two-timing us, then his ex started becoming really friendly with me. We were both really open about our relationship with the guy, and kind of compared how he treated us, we talked like normal friends.  And tonight she was a little tipsy, saying I should go hangout with her, her best friend wants to meet me, and she wants to be friends with me. Is it a red flag alert right there? Is she going to beat me up when I see her? We both stated that we dont hate each other, its all the guys fault for two timing.  I dont know why shes so overly friendly with me. My friend thinks something is up, and I shouldnt go meet her. What do you girls think? 

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I just came upon my friend's current boyfriend's online dating profile and I'm confused as aksjdhs!!! Anyways, I'm not really close friends with her, but should I let her know her current boyfriend is having a dating profile current online? 

If you are a girl that is already in a relationship, why would you open up to new guy friends?? 

No.  For these reasons: 

1) Is your friend in her twenties?  Sorry, but relationships aren't exclusive until it's clearly stated between both parties.  You don't know whether it's exclusive or not.   Girls should assume it's not, especially if their boyfriend is in college or twenties.  

2) Sounds like the guy is just being smart.  Maybe he's unsure of the girl.  He's free to keep an online profile.  Your female friend doesn't have jurisdiction over the guy's computer.  Just because you're seeing a guy doesn't mean the guy is going to stop all female contact for you.  

3) It's their relationship, if there are any real issues she has to find out herself.  The world doesn't stop for your female friend.   Is this guy just suppose to stop using the internet?  Are you going to "stumble upon" his Emails now too?  His text messages?  His Snapchats?   She'll probably accuse you of snooping.  

Sorry, a guy's attention is earned.  You don't just magically get it.  You're not entitled to a single male's attention.  Just because you're seeing each other doesn't mean his world stops.  Be interesting.  Earn it. 

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Um for your information I did asked her out of concern and they are exclusive. Guys like that should not be in exclusive relationship since he is not a committed person. @Sommelier

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^ do what severus said, screenshot and send to your friend. Guys like that isnt worth to stay in relationship with

I would, but after thinking about how I'm not close to her and all so I'm just going to not do anything. 

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well no matter how close or type of relationship that you have with her. I still suggested to tell her that. How would you feel if you are being placed in the same situation as her. You would want someone to tell you right? but eh- up to you... @nana544

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why do girls go to the washroom together? i've always wonder

1. most of the time restroom has really nice lightning which screams for photos

2. to gossip, talk about someone or you

3. keep the other person company 

4. just because

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Ladies, what is the age limit for you if you were dating a younger guy? I always told myself I would accept it if he was a year younger (maybe 2) but I recently met someone who I feel like is my type, but he's much younger. I'm thinking of just letting it go but I also haven't met anyone I felt compatible with until I met him. 

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^ 2 is the cut off for me, but if you get along great with him and feel is compatible with you, then don't let age be a factor. Although, if he's not the legal age then maybe you should be concerned.  

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Ladies, what is the age limit for you if you were dating a younger guy? I always told myself I would accept it if he was a year younger (maybe 2) but I recently met someone who I feel like is my type, but he's much younger. I'm thinking of just letting it go but I also haven't met anyone I felt compatible with until I met him. 

 

age is nothing but a number, so dont set limit on it. If you two are connected/compatible go for it !! My last year of college ex is 19 while I am 24

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Ladies, what is the age limit for you if you were dating a younger guy? I always told myself I would accept it if he was a year younger (maybe 2) but I recently met someone who I feel like is my type, but he's much younger. I'm thinking of just letting it go but I also haven't met anyone I felt compatible with until I met him. 

If he's legal, go for it. 

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