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I'm crushing badly on a girl, but I don't know if I'm making it noticeable or not. How do you know when a girl knows that you like her? I don't know if one of my friends told her

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(( Is it creepy if I look at her frequently during class? I can't stop thinking about her....

You should just tell her. Girls appreciate it when you're upfront and would rather hear it from you than your friend. :)

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To all the ladies that have boyfriends, or all the single ladies that have a love-interest: what would cause you to get a ride from another guy (that is NOT your boyfriend)? Be honest. 

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To all the ladies that have boyfriends, or all the single ladies that have a love-interest: what would cause you to get a ride from another guy (that is NOT your boyfriend)? Be honest.
 

1) I'm really lazy and I don't want to take the subway home.

2) I don't want to pay for a cab home.

3) I'm lazy.

4) It's probably because I'm lazy.

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madbrows said: To all the ladies that have boyfriends, or all the single ladies that have a love-interest: what would cause you to get a ride from another guy (that is NOT your boyfriend)? Be honest. 

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Before I got with my boyfriend, he was totally in love with this other girl for a good 2-3 years. The thing is, they still hang out and all because they're really close. He told me not to be jealous once when he told me they were hanging out and just talking and that I'm the one he loves. Before we got together, he was saying things like "I don't know if I still love her or just the idea of her...*" They work at the same place, btw. Now, even if we're together, he still does the things he did for her before - like seeing that she gets home properly and hanging out a lot. The girl has a boyfriend and doesn't like him that way.

Whenever we're together, I know he's still texting her and he constantly checks his phone if she's replied. That makes me sad because when I text him, I don't get a reply instantly.

I mean... he tells me I'm the one he loves and all but I always feel like he still likes/loves her and it just kills me. Also, whenever we're together, our conversation always leads to some little thing about the girl.

*He's a lot older than I am and has had a number of relationships. He usually "gets the girl" that he likes because they have the same interests and things. (Hehe. Like in our case.) The girl (his Robin, he once told me) doesn't have the same interests. I think he still really likes her because he can't have her? Idk, that's what people tell me. When we got together, I asked him if he just likes me because I'm a bit like the girl. He said no, and that he likes me and being with me more. He tells me all these things but still shows signs that he likes the girl... I never wanted to compete with someone's Robin...

Is it possible that he's gotten over her when he still does the same things for her? Is it possible that it's just because they're reallllly close?

What do I do?!

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belle_kd1413 said: Before I got with my boyfriend, he was totally in love with this other girl for a good 2-3 years. The thing is, they still hang out and all because they're really close. He told me not to be jealous once when he told me they were hanging out and just talking and that I'm the one he loves. Before we got together, he was saying things like "I don't know if I still love her or just the idea of her...*" They work at the same place, btw. Now, even if we're together, he still does the things he did for her before - like seeing that she gets home properly and hanging out a lot. The girl has a boyfriend and doesn't like him that way. Whenever we're together, I know he's still texting her and he constantly checks his phone if she's replied. That makes me sad because when I text him, I don't get a reply instantly. I mean... he tells me I'm the one he loves and all but I always feel like he still likes/loves her and it just kills me. Also, whenever we're together, our conversation always leads to some little thing about the girl. *He's a lot older than I am and has had a number of relationships. He usually "gets the girl" that he likes because they have the same interests and things. (Hehe. Like in our case.) The girl (his Robin, he once told me) doesn't have the same interests. I think he still really likes her because he can't have her? Idk, that's what people tell me. When we got together, I asked him if he just likes me because I'm a bit like the girl. He said no, and that he likes me and being with me more. He tells me all these things but still shows signs that he likes the girl... I never wanted to compete with someone's Robin... Is it possible that he's gotten over her when he still does the same things for her? Is it possible that it's just because they're reallllly close? What do I do?!

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Hi ladies,
Long story short.. yesterday I went on a typical first date with a girl for a few hours. Was really chill and had a few good laughs all around. Felt like a typical 1 on 1 friend outing (in my opinion at least, not sure how she felt).
Later that night I get a text from her essentially thanking me for the hang out and saying she had fun.
My question is, is there a hidden meaning to the text? My friend was saying that was her just being polite and told me I was friend-zoned. 

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@Mr-2PM: If she wasn't interested she wouldn't have contacted you. Stop over thinking and stop listening to your friend on this one. Go out with her again, go with the flow, keep doing what you're doing, and have fun!

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@Mr-2PM: I'm pretty sure she just genuinely thought the date was nice. I don't really get how your friend got the idea that she was saying she doesn't want to go on a date with you again. I mean it seems like a pretty straight forward message. 

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To the Korean girls out there, I have a Korean girl friend who I've known for 4 years now. Got to know her when I was attached with my ex, became much more close after i broke up slightly over a year ago. She calls me 'Oppa' (though I dont think much of it being an indicator of interest). We been going out once or twice every week for awhile now. She always slings her arm through mine when we are out. What would you say her level of interest is? Does she like me more than a friend or am I deep in the friendzone?

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So I'm going to tell my crush that I like him and this is how I'm going to say it:

"I don't want to talk like recruiter to recruit, I want to talk as friends right now because I feel as if this is important. Before this year ends I want to let everything go and start fresh with no regrets. And the reason why I'm telling you this is because I've grown to like you and I known it's unprofessional in every way because you are my sergeant but I just want you to understand how I feel and that's it. I know things will eventually get awkward between the both of us because of this but I really hope it doesn't. You don't have to answer my question but do you think will this change anything between us?"

What are your guys thoughts on this confession?

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Mr-2PM said: Hi ladies,
Long story short.. yesterday I went on a typical first date with a girl for a few hours. Was really chill and had a few good laughs all around. Felt like a typical 1 on 1 friend outing (in my opinion at least, not sure how she felt).
Later that night I get a text from her essentially thanking me for the hang out and saying she had fun.
My question is, is there a hidden meaning to the text? My friend was saying that was her just being polite and told me I was friend-zoned. 

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btbh said: To the Korean girls out there, I have a Korean girl friend who I've known for 4 years now. Got to know her when I was attached with my ex, became much more close after i broke up slightly over a year ago. She calls me 'Oppa' (though I dont think much of it being an indicator of interest). We been going out once or twice every week for awhile now. She always slings her arm through mine when we are out. What would you say her level of interest is? Does she like me more than a friend or am I deep in the friendzone?

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