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Well guys, its official... or has been official :P.

Funny story is just last week (Friday) my now GF apparently told her mom that I am her boyfriend. It honestly felt like a big weight was lifted off my shoulders. So I'm guessing it is official :D.

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@severus @rosierosie So I went for it. It was pretty nerve-wracking. One of the toughest things I've ever had to do. I was inspired by that saying about all you need is 20 seconds of insane coura

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RUN! RUN FAR AWAY FROM THIS GIRL!!! 1) She had her friends telling you that she liked you, when she had a boyfriend. 2) She got a new boyfriend very quickly after breaking up. 3) She go

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question: noticed a cutie looking at me a couple of time (pretty sure she doesn't have a crush on me, prob just think I'm cute?). theres only 2 classes left, how would you approach her (ie. make small talk) and ask her out before the semester end and I never see her again?

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If you say to a guy, "We can't be friends, if you keep flirting with me."  [say you're in a long distance relationship, and say you've been hitting on this guy but now for whatever reason, you've put up these walls because your boyfriend somehow found out].  
And he says, "Okay.  You're right, we can't be.  I can't help it, you're too attractive."  Would you react positively or negatively?  Intrigue?  
What risk would it be that all contact would actually stop?  

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depends on the situation. these couldve been the reason1/ she doesnt seen you in that way2/ she had her heartbroken recently and she wants to take time for it to heal 3/ she doesnt want to be in a relationship or tie down
~~~ladiesso! my bf has always been texting me good morning/ night messages, but recently (this week and especially today) he have, and he havnt even respond back either. I know warriors game is today but he couldve at least text me back at least something!im planning to wait it out til the end of today/ tmr morning and if he doesnt then I am call him askingits getting weird because he always listen to me. His texts sometimes come in slow but never not texting me for the whole day

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Just wondering. I know this already, but I just want to hear second thoughts on it.

Why would a guy you used to like a gazillion years ago finally realized that he likes you now?

Since I found out he likes my friend back then, I stopped liking him and moved on. My friend doesn't like him though.

So, why is he interested now? Will you consider dating him, knowing that he used to like your friend?

 

 

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what is the appropriate respond when bf told you that he is holding back because he is afraid being abused (aka if he shown too much of affection and love for me, I will abused it because I know he would do anything for me)?

How should you resolve the conflicted btw family & bf? where family does not like bf because of his job, outer appearance and the language barriers btw families 

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Given a choice, would you rather be with somebody that leads in the relationship, or would you rather be with somebody who is a partner in the relationship?

 

​a partner. I want us to lead and take charge in the relationship.

I don't always want to tell someone what to do or he telling me what to do.

It has to be a two-way street. 

 

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Given a choice, would you rather be with somebody that leads in the relationship, or would you rather be with somebody who is a partner in the relationship?

 

Funny thing is I have to have this conversation with someone I'm seeing now...

I think I've been in one relationship where I was led and one where I'm leading. First one lasted a while, but it severely changed me and limited me. That didn't turn out well. So slash being led. I'm still testing the waters with the second one, but sometimes it's a little frustrating. I want my partner to put forth what I put forth, to even it out some. I think when I was younger I preferred having a leader, but now I'm looking for a partner. I mean, codependency does not end well for either involved.

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My friend wants to show this girl that he is relationship material.  The girl does not think my friend is "relationship material", mainly because he flirts with a lot of other girls or in her words, "Is always looking at other girls."  But my friend is just being honest and doesn't look at other girls more than any other regular guy does.  My friend is just more open and honest about it when he sees attractive girls.  

My friend has asked this girl he likes out to a nice, romantic restaurant.  But this girl is not into it, because she does not think this guy is "not ready for a real relationship."  My friend  does want to settle down, specifically with this girl.  

How does he show her he's relationship material?  

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@Sommelier, Your friend just needs to stop looking at other girls period!! He needs to show the girl he likes that he's serious about her by paying attention to her, complementing her and being loyal to her. Of course since she's already doubt his affection for her, he needs to prove it. I know guys can look at other girls because that's just human nature. But guys that check out girls when they already have someone by their side is childish and disgusting. Hate guys like that because I see it before and ewww! No thanks!

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@Sommelier, Your friend just needs to stop looking at other girls period!! He needs to show the girl he likes that he's serious about her by paying attention to her, complementing her and being loyal to her. Of course since she's already doubt his affection for her, he needs to prove it. I know guys can look at other girls because that's just human nature. But guys that check out girls when they already have someone by their side is childish and disgusting. Hate guys like that because I see it before and ewww! No thanks!

I feel as if it isn't possible for a male to not notice pretty girls.  Would you rather an honest guy or a guy that pretends?  

My friend doesn't date these girls or would he ever cheat.  When his other guy friends are around that are single, it's just guy stuff to talk about attractive single girls.  Do you buy it when guys are like "I don't notice other girls!  I'm in a relationship!"  If your boyfriend is saying that he is hiding something.

Girls want an honest guy, but then punish them when they get honesty.  You can't have it both ways.

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@Sommelier yes you're completely right. But now it's hard for the girl to trust your friend because she sees who he is, so she's afraid he's going to hurt her. I think he should just move on now. 

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@sommelier 

I know im not a girl and this is the wrong thread but from my exp and friends exp, those more than often are insecure girls. Unless youre friend is willing to fight his natural instincts, he should move along. A few of my exes did not care whatsoever I check out girls, usually we rate the girls, vice versa for the guys cause in the end we're with each other and thats all that matters.

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